2026-05-31T13:06:28Z https://njump.me jamel https://njump.me/npub1ar6ffkfl7ct38r86m52ffdnseu476pdrltrdna9c6crjdltyp09s4dt2zz https://image.nostr.build/103c88f5aeac147aca131d6452fe260ff33e4f9c32eb838da528a9186e37a629.jpg https://image.nostr.build/103c88f5aeac147aca131d6452fe260ff33e4f9c32eb838da528a9186e37a629.jpg https://njump.me/nevent1qqs8wes8gjf2kewm4nlr4r7nlcstsahe6czn4xenxma4t5gcd8lednczyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukzhrsvt there will be days when love alone will not be enough. there will be days when you are both stretched thin, when disappointment sits quietly between you, when you are irritated, restless, or withdrawn. there will be days when nothing dramatic has happened, yet everything feels heavier than usual, and you cannot reach for each other the way you used to. <br/>but a kind partner remains kind, even in these moments when everything feels frayed. they do not use their exhaustion as permission to wound you. they do not let their anger spill into cruelty. they choose gentleness not because it is easy, but because they understand that tenderness is the backbone of a relationship, not the decoration.<br/>there will be days when one of you says the wrong thing, when miscommunication throws you off course, when insecurity surfaces after being quiet for months. and yet a kind partner does not treat your vulnerability as a flaw to be mocked or a weakness to be exploited. they respond with patience, they soften their voice instead of raising it, and they keep their words clean even when their emotions are messy. <br/>their first instinct is not to win the argument but to protect the bond. a kind partner understands that conflict is a natural part of love, but cruelty never has to be.<br/>kindness is not the absence of frustration; it is the presence of restraint. it is the ability to pause before reacting. it is the willingness to ask, “what do you need from me right now?” even when their own emotions are loud. <br/>kindness shows up in the smallest gestures like a glass of water placed quietly beside you when you’re overwhelmed, a gentle hand on your back when you’re turned away, the softening of their own disappointment because they know yours is already taking up too much space. it is in these tiny mercies that love survives the ordinary storms.<br/>and kindness is steady. it understands that relationships are made of countless invisible moments that never make it to social media or romantic clichés. it’s in the way they check if you got home safely even after a disagreement. it’s in the way they remember the things that make you anxious and adjust their behaviour without being asked. it’s in the shared silence after an argument where you both choose to stay instead of distancing yourself out of pride. that quiet decision to stay soft is what builds trust brick by brick.<br/>there will be days when you falter, days when you say more than you mean or withdraw more than you should. and a kind partner will not punish you for being human. they will not weaponize your mistakes against you. they will not throw your past back at you during every disagreement. they know that love requires repair, not perfection. they know that tenderness during conflict is not a luxury but a necessity. <br/>a kind partner sees the emotional landscape inside you, all your valleys of fear, the cliffs of self-doubt, the forests of old wounds, and they walk through it carefully, not because they need to fix you, but because they want to understand you.<br/>kindness makes space for you to breathe. it lets you speak without performing, cry without explaining, and express without bracing yourself for judgment. it’s the kind of love that doesn’t need spectacle or intensity; it thrives in the mundane. it’s in slow mornings when you’re both tired, in late-night arguments that resolve softly, in apologies whispered into the warmth of a shared bed. kindness gives love a quiet longevity. it keeps the relationship from becoming a battlefield where both of you defend instead of connect.<br/>choice matters more than chemistry. you can fall in love with anyone’s charm, but you can only build a life with someone’s character. charm fades during stress; kindness becomes louder. chemistry sparks at the beginning; kindness sustains the years. a kind partner will not make you feel alone while you are still standing next to them. they won’t turn every disagreement into a test of loyalty. they won’t turn your fears into burdens. instead, they’ll hold your trembling hands with the same care they hold your joyful ones. <br/>kindness steadies what passion ignites.<br/>there will also be days when love is effortless, days filled with laughter, ease, lightness, but those days are not what truly define the relationship. the real test is how you treat each other when life stops cooperating. how you speak when emotions run high. how you hold space when nothing is going well. a kind partner meets you there with gentleness because they know that care is most needed in the dark, not the light.<br/>whatever else you choose in life, career, city, dreams, choose a partner who chooses kindness every single day. <br/>someone who does not abandon tenderness when life becomes inconvenient. someone whose rage never frightens you, whose silence never punishes you, whose presence never belittles you. choose the one who treats you with care even when they are angry, the one who respects your heart even when theirs is aching. kindness is not the soft-hearted option; it is the strongest one. it’s what keeps the relationship from cracking under pressure, what turns two flawed humans into a safe home for one another.<br/>love can make your heart race, but kindness is what keeps it safe. and in the end, safety is not boring; it is sacred. it is the quiet miracle that lets love last.<br/><br/>#introductions 2026-07-30T01:07:50Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsgcjrwsje2u0yldxxq9ulxgldcd2tzcvw5yjz4ze0gly92ltuxl6qzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukm6d4s2 There is no country on earth where a child will be sent to prison because they scored an F in an exam.<br/><br/>But every day, people lose their freedom, destroy their futures, or even lose their lives because of poor character, lack of discipline, greed, dishonesty, or violence.<br/><br/>Yet many parents panic over grades and ignore character.<br/><br/>If your child leaves school with integrity, discipline, empathy, resilience, and the ability to do the right thing even when nobody is watching, you’ve already won.<br/><br/>Academics can open doors.<br/><br/>Character determines what happens after those doors open.<br/><br/>The greatest product of any school should not be straight A’s.<br/><br/>It should be responsible human beings.<br/><br/>What’s your view?<br/><br/>#introductions 2026-07-28T04:44:09Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsr7xhhagptst4ypusjkkpu7h7j3e3g8dll4qlmqhk9py5yj3thszczyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukk884ut This is the reality of that non virgin you want to get married to and be treating like an egg.<br/><br/>Other men had their turns with her for years, leaving their dna inside of her and marking their territory.<br/><br/>Whereas there&#39;s you going to kneel down to propose to her, then spending millions on her bride price and marriage lists, and after that, you must have to provide for her for the rest of your life and never fail in your financial responsibility as a husband.<br/><br/>But remember, the day you face financial issues is the day she&#39;ll leave you for another man, but mind you, you won&#39;t still escape the Okafor&#39;s law during your years of marriage.<br/><br/>Any of her exes can still have her anytime they want because they know her mumu button. All it will take is just a text or a call away.<br/><br/>Settle for a non virgin at your own peril!<br/><br/>#introductions<br/><br/><video controls width="100%" class="max-h-[90vh] bg-neutral-300 dark:bg-zinc-700"><source src="https://video.nostr.build/bfdf3f49c0ee52bad10a6586e3bed54df2ce605437916e6f4af0f10a36c78482.mp4"></video> 2026-07-24T15:02:35Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsfkjn88yzvcq5f8yf0gd0m3lf0qx3xajfapk6uke2mx55xsjueemqzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukcztg7y 90% of modern women don’t want a husband.<br/><br/>They want a calm, high-earning, emotionally stable ATM who tolerates their mood swings, finances their lifestyle, and never complains when they weaponize sex or disrespect him.<br/><br/>They want traditional provision with zero traditional submission.<br/><br/>A lot of men are out here killing themselves at work, destroying their health, and coming home to a woman who treats them like an annoying roommate with benefits.<br/><br/>Your sweat has value. Never finance a woman who despises your leadership.<br/><br/>#introductions 2026-07-12T07:12:50Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsttnmn2u8eg9mkn56xzhxejs7cjhxm7v7psuxz33eyyetmjls599czyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukfxrkyu In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxacgq9qdg4acjjn3z8azd4vsp6r5neyfctxuglalanysxwfmpy3gprpmhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuumwdae8gtnnda3kjctv8req9w'>nevent1q…eq9w</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>If a woman reaches 30 unmarried with no children her body count is way beyond 30. Most likely closer to 100. Once a woman surpasses 5 she loses bonding abilities and starts sleeping around and cheating adding on average 5 bodies a month. 2026-07-03T02:53:47Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsxacgq9qdg4acjjn3z8azd4vsp6r5neyfctxuglalanysxwfmpy3gzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uk47ymvx Women used to be 30 years old married with 3 children and a husband living in a house they owned, with a high enough standard of living that she didn’t even need to work and could stay home.<br/><br/>Now 30 year old women have slept with 30 guys, have no children, are not married, live in an apartment and have to go to work full time just to survive.<br/><br/>This isn’t progress, this is societal decline and a dramatically lower quality of life being sold to women as their liberation when in reality it is their enslavement.<br/><br/>#introductions 2026-07-03T02:52:45Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqststsslkmepwlk3j38tg0uermc022x2qg9r34cqlac2zhkhfvlcpszyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukqvg7f7 Freedom <br/><br/>#introductions 2026-06-19T15:46:36Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsy68v0u5c8quwmrutjs4ekfyafw8efdtfq8h36z3kzv2vc2qd2wqgzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uk7ha2rj In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqqqzrp6pjzp2dtnnvregz4q5hz7aant3cmutkeyznlv9ayepksygg5qzc7'>nevent1q…qzc7</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>NATO is a criminal and terrorist organization 2026-04-06T15:53:47Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsyknxdcfx2mwqttvj3uqs4nlyeyszc4lenlevgz2reu5maujcrx9qzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uk4m7ju4 A girl can have 10 boyfriends but still make you feel like you are the only one. That&#39;s the talent Satan gave them. 2026-01-12T18:12:28Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsypux0asyqswgmumpzeltads78yh4ssfjp5mqy3hpzeuvdmufp2tqzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukn2dket In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspm6s5g3aypf397j2fv7al5zw7xnuxy9uyef4lvnd8mduqml92r7qgwwf7u'>nevent1q…wf7u</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Just be a good person cause you want to, don’t even expect anything back cause you’ll be sooo disappointed 2026-01-11T06:49:21Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqspm6s5g3aypf397j2fv7al5zw7xnuxy9uyef4lvnd8mduqml92r7qzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukp7mfds Unfortunately there are no benefits to being a good person. 2026-01-11T06:48:58Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs845w7e7s874kttyzsghpwn4amacs3hjffsjxs4k6mlqzyfp02uxczyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukkrexgu In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsve7q3ctkhxlqszkhv9k6r6f8ukczv7rppz30ke0p2z5ntt59apuqzsqy5v'>nevent1q…qy5v</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>💯💯 2025-12-03T07:15:25Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsg7gm772l6vett5f3f6f60wwuslcqu02rg9ls0j6y0qw5wtereqmgzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uk43glrv As a man Never become a retirement plan for modern women<br/><br/> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/c197915f05112d4344774a3e1133b9069a96087ce96acf0694c4f929027b3bf6.jpg"> 2025-12-03T06:59:55Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsdrxf3k60wsmdudj3yt9w09vm5h26uj5hd3y3gstjd42957r9gtrczyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukxqdg8c I&#39;m not surprised African countries failed after independence. Things were not set up for success at independence. <br/><br/>POLITICAL PROBLEMS<br/>1. Many African countries were ruled via traditional authorities (indirect rule) for most of the colonial era and representative democracy didn&#39;t become the norm till about a decade before independence. <br/><br/>This led to the subversion of traditional institutions (making them lapdogs to the modern state, both colonial and post colonial) while having nascent democratic institutions that weren&#39;t yet mature enough for independent rule. <br/><br/>This broke political continuity from the past, as traditional political institutions were transformed into social institutions while the newly formed political institutions hadn&#39;t been tested long enough to be certain of viability. <br/><br/>2. Most African countries, if not all, had a barely educated and poorly educated elite class. Very few university graduates, and most of them in the arts and humanities, rather than in STEM or business. <br/><br/>The new elites in most cases did not have the organizational capabilities or human capital of the colonizers they replaced. In many cases they did not even have the common sense of the colonizers. <br/><br/>3. Most African countries were incoherent. They were nations only on the map, but lacked the kind of linguistic, ethnic, religious and cultural coherence required for nationhood. <br/><br/>This meant that the democratic institutions that were still in their infancy were dealing with levels of complexity that their European colonial masters did not deal with in their own countries. <br/><br/>Inter ethnic squabbling became the main feature of politics in most African countries. <br/><br/>4. Most African countries had government control over the capital cities and a few other cities but largely ignored rural areas. The government only had effective control in the cities. <br/><br/>Thus, despite having a minority of the population in urban areas, those urban centers had a disproportionate political influence. <br/><br/>The ethnic incoherence and the disproportionate urban influence often meant that the political elites were alienated from the majority of their population since they did not possess the same ethnic or social background as their population. Their policies often reflected this alienation. <br/><br/>ECONOMIC PROBLEMS<br/>5. African countries had a very rudimentary and unsophisticated economy at independence, with economic output limited to low value products.<br/><br/>6. Independence era governments inherited colonial economies in the sense that the entire economies of countries were designed to fit into an empire&#39;s economy as a source of a specific raw material and nothing else. Local needs were secondary to the need to export that single product. Infrastructure was geared towards that goal rather than meeting local needs. <br/><br/>7. African countries were usually mono economies with the bulk of exports being from one product: A natural resource like gold or diamond, or a crop like cocoa. Economies grew and died based on the price of that one product on the global market. <br/><br/>8. Often the rural agricultural population whose economic activities was the major component of the country&#39;s economy subsidized the urban population. The gains from their enterprise was nationalized while the benefits went to building more schools and providing more unnecessary government jobs in cities. <br/><br/>9. Industries that required technical skill were still in European hands at independence. Many African countries simply transferred control to less competent hands with nationalization policies. <br/><br/>SUMMARY<br/>The demographic composition of the countries and the radical political changes that took place over a short period meant that African countries were much more politically complex than European countries while having much weaker and untested political institutions and infrastructure. <br/><br/>The economies of most countries were colonial economies and there was no local knowhow to transform them into national economies. 2025-12-02T05:44:18Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsdz894cmfxrlesspvwgx5ef9savayp929f5leyrypkx86vu8ef5vszyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uk8wduhe It’s wild how sex clears a man’s mind. Before it, desire paints everything in gold. After it, reality steps in, the noise fades, and he finally sees you for who you are, not who his hormones imagined. That’s when he decides if he wants you or just the moment. 2025-11-01T03:49:56Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs9xt7uqep9x2cdu0l25uq3pwtez5xsq26d400jjqyr5gjzz23zjcszyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukjxkvf0 Intimacy exposes character. <br/>That’s why men pause to think after, not before.<br/><br/>Sex is data. Men analyze, then decide. <br/>That’s just the logic of attraction.<br/><br/>Men don’t commit to bodies, they commit to aligned energy. <br/>Sex tells the story. 2025-11-01T03:48:52Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsf7klda9d4jkre5f9y7xrzfxln95mksd82wmswdflhq8ve96mwq9czyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uk46n5s5 The world only respects results not intentions. A man’s value multiplies when he builds himself, so he should never settle for less than what matches his growth, peace, and purpose. 2025-10-26T13:55:42Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs98wvxjezp4krz6l7q80auugytadjsewqkgt8kvqczgcacz0grq9gzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uk793axq Women are all curved from the same Tree... Soon as you push them to be better they will leave you for what the believe they deserve... The Entitlement is legendary.. And the funny part is the idiots in these positions don&#39;t learn. 2025-10-21T15:17:44Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsrcgymalu6t7rtm5gyvdcrwc9glv22z46kd8aq976u5x5dka8fp4gzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukxwjlqw Order creates peace. A woman under no authority lives in chaos<br/><br/>First her father, then her husband—that’s structure not oppression<br/><br/>Submission isn’t weakness, it’s alignment<br/><br/>Rebellion destroys homes; obedience builds legacy<br/><br/>Respecting hierarchy is what keeps love &amp; peace intact 2025-10-20T11:28:09Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs27uzverhn9ku2ag7v67vwv0rmz28lzh832wuh9m9ec090hnjxe6czyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukqh2pr8 A woman who cannot be controlled or being told what to do by her man cannot stay married. It doesn&#39;t matter how much she earns. 2025-10-20T11:27:07Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsz66ysun5l5ufshvr8jfw8n9l7h4hm480etc8lm6h9t78eza5zmxqzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukdj6duv Please do anything legal and legitimate to escape poverty.<br/> <br/>The world is cruel to a poor man. 2025-08-25T08:31:39Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsfynmyapqqkpztjz6c2l7398e2cfvyhfq8rwr9untg7kz0wf8kltqzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uk6d2a95 Here’s the blunt truth: you cannot control your daughter’s choices or dictate behaviour like flipping a switch. What you can do is raise a daughter who values herself, knows her worth, and makes decisions from a place of strength, not fear. 2025-08-25T08:31:11Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsz65j6xav74vc0fsc3yxg0r4k6q0yauwzez5v0sxac75r05k322cgzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukt33005 evolves.<br/><br/>Chasing more is human nature. <br/><br/>But without direction, it becomes a trap.<br/><br/>Ambition is powerful, but it must be paired with gratitude.<br/><br/>Otherwise, you climb every mountain and still feel empty at the top.<br/><br/>Pause. <br/>Reflect. <br/><br/>Appreciate the wins.<br/><br/>Then aim higher with purpose, not just impulse. 2025-07-09T07:37:24Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs80x5s584p04nfex9h4hxvjyx2gcl5crge2pm2eghystklmyd3chszyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uku4n6qc In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsp7gcsyfru9wzyhrzmwef94z3hlkazgkswf6z0hhr98m68y3kwfng363x55'>nevent1q…3x55</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Can I get the invite code jack?? 2025-07-08T07:42:27Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsv79avrwkaz4weg92wc74x0knlr08q5vedzfd9lly8jrk5kctyquqzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukp5lfvt It&#39;s only men who are foolish with the idea of love. Women are brutal and purely transactional. For a woman, it&#39;s about survival. It&#39;s about the best available option, and until men learn to control their lust, women will always use them because sex is their only power over a man 2025-07-07T01:55:59Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsfudx5lmlcekr33x953tmf36l4tkdek5mghfjwwgp677tu7z88xeqzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uketguuy Envy no one. For whatever you see, a price was paid. 2025-06-13T05:15:12Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqstcc42vl5quwrtxfujchmms9zeacdtv3xhknk7nuyztuet49ddxvgzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukxt2zzv <a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/r/16Ph413EMK/?mibextid=wwXIfr">https://www.facebook.com/share/r/16Ph413EMK/?mibextid=wwXIfr</a> 2025-06-05T07:05:40Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqszhn5r3dd600aw8zkykte79a4gljh8y59gg2kus30surw0wczylzqzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uk4ute3a To all men, What’s the hardest lesson a woman has ever taught you? 2025-06-01T19:00:14Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsdy7ekl4cassk4ukk9fu2553r5279f533a4ph3gxj7pmxxlpxcn3czyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uk9vu2sw In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsgwrcc7kdxtvqn7sn4jv63jzl8xsaxunmcnau7ghxh9scj60a4yjcej4kua'>nevent1q…4kua</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Modern dating is broken. Not because men are weak or women are evil, because the whole system’s been hacked.<br/><br/>Men want a woman who’ll never change.<br/>Women want a man they can upgrade.<br/>Those instincts worked when life was about survival.<br/><br/>Back then?<br/>Men protected and provided.<br/>Women nurtured and multiplied.<br/>Everyone knew their role, and it worked.<br/><br/>But then came birth control, dating apps, feminism, and TikTok therapists.<br/><br/>Now?<br/>•95% of women chase the top 5% of men<br/>•Even average women think average men are beneath them<br/>•Birth control literally warps attraction (yes, science says that)<br/>•Women marry a “Simp” while hormonally altered… then lose attraction post-pill<br/>•Everyone’s lonely, confused, over-stimulated, and under-loved<br/><br/>This isn’t about hate. It’s about truth.<br/>Until we admit what’s actually happening, relationships and marriage will stay broken and bitter. 2025-06-01T18:37:15Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs82nkvhaf69y5f09d2nvchhq6xdcls5rgas862xmq8y5jhv2rqs2gzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uk86dmya Because women are wired for survival - not fairy tales.<br/>Love is optional. Security is not.<br/><br/>A rich man sees beauty, youth, and peace and builds an empire around it.<br/>A rich woman sees a broke man and thinks: liability, burden, weakness.<br/><br/>Women don’t look down to build. They look up to climb.<br/>That’s why hypergamy exists.<br/>That’s why your love means nothing if your wallet is gasping for air.<br/><br/>Harsh truth?<br/>Men love romantically. Women love strategically.<br/>She doesn’t care about your struggle story.<br/>She cares if the story ends in comfort, status, and certainty.<br/><br/>So no, she doesn’t love you for you.<br/>She loves the version of you that wins.<br/><br/>Build that version or get used to being invisible. 2025-06-01T18:13:01Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsq5wtsxqze8hjqxzaw93f8kcvpepmvpalnuja6979qqh3arnnvw3qzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uklgjr58 Nobody gives a damn about how you feel.<br/>They only care about what you do.<br/>You&#39;re rewarded for results, not emotions.<br/>Pain is the entrance fee—man up or stay broke 2025-05-27T06:04:15Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsr0p5qag8mg84f9yze6mv6my3jsr22wacsyq4d69fvylhkmwctl0szyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uky5xq3x Nobody cares about your happiness.<br/>Your girlfriend can leave you tomorrow.<br/>Your best friend can randomly betray you.<br/><br/>All you really have in this world is yourself.<br/><br/>Be selfish, grind hard, take what you want. 2025-05-27T06:03:32Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs8kk47d9vnkh5qmdprlxg0h0s4ase5q5dn6nmdp2jz0ep8ra8t37szyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uk49w67q One harsh truth I&#39;ve accepted: No one’s coming to save me. As a man, your pain is often invisible, your effort expected, and your failure judged more than understood. But owning that truth gave me power—because now I know it&#39;s on me, and I’m capable of carrying it. 2025-05-27T06:02:17Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsg3s82ygmyyxuzxd88ylej2z8n2lfgg9qsrqmjk2t0klrqsrrypdczyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukgqzwnc At 40, I’ve uncovered the most uncomfortable truth; that I was never meant to be happy. Life doesn’t shatter you, it erodes you, dream by dream, until even hope feels like a lie.<br/>And worst of all? There may never have been a point. Just noise. Just time. Just decay. 2025-05-26T15:26:15Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsftcpqkdeec59whjch5ulxxhw5lkqtynr3ghd3um9uknqf5ce7g0qzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukcsvel4 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrcsgxyk7svnn0vddufu4j7vt8a9vqjruaukklp9a0457tgha2uhq5pgykc'>nevent1q…gykc</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Back in 1452, Pope Nicholas V gave permission to the King of Portugal, Afonso V, to fight against non-Christians, especially Muslims and people they called pagans. He gave this permission in a letter called a papal bull named Dum Diversas. In that letter, the Pope also said it was okay to capture those people and keep them as slaves forever. This gave Portugal a religious reason to begin taking African people as slaves.<br/><br/>Three years later in 1455, Pope Nicholas V wrote another letter called Romanus Pontifex. This one gave Portugal full rights to claim land they discovered and to enslave any non Christian people they found, especially in Africa. It also told other Christian countries not to interfere. This was during the time when European countries were exploring new parts of the world, so this letter gave them power to take land and enslave people in the name of the Church.<br/><br/>Because of these letters, many people believe that Pope Nicholas V helped start the slave trade in Africa. Although he did not mention Africans by race, he encouraged the idea that nonChristians could be treated as less than human. This later led to the kind of slavery where people were judged and enslaved based on their race, especially black Africans.<br/><br/>Some people say he “invented racism.” That is not fully accurate. Racism as we know it today grew over time. But it is true that Pope Nicholas V’s actions gave early support to the kind of thinking that allowed racism and slavery to grow.<br/><br/>As for the Moors, the Muslims who lived in Spain, Pope Nicholas V supported fighting them, but he did not personally expel them. That happened later in 1492, under the rule of King Ferdinand and Queen Isabella of Spain. 2025-05-19T08:35:49Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsrcsgxyk7svnn0vddufu4j7vt8a9vqjruaukklp9a0457tgha2uhqzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukwcktge They won’t teach you this in school that this Pope ordered the enslavement of people by race. <br/><br/>He told the Portuguese to go for the blackman and the Spanish for the indigenous. He is Pope Nicholas V. He invented racism and also chased out the moors. He invented racism! Through the church the enslavement of African people by other people on the basis of race begin in Europe.<br/><br/>Pope Nicholas V issued the papal bull Dum Diversas on 18 June 1452. It authorized Alfonso V of Portugal to reduce any<br/>&#34;Saracens (Muslims) and pagans and any other unbelievers&#34; to perpetual slavery.<br/>This facilitated the Portuguese slave trade from West Africa. <br/><br/>The same pope wrote the bull Romanus Pontifex on January 5, 1455, to the same Alfonso. As a follow-up to the Dum diversas, it extended to the Catholic nations of Europe&#39;s dominion over discovered lands during the Age of Discovery. <br/><br/>Along with sanctifying the seizure of non-Christian lands, it encouraged the enslavement of native, non-Christian peoples in Africa and the New World (The Americas).<br/><br/> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/ee72237218124bb445820df6f5735f4dfd268ec41516e5348750e13e24770010.jpg"> 2025-05-19T08:23:14Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsvt3m8vhk44r4qjt55sg0pvguyqvnmqtnx0d54xpxfajpcsa73g2gzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukrnjd07 Watermelon seed<br/><br/><video controls width="100%" class="max-h-[90vh] bg-neutral-300 dark:bg-zinc-700"><source src="https://video.nostr.build/ed8b7512d34aab3f3d57a7bf2818016a5babda433ccd568d78e17c5ab7958861.mp4"></video> 2025-05-18T05:41:40Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsqrfkfu5hgz2f0dj2alcprwun7wr4uazjj6gq8vgl0u4j7m86zh3czyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uk8lhx62 It&#39;s easy to destroy a BLACK MAN because his people will help you do it. 2025-04-29T14:13:07Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsvfqlwfldjv3ncphd52fqtwsftcrsxwv2l05lf46q35y9a7t369sczyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukqcvja2 Tomorrow is the hiding place of cowards.<br/>Every dream you bury under &#34;tomorrow&#34; rots inside you.<br/>The clock is ticking.<br/>The world isn&#39;t waiting.<br/>Move now — or live forever haunted by the man you could&#39;ve been. 2025-04-28T13:46:52Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs00nxrc8wnlugaawlng3h2rutmc0325sd5cgxvqm5aj5fcrl3wc3qzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukv54wje Anytime you think of commiting to a woman you didn&#39;t devirgin, just remember that there&#39;s a man out there that has a story about her and a claim to her<br/><br/>Virginity is like a grave, the first man to bury himself in it will forever be acknowledged as the true owner<br/><br/>Even if another man gets buried in it, people will always say man B was buried in man A&#39;s grave<br/><br/>To be more graphic, once there&#39;s more than one person buried in it, it is now a mass grave. Mass graves are haunted by different restless souls<br/><br/>Yet we have young men today commiting and paying large sums to bury their penises in these mass graves. Without an atom of shame, they brag proudly &#34;my girlfriend, my wife&#34; to a mass grave<br/><br/>What a circus<br/><br/>Learn OR perish!!! 2025-03-15T16:33:25Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsteepp8scd20ez8spmsf8kkdp4dzmeph7wzqpmkafngpz3zhd929qzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukn4dk40 Character inconsistency reveals itself in two ways: devaluing others based on perceived lack, and inflating them based on perceived wealth. True integrity lies in assessing worth through the lens of actions, not assets. 2025-03-11T08:55:26Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsdr3g34zv0v42sdmrj2sf966w4rmqanuphkl73x5yztldd3rqch2szyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukxyhg07 No woman is in love with you, she is there because you are the best option. If she sees someone better than you like this scenario she will abandon you. 2025-03-01T13:05:45Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs8t205n63nkgkde0evt6aaau5tlmlp0a3xmccpquauezr0a3xluqgzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukahz0uz No woman is doing a BBL surgery and staying faithful to a man. The entire point of that procedure is to be a hoe 2025-02-26T17:31:06Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsvxk4z3glqhyxuppw7rwxaz06se8najtf704x9kngt6jxnfhtekngzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uk963mv5 You don&#39;t ask a woman, what she brings to the table.<br/>You prepare your own table, &amp; you decide if she&#39;s worth dining on it.<br/>She can help you rearrange the table, to the admiration of yourself, &amp; others.<br/>But you must first have a table, even if the legs are incomplete. 2025-02-13T00:31:41Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs07ry5hhf0qg4xfugnc3xe62g7ut49fxupv06hn35dztp4sx6973szyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uk6hcykz <img src="https://image.nostr.build/5a61ec892f1581fd89f7c85e00cd6176c0f32349462b1ce8ef34784b8cf3457b.jpg"> 2025-02-10T21:24:20Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs92lna4rldfxchp8le56jmhzmshd35xr8jwvkd3tjftcp4tl3hjlgzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukmndj47 A man must do whatever he can legitimately, to provide for his family.<br/>Even if it will warrant him to be distant from them, due to his work.<br/>And sadly, even if you send her Nim as monthly upkeep, it will never compensate for your long absence.<br/>Money, is not penis. 2025-02-03T07:59:42Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsda4hejr0vlctrm3k2r3hzmef0f5f7gppqemzcv0434ka483xxtzszyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukdrutkl men used to go to war 💔And<br/>Gays happened <video controls width="100%" class="max-h-[90vh] bg-neutral-300 dark:bg-zinc-700"><source src="https://video.nostr.build/9dd5734f5d62e38cb941740f0b0cc07df4bb44a01b9bbfb74aec882fa867735e.mp4"></video> 2025-01-28T12:20:04Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsxecm3j7c9366uvcsap2fhhyhlxqwc53pfqx3hxrz8lnmxp5q660czyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukh7ye8y <img src="https://image.nostr.build/646316c08415823bde2c31b6ef7e09a545ac3672c9458f34a13dd44b14fec084.jpg"> 2025-01-04T09:01:14Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqszs5xlpkwshsqnmvw08evdqal5hd6d3l4n7x9vulw65jdvg6dqzvgzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uk6prcg9 simps are destroying humanity 2024-11-29T07:15:27Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs8gw823zv8lr5nd2pq3eft9na5y9fw4exj0243mn4sk7c5nspf9nqzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uku0mqj9 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8uv7rzhvmuykcuym86kkqwvxfd64wspr9065tr8p0ra54hq26urswayd83'>nevent1q…yd83</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Welcome to free speech 2024-09-14T15:58:25Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsqpvhsuq0s4ft8xa7dxlklr4pxttl35fz60muahxhswxq79kya6zczyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukjvzzt8 If you want to be successful, you shouldn&#39;t be afraid of failure<br/><br/>Failure is often the best teacher. Each failure provides valuable lessons and overcoming it builds resilience. 2024-06-26T01:21:08Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsfqf60k5ekwuga7qhv6sh9pkkx5hljjg5z9r5znrwpcycm9xtvctgzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uk9nnljx A woman who seeks to be &#39;afforded&#39; is like a flower that blooms only when watered with currency. But true beauty, strength, and substance cannot be bought; they must be cultivated with love, respect, and mutual growth. 2024-06-07T10:38:49Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsgvtv9kf0khwrc207smce6xrqku3tmuw5ugwcj55q99r4v0mm5wnczyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukc3art3 Some people just think their status makes them better than their fellow man. 2024-01-03T06:47:30Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsyu2g9yr9kfsrqvqpvf68akuzr50ma236etv0yt7phjga5e73h2uczyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uk78y5m2 Some women feel entitled to your money when you both bum friendly,<br/>Some men feel entitled to ur body once he makes a transaction. It&#39;s all about exchange,<br/>YOU GIVE ME BIOLOGICAL THINGS I GIVE YOU MATERIAL THINGS 2023-12-10T13:46:28Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsg668xztf5zwa2npydeqt6mda98sfnfzdtuhrpl2qszrqjw8emylczyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uknpksju Never mistreat your man simply because you have a number of men who wants you. You might be attractive for fun but not for keeping💔💔😭 2023-11-25T16:10:12Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsdn9x8y29d5rcr5wcz63usjchn6grczqg60gmw0mt8wmzvq8zchvczyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukgslggy Choice is about Freedom to make decisions that lead to your personal happiness. Need can be a prison for your happiness, because it is controlled by someone other than you. You make a choice to fall in love, you make a choice to be happy. 2023-11-24T06:48:03Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs0dfcg2jew5sr2qx0gamcmc274p7z0vdmsxgmcq4eph883ermtg0gzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukt8njyy Waiting is linked to depression. Time spent waiting for something that may never happen can be mentally painful. 2023-11-18T03:20:27Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs0sm8p0ey3k9rtwzcjktnf6n46qcgd8rw5q6l9l8rcmsck96ur9zczyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukxdhjc0 You are the most beautiful person I have ever laid my eyes upon, everyday with you is the best day of my life and your flaws and imperfections make you that much more perfect in my eyes,I love you so much and will be me and you, you and I..forever and always 2023-11-10T14:16:24Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs8kklr2hcjujcqqz5ff9vfpgq9tz2tzndtgagzpfp6a37zcfy3l7czyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukl4kcj2 I want to sign up for a riseup account to use for email, XMPP, and VPN purposes. Are there any current users willing to share an invite code?<br/>#riseupinvite<br/>Thank you in advance 2023-11-01T02:30:28Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsvz0n5hm5v3ycrw8krzssaf0d5qmgydyv309px9h5ztk5zhkel28szyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukwzsctv One of the happiest moments ever, is when you find the courage to let go of what you can&#39;t change. 2023-10-20T15:54:01Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsw399p8gcc730va4wxu50780qklk06sqrf6zycseu4v5v5kmhlktszyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uk7yfucm In this life, some people will love you genuinely while others will only love you when it&#39;s beneficial. For those that love you genuinely, keep them close, nurture the love and always maintain and give back the same energy you get around these people.<br/>For those that only love you when it&#39;s beneficial, stay observant, stay petty and keep distance 2023-10-13T12:01:55Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs06yzaz5gnrvhvy6vrm7n3pn6j7s3xp58fcxqr5z9d5vluclzz5yszyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukzy02a6 Only men love genuinely. Women only love based on the assurance that a man can provide. 2023-09-29T21:16:57Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsrdvyf2djstg5txv3u0qrswd6re940y82qv6ygc0el79jeyszc7wczyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukygynu0 Always make yourself your number one priority. Even when no one else does 2023-09-11T18:25:19Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqswy6e8fjeatknj0axcwhtm99cuc5ysw3t75rhnm663wf5mngtl43szyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uknfy047 Forcing your partner to block<br/>someone won&#39;t change how<br/>they feel about each other. 2023-08-11T03:43:32Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqst3fhyk6szye0yez60e5e9q5c67tsqe0chzltn4tffl6gav6n4g9gzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukcq0vxw Forcing your partner to block<br/>someone won&#39;t change how<br/>they feel about each other. 2023-08-11T03:43:17Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs2nvm4e9v3qdf367lrja5urtxym42d74pmmm2k5nx5plyjs4vrarszyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukenuf9t Don&#39;t Be Truth Social<br/><br/>Fellas, the whole Truth Social experiment yesterday can be applied in real life. So after people had a falling out with Twitter over it&#39;s seemingly exploitative/abusive policies, they migrated to Truth Social. For some hours, Truth Social was the place to be. Then reality set in, it was &#34;boring&#34; &amp; by the end of the day, people were back to what they&#39;re familiar with, Twitter<br/><br/>Such is human behaviour, to always gravitate towards what you&#39;re familiar with, even more so with women. Which is why it&#39;s always best to avoid women who are 25+ yrs, because no woman reaches that age without having been tied to some guy for a couple of years<br/><br/>If a woman has not checked out of a relationship for even a year, an intimate relationship were there is sex involved, don&#39;t even attempt to date her, let alone marry her. Women don&#39;t just move from such a relationship, they never really leave, where they had invested<br/><br/>At most whenever that relationship ends, whoever she settles for next is either to get her mind off this ex. Or to get him jealous. Or the case of the biological clock running against her. But her heart will always belong to that ex of hers<br/><br/>Now you don&#39;t want to be with a woman who has some emotional attachment to another man. She&#39;ll always compare you to him &amp; guess what, you&#39;ll always fail to match up. Even if you were to give her the world, it&#39;ll never be enough<br/><br/>You&#39;re competing against her memories/history, what she&#39;s familiar with. If that guy was to pop up back into her life, 100% guaranteed she&#39;s either going to cheat or dump you without hesitation<br/><br/>A woman would rather give her best lover (ex), 2nd,3rd, 100 chances than deal with the unknown (you). Doesn&#39;t matter how you treat her, woman are loyal to their feelings not logic. You could be 10 times better than this ex of hers, but you&#39;ll always be a 0 in her eyes. Just another Truth Social. Learn OR perish!!! 2023-07-04T03:28:58Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsgdzav968ju5j680gwlx2phk6geqxlrzry5t5da3m8ydp3a2sxqqgzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uk5hmxnx In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstmy47p4uzewxfxndr9zkdre382q835lhp9c2dlknn6zh7qtp64lsah25jm'>nevent1q…25jm</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>What did this mean any explanation ?? 2023-06-19T15:45:06Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsr4syhz3zsg6mmajm4u5edq5f3qrqcxvp7mlckt4s7mknftpu0uxczyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukdmtze8 Be careful. Not everyone deserves access to your heart. One wrong visitor can destroy the place. 2023-06-08T14:04:09Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs8nx59jvss8f6jdyycvpfp5t4e0uzhatc82vf6qslj8q8j4qa2suszyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukjvjwg5 Being objectified by a high value man is VALIDATION &amp; being objectified by a low value man is HARASSMENT. E.g a whistle to a woman shaking her bums in the street is harassment but a car hooter at the same woman is validation<br/><br/>Think of the movie franchise 50 Shades Of Grey, it has made almost a billion, it&#39;s biggest fans being women. That&#39;s a lot of women unoffended by a billionaire objectifying a woman as a sexual object<br/><br/>Observe in the clubs, the rich guy will do all kinds of degrading things to women &amp; they will be laughing it off with statements like &#34;Oh my Gawd, he&#39;s so wild&#34; but let poor Timmy even so as much look at her, she&#39;ll claim harassment<br/><br/>As a man, become high value &amp; you&#39;ll get away with a lot of shit, as the women will defend &amp; justify your behavior. Learn OR perish!!! 2023-06-06T03:31:10Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqstcg2z5fl0gu5ze92a0w684dmcjhqt0jevzlnru9egnc7ksf0dzrszyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukz3nlud Marry women with money n worth pls guys, stay away from broke girls n women , Dating a broke woman is self destruction. 2023-05-24T08:41:00Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqstt8ezclqwj6qt8qq5nt7p6m0mxv4ttgp6wrxcry22s4hd9vslwnqzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uk8utxaw Men,married or single , listen <br/><br/>1) don’t forgive a woman for what she knows she shouldn’t be forgiven, she’ll punish you and blame you for it later <br/><br/>2) don’t expect a girl who left her boyfriend for you , to stay faithful to you alone <br/><br/>3) don’t give a woman what u can not lose<br/>4) cheating wasn’t a mistake<br/><br/>5) don’t borrow money from a woman, even if you do pay back as soon as you get it <br/><br/>6) don’t date a known whore<br/><br/>7) a woman who “respects “ you. Will crate boundaries between other guys <br/><br/>8) don’t get a woman pregnant ,who u’re not married to you yet<br/><br/>9) don’t go back to your ex who had gone to date other people , she won’t be the same again <br/><br/>10) avoid “hungry “ girls <br/><br/>11) women are loyal to their emotions and feelings not your sacrifice or even your “love”<br/><br/>12) avoid girls with mentality of entitlement<br/>16)Don’t marry &amp; live in ur parents house , except it was willingly willed to u by your father ..<br/><br/>17) avoid single mother ,especially if the baby father is still in the picture, <br/><br/>18) remove your eye from women’s money , it brings disrespect <br/><br/>19) don’t marry out of pity<br/>20) don’t marry or date women older than you <br/><br/>21) do not kneel to propose to any woman &amp; do it in private <br/><br/>22) do not buy any property in your wife / gf name , but you can open a business in your name and employ her to manage it <br/><br/>23) if you’re not sure of her<br/>Character, especially if has shown violent behavior lately , don’t bother taking her to a western country.<br/><br/>24) cohabit atleast 6months , before proposing <br/><br/>25) if you’ve pass that level , avoid university Girls <br/><br/>26) MONEY WONT MAKE WOMAN RESPECT YOU <br/><br/>Love your good wife more . 2023-05-21T06:54:00Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsvt35w9y3ch66pyv4clh89nwzhwnnnqswure067a6zs2mflnu5vyczyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukw826tw In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszn0auf4ev6wuhxek42v94y4pl3nyqa8qqdv8afzwvh7ljp5cuwfsmc5d8d'>nevent1q…5d8d</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>You are absolutely gorgeous ❤️ 2023-05-20T03:17:22Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqspekn5n8qatnvvhvvk7mumhurwgfzpg0hjvju4xlrdu3jn4q0na8qzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uk2qde5e &#34;Sometimes it makes me sad, though… Andy being gone. I have to remind myself that some birds aren&#39;t meant to be caged. Their feathers are just too bright. And when they fly away, the part of you that knows it was a sin to lock them up does rejoice. But still, the place you live in is that much more drab and empty that they&#39;re gone. I guess I just miss my friend.&#34; Red, in Shawshank. 2023-05-19T13:46:23Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsvwd9ulkhcjc5y39hgarvcxea3x84t0j9ry567qaqdzj0ztc0ndrgzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uktlcprh In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvfs9p3yuj3tagq87ftxvfrefhk04z3wdj4yx45cepe9526uh32eqtj3rs2'>nevent1q…3rs2</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>these guys mutilated our ancestors, raped our mothers,<br/>They committed all sort of heinous crimes against our people. Unforgivable crimes 2023-05-19T07:06:16Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsvfs9p3yuj3tagq87ftxvfrefhk04z3wdj4yx45cepe9526uh32eqzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uk66mngm knowing how the Arabs and the western brought Islam and Christianity to Africa. Let me assume African Muslims and Christians are ignorant of this history. <img src="https://i.nostrimg.com/91b1d1c07320311f073fb9cbdf04f01b5a7ce9c59851de491c422d009b9f99b3/file.jpeg"> <img src="https://i.nostrimg.com/5bf7a1dcfdd74c3d79d1af04e35aecf0a0cbca21e07f04fe3c295046fa70c61f/file.jpeg"> 2023-05-19T07:05:45Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsxvrmtmlkyzkz7qrvjaxzp02kg9t4z9saueq8wm95y53u3gqctqeqzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukltv93m Slavery was much worse than what any of us know. 2023-05-16T13:34:23Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsgx2g65p0sh0ls0hgnsh0v5alrac2efuyh0ct85xhsxlj9gvt2lmczyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukav6d72 &#34;Forget about my past&#34;<br/><br/>The past : <img src="https://i.nostrimg.com/9e0d31fb64db7a0d0e7f69093fb7a747c5759e24a4e40cb6a8ae3dccdc397ea9/file.jpeg"> 2023-05-12T14:48:36Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs23qyum9ym3zyaqfml9nve6yer7h9jq94nptqqawj5pw8hxr4f07gzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukzg5mv8 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrvj98g4mlggq2z3lp50vhxpy2c8k67hgzz4xw38wyuzfc9apgmcgkhvqy7'>nevent1q…vqy7</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Happy birthday queen 2023-05-10T05:32:53Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqst4ra2mcue5axr657y47x8plztj8zmhc3j99p70a2rq08423lsmpgzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukaxe3jx <img src="https://nostr.build/i/nostr.build_2bf7743fb6d219f2fa8948c942ab590ad6f0e41a0cbd4617d17f7097853005ff.jpg"> <img src="https://nostr.build/i/nostr.build_40e5883c3d51c46b9b8e70ccfd3a1c15b733e47e444d53d26575e800aaa41347.jpg"> <img src="https://nostr.build/i/nostr.build_890f56a6c08c25926eebea5e7c20ba04c873a9309e8b8a3e58fd89de4a39d661.jpg"> 2023-05-08T13:14:28Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs8yhtkfyysa2edm5vtes6pft76ac9qeu9nlgxzqvc04950l9ez6pqzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukjcqext Don&#39;t poison your future with pains of the past. <br/>Yesterday failure can become today&#39;s success. 2023-05-08T13:13:42Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsywsafdvyckysatvdtclyaywj2xk9a5248pvujtvr6ewanfckl23czyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uknsn47y In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsg0z8yrgm8ujkmyafqfhdmduq8xrjknrm4txpye54tuk4xk0j6rmqrcv9zs'>nevent1q…v9zs</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I’m just enjoying this amazing #nostr 2023-05-05T16:07:00Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsvekcqt8rlt7c2gmxhvlnldhtwj3sklal9ypsa66v5qc3hfqmtdyszyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uka69efl In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8ltwfctmfcd83pmstcl52vc8vld508h527np0uzqe0mds9hc4caczcgpah'>nevent1q…gpah</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Can you explain more how it works?? Great work 2023-05-05T14:51:33Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs9ckgqnwxn8xfgaz298u4f4zayqcxygh750tgdj94sec94hs7emtgzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukpxlsvq <img src="https://nostr.build/i/nostr.build_d9fd05df74030dc5a7e1a73bcc8c06006908f6e93d3aae2a17a6a421b0abcd4f.jpg"> 2023-05-05T14:50:31Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsv7zwge9r4w8zfzpp9rwqupx4drfh6wyqta5anatjex6vxfh357xszyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uk8vc5cf In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs02lslec6wcqrwtdq6su47yu7g8t3gk9ajmtl9t897x40shv8k4uszrwj06'>nevent1q…wj06</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Any alternative to coinbase with low withdrawing fees and buying crypto?? 2023-05-05T10:16:46Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsr2vx0ywj5lfa297xghtq42d7p557qe5wfhqhfd6vfsspskklflhqzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukke5wxp You can avoid reality, but you cannot avoid the consequences of avoiding reality. 2023-05-05T04:47:21Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsgjgg7uk46uva2f7sxljteln9vcq7gwwq7keppv87tsc2ndn4qadszyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukpcm6kv Before you give up, think of the reason why you held on so long. 2023-05-04T21:12:10Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs8zdxfuhr8hpr27h9wnf4l3plp2fgy9gdsyuj9w6es335v62nzk8gzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukl7rxgy There is no need weeping<br/>over lost opportunities or<br/>mistakes of<br/>yesterday. The failure of<br/>yesterday should<br/>be our lesson for a better<br/>today and a<br/>triumphant future. 2023-05-04T21:11:39Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqst6zkpytn6uts67cy6mm8vvn03gp472cfy4v93g0ke05ulqfymrlszyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9ukuqcdha In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8c9s0u4kfqchnl4unxjmegy5g9289tdxtrqh8u0tr2asj239e77s39lmqv'>nevent1q…lmqv</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>only available on android. can i get it on IOS? 2023-05-03T12:57:46Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqszga5knznqnw9hhft76y9dqxrt637nujc3hu9tnllstwm296d9urgzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uk0yaapu In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrf4uvehadl224sy5x4u3vmxen5htqvcw7jmn7yku2m7vw4rj6ssg6r8nu5'>nevent1q…8nu5</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>send me some sats, thanks 2023-04-30T18:24:59Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsfgnyzugn22qfrjp3v99cqcmeaq5a0ajh8k0ckzc5nmkjjcfuj6pqzyr50f9xe8lmpwyuvltw3f99kwr8jhmg950avdk05hrtqwfhavs9uk4smgxg i&#39;m depressed but I have hope. More than depressed. I still can withsand the tremendous pressure over me but I have came to the limit. Just sharing 2023-04-30T13:41:31Z