Oh, one way you can remedy that is by building an nprofile code for the person you want with the desired relays and adding that instead of just an npub.
You can do that easily with https://github.com/fiatjaf/nak -- nak encode nprofile (nak decode npub1... | jq -r .pubkey) -r relay.damus.io
Or with https://nak.nostr.com/ -- paste npub, click to add relay hint below (include the wss:// prefix).
fiatjaf /
npub180…jh6w6
2025-01-02 00:36:18 GMT
in reply to nevent1q…nzep
Author Public Key
npub180cvv07tjdrrgpa0j7j7tmnyl2yr6yr7l8j4s3evf6u64th6gkwsyjh6w6Published at
2025-01-02 00:36:18 GMTEvent JSON
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"content": "Oh, one way you can remedy that is by building an nprofile code for the person you want with the desired relays and adding that instead of just an npub.\n\nYou can do that easily with https://github.com/fiatjaf/nak -- nak encode nprofile (nak decode npub1... | jq -r .pubkey) -r relay.damus.io\n\nOr with https://nak.nostr.com/ -- paste npub, click to add relay hint below (include the wss:// prefix).",
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