2024-10-28T00:44:18Z https://njump.me jade ember ⚧️ https://njump.me/npub1aaqxny0zralgnt4v075fnqrmhq6v5ygntl4ujwrr63dkh8ddptts7l2jaa https://files.strangeobject.space/accounts/avatars/112/756/938/001/012/503/original/ae4a719cbea899a2.png https://files.strangeobject.space/accounts/avatars/112/756/938/001/012/503/original/ae4a719cbea899a2.png https://njump.me/nevent1qqsxt0x0sqkhw0u2tegvg24d2m6m59g00var2r2p5esd4uj75jhalvszyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwllquha for whomever needs it*<br/><br/>*me, probably<br/> <img src="https://files.strangeobject.space/media_attachments/files/113/317/518/484/710/686/original/9d1bd27781a14f23.jpeg"> <br/> 2024-10-16T14:15:13Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsyxkhndnxu6hklzs8zhs36pqmpsfrden26lp4lmkeuhcjncjq826szyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwtmejng Good morning, denizens of the multiverse.<br/><br/>What are you going to do to experience a small joy today? 2024-09-25T12:20:03Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsxkg2smeuf722g52v0racvejhs73jrprfedkf5dsjph6rrtsj0lrczyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dws98dev In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsg7r7acfqdls8wdxhattc7frjn6apuff8nkdxuvm8egy0wjf9zwvgzny8at'>nevent1q…y8at</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Tag yourself, I’m slutty they/them<br/> <img src="https://files.strangeobject.space/media_attachments/files/113/193/252/468/191/623/original/bfca803a25bacb77.jpeg"> <br/> 2024-09-24T15:32:44Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsg7r7acfqdls8wdxhattc7frjn6apuff8nkdxuvm8egy0wjf9zwvgzyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwhle07s In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2jqzeq74neau6m4g9n0zqz8f5mjzk5gcvyj3u0lhxrs3jn90pmrst8tftp'>nevent1q…tftp</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>One common complaint about queer comedies I’ve seen is “it’s unrealistic for everyone in a friend group to be queer!!!”<br/><br/>And: lol. lmao. 2024-09-24T15:30:04Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs2jqzeq74neau6m4g9n0zqz8f5mjzk5gcvyj3u0lhxrs3jn90pmrszyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dw3m2yg0 My new cuddle buddy is aroace and I’m a hypersexual hopeless romantic and we have decided this makes for a good basis for a queer comedy series. 2024-09-24T15:20:49Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsr2n7cfa76rqd2z4hr0wdjqhun5qxeuhzf5jgmfvnlu0pja70822gzyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dw3ae4wa In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqrk6tfm8r4x69gt5jhwl5z6ulgn5dkc6x3g2y40s40hmu7uxsw9q3avvtq'>nevent1q…vvtq</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Is this a thing that has happened in the past? 2024-09-24T14:00:54Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsp08e7gjh2e0v8dld8d0ptwh40mjv8nfmemjav5k0hjq4qwn85knczyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dw29k6d0 If you’re not already familiar, I recommend learning about DARVO (&#34;deny, attack, and reverse victim &amp; offender&#34;), a common tactic of psychological abusers.<br/><br/>One you understand how it works, you will recognize it…with unfortunate frequency.<br/><br/>IME this pattern is so common and normalized that once you’re paying attention to it, you’ll realize abusers tell on themselves very quickly.<br/><br/>When people tell you who they are, believe them.<br/><br/><a href="https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/DARVO">https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/DARVO</a> 2024-09-18T16:34:07Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsdkcpl6h9evm6y4tjnjd7am4uczwvehp6cwrjnrrp09vdgt60yxzgzyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwqnztt9 Thinking about how Docs with purple laces flags you as gay/queer in punk/skinhead culture and into needle play in Leather culture (fortunately this works for me in either context).<br/><br/>Also thinking about how red laces flag you as either a Nazi skin OR as anarchist/communist in punk/skinhead culture *depending on geographical location* …and into fisting in Leather culture.<br/><br/>Context matters! 2024-09-18T12:01:09Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsg4pnqsh7vszwdd3wzryku9pph2jk4lfgq0qgfzs3vyv3ydgtwfuszyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwgwps6c Girls only want one thing and it’s disgusting.<br/><br/>What is it? (wrong answers only) 2024-09-18T04:05:25Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs8u504m83dklt4tnt3ajrsqzsfhfwqunxuwq3a0gpvzks7r76fa7qzyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dw7ena3j “Why were we taught to fear witches instead of those that burned them at the stake?” 2024-09-17T15:25:26Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs2l0kmj4rry889dq8ksaxn47eaupr34vtqlzv2num8e5mjwftl3fqzyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwfdn3s3 Is your girl stacked?<br/>Does she fall apart easily?<br/>Does she like when a group of people plays with her?<br/><br/>She’s not your girl, she’s a Jenga tower. 2024-09-16T22:09:23Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsdashftttzpw2qn4a3gntnc9kcuzt7auh66xaxcph0yrwyjsegjsgzyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwehftnh Pretty annoyed at my former self for rolling her eyes at things like “journaling,” “affirmations,” “mindfulness,” and “positive self-talk.”<br/><br/>None of these things are panaceas, but how you relate to yourself and talk to yourself absolutely matters.<br/><br/>If you wouldn’t let someone bully your friends, don’t let yourself bully you.<br/><br/>Allow yourself the same love you pour into the world. 2024-09-12T16:40:14Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsyd9524e6cvvql330ap2ey9j9l8m2j5ck6yzyahzyy9z5hn3rnqdgzyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dweefcyk How do you create purpose and meaning for yourself and your life? 2024-09-09T15:16:14Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqspydgl9kw0da2rs3lf2n348gtkujqtjjgc8v7zzsqm40wp2pp49fgzyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwzadtq2 I needed this. Maybe you do too.<br/> <img src="https://files.strangeobject.space/media_attachments/files/113/103/345/052/631/628/original/d29f7606deb40ce9.jpeg"> <br/> 2024-09-08T18:28:05Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsf24danm9luufmmg0z9ygl9u0vtzhnww7dgf7yen6l6ceqg3c6mtczyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dw5xe45t In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsp60w0wc3x072t442h649ku29ypgqy6smt9rz6qtyygsjwjf00p3gpnjmqy'>nevent1q…jmqy</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Yeah, actually. While the support groups are “just show up,” this social requires pre-registering by emailing someone first, so I can reach out them. 2024-09-05T17:35:51Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqszf8sgv03keadzltkfcawzk84m8t0hgq35pms77mamhwlqvj5yvzczyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwqxgjct There’s a queer billiards social at the queer community center tonight I could maybe go to but I feel like I spent my spoons going to the fail support group there last night 2024-09-05T17:22:37Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsddvqvum8n9mjymyrh8z84ujfm88cncx6fxszyaztmwlgrzsy9kngzyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwvuf2rg In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsz7zq9zugja8uhyl0nagmaghhqlpnfhdacxfguj0npqmnxcggxc5c2n8st6'>nevent1q…8st6</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Home. Gonna play more No Man’s Sky.<br/><br/>I’ve been in a spiral over the past week+ now and I’ve been coping by focusing on style/fashion/makeup instead of Posting Through It this time.<br/><br/>Therapist 1 cancelled our appointment this week. I tried to set up an appointment with Therapist 2, but she’s on vacation.<br/><br/>Decided to go to the support group, since Wednesday evenings usually aren’t free. Another miss.<br/><br/>I feel so alone and stuck and it seems like the Universe is laughing at me for trying. 2024-09-05T00:18:33Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsz7zq9zugja8uhyl0nagmaghhqlpnfhdacxfguj0npqmnxcggxc5czyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dw79c5jf In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9dkhu2ulv9j5dfftnragk8hnrgux9e9jwgkn56zn8t4hv9ppcc2gw2xkrz'>nevent1q…xkrz</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Go to the queer community center to be social and find community they said. It will be fun, they said.<br/><br/>So many wasted spoons getting myself to this. Ugh. 2024-09-04T23:43:41Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs9dkhu2ulv9j5dfftnragk8hnrgux9e9jwgkn56zn8t4hv9ppcc2gzyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwu9ptx7 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs83ag0gamy4x9vrt79uk2u3p3eh7utus57dzcduffz6ffs7ucyxkg65z0yg'>nevent1q…z0yg</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Yeah we’re leaving. Waste of time. 🙃 2024-09-04T23:30:13Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs83ag0gamy4x9vrt79uk2u3p3eh7utus57dzcduffz6ffs7ucyxkgzyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwx053uu In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswe0t75ylvq987mmvmatat2vqz40gzn6aqvzlmal027xmy708at9gswklh6'>nevent1q…klh6</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Well this meeting started 15 minutes ago, there are only two of us here, and neither of us are the facilitator. 🙃<br/><br/>Maybe I should facilitate my own support. 2024-09-04T23:14:50Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqswe0t75ylvq987mmvmatat2vqz40gzn6aqvzlmal027xmy708at9gzyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dw6y7pv7 Made to the disability support group at local queer community center. It’s my first time here, ever. 💜<br/><br/>(I tried to go to a transfem support group here a decade ago and was turned away, so I’ve been hesitant to try again since coming out) 2024-09-04T23:05:01Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs9uxmp9qlsrflg023g7sftm6822f6huwawqg445d2lx3eetvgd0zgzyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwhqreup In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxxvv5yszap9rk4up2kn3ylrvupf22y6tqn08egdd60kfccyhjh2qrue6gt'>nevent1q…e6gt</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I tried to post pics and it didn’t work. Instance issue? 2024-09-02T20:59:47Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsdtax3nz2jyd66ypnty5ucxgh3mlkh4k7rpngv7pxuuxvv7hqq6ngzyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dw4q77ef I think a lot of hate towards people being their authentic selves and living intentionally is the haters not having the courage to do the same for themselves. 2024-08-30T14:23:02Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqspayhamndkmf82gh3dfwt7naxq625yhn5eqx030vdnmy2thtwrsnczyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwzxapc4 Frog friend!<br/> <img src="https://files.strangeobject.space/media_attachments/files/113/028/830/938/025/712/original/4071d9415d632efe.jpeg"> <br/> 2024-08-26T14:38:10Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs9cvpd74euntenzsm8uzvexlza4szkf48alr9740lw8rxaha8esgszyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwelt9k5 finding your people helps you realize there was never anything wrong with you 2024-08-26T03:40:07Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsg38tlj7yvt2km0s3sv9ghqfk8qy3m53fqtvwq5035k9glksd0m7gzyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwtlgad5 Harry Potter tattoos have a higher regret rate than gender affirming surgeries. 2024-08-25T14:53:38Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsv96kzm56vd8w22t9x6ugqpvhpkl5krvsq4kzca0caks5wn8rec5szyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwjlyj99 It’s never too late to transition.<br/><br/>First pic: Feb 2023, the day I came out and decided to transition.<br/><br/>Second pic: August 2024, 18 months later<br/><br/>Treat yourself to authentic living and joy, you deserve it and are worth it. <br/><br/>#TransitionTimeline<br/> <img src="https://files.strangeobject.space/media_attachments/files/113/018/444/215/466/444/original/6d11e9d6445252be.jpeg"> <br/> <img src="https://files.strangeobject.space/media_attachments/files/113/018/444/405/887/598/original/cc0c959b9c435533.jpeg"> <br/> 2024-08-24T18:36:46Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsvfd502r9cdgp43ypzdjtdwjk9fh7vanqdr7v98fepg7qkt7f5h8qzyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dw9r2a43 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsydasym69yalejyljz3hdv69c4da4r42ws7xgs5zmj3942dw4cwaq4e7gjc'>nevent1q…7gjc</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I am, please pass along! 2024-08-23T19:51:48Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsymkmhwc8c0nrtx68f84k59dee4rarkt72nzlks4a300qn9ntznsczyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwdctltq In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszxva45mmp9s7zwncf6cpq26c4csz08tuufevvpcwy5z6303dxuggwsjhs2'>nevent1q…jhs2</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>the scary witch in the woods is just a queer and neurodivergent woman trying to live her best life, leave her alone 2024-08-23T17:47:22Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqszxva45mmp9s7zwncf6cpq26c4csz08tuufevvpcwy5z6303dxuggzyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwnpcayy So many “villains” in stories are just marginalized people who are sick of being treated like shit 2024-08-23T17:45:50Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs2ru980munuwrg777j03klqjsuwvk6qnjqnxzf4t2hflc82tjrwzczyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwwd02mz I’m a very visual person, so find myself on Pinterest a lot, secondary to Masto, and I’d love an ad and tracking free version of it.<br/><br/>Literally I just get to search, collect, and organize pictures into different boards, and it’s a very grounding activity, even if there’s no “material results” from doing so. 2024-08-23T17:01:58Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqswtmyhcp72zh5v62gagtsf206gxvzal8grv62228jca55rg0y4v6qzyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dw2hwz9d Pretty bad brain morning. Will you share with me a way I have positively impacted you in some way? 💜 2024-08-22T13:53:21Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs8h0x4nr33ewc6dsk70dz9s5nhjclt6e74zmy2vd7ndy3qcs8jx6gzyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwpe69c3 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswy70u6halrqzrmxf9c3wkvkk9ndsh7scpthhzknxqeng639ar0accp8zdj'>nevent1q…8zdj</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Thank you! I’ve never considered Ruby before, but it jumped out at me more than I expected. Added to my list! 2024-08-21T02:05:25Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsrfqrkamxv3y3rqg2ke8dyrd0a74emw0n59fjz3d03t2c2yf9dm4gzyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dw93kvzv In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqquvvnwxlke92k289pvppf8ml40zn9qp9c9vjj762amlluw8t43su6v2na'>nevent1q…v2na</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Yeah, I need a fae femme name, perhaps that starts with T, but I don’t want to limit myself.<br/><br/>Open to ideas, if anyone has any. 💜 2024-08-21T00:14:19Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsqquvvnwxlke92k289pvppf8ml40zn9qp9c9vjj762amlluw8t43szyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwn0gx86 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs04wn7zacj6r2guur89tjrwwnzxzn543h42xmh27rrfnkp0w63yfgx099je'>nevent1q…99je</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>If I choose a new middle name that evokes the doll and starts with T, I can use Jade T. Pixel, use JT for short again, and keep Jade as armor. This time first + middle initials instead of first + last initials. 🤔 2024-08-21T00:09:47Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs04wn7zacj6r2guur89tjrwwnzxzn543h42xmh27rrfnkp0w63yfgzyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwuqwf65 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxgcrseuygh4qsk87qqtt5ku6f7qfgtvxq9clzke64gg6x9trfl3s6w7cdk'>nevent1q…7cdk</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>From college onward, I went by the nickname JT, which I actually still kind of vibe with, and blogged and kink’d under the name J.T. Revner. JT is my birth name initials.<br/><br/>I’ve always been picky about names and identity and because my birth name and last name are so boring and common, I had considered legally changing my name to J.T. Revner before I came out as trans. However, as I got more into a career and moving in tech spaces, I dropped that name completely and went back to birth name, until I came out.<br/><br/>Jade really is the name of my main protector part, and now I feel like I want to pick a name for the doll part as I unmask and embody her more. 2024-08-20T23:54:53Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsxgcrseuygh4qsk87qqtt5ku6f7qfgtvxq9clzke64gg6x9trfl3szyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dw0se66a I asked that question about names both because I’m finally going to file for a name change on Friday but also have been weighing the idea of making some changes.<br/><br/>Jade feels like armor to me, armor that is me, yes, but no longer quite evokes how I feel. One thought is that government ID doesn’t define me and is perhaps the perfect place to use this armor.<br/><br/>My current middle name is Ember, which I like a lot, but am not sure I actually want to be called it by others (I also really haven’t tested this).<br/><br/>Last name is Pixel because fuck my dad but mostly because Rule of Cool and it sounds like the last name of a cyberpunk protagonist. Life is too short not to have fun.<br/><br/>I also have a True Name, I’ve only shared with a few people, but frankly after recent events, that one doesn’t feel great either. 2024-08-20T23:50:17Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsdp9e5j0ca6z6fw299em8nkmfq8uy4f8gfwqeenteynkmlv4j9zwczyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwjvez8t you’re doing great bitch keep it up 2024-08-20T21:16:40Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs8vksz5huygz0j52js27sv943y6mkf93kv40hpemw2jj9lxlggjegzyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dw4v4u6f &gt; We’re we here fuck we’re shit queer up<br/> <img src="https://files.strangeobject.space/media_attachments/files/112/990/995/930/352/308/original/70a6f6a83cec916f.jpeg"> <br/> 2024-08-19T22:16:14Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsd4lgn0ra7erzd6w5u3znypt8nxf7gw4u3gsy2pd6y34v2rhtzcyczyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwqm4vt0 It’s been an interesting 18 months for sure. Excited for the next 18!<br/><br/>#TransitionTimeline<br/> <img src="https://files.strangeobject.space/media_attachments/files/112/979/794/162/083/613/original/369ef929a0cd02f2.png"> <br/> 2024-08-17T22:47:31Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsdxv7ss0nzhcsartdeqwenda6zn23uhkkkvglh64x0kcdrhte0e7czyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dw5ga555 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsr4h3xa6l0xalekg4m8e3x8hqn55x7cfrymzphesu2uzfcn8zduuc3efg6s'>nevent1q…fg6s</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>No, it’s not sarcastic. I’m so used to invasive questions about my transition that being able to share that I’m recovering and simply being wished well, without her asking for details, was a positive interaction. Most of my family are very nosy and don’t respect boundaries. 2024-08-17T21:03:21Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs9u8ysuarrazudlghhharnnjv353uvdl6zpvla72qyh3u2n9pt44szyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwwndk9v My aunt texted me to see how I’m doing and I told her I’m recovering from surgery and she did NOT ask me what kind of surgery I got and, wow, how refreshing.<br/><br/>More of this please. 2024-08-17T20:17:56Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsqqeptrdj80lyw42hxp4k9a074lxx6v9zlwswzrs35jdvdrnu52agzyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwyte06w In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsth7836h7vvxvu2qe3chr6ne9ms9gkpez59vhmzlfus03ushu9wfs86vjzj'>nevent1q…vjzj</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Thank you! 2024-08-16T08:52:51Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsz4x6r0cwghesyx4d4gjtfnl3yz2emvlwe24wusptnc93gsz7w69czyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwpdmjmq Today is the day!<br/> <img src="https://files.strangeobject.space/media_attachments/files/112/970/826/575/730/282/original/f32cff114c8883e9.jpeg"> <br/> 2024-08-16T08:46:54Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqspcaj9jsx7cjyucg9adr6fw73r77nfuj43sus2wrenu5ednn9uwjqzyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwrgxm3q “My child is just fine.”<br/><br/>Sir, your child apologizes for apologizing. 2024-08-15T02:32:36Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsv3klc459fxz6xp8qc82cmrcq9umwvkaftrq4rer96yrtmsc60n7czyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dww69ycf - If you’re not sure, keep your fucking mouth shut and listen<br/>- If you’re white and the topic is racism, you especially need to shut the fuck up and listen<br/>- Calling out trans people for racism isn’t transphobia or transmisogyny<br/>- Anecdotally, I’ve blocked more white transfems for racism and TERFy anti-(trans)masculinity gender essentialism on this platform than any other group of people<br/>- Just because you’re marginalized at one intersection doesn’t mean you understand what it’s like to live with other marginalized identities<br/>- Don’t assume you have nothing to learn (this includes me FWIW, I’m far from perfect)<br/>- Just because you don’t see racism or understand something as racist, doesn’t mean it’s not<br/><br/>Listening to and believing other people’s lived experiences is antifascism 101, and quite frankly, being a decent person 101. This is table stakes. If you can’t do this, stay the fuck out of anti-oppression discourse, go read a book on intersectionality, and touch grass. 2024-08-14T19:02:09Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsd50xtp4pv4t8jlrhpjwyex9an97s9ve8h4xmqzq67cx75nej2qagzyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwyp42uz Just in case no one told you:<br/><br/>- Good morning<br/>- I believe in you<br/>- You’re doing great<br/>- You’ve got this!<br/>- Nice ass<br/><br/>💜 2024-08-14T12:33:57Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs8srmgylegqdk32mtannhsgg5kh5yh2ywpnu7zwxtkd44y9cp4vzczyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwyenwyg If you think trans people get upset when we’re misgendered, try accidentally misgendering a cis person’s dog or baby. 2024-08-11T02:29:14Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsve6wsgsku8yunezs2vjvy8hg5w40fxd3scgwa0h562gjwaevsheczyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwwf7nmd In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9t3leylezngm3ncec9j7lwj6f8xrw8qjnmgamy33sa7yr0px562qz9u74u'>nevent1q…u74u</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I learned empathy skill for my father, first, because soothing his pain means safety for me. And as I got to the world, I had to adapt this skill to new people, new interactions, and new intersections.<br/><br/>But the skill was ultimately limited by not being in-tune with my own emotions. 2024-08-01T23:56:20Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs9t3leylezngm3ncec9j7lwj6f8xrw8qjnmgamy33sa7yr0px562qzyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dwv2u6uu Because I wasn’t able to safely express my pain in childhood and was always managing my father’s emotions, I turned my autistic pattern recognition skill to human social interactions, but particularly pain and suffering. I developed a skill of empathy to some extent because expressing my compassion for those in pain was a way to express my pain.<br/><br/>This mix of compassion and suppression turned into caretaking and, at my worst, codependency. 2024-08-01T23:53:21Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsw3zmsax3w8sxuvmxqz9tjrzqtersf95rx8txafvahpz6zurwnefgzyrh5q6v3ug0hazdw43l63xvq0wurfjs3zd07hjfcv029k6ua459dw9ldg0w Punk is whatever makes you happy that irritates those used to having control. 2024-07-29T23:12:15Z