2026-05-22T13:40:03Z https://njump.me Shaula Evans https://njump.me/npub1c24wr6he3pmg0dtsnt74tl89tr5eqfktukhfqu30lwa5uzg7qlwq550kcs https://cdn.masto.host/zirkus/accounts/avatars/109/337/190/398/786/609/original/5ba717dd85614529.jpeg https://cdn.masto.host/zirkus/accounts/avatars/109/337/190/398/786/609/original/5ba717dd85614529.jpeg https://njump.me/nevent1qqs82vja4xxv63rzwy5nph4grflmy3mr3a0ehltgvyxa2rvkdrlzmgqzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracgkw4zk Of all the absolutely random songs, today I noticed I had One Tin Soldier going through my head.<br/><br/>???<br/><br/>I don&#39;t remember the last time I heard it or even thought about it, but it&#39;s what the Earworm DJ saw fit to spin up while I was in the kitchen.<br/><br/>Ah, Earworm DJ: your ways are mysterious indeed.<br/><br/><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kjGnvst6AmA">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kjGnvst6AmA</a><br/><br/>#OneTinSoldier #TheOriginalCaste #Music 2026-05-04T19:22:40Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsyvxf6ww8l54nxhy9trwdr9xp38mgppp0c8vqgva439qc2yg0y64gzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcrac6wmgxr In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs88aexfulq0vqzqvznyvsy0fav4ccecj0n9fl7je4hr2k7cjruj8cplqx97'>nevent1q…qx97</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I still have songs from my brothers&#39; old bands stuck in my head. 2026-02-21T16:25:55Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsp32824uggz2y3uvp0756pdgh2dk7hnssy7n5k5dydvl7jvpdhnvczyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcrac8hqtav Hey, Fedi. I have a favour to ask you. Help me help a friend. (Not financial!)<br/><br/>I have a friend who is all about cool bug facts. They&#39;re going through an intense patch in their life, so I would like to send them some bug facts to cheer them up. But this is really their thing, so basic search engine results aren&#39;t going to new to them.<br/><br/>If there is a cool bug fact that you genuinely love yourself, could you tell me? I&#39;ll save them to share with my friend over time.<br/><br/>#Bugs #CoolBugFacts #Insects 2026-01-26T06:45:36Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsgguxres9lptn0x0rcduzcwchk3ngar7vmf67ua7tua2esd0ses3gzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcrac7jqxkr A friend sent me this Covid Policy Statement (from a church in Vancouver, Canada) and I feel so seen that I&#39;m in tears. It&#39;s well written and relatively comprehensive. It is also an astonishing example of care and compassion combined with science to inform an approach to covid.<br/><br/>I&#39;m sharing it here for the many Fedi friends who may be heartened by it or find it useful. <br/><br/><a href="https://www.stmargaretscedarcottage.ca/why-are-we-still-masking.html">https://www.stmargaretscedarcottage.ca/why-are-we-still-masking.html</a><br/><br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub13vfarcvnsx9n65sxvzlrj2a82n7jxm39trx792ewhj8t3cqyerqq0vffrq" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>Loneliness Corps</span> (<span class="italic">npub13vf…ffrq</span>)</a></span> <br/><br/>#CovidIsNotOver #PandemicIsNotOver #LonelinessCorps #Covid19 #Covid 2026-01-12T06:29:06Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsv4r6l2t94fk7tvz7dg3zm6uq29fnvu44hhey2kjh74cjklsnve6szyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcrac7ahphe Friends, we&#39;re all increasingly overwhelmed as a baseline (except for some luckily privileged people and/or sociopaths). That means when we are acutely overwhelmed, it is tough.<br/><br/>Please give grace to yourself &amp; others to the extent you can.<br/><br/>Please take care of the small animal that is your body. <br/><br/>Please let go of anything that&#39;s not necessary (you probably already have, I know).<br/><br/>Please reach out, please offer help, as/when you can.<br/><br/>I hope we can get each other through somehow.<br/><br/>#Polycrisis 2026-01-07T04:23:10Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsqm3e6fe0sgx9la38sur2yc40m940d3vmlq4wqnhar4e6kp4fd79qzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracvflt65 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2e3umx22e9lm9grmcnsqthjyy634kfvl5ypz9fy024pjfe4jtfhgqtkgfa'>nevent1q…kgfa</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Oh! I&#39;ve just thought of an experience like yours:<br/><br/>When I was studying Japanese, I learned that the word for Mediterranean was 地中海 (pronounced Chichūkai). The characters literally translate as Earth Middle Sea.<br/><br/>It had never occurred to me that that&#39;s what Medi-Terran-Ean (Sea) had meant all along -- and then it was right there staring at me! 2025-12-30T10:39:57Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs28tq7cj7julwv3ea83ldcsjy7rlulplcpddmacf78xseg7fghrzqzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcrac7aauzk In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrtp5wqa3uk3cd7lqprse3g0ehz7fnszfw3ldjczxtq4mxyaec7lctl6s8z'>nevent1q…6s8z</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I am a huge fan of arbor teas and of this style of infuser. They make moving from tea bags to loose leaf tea so easy and painless! 2025-12-21T03:24:06Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsrdexcchfnly384mpt0z599vq4cvdge5eka7f7vyfzxc8kuglnfkczyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcrac76y5d0 What are some of the small, functional things in your life that give you joy?<br/><br/>I&#39;m asking because I&#39;ve been noting lately that many of the things in my life that give me joy are small and functional. 1/n<br/><br/>#AskFedi 2025-12-19T10:12:59Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsz3s3eed8ggaqdt5je05rarzv4thyp9s4j3kefy8xxw6lx28ggxxczyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcrac94qrhf It only just occurred to me that the English and French words garage come from the French verb garer which also gives us the French word &#34;gare&#34; for train station (as in La Gare du Nord). <br/><br/>I have been staring at these words all my life. I have no idea why this decided to click tonight. (Except that I was thinking about the Italian word parcheggio.)<br/><br/>#English #French #Language #Etymology 2025-12-19T09:28:24Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs0p823kmn3058qjmtw7f8q7ppma8xk4cfanaaef339cglwmata6vqzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracah46wx In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsf7nsfyxjlqa5h0cxkatjvn58sctwsvqtpgdvvat5d8xjhhg7yl8gnfvjq5'>nevent1q…vjq5</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>If you eat seafood, out of the foods the study tested, the lowest microplastics (MP) per serving (best choices) were:<br/><br/>1. Alaska pollock (minimally processed) - 9 ± 7<br/>2. White Gulf shrimp (fresh caught) - 10 ± 11<br/>3. Alaska pollock (fresh caught) - 11 ± 16<br/><br/>The worst:<br/>Breaded shrimp - 370 ± 580<br/><br/>Key lesson: more processing = more microplastics 5/n 2025-12-08T08:54:41Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsf7nsfyxjlqa5h0cxkatjvn58sctwsvqtpgdvvat5d8xjhhg7yl8gzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracj79thv In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9yhevm4yj8cm2kfjrkpkdzmxw0q8fxfyplnks3cyj5qy25a3avxskatpap'>nevent1q…tpap</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>The study analyzed store-purchased breaded shrimp, minced pollock, fish sticks, white Gulf shrimp (headless/shell-on), Key West pink shrimp (headless/shell-on), Alaska Pollock fillets (skinless), chicken nuggets, top sirloin steaks, pork loin chops, chicken breasts, plant-based nuggets, plant-based fish sticks, plant-based ground beef, and tofu blocks.<br/><br/>The authors acknowledge this is not comprehensive, but it&#39;s a start. 2025-12-08T08:48:35Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs9yhevm4yj8cm2kfjrkpkdzmxw0q8fxfyplnks3cyj5qy25a3avxszyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracquhjau In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8dc3xce9n7n6n9zsfnru3uj8gn4sql4l72fjwu3dwwdaa0uawnngvgk89f'>nevent1q…k89f</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Foods pick up microplastics during processing. Not just ultraprocessed foods, but any kind of food handling. Think about conveyer belts, machinery, gloves worn by food workers. Plastic is everywhere.<br/><br/>I am aiming for minimally processed foods as much as I can for myself. (Your mileage and spoons may vary.) 3/n 2025-12-08T08:45:45Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs8dc3xce9n7n6n9zsfnru3uj8gn4sql4l72fjwu3dwwdaa0uawnngzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracxq4qs0 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9e06jc9km99de0k2xtsaznvddhkh0l2mufxa9eupw8jcrm9mukks6pyvru'>nevent1q…yvru</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I had read about the study but only just tracked down the study itself and read it. I&#39;ll share some of the parts that interested me in this thread.<br/><br/>I flag these kinds of threads as cursed knowledge and put them behind a CW because I know it&#39;s easy to get polycrisis-overwhelmed and you may not be able to handle food becoming even more complicated.<br/><br/>It&#39;s worth doing what you can to avoid microplastics -- with available spoons, on an opt-in info basis. 2025-12-08T08:43:42Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs9e06jc9km99de0k2xtsaznvddhkh0l2mufxa9eupw8jcrm9mukkszyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracrsxrpl A study led by researchers at Ocean Conservancy and the University of Toronto a found #microplastic particles in 88% of protein food samples tested. The samples were drawn from 16 different #protein types destined for U.S. consumers, including seafood, pork, beef, chicken, tofu, and three different plant-based meat alternatives.<br/><br/>Two links follow, plus thread.<br/><br/>1. Summary <a href="https://oceanconservancy.org/newsroom/press-release/2024/01/08/its-not-just-seafood-new-study-finds-microplastics-in-nearly-90-of-proteins-sampled-including-plant-based-meat-alternatives/">https://oceanconservancy.org/newsroom/press-release/2024/01/08/its-not-just-seafood-new-study-finds-microplastics-in-nearly-90-of-proteins-sampled-including-plant-based-meat-alternatives/</a><br/><br/>2. Study <a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0269749123022352?via%3Dihub">https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0269749123022352?via%3Dihub</a><br/><br/>1/n<br/><br/>#Food 2025-12-08T08:40:39Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsttn7stcew7hg2gahs5pqwcad9g2az79nglepmcr3vgzr5tfw2ktszyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracsvq4l6 I did a call to catch up with an old and really dear friend tonight and it absolutely fed my heart.<br/><br/>They worked at US AID until the layoffs in February and they are looking for new jobs in international development, related fields, and/or anything that uses their broad skill base. <br/><br/>Question follows in thread below. 1/n<br/><br/>#AskFedi #InternationalDevelopment #InternationalRelations #USAID 2025-12-08T04:38:06Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsv05r74h2xtnmcavkdt22jmvhxjunwvlslufc6ehek544lgctlgmszyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracjc527d In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsy4ahvka625w9m8vn0z50v5fkv3m5pcal8dwe0jfvn2acumqm2y5clasu7n'>nevent1q…su7n</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Or the Tulip Bubble for that matter. 2025-11-25T04:37:51Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqstrql4mcsjrxvws35y6amkp93a6k7d8hd3n8g92zkh54r9wlqkgjqzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcrac0x7ecz In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs05cmy2cdgtff2xzk5ttmj7d0swcf4pxw5kn46cz4ph8gut0c2alc2x69e7'>nevent1q…69e7</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Voice work is collapsing as a field because big players like Apple are pushing computer generated voices.<br/><br/>There are more people competing for fewer jobs at lower rates. It&#39;s disastrous.<br/><br/>I have stopped narrating new books because I have a day job and I don&#39;t want to take paying work away from my fellow voice actors who do the work full time to pay their rent.<br/><br/>When people tell me they want to give it a go for the lulz or the &#34;passive income&#34; (ha!) I am underwhelmed to say the least. 2/n 2025-11-18T01:26:29Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs05cmy2cdgtff2xzk5ttmj7d0swcf4pxw5kn46cz4ph8gut0c2alczyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracd2xwy8 Lately when I tell people I do voice work / audiobook narration, they respond with, &#34;Oh, how could I get into that? I&#39;d like to make some extra money.&#34;<br/><br/>Well, I started as a child actor. I have trained in acting, singing and voice all my life. I am a director and qualified to work in isolation &amp; handle a self-directed performance. I also manage my hardware, software and edits. <br/><br/>What a profoundly insulting question. lmao<br/><br/>1/n 2025-11-18T01:23:34Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsrckecphk3je0etexyam6zjhld28pgzs7lkrqw7d6snxulazqphlszyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracun5wdv In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdd8p06kc2jff8uq7z3kzk3wpnm7zsk4mrsnfdaxj59gpt0hz7hnss46e70'>nevent1q…6e70</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I&#39;m sorry it&#39;s all so hard and complicated.<br/><br/>I&#39;m glad you&#39;re making positive strides forward for yourself. I really hope the book helps. 2025-11-14T12:03:20Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsz8r6elnd5h3vmx5r0s84ygxg9fsvdq32uq6w08k88ft52fag5a4czyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcrac36l7n7 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsz9kvv4zj6mlqr0fw6xpg4ha4mlnxfwpl8pxanr49ns8xeap4hg3qsx932v'>nevent1q…932v</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I miss proper Boolean queries desperately. 2025-11-14T07:39:00Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqstudhrla4fgn7qgknwchml5nzwxd07p5y2q8fk3gw4y27qckfs7jszyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracq06kvr In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsv7a9vs3ceas4duggh5xujs28qyhp5gf2m98arvdjtyhsnlg4ny4q83vrl6'>nevent1q…vrl6</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I have found that one way to address a difficulty in receiving compliments, sometimes even without understanding the root cause, is to reframe it:<br/><br/>A compliment is a gift and an offer of friendship which imparts joy to the *giver*.<br/><br/>When I reject a compliment, I reject the gesture of friendship and I deny the giver that joy.<br/><br/>I don&#39;t want to make other people feel bad!<br/><br/>So, if nothing else, I can say: &#34;Thank you&#34; -- and, more than that, I can mean it. 2025-11-13T21:16:23Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsp70vq9e38x2drzwc2qauhejjqx3q3h3q3dvq58lrwqm06ujnhllgzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracuu0ql5 The UPS app widget on my phone screen, rather than giving me a time window for my delivery later today, simply says, &#34;We Have Your Package&#34;...<br/><br/>...and it&#39;s giving me really big &#34;I&#39;ve got your nose&#34; energy. 2025-11-05T10:27:01Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqszx5zm8h8x9yg8sh8d6vxe9clscleh7hu7hwmj29v9fwtajkyd2ugzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracvfpj20 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsg5scafxwtm7pe6xgcfl0mqp6y7sguyj2ua23vcv0q6nhhqtkys6sjgz0a6'>nevent1q…z0a6</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I am asking about this precisely because I don&#39;t know what I don&#39;t know, and this is a topic I haven&#39;t needed to stay current on in the past.<br/><br/>I don&#39;t need my feelings managed and I don&#39;t need lectures, I just need accurate, current information about what Zoom does with user voices and what my security/privacy options are.<br/><br/>Thank you for understanding the assignment, and thanks very much to anyone who can help! 2/n 2025-10-30T06:04:04Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsg5scafxwtm7pe6xgcfl0mqp6y7sguyj2ua23vcv0q6nhhqtkys6szyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcrac4sup8u I haven&#39;t followed conversations about #Zoom and AI because it hasn&#39;t been in my sphere, but it looks like we&#39;re going to start using it at work. <br/><br/>Outside the day job, I am a voice artist / audiobook narrator. I cannot let corporations record my voice and use it for AI training or I lose my side job. (I also object on multiple grounds.)<br/><br/>Can anyone give me a link to reliable sources on what Zoom is doing with voices at this stage? I&#39;ve looked but am not finding answers I need. <br/><br/>Thank you. 1/n 2025-10-30T06:02:22Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsds0me80u6zmqrxr0hy26ecg8edxzewne0fd3rxgmup4x82hwgx4szyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracjtarsc No one gets enough compliments, validation or positive feedback in this world.<br/><br/>(Well, almost no-one. Maybe a blessed few of you do. Consider yourselves lucky.)<br/><br/>We really ought to collectively do something about that.<br/><br/>If I have something positive to say to someone, I give myself permission to say it, &amp; go out of my way to make sure it doesn&#39;t just stay as a safe little thought in my head and instead I say it out loud. <br/><br/>If you need it, here&#39;s official permission for you to say nice thing too. 2025-10-26T06:52:59Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsre8fvrx9qwjhs7uwm543zfa6n74u4fnfd2xe3y0v7vtpeejzytuczyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracergcnr Quisling is a great word to add to your vocabulary if you&#39;re not familiar with it already. 2025-10-18T02:20:59Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs82g2lpteeamcvxsl7lncnzcsh63phw7gf455nvqnt24pk89ycupczyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcrac08kj2v In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrlv54uc09rt2j9culq7rj6h5gq63phvq9rgt8ee0dpnnnaugh7cstqmmsl'>nevent1q…mmsl</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Do you feel like that brush with the threat of Ebola in 2014 affected how your colleagues have reacted to the current pandemic? Did you see what you learned carry forward? 2025-10-16T02:17:14Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsz0kjpk9prfaku5zu8yu3wnnk53um5nutqmjpw0n5laratn87u75szyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcractx780j In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8d89mjwvmlsjcfzt6gtjxw6t98fhzz9rejcmjdr3k023u8facpfs3ldnu8'>nevent1q…dnu8</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>That must have been grueling as well as terrifying, Freddy. I&#39;m glad you had access to proper PPE then and got through it safely. 2025-10-16T02:10:17Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqstwzfgdxrawvrcz3qllghmj8d4jtrwa7ppkyhern4fhy8hs0w88gszyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcrach3mwtn I look at Biosafety Level 3 (BSL-3) precautions.<br/><br/>Then I look at the preventions people do and don&#39;t take against COVID-19 and what they consider reasonable risks.<br/><br/>Then I look at Biosafety Level 3 precautions again.<br/><br/>Then I bar the door a little harder.<br/><br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub13vfarcvnsx9n65sxvzlrj2a82n7jxm39trx792ewhj8t3cqyerqq0vffrq" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>Loneliness Corps</span> (<span class="italic">npub13vf…ffrq</span>)</a></span><br/>#CovidIsnotOver #PandemicIsNotOver <br/>#LonelinessCorps 2025-10-15T08:33:50Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs8t6p0vwafr556jaltsnspum4tm88kzxqjsylrppe323w6ngy5mzqzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracrd3ch9 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszk3dqsp22dp0ccsld5wpp3vvpzuax7n2rmx2dywjk9zqpnv42yfgd4yc04'>nevent1q…yc04</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Oh, I&#39;m not trying to foist it on you! If you have a need for it, it&#39;s a great tool. If you don&#39;t need it, it&#39;s one less app on your phone. You know what&#39;s right for you. 2025-10-15T04:42:30Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsyq62vd4wl6pxhn4u4d3658h7jg2lqwmv0k32uqjsewcmjyqg5vtgzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracssp4df In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsyytprnfgp5xzqzgeu34epe2z4qmesf0wguyceun9fdczl20upyesu43wps'>nevent1q…3wps</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Signal is a great private messaging app that is free and (end to end) encrypted. Once you install it on your phone, you can install it on a laptop as well or similar device.<br/><br/>It also handles voice notes, audio calls, video calls, and group chats.<br/><br/>It&#39;s a better, more secure alternative to native phone texting, WhatsApp, Telegram, Facebook Messenger, Snapchat, etc.<br/><br/>If you&#39;re ever looking for a good messaging app, I warmly recommend it. 2025-10-15T04:41:03Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsywet6jh3njvt472u00gtuydma5mxpev8mck2he8eg86glze0kdzqzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcractjg4e5 When people want to text me, I tell them the only app I use is <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub1rkw6a3qcgxxzmgrmysn48umna28za0jvaz2ev72wmycgvcvkmp0sa45q62" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>Signal</span> (<span class="italic">npub1rkw…5q62</span>)</a></span>, and if they want to reach me I can give the my handle there (without giving out my phone number).<br/><br/>It turns out to be a remarkably effective way to get people onto Signal in my experience.<br/><br/>*This is descriptive not prescriptive, your mileage may vary, don&#39;t need your yabbuts in my mentions, etc., etc.<br/><br/>#Signal 2025-10-15T03:11:23Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsf4ewrdf2s0ftaz5ej74tff8u023akr4p9zzu8g99naq9q5zmxgfqzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracrwp36w It looks like we are reaching the point where all online art should be assumed to be AI slop until proven otherwise.<br/><br/>Just like we don&#39;t boost images without alt text, I won&#39;t be boosting images going forward without attribution, either.<br/><br/>I know: it&#39;s more work and more friction. Sometimes that&#39;s what being a responsible community member is like. <br/><br/>Thank you to everyone who makes an effort not to boost or normalize AI slop. It&#39;s extra work at a time we&#39;re all tired. I appreciate you.<br/><br/>#FediMeta 2025-10-14T02:09:53Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsq3d7j45xpy8k4j47f9ktdpnjv2m84n0698lf6tgrrvc0lnqn6gpgzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcrac6xzktt I want to hear from people who have made lifestyle changes in response to climate change.<br/><br/>Do you travel less / fly less? Eat differently? Shop differently?<br/><br/>I&#39;m interested in what changes you&#39;ve made specifically in response to climate change, when you started, and what got you to the tipping point of taking that action.<br/><br/>1/n<br/><br/>#ClimateChange #Polycrisis #Travel #Diet #Food #Hopepunk #Solarpunk 2025-10-11T22:32:08Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsf055zgk2c5mqy3qtgchuq0vfkhgdjpratld4awk0g7f238wrdjhqzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracvzuv06 I still see people putting their street addresses on resumes for job applications, grant applications, festival submissions, etc.<br/><br/>Oh, honey. No.<br/><br/>Your location can and will be used to rule you out. <br/><br/>And your personal data will inevitably be leaked.<br/><br/>Please normalize giving out the absolute minimal data possible in any and every situation. 2025-10-11T03:01:32Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqszldxql90rq6sgws05pmc4xprgwt52ysedl5fddeugv7qth29gn6gzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracg0ugh9 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8wqk0vhvgn7suxlgtxke3lmhsvqewlrtrk89qu6z3pt8zskudc9qcf63hn'>nevent1q…63hn</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>This sounds great! Bookmarking. 2025-10-03T03:11:47Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsxv3dwfer65lq0uavxvkkvd637yndxqu6047swhkmx9et8qt642pqzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracqr4gvh In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqrcr2lezxtu5njqtk5f5txn2e46r5qqdljcljcduwz90ls38jusszyzkgt'>nevent1q…zkgt</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Bonus round: If someone could explain to me how LLM-based AI systems could allow *me* to live a more healthy and fulfilling life while the material, financial, and spiritual costs remained, I still wouldn&#39;t use them. <br/><br/>No individual benefit to me could outweigh the massive costs and damage. 2025-10-01T07:27:09Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsq524akgz7p53z2c64ear0vy38k7rr4d4axnrrnzvdv82mnj64fpczyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcrac2jfxjh I find it horrifying how platitudes can short circuit and shut down thinking, discussion and communication. 2025-09-17T05:20:15Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqszy97dqkm7q79phclzx2zzf8wf4adsmew3qflx4nvtl9p5n8v73tczyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcrac3fakgp I&#39;m watching a great sword fight scene, which compels me to mention that I have fought for my life in a sword fight. 2025-09-07T06:20:16Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsqudvmgzrpqxxk4m466mr4ymwv0nkhhgpgpsk3t0ea2rr2l8ty8gczyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracd6c7vy Orphan Black is now on Netflix US. (I don&#39;t know about other regions.)<br/><br/>Tatiana Maslany&#39;s performance is absolutely extraordinary.<br/><br/>If you like scifi, it&#39;s a great show. And if you are an actor or you appreciate good acting, it&#39;s superb.<br/><br/>#OprhanBlack #TatianMaslany #Netflix #CanadianContent #SciFi 2025-09-03T03:00:23Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsvl4a7pgv4dk7wyfw6va2mz5qv6x5ezc75zmq9mvxqwpd7af0yn9qzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcrachqhht2 The most important thing I can tell you about writing or any other creative pursuit is this:<br/><br/>Give yourself permission to do it and don&#39;t worry about being &#34;good&#34; at it.<br/><br/>Life is short. Creativity is joyful. Just do it! Have fun. Muck about.<br/><br/>If you stick it out, you can get good at it over time, if that&#39;s important to you — but it doesn&#39;t have to be.<br/><br/>You can just play with creativity for the pure joy of it, too.<br/><br/>If it brings you joy, do it.<br/><br/>#Art #Creativity #Writing 2025-09-01T06:20:37Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsrfsv5l6t5rcr8j30nljnzzvxfhtue9zq8tcnj2t90rmkvt3rzdhgzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracx2xdjl It&#39;s not especially relevant to my current life, or to my conversations on Mastodon, but I&#39;m an international award-winning screenwriter and filmmaker.<br/><br/>I used to talk about screenwriting regularly on my pre-Fediverse accounts. <br/><br/>Are there hashtags or groups that TV and film writers congregate around in the Fediverse? I wouldn&#39;t mind picking those conversations back up. <br/><br/>(And I&#39;m pondering a related project to launch in the new year.) 1/n<br/><br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub1m2zhv3av73rwnjgqlzgedjpewqvu7lnldrdpgc5dx075wns79xfqhuuvde" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>writing group</span> (<span class="italic">npub1m2z…uvde</span>)</a></span> <br/>#TVWriting #Screenwriting #Writing 2025-09-01T05:06:32Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsg985uuqpleys4sjg73mnu8x5z5l34mppfnuzahrshjg6wqvupelgzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracq4zsxv &#34;3%&#34; from Brazil and &#34;Bon Appetit, Your Majesty&#34; from South Korea exist in a shared universe in that they both know exactly what the game engine is that underlies their series premise and the writers deploy that game engine skillfully and elegantly in each episode (at least in the first few seasons of 3%).<br/><br/>I recommend both series to anyone interested in advanced episodic writing.<br/><br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub1m2zhv3av73rwnjgqlzgedjpewqvu7lnldrdpgc5dx075wns79xfqhuuvde" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>writing group</span> (<span class="italic">npub1m2z…uvde</span>)</a></span> <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub1j3xqgkj6jt4nkjfe9crc0kpt9eygqrwq4qmehz7u9r46wzk45fxsvg8v5j" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>film group</span> (<span class="italic">npub1j3x…8v5j</span>)</a></span> <br/><br/>#BonAppetitYourMajesty #ThreePercent #Netflix #TVWriting #EpisodicWring #Screenwriting #Kdrama 2025-09-01T05:04:18Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqszgz8gggwv74jd7g560dyg32zlhln838pqk32kzuxcnt0q9tvgg8qzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcraccy4mey Vaccination is just like masking, in that even if you didn&#39;t do it for a while, you can pick it back up. You can always change course for the better. 2025-08-28T03:49:34Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsqshv22n806u83z9543y046uatftd0ky72axfqwsd7cksgsmk3v0qzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcrac3kr08d What if I took my ego out of it?<br/><br/>What if I loved harder?<br/><br/>What if I showed up for people the way I&#39;d like them to show up for me?<br/><br/>- questions I ask myself all the time (and try to live up to) 2025-08-27T03:50:13Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs0y74et5fsxh0gttx08kll86w4az7k3em5rke38hjrhk6ye42n02qzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracelhvxp A friend told me that when she buys any kind of personal hygiene product in a tube, like toothpaste or skin lotion, when it&#39;s &#34;used up&#34; she cuts the tube open to get more out, and recommended I try it.<br/><br/>I had had low expectations but thought I&#39;d give it a try. I just cut open a tube of moisturizer that I could not possible squeeze more out of. <br/><br/>Holy cow. <br/><br/>I&#39;m shocked at how much was left.<br/><br/>(Is this one of those things that everyone on earth knew but me?)<br/><br/>Time to slice some tubes! 2025-08-20T11:21:07Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsfn0suujnt92vlw6lh0ug8w5v65fd5x8wqyw5rjl6e5e9h4a68y8czyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcract6zn9a Fellow language learners, if you have ditched Duolingo because they wedged in AI slop (because you care about how they treat their workers and/or the accuracy of the lessons and/or AI impact on the planet, etc.), what are you using for language study now and for which languages?<br/><br/>#Language #LanguageStudy #Duolingo #AskFedi 2025-08-17T07:29:55Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs00h8zlxwut8wtwhvzk32qstp5h9xzp2yyt79yk2hhhnq5as767sgzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracpj649x I love how there is no &#34;best time to post&#34; on Mastodon because, lack of tracking data aside (which is already great), we are a globally distributed network of nerdy insomniacs. 😂 2025-08-16T08:23:15Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsqs6fx9jztfx8lqj9fkt0x5f63r3e95qe8chrdf6cpe6aqunzgejszyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcractnjn3l As you know if you follow me, every once in a blue moon I post that I could really use to hear a human voice (which is hard to come by in my isolated life), and I set up a Signal call with whoever replies.<br/><br/>On a few occasions, it has been lifesaving.<br/><br/>I wonder if we should consider a hashtag, like #FediWarmLine, for anyone who&#39;d like to request or supply a call like that. Would that be helpful to anyone? I feel like there&#39;s good potential.<br/><br/>Let&#39;s figure this out! 1/n<br/><br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub1y55qzrxj0fkk2glrnjal546fums6pl3w8680rxtnlr4t07gj9qzspn2ts6" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>LonelinessCorps group</span> (<span class="italic">npub1y55…2ts6</span>)</a></span><br/>#AskFedi 2025-08-14T21:48:32Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs9hnuctvz5vuj8jrp92hcwq4fu9ejv602hp4m9azjnhqmky8p2g5gzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcrackzvgqx In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs236j6ug5gg0e9jhjc065lge587t6zc3t8vmz7xdvfxz9j30688qq40tp6a'>nevent1q…tp6a</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Please for the love of all that&#39;s holy don&#39;t come into my mentions to defend your use of LLMs.<br/><br/>That&#39;s between you, your god, and the planet you&#39;re destroying. And the original creators whose work you&#39;re plagairisng. And the exploited global south laborers who tag &amp; moderate it. And the communities next to data centers that haven no water. And everyone affected by these harms &amp; your normalization of these harms.<br/><br/>If you bring LLM apologetics or evangelism to my mentions, I will block you. 2025-08-08T09:19:24Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs236j6ug5gg0e9jhjc065lge587t6zc3t8vmz7xdvfxz9j30688qqzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracxg4nsl I&#39;ve been on an unexpected unfollowing spree.<br/><br/>Context: I follow cool, intelligent, informed, interesting people.<br/><br/>And yet my TL today has been all about people confessing all the ways they choose to use LLMs all the time. (And that&#39;s an instant unfollow.)<br/><br/>Weird. 2025-08-08T09:15:12Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqstqejhgjs4m8lm32qvsqm9q9pgsz6hg204jgqakc94nf5dafxdzjqzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracccmvgh In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstgh7krmzlrujpv2ufp2slwww6axnxl27c096e7r8h7tqj0rdqa5sxfxery'>nevent1q…xery</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>You might consider talking to your doctor or pharmacist about where you store those pills. If the bathroom is in regular use, the humidity may be enough to degrade the medications so he won&#39;t be getting the full dose the doctors are prescribing.<br/><br/>Or you may be taking this into account already and your specific bathroom and arrangement may be fine. I&#39;m not there, I don&#39;t know.<br/><br/>I&#39;m sharing this as a caring stranger who wishes you both well. 2025-08-08T02:18:12Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsf8wunwl4segszr85gw5cx9y75q2ypxmrxqersf6ljf4c6zca243czyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracjpjkmh One of the best parts of the Fediverse: book recommendations from the brilliant, interesting people here. 💙 2025-08-07T10:12:02Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsvgv55ldupt69yq9rvu3wrz8jxgctmeka3ft69cfejvzvf5d0hz3czyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracfh7rjk Someone mentioned a new instance for podcasters the other day and I misplaced the link. Does anyone have it handy? I want to recommend it to a friend. Thank you!<br/><br/>#AskFedi #FediMeta #Podcast 2025-07-25T11:39:00Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsf0pfr5l6v8xaq7mcge3t25fces2c2w9yra3hg2j5690c7nd0kdfgzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcrach6q8tn Another fiction book that haunts me in the pandemic is José Saramago&#39;s novel Blindness (original Portuguese title: Ensaio sobre a cegueira), because of how well it captures the social dynamics.<br/><br/>If you&#39;ve read it, you know.<br/><br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub1ny7qwqnkw6pg4m0uegzrdzwrckapzq7v7zku9p28hgv5aflvg8fq7zuv57" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>bookstodon group</span> (<span class="italic">npub1ny7…uv57</span>)</a></span> #EnsaioSobreACegueira #JoséSaramago #Bookstodon #CovidIsNotOver #PandemicIsNotOver 2025-07-22T07:21:23Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsfqezavp7lnprsedtl0n5773pzn4s534rt4eafcy7cva935q33n6czyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracxkc8ud One of the books that made the biggest impressions on me as a kid was Flowers for Algernon (which I read far, far younger than was advisable as an advanced and voracious reader).<br/><br/>So I have to say that now living through an unacknowledged and unchecked pandemic that causes cognitive impairment and watching it steadily erode the people around me is a very particular kind of waking nightmare.<br/><br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub1ny7qwqnkw6pg4m0uegzrdzwrckapzq7v7zku9p28hgv5aflvg8fq7zuv57" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>bookstodon group</span> (<span class="italic">npub1ny7…uv57</span>)</a></span><br/>#Bookstodon #CovidIsNotOver #PandemicIsNotOver #DanielKeyes #FlowersForAlgernon 2025-07-22T07:17:45Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsqa3kyh0r3t0smsvwll2nhe5llrsjuhydfv4nl09xxrwn00mqz2rgzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcrac85d74z In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstht6l4wjmcxs7s35z9r0d2qlvedaqwruszuktyqjulm2f6j35a8cj4xfuc'>nevent1q…xfuc</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Does anything work for effective PPE when you have to go outside? 2025-07-21T09:30:50Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs24hvsephs9ev9casmk3d22zmh9fn8rnq9xu7fy7sy5exukp3kqvqzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracw9aam8 Hey, short film fans! I&#39;m looking for short films (under 20 minutes) about caregivers and caregiving (of children, of elders, sandwich generation, etc.).<br/><br/>Do you know of any short films that fit this bill? <br/><br/>Let me know about the caregiver films you love. Thank you.<br/><br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub1j3xqgkj6jt4nkjfe9crc0kpt9eygqrwq4qmehz7u9r46wzk45fxsvg8v5j" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>film group</span> (<span class="italic">npub1j3x…8v5j</span>)</a></span> <br/><br/>#ShortFilm #Film #AskFedi #HiveMind #LazyWeb 2025-07-21T06:45:05Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsrfvhr4lpw8hjtcdyayhe6fs7ur5dw09pskc62zvnamecg3qya6ugzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracmgnawr In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs87rw89maj56m8j440k6m6408cr3fc7psen0qt6zzepazn29h5j8g0vuxxz'>nevent1q…uxxz</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Maybe. Indeed. 2025-07-20T05:06:07Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqstce5lr8pfw3jadr6ktagtnvxqhzungf5zppr5e5ja9rz4ak0c8xgzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcrac43u9sj Are there any countries, regions, societies, subcultures, industries, anything that is taking the cognitive harms of COVID seriously?<br/><br/>#Covid19 #Covid #CovidIsNotOver #PandemicIsNotOver 2025-07-19T22:53:53Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqszrwx8qp9rk5n25vduum9puwwae6qfmyyvzu3l3tlmtm88xxjfe4szyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcractsny67 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfxjvuggn7gc6gufu7h77ngvld8fh4l85802f83v3cgvwjaspzduqkvxl3u'>nevent1q…xl3u</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Aye, there&#39;s the rub. 2025-07-19T13:07:16Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsp97pa6j2gwed6vy4r8skxqnj9gwsk8vqhdpla6pq3784scrmc07czyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracxqfkga In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsy9k7fdnje2mrggt87yzldsfymwul23hu3svtfxscsv95hxdr4fmgtg6dh0'>nevent1q…6dh0</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>With all the plagiarism and scraping out here? Oh goodness no. <br/><br/>It&#39;s too good to waste -- or to hand over for someone to steal. 2025-07-19T08:45:48Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs9f6g5utsvqzmpltn4zyjf9mx5zkg0fwsen6pcpt8kez0ppf8qpggzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcrac3flr29 One of my best stories, that is far too good for the open internet, is about the time I fought for my life in a sword fight.<br/><br/>Yes, really.<br/><br/>If you ever wind up in a private conversation with me and you&#39;re in the mood for a story, get me to tell you. <br/><br/>*I looked up translations for all the sword fighting terms once so I could also tell it in French. I&#39;m not sure if I can do that now off the top of my head though. 2025-07-19T08:20:04Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsp37vsw3lg4tmt9zyfshxqtfu6q8jywdr3anf43l2qlkkx87js6aszyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracf6905e In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsynt3nmx7vv4vd4rymjzh5rvfmxlzfacujy83vng9jgf06na8sqacrpr2pm'>nevent1q…r2pm</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I have not been touched by another human being in 5.5 years. I have not made direct eye contact with another human being in over 3 years. I go for days and weeks, sometimes months, without being in a live conversation with another human voice.<br/><br/>I have online connections.<br/><br/>I am also isolated. At a level that despite my concerted best efforts definitely affects my mental and physical health.<br/><br/>If you haven&#39;t lived this, you don&#39;t know. 2025-07-17T06:19:39Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs85vg3vkyy3mc75y0gm38p2tfauy9d8n74meeh8jn3gxmp7h77m0szyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracusuht6 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsr6tkq5u9nlprwff5zk8vt6wgv4gkmh2zy9t73800fym676cqzuygxq5hty'>nevent1q…5hty</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>As someone who is super isolated and would prefer not to face Alzheimers, do we know *why* isolation is a risk factor for Alzheimer&#39;s? Is it the lack of mental stimulation? Is it the high cortisol? Something else?<br/><br/>I take my survival in the circumstances very seriously. It&#39;s also increasingly too bleak for me to read up on this stuff directly and wade through the doom to find actionable information, to be honest. 2025-07-17T05:54:05Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsxhqqvh6qxhqctxvd2307ltvaglm48ezrrgw72gqcyr9ntvjpwn8qzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracjdxxks In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsym5lfmj6ryw4p8e8xh7n8q2dlazuzzfxy5jsexm0vkr4ym9q406gufn55d'>nevent1q…n55d</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>That reminded me of this Japanese commercial!<br/><br/><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TgPmaNMReKQ">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TgPmaNMReKQ</a> 2025-07-11T04:22:02Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsx8fgw6e0fj5vrputptp6xdrzl0mcezg8sm9s45e26ngszftjvxrgzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcrac2fe7ym I&#39;m looking for new homes for more than one Mastodon account, so tell me savvy-friends: Are there instances for audiobook fans &amp; narrators?<br/><br/>*I realize that the answer is probably either &#34;no&#34; or &#34;wut?&#34;, but if you have any suggestions, I&#39;d appreciate them.<br/><br/>**What do I narrate? Romance &amp; (under a different name and account) erotica. Even my spicy alt is solidly PG-13 though. <br/><br/>#Audiobook #Audiobooks #Bookstodon #Romancelandia #AskFedi <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub1skdmtjuzy0n3y6mzff02d8fsnep5hd85xxrwaa5nux6jd9ttyfrsvxz9az" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>audiobooks group</span> (<span class="italic">npub1skd…z9az</span>)</a></span> <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub1ny7qwqnkw6pg4m0uegzrdzwrckapzq7v7zku9p28hgv5aflvg8fq7zuv57" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>bookstodon group</span> (<span class="italic">npub1ny7…uv57</span>)</a></span> <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub1me9m8lh6kfs63q39vja8phwyw5hc7quwaxw7h2accepkc6g0w2wqf6z28v" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>Romancelandia group</span> (<span class="italic">npub1me9…z28v</span>)</a></span> <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub1444n9hg6pvv26x5wxgjune33e0rja5vkf02rcelp4zt5nl2qxpaqv97858" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>smutstodon group</span> (<span class="italic">npub1444…7858</span>)</a></span> 2025-07-09T10:27:02Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs8hw0pl05x5scnwpfwmlldy076us7p5w7u3gtvnt23wmejgq94rcgzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracd6savu What&#39;s the longest palindrome you know by heart?<br/><br/>#palindromes 2025-06-29T09:28:15Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsqhpw4fntz09kcj08ql4ca2kepwdaky4q6knc7am06tw0475fsa5czyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcrac3seu24 Two people whom I adore are in an amazing relationship together. <br/><br/>They met on Mastodon. When I boosted a post by one of them, and the other one saw it.<br/><br/>Boosting on Fedi: It&#39;s more powerful than you think!™ 2025-06-28T03:52:00Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs923us2nr0vwgnytdfzndjh92c72c7l890z3ltdemknsxm0nstezszyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracyxjvzm Fedi Meta Question:<br/><br/>I know that there are significant numbers of people in the Fediverse who appreciate CWs on posts about food. Do you like CWs on posts about tea / non-food drinks as well?<br/><br/>I&#39;m happy to do it if it helps people. I haven&#39;t come across discussions about this before so I&#39;m asking.<br/><br/>#Tea #FediEtiquette #FediMeta #MastodonMeta #AskFedi #ContentWarnings 2025-06-27T22:42:45Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsd9j65qea2awqsk52clu94wgnq5tun94x8ecx02dxkvk99t6709eczyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracvkc3qg In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsd8ttule4nq5zkzz0wdjj4j8kvkyvxmje2wwzxgdqrfky0f0sqfus2p2ndy'>nevent1q…2ndy</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I bought some online earlier this year so I could try it, and I&#39;m a fan!<br/><br/>I don&#39;t have a lot of good sulphur sources in my diet. I&#39;m really pleased to have come across it. <br/><br/>How do you like to use it? 2025-06-27T03:16:58Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsqvzrxcxwhpnrpjnku0j3uzt7mt97ltp5j9v05evdgvkmwmy836nqzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracs23qah I have watched my life burn to the ground and started again from scratch many, many times.<br/><br/>I believe in second acts and second chances.<br/><br/>I want to say this clearly for anyone who needs to hear it: it is possible to survive radical, unexpected and unwanted life changes, to start again, and to build a new life that is worth living. 2025-06-25T17:45:10Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsqzz7qqpnj78xc7dmxaq5nhyme5t3g54k4a3h3v4u2mfr8gxna50szyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcract0clsp It can be frustrating when all your friends are doing something cool and important that for whatever reason you can&#39;t be a part of. But there are often other ways you can help.<br/><br/>Give someone a ride. Give or lend them supplies or PPE. Babysit their kids. Do something else helpful that frees up their time so they can go.<br/><br/>It takes a village to do a lot of important things (including but not only raising kids). Your role in your village matters, too. 2025-06-13T20:04:38Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqstap74h77xca3lra7gt85mdx5jrug8u6lmutez64guxchn0u5kynszyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracje0ux6 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqjrjrzl5vw20xspdtv5jx9fjxcs0zemz73wft8zqlkpum42zw46sjruw5p'>nevent1q…uw5p</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>To be honest, I have no recollection of what was going through my mind at the time or why I thought it would be a good idea, except that I was confident it would make her laugh -- and I was right! 2025-06-13T10:05:20Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsqjrjrzl5vw20xspdtv5jx9fjxcs0zemz73wft8zqlkpum42zw46szyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcrac5wrz5k My life may have peaked when I gave a friend a stuffed toy in the shape of a gonorrhea bacterium as a gift for her new baby.<br/><br/>Especially when it went on to become the baby&#39;s favourite toy.<br/><br/>*My friend was a doctor and a huge nerd, very STEM-oriented, absolutely brilliant. She loved it. 2025-06-13T10:04:30Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsxenvlvwllmrzmex73rft9yxtacq4xxhrsl4a58lc6auxdxkc4gtszyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracrg4h3m If you dry your laundry inside (not outside), without using a laundry dryer, what works best for you?<br/><br/>I&#39;m thinking of trying out hanging sheets over doors. I might put a towel underneath so the doors don&#39;t dirty the sheets. (My house is super dry.)<br/><br/>*I&#39;m short, so my patience for this may wear out quickly.<br/><br/>If you dry sheets indoors sans dryer yourself (e.g., meet these criteria / are not speculating), I&#39;d love to hear about the methods you like best. 1/n<br/><br/>#Laundry #LaundryHacks 2025-06-12T01:15:14Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs0wl9ru8akv4jvxc5x8fwv3tpw4xw5kntrqa86gvjxykjjt72np3gzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcrac0x6t8w When I see discussions about &#34;ventilation&#34; to improve indoor air quality as a layer of protection against covid and other airborne diseases, they somehow never (from my limited POV) reference the challenges of erratic outdoor air quality. E.g., wildfire smoke, pollution, ground level ozone, etc.<br/><br/>Ventilation is great on paper but it doesn&#39;t work if it&#39;s not safe to open the windows. 2025-06-11T04:32:15Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs92qqf9u0w9yfs35206v7lls8lx78939rvv2t4ey994alsua3dlaqzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcrackr869a It looks like I am on the hunt for a new Mastodon instance!<br/><br/>Please let me know if you are on a server that you recommend that fits these criteria:<br/>- hosted in Europe;<br/>- stable;<br/>- well moderated by a team;<br/>- blocks Bluesky / Threads / etc.;<br/>- no petty blocking wars;<br/>- small or medium sized, not large.<br/><br/>Don&#39;t need special interest or regional focus. Don&#39;t need pushback on my criteria. <br/><br/>Any recs? Thank you.<br/><br/>#FediMeta #AskFedi 2025-06-02T00:08:12Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs92uzspnpjn8dtkvm2pn8k77cl803j69kmrulgc4k6qnzhpwxjxsgzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcractwzltk In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2njw8g8u0730xyrtrygavxyaeavhmzlu0ar22gf28tk4y3wt0xxceuwp6z'>nevent1q…wp6z</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Debbie, that&#39;s so hard. I&#39;m so sorry.<br/><br/>The physical isolation isn&#39;t the hard part for me. It&#39;s the social isolation of being profoundly alienated from people I previously trusted and respected. <br/><br/>I do not know how we cope with the betrayal and moral injury of these times.<br/><br/>I&#39;m right there with you. Solidarity. 2025-05-27T06:05:02Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs0afpwppl0p4f0utan82gtfc80qespdga8vgemd68dddy4kz7g8zszyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracgy7qax In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsyr2n8f5l2aa6kwdjweaypvjrps05knzwvzf5y8d3vk9ls4j408xqqmvuyr'>nevent1q…vuyr</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I feel like my one chance to still be alive in 10 years (or 5, or 3, or 1) is to do everything in my power to invest in my health, strength, preventative care and risk mitigation so that I do not have to rely on a healthcare system that may not be there. <br/><br/>(Not to mention nosocomial infections, obviously.) 2025-05-26T09:37:35Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqstzx8x0sg0zjspexa5yy8x93wnqfmm2pj2zq7hxztmxtp77meswgczyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcrac73emcm Please donate to your local food bank if you can. <br/><br/>Please make sure people you know have enough to eat.<br/><br/>It&#39;s one of many quiet, non-valorized, invisible ways you can literally save lives. 2025-05-25T01:54:02Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs8l9wjx3de7nmejxer6y6hekgk4rwmms4qgt02gm6smj0e06cdcuczyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcractuz044 I have two big issues with the multiple ongoing unchecked transmissible disease public health crises:<br/><br/>1. I will have to die of something someday but this is really not how I want to die (ill, alone, untended, miserable, of a preventable disease).<br/><br/>2. I don&#39;t actually want anyone to die from preventable disease.<br/><br/>#Polycrisis 2025-05-21T07:07:51Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsfxjvgyvd4dff7k0832y86vghpsqrf9gyl5w67e4pn84wehfuea7czyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcrac776t4r A system is what it does.<br/><br/>A system is what it does.<br/><br/>A system is what it does. 2025-05-19T20:44:33Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqswrhg0cz2mt93ff4mxzdwdjfk5m6w6w8f04ma2rxs2ad4exkrwwrszyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracyw6j8z In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsze4e6ucay367fkamuhpvne2emw8hu3j5237k9mtgd7572z5ahn3ch6ywzy'>nevent1q…ywzy</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>If you&#39;re a functioning adult, stop waiting for &#34;kids&#34; to save you. Roll up your sleeves and save them and yourself. Like an adult. 2025-05-19T03:19:10Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsze4e6ucay367fkamuhpvne2emw8hu3j5237k9mtgd7572z5ahn3czyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracnpakju &#34;The kids will save us&#34; is a form of socially-acceptable learned helplessness. 2025-05-19T03:17:14Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsr6q00r40qunjqxqjzh2f25t6uv6j2a6c0vzsyulpka802va3c8tqzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracd3f3ev I&#39;m starting a new hydroponic adventure: I just planted #Cockscomb (Celosia argentea var. cristata) for the very first time!<br/><br/>In theory I should have my first flowers in about 7 weeks. This will be my second hydroponic flowering plant after cornflowers, which have grown well for me.<br/><br/>I hope to thin down to one plant per seed pod &amp; transplant the extras into Kratky set-ups.<br/><br/>Cocksombs are edible. I look forward to trying them!<br/><br/>#Hydroponics #IndoorGardening <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub1v5apghd56gtt78hdjjjeg477fn5zdttcmf8c4ul07xs3way4ps6qdyny6w" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>gardening group</span> (<span class="italic">npub1v5a…ny6w</span>)</a></span><br/> <img src="https://cdn.masto.host/zirkus/media_attachments/files/114/475/219/593/416/139/original/cd5a04c1e9f748f1.jpg"> <br/> 2025-05-09T01:15:32Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsxtxwd067r3dq9xcwj6ss3ej9fvjvheyc4l2r9rj9q5w76qpzmclszyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracz0y9xz I&#39;ve seen a few calls for fediverse alternatives to AirBnB. I don&#39;t see how that can work.<br/><br/>AirBnB has absolutely destroyed rental markets, created artificial housing shortages, and driven up rents. It causes problems for neighbours and neighbourhoods. It also has serious issues with customer service and customer safety.<br/><br/>I don&#39;t see a way to reform this system or build something on this model if you care about safety, privacy and housing equity.<br/><br/>*Don&#39;t fanboy for AirBnB in my mentions, pls. 2025-05-06T04:58:51Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsf0ka8gnpn6jy5xxknc0tu7m7kmn4kz3kdvvs464h4tlyhwcdrcfgzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracsfte2d Currently reading: Enhancing growth and phytochemicals of two amaranth microgreens by LEDs light irradiation<br/><br/>In practice, this is about working out which hydroponic units to put my microgreen trays next to, to catch the spillover light.<br/><br/><a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0304423820300327">https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0304423820300327</a><br/><br/>#Microgreens #IndoorGardening <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub1v5apghd56gtt78hdjjjeg477fn5zdttcmf8c4ul07xs3way4ps6qdyny6w" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>gardening group</span> (<span class="italic">npub1v5a…ny6w</span>)</a></span> 2025-05-02T07:28:07Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsrvlm5s9v0yy2rmh3wgexl498v3wv736phhd65fqrac4z4x82j4sszyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracv9s8k5 I don&#39;t know about the rest of you all, but my Signal chats tonight are all about election jubilation and wow, is it ever nice to share in some communal joy for a change. <br/><br/>#ElbowsUp #Canada 2025-04-29T05:38:37Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsxxqfvsh9zlef4n9qec6dd48u8j0naflzhehzutge6ap3ty65uwpgzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcraceymwhu In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsghuy3w7t2dw2ephwry7uhhltk3ak690799mtv3k9vg63rn8ju9xqa3ver7'>nevent1q…ver7</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>If this is something you sincerely want to know, I&#39;m confident that you are capable of looking it up for yourself. 2025-04-26T04:19:32Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsrcekefte957jxjncnfwrd5p5qr85e05fy6v9ynx6pgwmne26pcvqzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracrnljvc Some of you will be familiar with Cora Ball, the device for filtering synthetic fibers out of your laundry water before it leaves the washing machine. I splurged and got one for myself! (I&#39;m also working on replacing synthetic with natural fibers; due to budget limitations, it will take time.) 1/n<br/><br/><a href="https://coraball.com/">https://coraball.com/</a><br/><br/>#Microplastics #Laundry #CoraBall 2025-04-26T03:56:50Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsprk6p3mge4zzg2vu5l7urqymkret4054s78rxclvumezyw0ryk6gzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracpxvva2 Tell me about your favourite photo of yourself. (You don&#39;t have to share it!)<br/><br/>When/how was it taken and why is it your favourite? 2025-04-25T05:30:43Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsdqda5uv64n7zagmv43xwmw4ckehurcdculc8rlyy38x5dhurdvjgzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracy6cc77 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsr6nmwn4dmkvdgz2tvyt4udk60t07hfv4zjyjh52xfmncya3484lcdj9jqh'>nevent1q…9jqh</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>That&#39;s a good analogy. 2025-04-25T05:11:08Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs8gsd3hnf6jejqzsfkeyvqzxp3x7wv4j80krkfz45405yzrsv9m7czyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracw69nf0 The moral injury of learning how many people absolutely do not care about the harm they knowingly do to others. 2025-04-25T04:48:13Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsrd223aal57w4yk0lh8clpnpngwqwjjff50tt04qf2gsujmlzx8cszyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcractlkecm I&#39;m looking for a non-plastic plant spray mister that I can order online in the US.<br/><br/>It&#39;s proving hard to find something that is:<br/>- contains zero plastic<br/>- actually works<br/>- lasts more than a year<br/>- not priced as a luxury item.<br/><br/>This is just for my indoor plants, it doesn&#39;t need to be huge. Glass or metal bodies would be fine.<br/><br/>Does anyone have recommendations? Thank you.<br/><br/>#Hydroponics #IndoorGardening #IndoorPlants <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub1v5apghd56gtt78hdjjjeg477fn5zdttcmf8c4ul07xs3way4ps6qdyny6w" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>gardening group</span> (<span class="italic">npub1v5a…ny6w</span>)</a></span> 2025-04-21T06:08:13Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsq54lw0cfky6mvf76n90wg6k9jhqekdtxfnkca0h0w7hrrvv0zjagzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcrac2h2jee Standard advice for Kratky method hydroponics uses all kinds of plastics.<br/><br/>However, I&#39;ve never been one to let things be easy. 😅 <br/><br/>One of my motivations for growing food indoors is to avoid microplastics. I&#39;m trying my best to grow Kratky style without plastic containers.<br/><br/>Budget limitations add another significant challenge.<br/><br/>But I can close the gap with ingenuity, time &amp; elbow grease. (I hope!)<br/><br/>#Hydropoincs #Kratky #KratkyMethod #IndoorGardening <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub1v5apghd56gtt78hdjjjeg477fn5zdttcmf8c4ul07xs3way4ps6qdyny6w" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>gardening group</span> (<span class="italic">npub1v5a…ny6w</span>)</a></span> 2025-04-19T06:16:39Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsqxtqyvmuvaahqc9p9lm9rjg5nyjx7js6jprjkjzhrjyhzwsl35mgzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracl2tc7r In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswrahglx5nllay8ykrdn6jms8uh207twn2a7grl3lt8dr2nu6ea8gmsrlah'>nevent1q…rlah</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>My goal with this thread is not to make anyone feel bad, individually or collectively.<br/><br/>It&#39;s a wake-up call. <br/><br/>Specifically, please stop talking about skin hunger to describe lesser things, at least to me. <br/><br/>Generally, please stop appropriating the language of suffering, especially to people who are suffering. It&#39;s a form of covert violence.<br/><br/>Maybe you never thought about it before. You almost certainly had no bad intentions. Now you have tools to do better &amp; stop harming your friends. xo 6/n 2025-04-12T06:50:43Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqswrahglx5nllay8ykrdn6jms8uh207twn2a7grl3lt8dr2nu6ea8gzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracwn9r6x In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2lwdpvzffgl80275au2pl7sdgyv85xp06cs5n7pw7j8esp648yggxwnlxl'>nevent1q…nlxl</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>It&#39;s about awareness of others, consideration, sensitivity, and appropriation of language and experience.<br/><br/>Sure, it&#39;s okay in general to use language metaphorically. I&#39;m a poet! I&#39;m down with that.<br/><br/>But please do not appropriate the language of other people&#39;s suffering and hardship to their faces to hyperbolically describe your own minor inconveniences. Please. <br/><br/>I&#39;m genuinely begging you. Please stop doing this. To everyone. 5/n 2025-04-12T06:41:19Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs2lwdpvzffgl80275au2pl7sdgyv85xp06cs5n7pw7j8esp648yggzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracjvtnuq In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs98jpx0hc9r30j6crfy9qenm2uswr4wcvjl8snms8nfzj0gs3snlq34tfz3'>nevent1q…tfz3</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>This reminds me of when a friend took me to lunch shortly after someone in my family died. (It was truly an act of kindness to get me out of the house -- before the pandemic started, obviously.)<br/><br/>This friend then went on to talk about how they had stagnated creatively and they felt like they were DEAD, their career was DEAD, their inspiration was DEAD, ti was all so DEAD DEAD DEAD.<br/><br/>It was insensitive &amp; indelicate. I was hardy holding on.<br/><br/>That&#39;s kind of how normie skin hunger lands for me. 4/n 2025-04-12T06:38:19Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs98jpx0hc9r30j6crfy9qenm2uswr4wcvjl8snms8nfzj0gs3snlqzyrp24c02lxy8dpa4wzd0640uu4vwnypxe0j6ayrj9lamknsfrcracvh568a In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsy0jg8zk0k96w2rrpjava8v60j9f0gajje9htjzt33gpc2ltd6lsc5pacgv'>nevent1q…acgv</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Fedi friends with touch-filled lives have complained about their skin hunger to me, too. If you think the OP is about you... it kind of is? But we&#39;re good. My friends here are people I adore. This is not a sub-toot and it&#39;s not about any one person.<br/><br/>That&#39;s the problem.<br/><br/>It&#39;s about all the people who do this to me all the time with increasing frequency.<br/><br/>I know it&#39;s not intentional or malicious, but it it thoughtless, hurtful, alienating, and overwhelming. 3/n 2025-04-12T06:34:21Z