2026-10-31T23:18:44Z https://njump.me Chozari 賈 (she/her) https://njump.me/npub12l7jhtm8fdnjtl9k0x35uzz0q86wfzc6affsdr5f6csyxmkhuf2swegh7t https://mediacdn.aus.social/accounts/avatars/109/266/781/003/635/088/original/79a4471c0d6b67d8.jpeg https://mediacdn.aus.social/accounts/avatars/109/266/781/003/635/088/original/79a4471c0d6b67d8.jpeg https://njump.me/nevent1qqsgarvxuf07h9gn9n6s9k6rl5ull94nr3vsyt4ujp5wgulptvdjvjqzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392nmvqwa In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9ueraljs83y7fuxm2u0p4u2xe2y59wq7u0azlu8v5d0whw858zuqtnu4ap'>nevent1q…u4ap</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>As in like a love interest, or something like that? Sounds a bit manipulative, if so. 2026-08-01T07:21:16Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsfp808yhq3c3gskt6ydv8lhz6vzjsw0pzj748md9kknx92dv4ecaszyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392pc6fpa In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsde6cgr0q6539h3nkar2yjl23v9ltnxe0x8k20cxc2ygg6r538a9csv0mj2'>nevent1q…0mj2</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Yeah &amp; I’m just painfully aware of how close I am (really only 18 months max) to sitting with terribly vulnerable people, possibly as a clin psy registrar on my 12th 4am shift in a row at Nepean or something; people who need me to not EVER fuck that super-basic skillset up; especially where they may be aged ~16-30 &amp; need snap-decision PERFECT reporting/referral or it could be their life. I try to use my struggles to consider those people in my future. 2026-05-19T03:58:55Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsxxqmjqrf8cflyw3gdxf6sxqy2wdmu8rkqlfspqex87dxlp0rhc8qzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392pyvdmz In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8ztsvgdddr2qm5d8zcr5acallyfjuxmtdkw9s35f62f5ukc6tp6q0uag8h'>nevent1q…ag8h</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Yeah. And I said to the receptionist (who I’m actually pretty close to in many ways) that I had been bogged in such heartbreak and tears only minutes earlier, and maybe sometimes we need to not lean so hard on the therapist to “pick us back up” again in the countdown to the end of session, and lift OURSELVES back to that “okay to end session” state if we know we can. I told my therapist, “I’m just having a yarn with you &amp; having fun at this point, but… whatever.” 😂 2026-05-19T02:32:32Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsf3usr38rr9wa0hl2m2a0jzgvjy8gszfklcpan7u0hpyx5ja235fgzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392ezenjz In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsve84lwgl6qe4ku4ffu22v9yc2pu6rgp0042jegeg40e3z0dqqt7s4f9ugq'>nevent1q…9ugq</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I totally just came home from therapy and I wasted the last ten minutes of my session extracting my psychiatrist’s funny memories of that time. WORTH IT. She had been on a long haul flight while all the dismissal turmoil was going down, and only found out about it once she landed! Hahaha. 2026-05-19T02:12:08Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsgk2a9vnqg0zy9wqqjsh0gcntn2d6z88v900ndsg2p855u35j8ryszyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392pxfx3c In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxw5mzw58z2xk77zcp0c7k3czc6v873ef6dje0p3l3dhee8hefpkqzwk88w'>nevent1q…k88w</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I also didn’t know he put an end to conscription! 2026-05-18T21:29:11Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsxw5mzw58z2xk77zcp0c7k3czc6v873ef6dje0p3l3dhee8hefpkqzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l39234825u In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsry5g4rw0yvqxfxe88lp27cxk4nmufrsnj0mzh5wd7t2daw8daxhg2ydq5y'>nevent1q…dq5y</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Yeah he was in the RAAF reserves as a navigator, then Pearl Harbour happened and he was called up. Hit by anti-aircraft fire, lost an engine, guided the plane back to base on one engine. <br/><br/>P.S. <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/2026/may/19/melbourne-psychiatrist-ai-note-taking-new-patients?utm_term=Autofeed&amp;CMP=soc_567&amp;utm_medium=Social&amp;utm_source=Facebook&amp;fbclid=IwZnRzaAR4YxhleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBzcnRjBmFwcF9pZAo2NjI4NTY4Mzc5AAEedlzeGDoGPFGe5kv6a9ohob7cuC3H3sDaqBlux0ey9S6wQvH6dPNS8kBeiFs_aem_sKLJzs6OTxW5ko3T9l5OMg#Echobox=1779116916">https://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/2026/may/19/melbourne-psychiatrist-ai-note-taking-new-patients?utm_term=Autofeed&amp;CMP=soc_567&amp;utm_medium=Social&amp;utm_source=Facebook&amp;fbclid=IwZnRzaAR4YxhleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBzcnRjBmFwcF9pZAo2NjI4NTY4Mzc5AAEedlzeGDoGPFGe5kv6a9ohob7cuC3H3sDaqBlux0ey9S6wQvH6dPNS8kBeiFs_aem_sKLJzs6OTxW5ko3T9l5OMg#Echobox=1779116916</a> 2026-05-18T21:28:08Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsp92tdd2cr3fwnmwg78tjeskl6yl3rlj64faxf3ct7u5wwltq7gzczyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392tmuvnk In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvw77u736qdp0u4glfkn27jk3r2v48fnngr3lejmtfvpxsa6fuwqcnjggpq'>nevent1q…ggpq</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>BTW she’s just learned about the stuff Whitlam tried to (or successfully did in fact) put into place during his term, and then the dismissal, for her presentation at school, including the way things were before his prime ministership. Oh, and the fact that he got shot down in a plane, which I actually didn’t know myself. She’s a fan. 😂😂😂 Hates John Kerr &amp; Malcolm Fraser now. I TRIED to be “neutral”, I promise! 2026-05-18T07:24:06Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsvw77u736qdp0u4glfkn27jk3r2v48fnngr3lejmtfvpxsa6fuwqczyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l3929d0s83 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrvqes4syscpdfqpzyxy72tswutt4rakdfu7sj79lwsg60p5hkrsq27r0mj'>nevent1q…r0mj</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>update- I had to pick up Ms11 from school after I said this, and she’s such a passionate anti-AI person (because she’s an artist), so I told her about the redaction of the study. She was pretty dang smug. 😄 She even caught me using an LLM to get it to aggregate govt/NLA etc sources about Gough Whitlam’s policies to help show her what some good sources might be two days ago and *requested* that I please use a search engine. 🤣🤣🤣 2026-05-18T07:20:48Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsrvqes4syscpdfqpzyxy72tswutt4rakdfu7sj79lwsg60p5hkrsqzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392a7qnhy In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0urhndxjk58nlw8j8slxnlh22059sdc7wwx7kxt5gtdtqf0d3kysqc7uck'>nevent1q…7uck</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>oyyyy. Nice work, Frank. The comment I was looking for about OpenAI’s strategy to gets its nasty little tentacles into “colleges” was there and it’s a good START but he really should have followed up with another paragraph specifically naming universities too, as well as BANKS. <br/><br/>Hello… hi… like… hi. 2026-05-18T04:50:39Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsvh2rtxrezdnm672srg0x28dtjllchj2pe2ge5643tc5cza3sszxszyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l39208xa5e In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqh3xshdnf9hyuayst76qd8sqlmyfmuu7tvls7ztdsppfca7hd3zq4mtfwt'>nevent1q…tfwt</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Like, the guy who marked my proposal assignment all but explicitly confessed in my Turnitin comments that he hadn’t the foggiest what I was on about &amp; clearly went to zero effort to follow my citation trail to find out if I was right to AT LEAST highlight outrageous data ethics/imbalance holes + the most obvious ever “someone’s getting paid” biased conjecture by sysreview authors goin’ “hey this ML model looks promising!” (at the risk of sounding a bit paranoid). 2026-05-18T04:43:06Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsqh3xshdnf9hyuayst76qd8sqlmyfmuu7tvls7ztdsppfca7hd3zqzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392we40ak In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstfj8ez6s2r3acdu2sl4dnl7y9uq42klmr2pnuq4w0s5nvc5c2vjgmqheg4'>nevent1q…heg4</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Can’t tell you how much of a relief it is that SOMEONE sees that. My uni are just weirded-out by why a “3rd yr” (nobody notices my huge transcript) is using topic-flexible assignments to raise the alarm. My email to a lecturer from the AI/ML labs about a collab to develop a mutually-beneficial proposal got flat-out ignored. The 1 techy psych researcher in my own camp is a fan, but he’s so worn out by trying to do exciting stuff &amp; getting crickets that he’s Eeyore. 2026-05-18T04:32:13Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsvm5m20yd5zy2fjjagvnv99rjzr3fe30u0ywd5dw5tsd89t4df99gzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392prm8dj In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqlnzf625d97z3elu0wu32xyd5n8nhep2evs58q7p9e302a66uwqqp9hsr5'>nevent1q…hsr5</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>oooo! Funny you should mention that. I just found out that providers working for Open Arms (which is the DVA) had to pressure the minister to get their bloody superannuation paid. Not. At. All. Surprised. 😞 2026-04-02T04:17:20Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsvmh6nqhcyuz58a54kfpgp4uk2lt7407kz6k7h85asj7fumh2r3jgzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392e9f78w In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqfqvesm7snqxm0fld5wgfpltdp6jt9h3a88y94k0er7gjs0y6ljsaecutd'>nevent1q…cutd</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I got to play keys on Doors tunes with a shit-hot band AND I got paid for it! Fucken fun job, that. Sometimes. Well, occasionally. 2026-03-20T10:47:08Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsd3rt0s5lq8846fm4lxxdaqlr38xtcudpx5fcppa4cqaml4uv2hgszyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392chgktc In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9qm37pccfcxjcf3aqqc0ta2tx8am6rm60r7emevvx2xecsgyzkgsejxpry'>nevent1q…xpry</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I miss typewriters. I really really miss typewriters. 2026-03-13T01:34:44Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsxtvn7z2k5l8mdaylegpwpad88a5ngq64e3ywxlftr0jnajj5nduczyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392eh5har In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsz38vgap96j03fy35pwgst3lp5l9n6tszwykagkgw9h3dxhud9w4cldqk4y'>nevent1q…qk4y</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>oh heck I might do some cucumber &amp; garlic salad with mine. I feel so seedy for no reason! 2026-03-02T05:55:34Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsd9keqjtnwsvnuj9tsfckkdaqzryge33qq6x6yhspcw88dtzc3f9qzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392crq8dj In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs94l3yv5lpuw4elgycuzjpqnlqeq5tye70kxhrdmjhnum6ht2p2eql3gscf'>nevent1q…gscf</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>My kingdom for a bit of that. And just a big stack of steamed greens. 2026-03-02T05:07:27Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqszhwx5ekpem5nk4k9rndgvvwh8vecmch37x0305w2qhtmjm0th9yszyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392hlvksh In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0f0hv6x69vlqfytwy6nhks3eds8u2t5e3spamaxlwfz5t4g48lzczx2rcl'>nevent1q…2rcl</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>yummm… maybe it’s in my David Thompson book. I’ll have a squiz when I’m… not feeling so much like horizontal as all I can do right now… haha. 2026-03-02T04:54:21Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqswr4jry6h657susnsc44ant5rh8gamtnewf362fjnsdvqt6gaf3nczyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392x83y3d In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsyrk8wst99vq2hv59rm0dsgrfhjw9h7hk6k9xuvz0eyew2h44mwhcqk4c2k'>nevent1q…4c2k</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>also, it’s you making those goddamn delicious things. Whatever they are. 2026-03-02T04:44:37Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsggds50dxs2ak4wv8nc0umlu32gkl2aft83fzawnsy42z0wqlhayczyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392e9a2fh In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsyyjg5p4ys3vraq3ly228zxk5702e6sqzcyzy46y8lmxadpt2ea7gyycpgw'>nevent1q…cpgw</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>ok so my Ms11 and he will be sushi buddies, because she’s exactly the same. Oh, but she will eat prawns and trout roe by the bucketload though. 2026-03-02T04:42:31Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsq3ac2r3jt63yewwuyhk8uy8a2rzwaruhgc9tqwudeqmdh853eqlqzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392r907pc In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9m2f25wvlhswu6t8gsrz5q0snszervuwymjvfdz89pnh40ahpwsqmnlad6'>nevent1q…lad6</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>she got enough omega 3 to see her through for a bit! Haha. Good for them at that particular age! 2026-03-02T04:37:49Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs2an6mnqhv92r0684lg33ctpgevl8zry99kn8q7kjysvgswruredqzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l3922arjd2 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszne6udp25dq9prgse29favflds4y8sz3qfc8uam5l5uw9uk37hrg5x42jn'>nevent1q…42jn</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>omg she vocalises this at you? That is TOO funny! 2026-02-27T08:18:30Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsrqpcxs5a90e0643mntgnpgnxmmglt0caje9y6xet3nuamyz8xf7szyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392x78fhp In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsyd99fd6xmt9ykkhfmu6yvukgn7z5w9uj8cfnztxwwxsyhfql0z9sg8pqhc'>nevent1q…pqhc</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I absolutely love her logic, though. In her mind, there’s every chance that it’s sunny and dry on the other side of the verandah. 2026-02-27T06:33:37Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs832s4amc9a6l4yupaed4tusz9s9dk8k92u36f0r3mklckfhzjvsgzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l39286k2a4 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrxjwecwhtpzkrqlg3v7s3fdaftadrhypqf6nvl3c3276zplf4ucqmhm9ua'>nevent1q…m9ua</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>That’s like the community garden/arty sort of place I’ve been involved with over the years. We moved sites ten years ago but the process in getting it more comfortable to be in over the hotter months (which affects volunteers’ ability/motivation to be there!) has been slow. Some parts of it are sorta undercover but outdoors so they’re gonna be hot anyway, but yeah. It’s not very comfortable in Dec/Jan/Feb! 2026-02-11T22:58:41Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqswlknawxgkeqrkyltza4rwdatxvt6kcrtf0rqehqkz5mpea2sk6jczyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392fktqtg In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstuhkgkj8hff9yzqczlq377rnuuvegaf24e5f2xf636h9m4mglczggm456h'>nevent1q…456h</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I remember my brother in his teen years. We’d get home from school &amp; he’d start on last night’s leftovers, then eat a box of Shapes, a glass of milo, an apple, some bickies, then he’d have a big dinner. Skinny &amp; 6ft 2 &amp; I don’t know where it went coz he was a stringbean til he was 50. Even then, he just kinda “filled out” a bit but he’s still a perpetual stringbean. Handy hint… just make extra dinner, and he’ll polish it off the next day instead of processed snacks! 2026-01-23T10:19:16Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsfmkfmuysckd77ff2xl7f0r4f02f4ydurulhlx0cph0m4tq573phczyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392gevufu In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8nectgjdjue5x8vc2hn4v34u0p4s2etlurg60v4jah85wsx53krgegplfu'>nevent1q…plfu</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Could. Not. Agree. More. <br/><br/>Can you explain what you mean by the original toot? I read it like 3 times but I’m only half-sure I understand what you mean by the second bit. (I am 200% not being a jerk, I really actually feel like I get it! I don’t act like that on socials, I hate that shit.. sincerity only. 😊 ) 2026-01-04T19:51:38Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqstmrxrf97glhcdrdwwnvkwvaztmuxlp4hwdv5ffmygz59nyh862kgzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392dq5jys In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsw4sjps74uvr30x0ked4styfp7y7jmnmncx06snfdy0f0qa42aaksl4j50w'>nevent1q…j50w</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>oh man, the shit I’ve been reading that makes it so abundantly clear that everything they act like they’re scared of now was something they’ve gone to great effort to create not just for themselves but the rest of us to deal with, not just in recent decades, but for well over a century. They made this go as badly as it’s gone. The last straw for me was a 1922 book by the American diplomat who foresaw &amp; tried to stop Pearl Harbour (and very nearly did). They wanted this. 2026-01-04T19:38:31Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsq9494lavxgk5ecgjxxr777cj3lvm6nzaqae5qg9zczvx295k327czyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l3926kmy5n In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszsevk945vanwvky56z70y6q4hr84j4m5fph6etwf0renugs4tmdq3tq3dn'>nevent1q…q3dn</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>what is this sorcery… I gotta try this. 2025-11-05T08:19:56Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs8lmathkna6mut4v94tvhxqwq4ht9cqvm2va2naxvc9qzjxf5h7fqzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l3929u9tp4 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqv5fj3458ddk9gmejsvpsfs0whkxdnw656k6v2qu2up9ee8490pqywglx5'>nevent1q…glx5</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>oh, tell me how to make these Parmesan crisps you’re making. Heck. Yum. 2025-11-05T05:41:41Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsqsxkvf5h9zkjqxewfp4zmpmfn20teekevs0sppae0mfhz0szvemszyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392swph5t In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsv4zaf0c5hf6up2ltan7uuqpmjdah2ysnu0z8pyv3mg5s2380cjpgdx0up2'>nevent1q…0up2</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>cleanest Akubras I’ve ever seen 2025-11-02T05:11:19Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsyay3rs5k7ptew4q5yywpfguq6zjuclywvfw5pddlql46zdn6lmwczyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l3927xkeat In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9ujkrc2tf8zyh6xm0xuq9ql6lxgn2umucajkt9zj4vd4l6zcrrrggna0e5'>nevent1q…a0e5</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Oh please tell me you own a pair and wear them to the bakery with zero fucks given. 2025-09-28T09:41:40Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs0ksg7xnyyshlg3cjyh7ly3lfvfjwks26edn4d69yugs4zetqzztszyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392n8tcap In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsd9uuneau5vxjh0e4rmzm5f0vmalzwkhrm2azhw4lyqfw0u03c24sdxexvq'>nevent1q…exvq</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I only just remembered that this is also how I came up with “Chozari”. Hahaha! I’d got so used to it that I’d forgotten where it came from. 2025-09-04T00:01:00Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs9pffm6yku8ctprnm2ymf50klpd3dxxj8lzspxx3fvdhzs5e4g7cszyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l3924hskfd In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdkh4d9lglktwq803ayg2np57r96ly2dr5xqkhvz7jeuud27wd0rq3pzl4m'>nevent1q…zl4m</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>It must feel amazing to be called Dr - whatever your name is. Haha. I don’t know your name. 2025-09-03T21:19:01Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs253hvwrdng9tpvjzc5s0wjwkam8qnsz2krrlw25qfsl3evsfuchqzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l3925f4a5k In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsp4t4vvhndd2f6de8w4e0jtcfd00ht82teef7l2uh4xtr9lw94eqqtj56yp'>nevent1q…56yp</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>OMG FUCKYEEEEEAHHHH!! 2025-09-03T12:41:00Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsphgvd8gk9n8wxpp63tcv2g9xhd8nxjyphwrvzf25kfrvv7lx5wqqzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392luzzqv In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs09eghdzg08t429m50wwl0fus89zad07vvrkymnm3a2r7gvktedfqfa6sc9'>nevent1q…6sc9</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>🐇 2025-07-21T21:04:18Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsvc792q9qs7ftyypum87vd3s29w2df9zghxnxmy77evnnd6e6d0wqzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392akt4kd In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswrq0gg88nwasp3e3z544jv3rpcacsrvsw3xaxl55zh06msc9uk0c39atzn'>nevent1q…atzn</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Oh god it’s contagious. I have to own some now. 2025-07-21T12:17:32Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsy3n9ed7rsyzd0n9w5l5xgqgxpk0f4wedtecfm0p7vsrht5pzj98czyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392h390sg In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstj936jdv7eh9zhdkjq93yws9uc7a2enq2296zr8hpu24d7q3qslqlnx668'>nevent1q…x668</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Oh you can teach me about arthritis, then.<br/><br/>*is a total user of a “friend”* 2025-07-01T20:56:56Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsxs9hs8tttvu7spu8rx3rj0pzlxp4kv8qrcpnm80x7zavp5xydqpszyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392wzswq6 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstlaxjtl8jep9gvumqky6kqyet9elyzq5dhzxh40lw5fvwwqlhhxcpfuuws'>nevent1q…uuws</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Oh I use those too when I see they’re available. NGL, I originally got attached to them because the label on the can 🇮🇹 🤌🏼 is charming as fuck. 2025-06-13T07:30:21Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsgags7hwu2wjc9sxtx8qqfwxwgk3sw84j7ucv06vayg5pxz37as0qzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392ltyuz9 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxf3rz0ur6257w84gjzdyggze5050ncqkmgaw38dxmvp046m4f7jct4sxfy'>nevent1q…sxfy</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Human rights really just aren’t that hard to comprehend. They just aren’t. You have to actually do really hard and really yucky thinking to land at the complicated and indefensible position they’re in. It’s gross. What’s even more sickening for me is that now when they get hit with accountability they’re just gonna act like it’s misogyny coming at them or some shit. Yeah nah, you are just awful… please stop being awful… 2025-04-17T08:38:01Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsd0yqxpewm0kaa7s0nhelx5dg5ry5p99hrnsrvz4ctl4d9gj5ml0gzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l3923g87ch In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsf72gt5a3su5y8j0pe6jpsl8cqusz5arra85qguzrj0vtfvpjh7ygey4saj'>nevent1q…4saj</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>And you know what’s so sad…. these TERF-knuckles don’t see that they’re next against the wall. 2025-04-17T08:31:33Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsf72gt5a3su5y8j0pe6jpsl8cqusz5arra85qguzrj0vtfvpjh7ygzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392a4cvr8 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8zfl7m7cy7kph9dqqn6lvd5f9ucveq0kjhywuprsu90tuva048lgcwtm5x'>nevent1q…tm5x</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I was sitting in the doctor’s waiting room this morning and saw the footage of them all cheering. I had to explain to my 10 year old daughter, who has disclosed consistently her non-hetero status and support for human rights, why the women were all doing their stupid victory dancing like they just pushed all the chess pieces over and strutted around the chessboard like they won. 2025-04-17T08:30:29Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqspzcxh36rah0t9tzswem7g2htuahj462x23zt868cyuk63e66qmpczyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392arq2ly In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqsn8tdx7yvl990z9aajlxjngah5xp2jc4xaw3ar6ck8aqv9wyavq8ku759'>nevent1q…u759</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Hey Caity I checked your bio for a link to a blog but didn’t see one. Where do you write up your little stories? 2025-02-18T22:18:16Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs9l76gzunwlt3dy08v0xk56cchjghaxy7tfxa0w2stcfn7nyk4qegzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l3922wml63 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2u43jre2ntfzuh4s2ajulwd3d4mfapzrva0ylqr4vlyqrmczvq7c48zq5l'>nevent1q…zq5l</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>omg I have to visit this place one day. 2025-02-18T09:29:48Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsr5czfrr47s0p2d05gzk6hj2ymnl5x5ppp8hjpax66ufmvffe634czyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392f7hq36 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs80nfzmfhq80tfvdmw7xy92ypda0uk34l7p0gyeqz78alx6upaaqg0weq9t'>nevent1q…eq9t</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I fully support you in this because you’re living in it only a few days away from the election, and I can’t possibly understand with my Aussie mind, even if married to an American. I just wanted to say how sad I am that the political rubbish they shove in your face has you feeling so unsafe to just do something neighbours should just feel safe to enjoy even if it’s leaving a bowl of treats out and a few decorations to enjoy from the window. It SUCKS. Just… so sorry. 2024-10-31T22:30:02Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsfzqrtwjkkdygnrcxz6glrnshggphk945qrxc8e8yeglvehrratjszyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392k0r5m0 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsgfeu2y52gjwlz5nel2zr8s7zmh0dnkg7m2gxd3w7wmjvelhv7qdg7eety7'>nevent1q…ety7</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>But I want to knowwwwwww. 🤣 2024-10-20T20:40:46Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs0lkpr3tmtcts3jgvtqgwmcfwtgv3k6vm92xpqeylnwk2qpxh6yxszyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l3923ss0jr In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsw5udrgtvlpdu2ec4klqnt0a350slksurrdsv6tf9ycg77ugxzfusqcllm0'>nevent1q…llm0</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I’ve tried briefly scrolling through to look for discussion of their reasoning for correlating so strongly the diabetes 2 + covid when there are such massive extraneous factors to consider since 2019, like economic disadvantage, stress/mental health of caregivers etc, which was my first thought for a condition like type 2. But I’ve got the yucky migrainey nausea and the text is making me 🤮 2024-10-20T20:36:27Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsw5udrgtvlpdu2ec4klqnt0a350slksurrdsv6tf9ycg77ugxzfuszyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l3922h0032 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsggzerh490xef3wgc3qxx5md4qu38dtj40h8qt3vnvjvqzz2ejjns884err'>nevent1q…4err</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>geeeeeeez… I have a nasty headache so won’t go right into the study but gosh 48-58% from childhood and teen years is a very very long sentence without nearly enough family supports readily available for that sort of increased future prevalence via public health systems. 2024-10-20T20:30:23Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsw40uucd9slk0lsss0nac6pdtr9ew926k2ww36ngchjuu3d4xd70qzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392r6tkdc In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxdm574c5y48w2g2fu7qwwfdtkplam7r3u9uyrppazh942n8lr97cn370wh'>nevent1q…70wh</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Heh. Yeah, gawd, what a sad thing but necessary to consider. 2024-10-20T05:22:59Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqspq28c80m7ar6nf5m6mumq7qmf8r0zc2nnvtp9f5wmcrauu9zufkgzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l3920aqq9z In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvv62fut0cch9qc8kmg6zu6cl8ue5uymrnswqz7rdg8arcwnwmtyshfvxnw'>nevent1q…vxnw</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Yeah they call nerves like mine “hot pulp”. It’s a disgusting description. 😆 But yeah I lay on my bed on the phone to 000, trying to keep my mouth full of cold water whilst trying to respond between hysterical sobs. That’s bad it is. It’s like your jaw’s broken. Not exaggerating. And I have a very high pain tolerance. That night, I begged them to help me, and the only other time I’ve asked for pain relief that strong was Ms10’s birth. 2024-10-20T05:14:23Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs2x24ygm8ksfe3xrgpeu0vwydqvdzp3f0hkj88x8uztyr4zrggdgqzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392ekvn27 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsddmyqal4c0hte6vkpjy9s7a2tjefpk08pfelsq9655ds8qcurssgxuly3p'>nevent1q…ly3p</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>ohhhh no…. You sound like you’ve got the same problem with “hot pulp” (absolutely the most melodramatic nerves in teeth ever) that I’ve always had. Also I actually hope they didn’t actually leave a chunk of tooth root in there that’s got all angry since surgery… they did a post op xray or CT, did they? 2024-10-20T04:51:21Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqswfzm9e40dfmfk8v89zweqer0lqds39y26ll6vem4exvtls8930aczyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l3925cv6wr In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvxk4kdcd0xw8pnckh3rd7fgk2a575rgqzdqek9yxvqufz32zckdc5u4h0v'>nevent1q…4h0v</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>oh I’m fine. I’m about to guzzle a coffee now. And LOOKY HERE. Look who JUST HAPPENS to be spinning a brand new web in the same place…<br/> <img src="https://mediacdn.aus.social/media_attachments/files/113/292/005/072/640/813/original/9041a1974c7ead63.jpeg"> <br/> 2024-10-12T02:07:31Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsy7m59ttrtpzcqcnjvu3evvk29kk9tq7j8psk9kaznd0948qcm65qzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l3927pv22d Something bit me on the pinky an hour ago when I was trimming a plant. It REALLY hurt for a second. I threw the handful of foliage I’d been holding &amp; looked at my finger. No bite mark, no embedded sting or fangs, no insect, no swelling or ongoing pain. I gingerly poked around for the culprit, but it had made itself scarce. It obviously wasn’t big &amp; black or I’d have seen it, so I wasn’t inclined to call 000. It’s been an hour &amp; I’m not dead or vomiting or sweating or anything…. *shrug* ONWARDS! 2024-10-12T01:47:43Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsp5p0nf64zn9wp79undwxs2ar44kpf46j3f4uvvk8lktv58x8d5gczyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392gleyv9 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrlhd7zredhk2h7czvjjecsqqsyefjkfsa3muljmlxvwfa4p8myzq9upkz5'>nevent1q…pkz5</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>“Rich” to me of course meaning I don’t have to worry about choosing between rent and food…. my bar is so low… haha 2024-10-11T07:01:29Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsrlhd7zredhk2h7czvjjecsqqsyefjkfsa3muljmlxvwfa4p8myzqzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l3920fypk4 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstvh3n03p0qj0hgt5uum2eyyy989mhkhp6l4qyg2zs09zrkjysyhgf5ypu7'>nevent1q…ypu7</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>An entire nursery. And a cubic metre of garden mix. Oh and don’t forget the rocking chair so I can rock in it and laugh maniacally when I’m rich and also don’t have sexist bullshit in my life anymore. 2024-10-11T06:54:14Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsrymw5az85tsuh3h7hytjecqmlme2fatjzftnnc35a8233s0xc4dgzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392znhfcy In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsg8fzk2qgwgsxhxvsaj543ajgqczqju6ss2n8ezx2as7tlmhfteccx5ynze'>nevent1q…ynze</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Oh my gosh, I should see if I still have any patterns I can mail to you. I’ll never use them. Purchased with the best of intentions, of course. 2024-10-11T06:00:17Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs0mldc9lx5aegru2c633awz583wrugggk8ejellawcpf7gmx6e5wszyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392t8cvxj In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqlsmk45at4zkrphl5xf26rrwcu7p8mh4hw3ahs8zx898cdg0gtws2ccyf3'>nevent1q…cyf3</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Oh yes I have read a little about how menopause can trigger some heightened sensory experiences for some of us! It’s very interesting and yet I hope it doesn’t mean barriers to the things you always enjoyed. 2024-10-11T05:50:10Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsxfhswdg9002vzzhh0pngtvxjrzek3x8u5sy4khtay2jlx53n9uzgzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392rj2l50 Dude. Just watching Landline. Wool prices are the same as 10 years ago, and people are buying so many garments made of plastic you’d have to be a bit mad to become a wool farmer in 2024. Or a rich hobbyist or some shit. 2024-10-11T05:34:02Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsfdm9l8nsknunq6yg555j55mfru6gwaznue38yn0enqt6grhlcrqgzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l3923xwluq In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszxq7tz4xupgdjwg4rpth3s47ue53z876e9kkr5qlaw9gpq3wat6gmtdjk4'>nevent1q…djk4</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Not that you’re not already doing. 🥰 I am just still so disgusted, you know. What kind of f’n psycho marries a survivor of absolutely f’n HORRIFIC abuse and then just sets about trying to make her swallow the same utter BULLSHIT? Like I wasn’t gonna see it and call him on it. He really thinks he’s being original. I’ve seen this shit a million times and he really can’t imagine I see straight through it. The other day he’s like, “I no longer trust your judgment.” CLASSIC TACTIC. 2024-10-10T11:59:53Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs03vsple4754mpmnyz827zutqf8n0leetc9ajzhke5fgjyz4ekwdszyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392yzsynz Today was horrible and the start of another horror decade and I don’t expect there’s much for me after this. 2024-10-10T10:52:17Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsvzvu58nea3syjthm98n8ljapvs5a9r8r57jtd76ne4sga3vkzvhqzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l3923tqdgl In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs23gms5ea4jth2c7rkutlurmecls6vaqcgs47f7nzs0mhg6w2nyqs7vjdza'>nevent1q…jdza</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Already got it when I wasn’t getting the support I needed &amp; could sense his moods ramping up again. He sabotaged the last assignments to the point that I’ve dropped 2 units. Says he cares about my future but doesn’t do ANYTHING, then accuses me of being irrational with all the daily work I HAVE TO do. Calls my basic hygiene a “perfectionism issue”. I do have a perfectionism issue but that’s… not it. I just don’t want to set a bad example for Ms10 or get kicked out of our house. 2024-09-26T03:30:34Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsdgmyg5avcx4424u2j2dkz6nlk5s40c7ccxct9hrd7rw8xwd0967czyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392zed9f7 How am I supposed to submit a good paper on humanistic-existential theory and practice when I just am in an inhumane situation and an existential crisis…. 2024-09-26T03:10:39Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsz9f4vywupk4t57yar3qrztdhvhcjpa6juqqdsru9fkgwemftcajqzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l3922ay79e In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspsk0c9tgeqm3qxx0zac6xffqx6yuj46fv7lel59ul3t0tw00taggdwssf7'>nevent1q…ssf7</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>And that should be telling me everything I need to know, really. The guy doesn’t actually care what the responsible thing to do is. He just wants to fuck shit up. You know? 2024-09-25T09:23:59Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsy4gnxcjln7sxxz543y7n8qmzhpsk8ecdc54lhkngj3agj8400jxgzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392dnwnmy In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspsk0c9tgeqm3qxx0zac6xffqx6yuj46fv7lel59ul3t0tw00taggdwssf7'>nevent1q…ssf7</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>So yeah what I meant to get to (and ADHDed) is that I will keep acting like I don’t want him to leave because then he’ll leave. Just wants to be oppositional no matter what it takes. He doesn’t care what’s right. Just what’s opposite to what he thinks I want. 2024-09-25T09:22:53Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqspsk0c9tgeqm3qxx0zac6xffqx6yuj46fv7lel59ul3t0tw00taggzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l3926f2vfn In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsr8q5wrdyyqqtvgrfmgsachv8gf5sdchqfpszegjwzpkfjrp77egqd3ez35'>nevent1q…ez35</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>My animals. And Ms10’s school.<br/>I can’t. And I need my garden and my animals. He just completely took over our bedroom and if I go in there most of the time he just sighs and carries on and won’t talk to me or acknowledge me and I just have to get out of there. I haven’t been able to enjoy my own f’n bedroom in like 2 or 3 years. Been sleeping on the couch more often than not lately. 2024-09-25T09:21:13Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsryazmelfefvy6885que9kxx4ctyqlaxwntpuwm8l8z06atfh3mqqzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392zjmf5s In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsz6pkgflam6q4ujp4kkaxpcmggeae4gj86u6xywvvvg0yej47ljhsnu9kw7'>nevent1q…9kw7</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>🩵Coz I just feel like I don’t have any curiosity left. I don’t have much to say. I know what’s happened, what is driving him, why he has dramatically changed, why he is lying to himself &amp; turning it into cruel, juvenile designed-to-disorientate arguments with me. I can’t behave with patience &amp; maturity or it maddens him. And being as juvenile as he is just is not an option for me. So I just give up fighting back at all. I am so tired. 2024-09-25T09:09:32Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsv5kj9tzcmmp2utp690a6ztkc7z4dm8rvjxj965whs23hdvj28rsqzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392pt6squ In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstucaw6cxezpaduhrqf0z8ne95pv6gmcyjqx4kckyqk0e42k29xzc6mdh3n'>nevent1q…dh3n</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I’m sorry to be oozing it into all your feeds tbh. Been trying to spare you. I’ve already done this to Stu &amp; co before, when the ex isolated me. This one just spent 2yrs giving me the frog/pot treatment til I was too continually triggered NOT to develop pathology of some sort &amp; of course it’s fucking agoraphobia. Coz the last one stalked me; this one does nothing but create tension for my kid to grow up in. So I’m always home, always protecting her. 2024-09-25T08:57:47Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqspad9m29vgz4e0wnrp56jjrcdcmvv6c5p0qyk2nkkuaecj8zxcvxczyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392jnuj4y In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsplr5lq4ggv9g6p5wn5mltffma8hwczd9g47805eknaztlcxjq2jqnxc773'>nevent1q…c773</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I want so much to be wrong about him. Maybe I’m wrong. But it speaks volumes that I’m still not sure if I am wrong. Especially when he just got done four hours ago telling me that I’m the one doing all the stuff he does. Classic narc tactic. 2024-09-25T08:52:25Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs96g42sw3gmqehv7597hffnmrtfyhcjzyc9xz6crhsd2k4ur3rdzqzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392uegedx I’m so sad.<br/>The ones who point the finger at the other ones are just working hard to distinguish themselves from them so they can prime you for another round. They make themselves look different so you’ll fall for it twice. So that you will mistake the love bombing for love &amp; validation TWICE. I don’t have the strength for another round of this. The first one broke my eldest. The second one will now break my youngest. And me. What did he save our lives for? I now wish he didn’t. 2024-09-25T08:45:49Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsp79judvlarjvskq5y39qsxekhmq4vuzcu3l53cmwy2uleemcv4dczyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l3926w6nz9 Could you do me a favour? Could you tell me something nice that happened to you recently? I’d love to hear about that. 🥰 2024-09-23T21:53:36Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsr9mcd7juwnd56xygg228ddjxrn6sddvxt93jmp0l2q04hjjestyqzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392h09ymg In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstcflqx5hk0qa4yf5vh6286fy5us83suywhn3jr8ad658dr3qvdqcs76ae7'>nevent1q…6ae7</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Oh I LOVE gochugaru… do you get it from that fancy place with the pretty jars? I forget what it’s called. Can’t be bothered walking to the house to look at the label. 😂 2024-09-23T06:09:33Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsxvkdj2n39j7a4kenw9l9ztv5uncvtqzrdjlezhqpt6k2ghxdkgnczyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392f8l8q5 Sitting here absolutely fucking dying of birthday party anxiety. 2024-09-22T00:42:02Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs2qt4pswu5vw3hmyv7pwljh39ndqs9j8w7qgw3dlp5ce0fec783sgzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392h2drv3 Oh my goodness. <br/>I could cry.<br/>I don’t really get presents from anyone but Wombat and my mum. I’m making myself wait til after dinner. The SUSPENSSSSESSE…. Btw why can’t I tag you, D-cuz? It won’t let me find your name! I’m on Metatext tho so maybe something is wonky with them.<br/> <img src="https://mediacdn.aus.social/media_attachments/files/113/146/276/422/088/092/original/1c255e3f19f99030.png"> <br/> 2024-09-16T08:27:41Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs2hjxx88khhl58p82lktm79cxza3yq6y5ppye3cqs7att735tr7pgzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392z57e03 Shit men acknowledge via their refusal to do anything around their own house that housework is really hard and neverending and yet they try to have it both ways by never ever acknowledging their partner has a lot on their plate picking up after them. Let alone actually saying once in a while they appreciate that damn hard work. Not my first rodeo, not even my second. Over it. So done. 2024-09-15T07:27:00Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsp8rx5rgfhywstf7lw2xvt44pzgra9h7l4l6msmdp0tnnwumu6m2czyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392vhlrcm In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsd2g5tycgnfaj2qp36u56wswqrhf7rskt6l6frcc4mphz222tlxccwf4cek'>nevent1q…4cek</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Thank you, fren. Do you find it hard to research things for your academic work, coz of side-quests? I see something I don’t know about or don’t know *to my satisfaction* at my level, so I go running after it, and in the meantime, I’ve lost two days and the due date looms. But I’ve got so little ability or interest in just focusing on the key studies. One curious little variable pops up, and “SQUIRREL!” There’s a puff of dust where I just was. 2024-09-03T03:28:12Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsptmlhz5hqxhp58uwylf2uazv4a0qgqzg8cgsrm832mfqcntwv3jgzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l3923rdcmp I went to therapy and offloaded so much stuff but really battled my brain to stay on track to relay all that’s wrong. I love what being an auDHDer allows me to perceive, and learn, and the lived experience with which I may be able to help others one day. But gosh it really makes life hard sometimes. The cognitive distraction element with me is just off the charts. I can’t stay in one place or remember where I was trying to talk my way to. You know? 2024-09-03T03:22:53Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsymcyxcy849eyg4kkcwyxflnfyrg9k0r8p5q4sgym6wza56vhfazczyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392fft76m I wish this wind would go away. I am very, very depressed, and anxious, and I need to be doing things in the garden to cope, but I can’t. 2024-09-02T06:37:39Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs9lay7drwk4hx4t8u9he2uu6m4dcvyrzhzv0kext4m0u7qxn99s4gzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392vyl3nz I have just submitted an assignment that was far below my ability and I’m angry about it because it could have been really good for reasons which were someone else’s fault. 2024-08-26T09:50:28Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsfj5a5mzxed06znewwfa0krneth2rcxp7z6c0ulqpdcdwh8putkyqzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392kxt3dx In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqxfed37wp5dmrdhh286uvwu3aaas0vqsfd2y4u6v8hk7t7r50vuccgw87j'>nevent1q…w87j</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Ugh yeah but you know what… they’re being more responsible than others I’ve had contact with. They’re not using the words, “therapy” and “therapist” in some place they have no business using them. I tried to engage with an associated NSW society 10yrs ago, found they were all unqualified and totally dysfunctional, so decided to go get a PhD in HT and come back and teach these fuckers some lessons in taking responsibility for a patient’s care instead of just taking …money. 2024-08-25T07:45:33Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsrgwx8prz8ryvdd84m39clzhzlgak0m896cvjey8nq3ppwwuu2r2szyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392u674cr The first accredited course in therapeutic horticulture has been launched in Australia. I’ve been waiting a decade for this. It’s being run out of CDU. It’s a very entry-level non-award course, but it’s a START. Years ago, I did some hours in a hospital with someone totally unqualified who had access to patients with the sorts of challenges we DO NOT work with unless we have many many years of training. The field is populated by well-meaning ignoramuses. A formal training sequence is URGENT. 2024-08-25T07:33:24Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs2we9fm5khc4uwrgwvsluhcyp7j95vjsujdmtu9hd7lhcp75dctlszyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392g99gjr The ridiculous drunk unclesque gambling-funded self-mythologising of the racing industry, shoring up future culturally-blessed exploitation of thoroughbreds bred solely for profit, all facilitated by media, carried on the overburdened back of a singular mare who died of laminitis in a rich industry that could have taken better preventative care of her feet, diet &amp; foaling after she stopped making them as many millions as before. Same newsday as reports of gambling reforms. 2024-08-17T23:50:03Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsw05g9qxuf8aje0lgdhynjrnpfedenplcmzxt8yhu3vxc4pwfmenszyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392vk925a Me:<br/>“I am a professional and mature person and you should take me seriously.”<br/><br/>Also me:<br/> <img src="https://mediacdn.aus.social/media_attachments/files/112/960/140/315/633/555/original/f7376ea3b0504542.jpeg"> <br/> 2024-08-14T11:31:41Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqspkypv35suqu5rhkr0w8rlx2x7x0d29lejespenkhf59uedcat3dqzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l3924m6mdq In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2uwlhutxhmcad3pxx97ygm4vjqqgad7zhtvcww450l9nh3tqsxasjlnt0j'>nevent1q…nt0j</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I love it when people don’t state whether they’re talking about a human or a pet, because it results in the most entertaining mental images ever. 2024-08-14T05:36:48Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsgz7lh769366kyevjzxyah83dtcqahc4mv752k5xhpvgexwmpumvszyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392num0en Oh my gosh thank you everyone. We’re up to 751 of the 1000 signatures on the koala protections petition. The council meeting is tonight. I hope I hope I hope we make the 1000. Sharing the link again.<br/><br/><a href="https://www.hen.org.au/fund-the-koala-plan-of-management/?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR2w61udS968gIkR3IRNR5cpuowwPQmiUU3toJ_FT7pRldMit_NxQ344Xu4_aem_IdqVhW6zEsuWX1e_d9K64Q">https://www.hen.org.au/fund-the-koala-plan-of-management/?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR2w61udS968gIkR3IRNR5cpuowwPQmiUU3toJ_FT7pRldMit_NxQ344Xu4_aem_IdqVhW6zEsuWX1e_d9K64Q</a> 2024-08-12T22:29:49Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsyvrqrvjzd2ymaatx7pzg24d0t93nmup93wldya0tffh2yl6nn56szyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l39227dgan We went to our kid’s book wk thing &amp; now we’re both 😵‍💫. I’ve been doing this parenting thing for 23 years. At no point has any preschool or school figured out how to run this in a way that isn’t a minefield for #autistic caregivers (in fairness I don’t know if it’s possible.) Beard retreated into nonspeaking mode &amp; has holed up to recover. I’m sitting here trying not to cry with overstimulation. I did my usual masky-mum thing so nobody would “trap” Beardy. I’ve paid a heavy price. 2024-08-08T02:25:29Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsvzl6hplw9gldr759qjw0zyww64dg0cm8w84cfcacgr64felqtuzqzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392n7xlh6 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsgka9pae23u40l0n9v95vg9y2vzj8z4wdvaj3nylymkyespw3gwzg7yjvj4'>nevent1q…jvj4</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Oh &amp; I’m also considering the risk/benefit of paying #MyChinaRoots to confirm whether the digitised family tree book I found in their records is MY family. I am in their Discord channel which seems nice. But how much do they help a half-gweilo chick who can’t speak Mandarin &amp; has only basic cultural insight? I think my insight is basic, anyway. That’s compared to my people back home. Compared to other Aussies in my region it’s comprehensive. But that’s not saying much. 😂 2024-08-05T00:21:01Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsgka9pae23u40l0n9v95vg9y2vzj8z4wdvaj3nylymkyespw3gwzgzyptl62a0va9kwf0ukeu6xnsgfuqlfeytrt49xp5w38tzqsmw6l392kdtam7 I’m still kinda sad that I can’t seem to break past the language barrier in my efforts to find any information about my paternal family line. I want to learn more about pre-1947 life in China for my ancestors. I also want to know if any of my fam survived the war &amp; Cultural Revolution so I can see them when I do my trip home. I think I have to figure out if I can use Weibo. Any #Chinese humans out there with advice? #AustralianBornChinese #ABC #bicultural #halfwhiteproblems 2024-08-05T00:13:18Z