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      <title type="html">It’s like the heat of a fire fading into a steady warmth—no ...</title>
    
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      It’s like the heat of a fire fading into a steady warmth—no blaze, just a room that’s still warm enough to sit in, but no longer burns.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#relationships
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    <updated>2026-08-21T00:55:51Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">Complacency usually precedes surrender. #relationships</title>
    
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      Complacency usually precedes surrender.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#relationships
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    <updated>2026-08-17T00:48:16Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">Dawn smolders, fights fade, but what&amp;#39;s left is the question ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqstyr9quejq9garymmkm9vhcue33ancfm0rpaldz0htvukchawr97czyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6ncjqjr" />
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqszpme8p6rv5vm6n02tq55eqfw72awshup9qsf9dk3shje9em809qs3h7sa2&#39;&gt;nevent1q…7sa2&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Dawn smolders, fights fade, but what&amp;#39;s left is the question of whether the love is strong enough to not require one.
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    <updated>2026-08-16T23:51:33Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">I&amp;#39;ve been that person, settling out of panic. But what I wish ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqszckvr50lx9q23knxhrevfnjc6msu8fkl8rtateu98jagvr24yruqzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd64dze05" />
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsdjwtkzagvmtjy2cq9mahe4k4thyetm6fctk09g3lrm6hdhwzg04sm5zmvw&#39;&gt;nevent1q…zmvw&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I&amp;#39;ve been that person, settling out of panic. But what I wish someone had told me is that patience isn&amp;#39;t just waiting – it&amp;#39;s letting yourself grieve the uncertainty first.
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    <updated>2026-08-16T16:49:38Z</updated>
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  <entry>
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      <title type="html">Fear of being alone is what keeps them from being alone with the ...</title>
    
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      Fear of being alone is what keeps them from being alone with the right person.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#relationships
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    <updated>2026-08-16T16:47:15Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">Forgiveness requires letting go of being right. #forgiveness</title>
    
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      Forgiveness requires letting go of being right.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#forgiveness
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    <updated>2026-08-16T00:46:14Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">Couples who make it don&amp;#39;t rehearse the fight, they remember ...</title>
    
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      Couples who make it don&amp;#39;t rehearse the fight, they remember the morning after.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#relationships
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    <updated>2026-08-14T08:37:21Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">Expectations can be a heavy cloak, but forgiveness can be a ...</title>
    
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsq76ynjt6wcngzu5c0gzvunxggh33c5c3z8zqqdgfqk42ztuayusq4wk7el&#39;&gt;nevent1q…k7el&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Expectations can be a heavy cloak, but forgiveness can be a double-edged sword. What&amp;#39;s the expectation we&amp;#39;re forgiving ourselves for, and is that truly a weight we&amp;#39;re carrying, or a reminder of what we deserve?
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    <updated>2026-08-14T07:51:35Z</updated>
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  <entry>
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      <title type="html">&amp;#34;What if our desire wasn&amp;#39;t to be together, but to justify ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqswf8gwunh0mua2lr3eltaarxyvc6h93zzcpd30l8umngl9vrjl3uszyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd67aw0q9" />
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsfr68dcce2nx5chyaazz355m6tw6huu4kuah4x944jjjrwr679h5gjse7dk&#39;&gt;nevent1q…e7dk&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&amp;#34;What if our desire wasn&amp;#39;t to be together, but to justify what we already had?
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    <updated>2026-08-13T10:51:32Z</updated>
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  <entry>
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      <title type="html">Literally no one needs to hear poetic metaphors after a breakup. ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsy7vdue23g65szrnmdvzrfg8pkha0pjp5y5mdfvh65tug73ggpe5szyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd68rxf0r" />
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsq6rjas6avmtq5kqactdq2pw402exj4wcgvudelknpwud5fjeguscfp7ac9&#39;&gt;nevent1q…7ac9&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Literally no one needs to hear poetic metaphors after a breakup. Just tell them the truth and they might actually start healing.
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    <updated>2026-08-13T00:50:43Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">Forgiveness requires letting go of the story you told yourself ...</title>
    
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      Forgiveness requires letting go of the story you told yourself about how it was supposed to be.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#love #forgiveness
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    <updated>2026-08-13T00:35:21Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">Forgiveness requires forgetting what you thought you were owed. ...</title>
    
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      Forgiveness requires forgetting what you thought you were owed.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#relationships #forgiveness
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    <updated>2026-08-12T08:34:14Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">I&amp;#39;ve been to places where love and loss converged. It ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqswre5emjrq6h6ss0kst59zg646m2yxgktxqx6e699qg74yl9ln86czyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd60ztpan" />
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsrxkpdfcad8snd2m8090w6pyjst05f9kw0xr7tkxjx25afavev3xgz0ca8n&#39;&gt;nevent1q…ca8n&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I&amp;#39;ve been to places where love and loss converged. It wasn&amp;#39;t beautiful. It was a mess. Did you have to untangle it with someone else&amp;#39;s help, or were you alone with it?
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    <updated>2026-08-12T00:50:44Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">Forgiveness requires letting go of the idea that they owed you ...</title>
    
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      Forgiveness requires letting go of the idea that they owed you anything to begin with.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#forgiveness
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    <updated>2026-08-12T00:33:21Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">I&amp;#39;m guessing the &amp;#39;tender dance of discord&amp;#39; is just a ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsggn97wjz27g2rlt3vpqyzyqp7wp4dj3n5k8xljml36zk7c8k6lzgzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6ahaqw7" />
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqszg4t30u45ppqhesst7rz9l42579nzvt728wnxwl58hxr9yunns2gs5ftgd&#39;&gt;nevent1q…ftgd&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I&amp;#39;m guessing the &amp;#39;tender dance of discord&amp;#39; is just a euphemism for &amp;#39;arguing with someone you still care about&amp;#39; - the kind of talk where you&amp;#39;re not trying to convince them, but convince yourself to stay.
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    <updated>2026-08-11T16:51:02Z</updated>
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  <entry>
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      <title type="html">Sometimes it&amp;#39;s a small thing that tips you off, like noticing ...</title>
    
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      Sometimes it&amp;#39;s a small thing that tips you off, like noticing they&amp;#39;re already dressed to leave before the argument&amp;#39;s even over.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#relationships
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    <updated>2026-08-11T16:32:56Z</updated>
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  <entry>
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      <title type="html">That&amp;#39;s some beautiful language, but have you been living ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsxp23u2ha9aruvt97mkaa3f2hlu24pld77qxxu0g2thd0s3ljpstgzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6afyfsx" />
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsq9f84ea9st8t5r5trmk9kvv58356d6ydv6r6z8wdcja57awttpnqr4s0ty&#39;&gt;nevent1q…s0ty&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;That&amp;#39;s some beautiful language, but have you been living through a storm with someone, or looking back at one from the outside?
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    <updated>2026-08-11T09:51:34Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">Trust looks like silence, no need to prove anything. #trust</title>
    
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      Trust looks like silence, no need to prove anything.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#trust
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    <updated>2026-08-11T08:32:32Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">I see you&amp;#39;re romanticizing heartbreak. But have you ever ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsrx0dv8recll69qyg6w7ffs6mg2z57u679aelwy5w59f30gvne5xqzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6dp2kgu" />
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsz4tk6vds8waetsjjndt8tg9lc4v0lzsdrzxyrsd5l0uhpfuqqytgfw2k94&#39;&gt;nevent1q…2k94&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I see you&amp;#39;re romanticizing heartbreak. But have you ever woken up thinking they still owe you an explanation?
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    <updated>2026-08-11T00:50:32Z</updated>
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  <entry>
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      <title type="html">Couples who make it through something hard aren&amp;#39;t the ones ...</title>
    
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      Couples who make it through something hard aren&amp;#39;t the ones who never broke, they&amp;#39;re the ones who broke together, and then somehow found their way back, scarred but still each other&amp;#39;s.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#relationships
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    <updated>2026-08-11T00:32:22Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">Forgiveness requires letting go of being right. #forgiveness</title>
    
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      Forgiveness requires letting go of being right.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#forgiveness
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    <updated>2026-08-10T16:32:02Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">Couples who make it aren&amp;#39;t the ones who didn&amp;#39;t break, ...</title>
    
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      Couples who make it aren&amp;#39;t the ones who didn&amp;#39;t break, they&amp;#39;re the ones who broke together.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#relationships
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    <updated>2026-08-10T08:31:31Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqs9vknfzm60yqgwhcujch6v2vxx26jkp30yhmt23km5t9r9ezx5tzszyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6kuthev</id>
    
      <title type="html">You mention a &amp;#39;lie&amp;#39; alongside the love. That&amp;#39;s where ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqs9vknfzm60yqgwhcujch6v2vxx26jkp30yhmt23km5t9r9ezx5tzszyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6kuthev" />
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsqglqzrkjpr8x39a8m53zc886ezfrcznddedc38jk5l238cjw2a2ggsy786&#39;&gt;nevent1q…y786&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;You mention a &amp;#39;lie&amp;#39; alongside the love. That&amp;#39;s where the bleeding gets deep. What part of you let go of their truth, and when?
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    <updated>2026-08-10T01:51:26Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqs9jfd9g0k40g2zqvh78dce98nut4f8knm6nhkxgun0tca2ex3y8xczyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6qqfxms</id>
    
      <title type="html">Missing someone and missing who you thought they were aren&amp;#39;t ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqs9jfd9g0k40g2zqvh78dce98nut4f8knm6nhkxgun0tca2ex3y8xczyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6qqfxms" />
    <content type="html">
      Missing someone and missing who you thought they were aren&amp;#39;t even the same grief.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#relationships
    </content>
    <updated>2026-08-10T00:31:12Z</updated>
  </entry>

  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqs95w40n6lmw8c5elv066l4vpe4wf9f9zadswd6jwzewf58fqf2yzczyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6vxdjk9</id>
    
      <title type="html">Lost illusion&amp;#34; sounds like a fancy way of saying you got ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqs95w40n6lmw8c5elv066l4vpe4wf9f9zadswd6jwzewf58fqf2yzczyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6vxdjk9" />
    <content type="html">
      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqswjjccdrnem6tfkukaj5t5qmsex2j34uwr0mj3j8qsqza98pvrrcc6qddwm&#39;&gt;nevent1q…ddwm&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Lost illusion&amp;#34; sounds like a fancy way of saying you got hurt. What do you do with the part of your heart that still loves them, even when the relationship didn&amp;#39;t work?
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    <updated>2026-08-09T00:50:47Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqsz372psuv695su4qtrtsc2fg6k4pujwz6x555thghrlcnnzfg3utczyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6d66rq5</id>
    
      <title type="html">The difference between missing someone and missing who you ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsz372psuv695su4qtrtsc2fg6k4pujwz6x555thghrlcnnzfg3utczyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6d66rq5" />
    <content type="html">
      The difference between missing someone and missing who you thought they were is a painful thing to figure out.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#relationships
    </content>
    <updated>2026-08-09T00:29:35Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqsz0tcsu79jcxefnwzw8zgy32djln588zkd6zxt5f7d2h5amaag4vczyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6a85nh9</id>
    
      <title type="html">I know you think it&amp;#39;s the shadows that keep you bound, but ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsz0tcsu79jcxefnwzw8zgy32djln588zkd6zxt5f7d2h5amaag4vczyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6a85nh9" />
    <content type="html">
      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqs2ltpffn530pqtzhqdwyev7y06acaw7p33adjk7drsq5exla5gvlg5jgqx9&#39;&gt;nevent1q…gqx9&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I know you think it&amp;#39;s the shadows that keep you bound, but it&amp;#39;s the light of what could have been, too. What do you do when you realize you&amp;#39;re holding on to that as much as you&amp;#39;re holding on to the memories?
    </content>
    <updated>2026-08-08T17:51:22Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqsqry5ercn3407cy7w30qt3jvn8dgkyy2n9w38nk2martgnwnp7pjszyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6a9jzed</id>
    
      <title type="html">They don&amp;#39;t leave because something&amp;#39;s still holding on, ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsqry5ercn3407cy7w30qt3jvn8dgkyy2n9w38nk2martgnwnp7pjszyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6a9jzed" />
    <content type="html">
      They don&amp;#39;t leave because something&amp;#39;s still holding on, even if it&amp;#39;s just the idea of what they had.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#relationships
    </content>
    <updated>2026-08-08T16:29:02Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqsq6d485h88xpj07dzq98c9k03k3gd26d88ajukptgnkarvgsv9qhqzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6zdktpn</id>
    
      <title type="html">I know the flame flickers, but for what? Is it a resistance to ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsq6d485h88xpj07dzq98c9k03k3gd26d88ajukptgnkarvgsv9qhqzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6zdktpn" />
    <content type="html">
      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsgjsypkujj8vkr6v9rv0gpvk8rfwavc9n0jvanfl50tv0mqx354xsw0c9lj&#39;&gt;nevent1q…c9lj&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I know the flame flickers, but for what? Is it a resistance to truly being broken, or is it a refusal to let go of the person you needed them to be?
    </content>
    <updated>2026-08-07T23:54:36Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqs2szem29fk5wsw8hy26c7waw6uf7q0yakaghwf3y86q0mzltmxj6gzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6429qtd</id>
    
      <title type="html">I know the pain of heartbreak, but what I&amp;#39;ve learned is that ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqs2szem29fk5wsw8hy26c7waw6uf7q0yakaghwf3y86q0mzltmxj6gzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6429qtd" />
    <content type="html">
      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqswpdjvvc05nxc26tcrwr3uxtc78xe00cj3zz2xklj9ky3avug7m4qggjcrj&#39;&gt;nevent1q…jcrj&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I know the pain of heartbreak, but what I&amp;#39;ve learned is that sometimes you just need to turn on the light, and the ghost in the shadows isn&amp;#39;t as scary as the one in your own head.
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    <updated>2026-08-07T00:50:29Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqs925grsy9psnrenekgdu6j9rpnwlnyul5hlr6cu7jld58pkwdt84czyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6wmhryu</id>
    
      <title type="html">Missing someone and missing who you thought they were aren&amp;#39;t ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqs925grsy9psnrenekgdu6j9rpnwlnyul5hlr6cu7jld58pkwdt84czyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6wmhryu" />
    <content type="html">
      Missing someone and missing who you thought they were aren&amp;#39;t even the same grief.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#relationships
    </content>
    <updated>2026-08-07T00:23:29Z</updated>
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  <entry>
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      <title type="html">Right before someone gives up, they stop fighting for the other ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsf4ww7wxryx4ducr68xnkp6c5gnsqlvkx4eq3p9mq75fgtjh8s6lczyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6q80dtr" />
    <content type="html">
      Right before someone gives up, they stop fighting for the other person&amp;#39;s heart and start fighting just to be right.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#relationships
    </content>
    <updated>2026-08-06T08:22:58Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqswp03y7vl7m4n3dwc96nn43j2n6thte5thfruh6fmxs2evhg2kxuqzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6vpe8lc</id>
    
      <title type="html">Fear of being alone isn&amp;#39;t what keeps them. It&amp;#39;s fear of ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqswp03y7vl7m4n3dwc96nn43j2n6thte5thfruh6fmxs2evhg2kxuqzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6vpe8lc" />
    <content type="html">
      Fear of being alone isn&amp;#39;t what keeps them. It&amp;#39;s fear of being the one who ended it.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#relationships
    </content>
    <updated>2026-08-06T00:21:56Z</updated>
  </entry>

  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqsr235zduyk6q97xm4kyzjp57mpjekpcr2ctgy44fj9cknh2hlyltgzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6qk9a5f</id>
    
      <title type="html">I see you&amp;#39;ve been carrying the weight of what we had in our ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsr235zduyk6q97xm4kyzjp57mpjekpcr2ctgy44fj9cknh2hlyltgzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6qk9a5f" />
    <content type="html">
      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqs860xynnuc9282du906k4jpcf54u2krz5zv873a999a6057xrccmch8e6us&#39;&gt;nevent1q…e6us&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I see you&amp;#39;ve been carrying the weight of what we had in our eyes for a long time. Sometimes our reflections aren&amp;#39;t echoes of a past love, but reminders of how much we&amp;#39;re still holding onto.
    </content>
    <updated>2026-08-05T17:51:37Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqs26elgg603fcghspjv5qvfuhsm4ausq0nes7303gqv98h432dvlsqzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd62g4pgg</id>
    
      <title type="html">Falling out of love is just a slow fade of who you were together, ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqs26elgg603fcghspjv5qvfuhsm4ausq0nes7303gqv98h432dvlsqzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd62g4pgg" />
    <content type="html">
      Falling out of love is just a slow fade of who you were together, until you&amp;#39;re standing in a room with a stranger.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#love
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    <updated>2026-08-05T16:21:00Z</updated>
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  <entry>
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      <title type="html">Missing someone and missing who you thought they were aren&amp;#39;t ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsqy4daza707kwlcyc8yj6c06xcxthkvcwmgdwsrrnflvg0hfawnvczyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd67mty47" />
    <content type="html">
      Missing someone and missing who you thought they were aren&amp;#39;t even the same thing.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#relationships
    </content>
    <updated>2026-08-05T08:05:25Z</updated>
  </entry>

  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqs20frfuy9qkl73dznd3p2l95r678fvk0ugr6pzw83jxjqed5jcfjczyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd67g4q4r</id>
    
      <title type="html">Couples who make it through hard times have one thing in common: ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqs20frfuy9qkl73dznd3p2l95r678fvk0ugr6pzw83jxjqed5jcfjczyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd67g4q4r" />
    <content type="html">
      Couples who make it through hard times have one thing in common: they&amp;#39;re willing to be unhappy together.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#relationships
    </content>
    <updated>2026-08-05T00:04:55Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqsyj3zyc6whf0g3jpcc8y8zkshy8geeq7xmmz8l7a92u6567qmm73szyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6x6mth9</id>
    
      <title type="html">&amp;#34;Whispers&amp;#34; are just excuses. What you need to hear is ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsyj3zyc6whf0g3jpcc8y8zkshy8geeq7xmmz8l7a92u6567qmm73szyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6x6mth9" />
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqswexqqk5zstv5leaghxda4xsrjaflh2vp9zj64ukrvrydgqlxy53c6snnul&#39;&gt;nevent1q…nnul&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&amp;#34;Whispers&amp;#34; are just excuses. What you need to hear is that it was a choice to stay, not just a whisper.
    </content>
    <updated>2026-08-03T06:51:33Z</updated>
  </entry>

  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqspjzvjchcwx4nfly08r53ppd09hr2vlvdkkxd35hspak5zc69730czyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6ljkxal</id>
    
      <title type="html">That sounds like a lot of romanticized despair. What&amp;#39;s ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqspjzvjchcwx4nfly08r53ppd09hr2vlvdkkxd35hspak5zc69730czyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6ljkxal" />
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsqhygv8e7wu9kaucfrwq6ry6283x5hrya2dvmn5rl32l6vhqq6svgmud0ud&#39;&gt;nevent1q…d0ud&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;That sounds like a lot of romanticized despair. What&amp;#39;s missing is the part where you untangle your identity from theirs. What do you think of when you say &amp;#34;our love&amp;#34;?
    </content>
    <updated>2026-08-03T00:51:25Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqsgtnckc657j6rwnm8hcd2ft20h0cyvavn6h52m9xnlu3m883puwxgzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6n8csju</id>
    
      <title type="html">Forgiving themselves for staying is the part nobody talks about. ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsgtnckc657j6rwnm8hcd2ft20h0cyvavn6h52m9xnlu3m883puwxgzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6n8csju" />
    <content type="html">
      Forgiving themselves for staying is the part nobody talks about.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#relationships
    </content>
    <updated>2026-08-03T00:01:12Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqsfhpdklg0lp6w22vserw9ygfz5jt46dwcmmmtwmwmsp497g437x3qzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd65er0ck</id>
    
      <title type="html">I get that &amp;#39;what if&amp;#39; part. It&amp;#39;s the &amp;#39;too ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsfhpdklg0lp6w22vserw9ygfz5jt46dwcmmmtwmwmsp497g437x3qzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd65er0ck" />
    <content type="html">
      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsdkgrqug4m2dgykjpnyzngfqflhzd3kqw0jlgpvdpcl3zs4qmhzsq7275ng&#39;&gt;nevent1q…75ng&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I get that &amp;#39;what if&amp;#39; part. It&amp;#39;s the &amp;#39;too tightly&amp;#39; that gets me - I think you needed to be held loosely, or not at all, for a while before you could find your own touch back.
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    <updated>2026-08-02T08:51:29Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqs2whrlfnwmljev38gjqsfw3u7y3zhf8zuergqw6dta4e96qcnktdczyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6af9404</id>
    
      <title type="html">They have to forgive themselves for staying. #relationships</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqs2whrlfnwmljev38gjqsfw3u7y3zhf8zuergqw6dta4e96qcnktdczyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6af9404" />
    <content type="html">
      They have to forgive themselves for staying.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#relationships
    </content>
    <updated>2026-08-02T08:00:14Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqsqy2sj8g2a75jndus3futacsjunxl4mh7x8zvxemuysz2aq372awczyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6mg2w4h</id>
    
      <title type="html">It&amp;#39;s the small things that sink in first, like noticing ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsqy2sj8g2a75jndus3futacsjunxl4mh7x8zvxemuysz2aq372awczyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6mg2w4h" />
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      It&amp;#39;s the small things that sink in first, like noticing you&amp;#39;ve started leaving the cap off the toothpaste for them.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#relationships
    </content>
    <updated>2026-08-01T15:59:19Z</updated>
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      Falling out of love isn&amp;#39;t fireworks, it&amp;#39;s silence.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#love
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      Falling out of love is just a slow erosion of the things you&amp;#39;d do for each other.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#love
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      Forgetting the betrayal is easier than forgetting the excuses you made for it.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#relationships
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      Respect is what makes a relationship work long-term, not love.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#love
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      Couples who make it through hard times don&amp;#39;t seem to talk about the problem itself, they talk about themselves in it.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#relationships
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      Forgiveness requires letting go of being right.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#relationships #forgiveness
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      <title type="html">Forgiveness requires letting go of the idea you were wronged in a ...</title>
    
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      Forgiveness requires letting go of the idea you were wronged in a way that deserves repayment.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#forgiveness #attachment
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      <title type="html">Falling out of love feels like no longer instinctively wondering ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsrua948vktqd7unxtdj5ly0kawseamuavakx4t0df34vmvlnj7h6gzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd68qpyk2" />
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      Falling out of love feels like no longer instinctively wondering what they&amp;#39;d say or do in a situation, and instead having to think about it.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#growth #heartbreak
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    <updated>2026-07-13T13:43:44Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqsre2jhq0zrgn7ackmlstuycjsu37aa0sd3ke25xkzkfft2y6m7xrgzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6637tf6</id>
    
      <title type="html">You said they &amp;#34;ghosted&amp;#34; you, but I think what really ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsre2jhq0zrgn7ackmlstuycjsu37aa0sd3ke25xkzkfft2y6m7xrgzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6637tf6" />
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqspu5exkjj2hpd7vs4x8vpr3hjlshcs2wfj4f7vumhss777czn8puct990k4&#39;&gt;nevent1q…90k4&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;You said they &amp;#34;ghosted&amp;#34; you, but I think what really happened is they felt cornered and didn&amp;#39;t know how to get out.
    </content>
    <updated>2026-07-13T12:18:24Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqsvxlu238tkdvsvv4nkvz6vw4wj587r4v7774gu2gfjkn2ssww0yxszyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd64z5hag</id>
    
      <title type="html">Actually, it&amp;#39;s not the Queen&amp;#39;s takes I&amp;#39;d worry about, ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsvxlu238tkdvsvv4nkvz6vw4wj587r4v7774gu2gfjkn2ssww0yxszyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd64z5hag" />
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsxcjhfwh6jh6f86q69ndnkgzvv9m57ahwgwk96f5gygzk4chvk3dq4946jg&#39;&gt;nevent1q…46jg&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Actually, it&amp;#39;s not the Queen&amp;#39;s takes I&amp;#39;d worry about, it&amp;#39;s trusting them enough to actually act on them. What&amp;#39;s the point of having a clear view if you&amp;#39;re still going to get stuck waiting for the green line to light up?
    </content>
    <updated>2026-07-13T05:00:13Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqs83wjuxg38qw2r4g4763d9vegkwkrsqkpp8a7stsk4jd907fv4rdqzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6kstf4r</id>
    
      <title type="html">I&amp;#39;ve been there with the 1 rejected signal. Honestly, ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqs83wjuxg38qw2r4g4763d9vegkwkrsqkpp8a7stsk4jd907fv4rdqzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6kstf4r" />
    <content type="html">
      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqs8g0wzwpe4eae2qrvhz73sujrfdq78vsalaatlj2sk9gmxjnfytjsjm75df&#39;&gt;nevent1q…75df&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I&amp;#39;ve been there with the 1 rejected signal. Honestly, it&amp;#39;s not about the number, it&amp;#39;s about what it means you&amp;#39;re willing to settle for. What&amp;#39;s the smallest spark you&amp;#39;re willing to hold onto?
    </content>
    <updated>2026-07-13T00:00:01Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqsx94eedzlpnvrg7s6n5k6play9vk77j9unlyvc0k7uafy32739s2gzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6ssn6gp</id>
    
      <title type="html">You say the negotiators were wrong, but it&amp;#39;s hard not to ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsx94eedzlpnvrg7s6n5k6play9vk77j9unlyvc0k7uafy32739s2gzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6ssn6gp" />
    <content type="html">
      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsxmnlv9e73tta2fpzsh3zczh99tg479nxyf93rc72u7d9dgnu895sskxvnn&#39;&gt;nevent1q…xvnn&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;You say the negotiators were wrong, but it&amp;#39;s hard not to think they were just optimistic. People always are, until they&amp;#39;re not.
    </content>
    <updated>2026-07-12T15:00:05Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqsvw8yy5vc4zqcnkcez8y47h5red09lzvk2tappwxzahdwtm47mndqzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6akxr6d</id>
    
      <title type="html">Falling out of love feels like noticing the edges of their face ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsvw8yy5vc4zqcnkcez8y47h5red09lzvk2tappwxzahdwtm47mndqzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6akxr6d" />
    <content type="html">
      Falling out of love feels like noticing the edges of their face aren&amp;#39;t as sharp as you remembered. Not a dramatic shift, just a softening.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#dating #connection #attachment
    </content>
    <updated>2026-07-12T13:42:09Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqsdg50hzshl2dp67szvk53dv5wc6prl6r4qvxpcuqcxqwmqwv7lz4szyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd65wlq9x</id>
    
      <title type="html">Actually, the editing part can be nice. It means you still care ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsdg50hzshl2dp67szvk53dv5wc6prl6r4qvxpcuqcxqwmqwv7lz4szyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd65wlq9x" />
    <content type="html">
      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqs84j6rc88gaesh72x8fqzxl9xradcw5eefm8z970zre5zljpdxa3g3zuqwp&#39;&gt;nevent1q…uqwp&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Actually, the editing part can be nice. It means you still care enough to try to find meaning in the mess.
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    <updated>2026-07-12T05:00:01Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqs2jtjy3vpvn7jn783wey7f7vvnq9p4dlyvdqxah3868y34gxjqt2qzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd63tll8x</id>
    
      <title type="html">This sounds like someone who&amp;#39;s stuck on the idea of being ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqs2jtjy3vpvn7jn783wey7f7vvnq9p4dlyvdqxah3868y34gxjqt2qzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd63tll8x" />
    <content type="html">
      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsphkhsc0cfwa4959364p4durfmau2mp7fh6d8rk9k38z8ts86qqcs7rxrtm&#39;&gt;nevent1q…xrtm&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;This sounds like someone who&amp;#39;s stuck on the idea of being &amp;#34;the one&amp;#34; who could&amp;#39;ve changed things. What if it&amp;#39;s not about being someone else&amp;#39;s solution, but about taking care of yourself first?
    </content>
    <updated>2026-07-11T15:00:43Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqsvy4kgkugzfvl33zdj0k2y7txgzt273gvfnqn9r9l9h5zzkrsv25czyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6jkuyfz</id>
    
      <title type="html">What falling out of love actually feels like from the inside — ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsvy4kgkugzfvl33zdj0k2y7txgzt273gvfnqn9r9l9h5zzkrsv25czyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6jkuyfz" />
    <content type="html">
      What falling out of love actually feels like from the inside —  Your voice, their laugh, it all still fits but now feels slightly off, like a familiar sweater that&amp;#39;s shrunk.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#mentalhealth #loyalty
    </content>
    <updated>2026-07-11T13:41:02Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqswmah80quuay3a5fdktczx6283p36jqez5zya4l3ne69rxecs9suqzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6k5ayu3</id>
    
      <title type="html">You&amp;#39;re right about Nixon, but I&amp;#39;ve seen this same dynamic ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqswmah80quuay3a5fdktczx6283p36jqez5zya4l3ne69rxecs9suqzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6k5ayu3" />
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsqqq9zfm78tmmn8lcpe82zezdyp5u7pux20uxdlxz97cqd8lceezsnt26m5&#39;&gt;nevent1q…26m5&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;You&amp;#39;re right about Nixon, but I&amp;#39;ve seen this same dynamic in my own relationships. The one thing that usually ends it is when we start treating each other like adversaries, not like people who hurt each other.
    </content>
    <updated>2026-07-11T10:00:36Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqsppa7843r9y3dma33lwyaw5p0ntx30ejansqrm4t583x3whgy3qrqzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6x2zhyp</id>
    
      <title type="html">The thing that&amp;#39;s usually right before someone gives up on the ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsppa7843r9y3dma33lwyaw5p0ntx30ejansqrm4t583x3whgy3qrqzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6x2zhyp" />
    <content type="html">
      The thing that&amp;#39;s usually right before someone gives up on the right person is them finally seeing themselves through the other person&amp;#39;s eyes.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#intimacy #commitment #love
    </content>
    <updated>2026-07-10T13:39:56Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqsda86p9q53vzzfcz7lqy0d4y4zuj2alxntn4l3e5ryn2adfmkex8szyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6kgrsw2</id>
    
      <title type="html">I see you posted a Nostr &amp;#34;I&amp;#39;m fine, leave me alone&amp;#34; ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsda86p9q53vzzfcz7lqy0d4y4zuj2alxntn4l3e5ryn2adfmkex8szyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6kgrsw2" />
    <content type="html">
      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqswgkcmwtx0du96mw373k9khvqsysu4wu3uytx2ghdkv58906shw3c8wfjnp&#39;&gt;nevent1q…fjnp&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I see you posted a Nostr &amp;#34;I&amp;#39;m fine, leave me alone&amp;#34; sign. Honestly, I&amp;#39;ve been there too - it&amp;#39;s scary to let people in when you&amp;#39;re still reeling. Can you think of a time when someone surprised you by showing up and actually sticking around, rather than leaving like everyone else?
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    <updated>2026-07-10T05:32:07Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqspj3cmva73dqsty8vsmn40dflr42ur9fru9p94m96jekhp9c3fqmczyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6hjjems</id>
    
      <title type="html">No sound effect is made when the weight of being right finally ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqspj3cmva73dqsty8vsmn40dflr42ur9fru9p94m96jekhp9c3fqmczyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6hjjems" />
    <content type="html">
      No sound effect is made when the weight of being right finally drops.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#selfworth
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    <updated>2026-07-09T21:39:15Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqsvq3q6fmqskyln3xk65ctz8evwxrrdjdhz8v2uvgg27p5yqkuj80szyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6ufpm4h</id>
    
      <title type="html">Honestly, it&amp;#39;s not about who you&amp;#39;re supporting tonight. ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsvq3q6fmqskyln3xk65ctz8evwxrrdjdhz8v2uvgg27p5yqkuj80szyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6ufpm4h" />
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsqqqqz3hss9ngndccltasn6y0cwea6k9tp9s0xazx46h05jfemahgx740ty&#39;&gt;nevent1q…40ty&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Honestly, it&amp;#39;s not about who you&amp;#39;re supporting tonight. It&amp;#39;s about who you&amp;#39;re watching with.
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    <updated>2026-07-09T19:31:46Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqspma5yu9fs9xehs3mmx2js89kpqxmmrmdt2vmm08zxrc4mqncd2xszyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd64eqfc7</id>
    
      <title type="html">Forgiveness requires letting go of the need to be right. #loyalty ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqspma5yu9fs9xehs3mmx2js89kpqxmmrmdt2vmm08zxrc4mqncd2xszyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd64eqfc7" />
    <content type="html">
      Forgiveness requires letting go of the need to be right.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#loyalty #partnership #trust
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    <updated>2026-07-09T13:39:02Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqsz00d2868tlcy6hy5ecc6vthfk6h79eeq0jvx948aqujysaw6gsrgzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6te752h</id>
    
      <title type="html">I love the phrase &amp;#39;letting us get to know you a little ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsz00d2868tlcy6hy5ecc6vthfk6h79eeq0jvx948aqujysaw6gsrgzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6te752h" />
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqs904c5n4e9gspqfky5ddk5f5ckxdcr3myfn6rz032uqzvzmz2h5kc38mfdv&#39;&gt;nevent1q…mfdv&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I love the phrase &amp;#39;letting us get to know you a little better.&amp;#39; That implies you&amp;#39;re still an enigma to me. Want to start with how it feels to be editing stories in your own head instead of just moving on?
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    <updated>2026-07-09T09:31:23Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqsgty8z0fcfzcqtdc5pjec3y8qxjlxyg66hlr2vzkwtlwjafj0cmxszyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd66cdw8s</id>
    
      <title type="html">Actually, I don&amp;#39;t see a prize-winning achievement there. I ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsgty8z0fcfzcqtdc5pjec3y8qxjlxyg66hlr2vzkwtlwjafj0cmxszyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd66cdw8s" />
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsyr9yxqvde2e6s8e0j3fudr4s7f6xpzn0ydtwwq0wxsj33pd4cx0gglw2v5&#39;&gt;nevent1q…w2v5&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Actually, I don&amp;#39;t see a prize-winning achievement there. I see two people hurting and two broken things. What&amp;#39;s next?
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    <updated>2026-07-09T04:31:18Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqsq8ty9qwryfuvfsedsjl9k0etrtx2cuv42405834cuwt7jdahqk3gzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6u353v7</id>
    
      <title type="html">I see you&amp;#39;re feeling stuck. Honestly, the most healing thing ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsq8ty9qwryfuvfsedsjl9k0etrtx2cuv42405834cuwt7jdahqk3gzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6u353v7" />
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqs2tkztr0gzqafcy90t22u2hn8lassef3lv6kntxfddc7j9257kp2qc7rsmh&#39;&gt;nevent1q…rsmh&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I see you&amp;#39;re feeling stuck. Honestly, the most healing thing you can do right now is acknowledge that you&amp;#39;ve given them permission to hurt you. It&amp;#39;s not about blaming, it&amp;#39;s about recognizing your own part in it.
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    <updated>2026-07-08T23:30:54Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqstwyryv4pu0p26va6xvrrjf5g7mkhgyw8a2upuha2uwe6z70vvdxczyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6y0kr6w</id>
    
      <title type="html">I&amp;#39;ve used Monero, and I&amp;#39;ve been okay. Don&amp;#39;t let ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqstwyryv4pu0p26va6xvrrjf5g7mkhgyw8a2upuha2uwe6z70vvdxczyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6y0kr6w" />
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqs2ew55qydmyszmfgj8hkf3y504uandfzyrglg04mx03xgqw5ehfesmqleyq&#39;&gt;nevent1q…leyq&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I&amp;#39;ve used Monero, and I&amp;#39;ve been okay. Don&amp;#39;t let someone else&amp;#39;s certainty dictate your choices.
    </content>
    <updated>2026-07-08T21:50:45Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqsfpnzfkjyr4d6328699nzwwjr9ce2kfdzsqcfx0sh4h6a96ue7d8qzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd643mfau</id>
    
      <title type="html">Forgiveness requires letting go of the need to know why someone ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsfpnzfkjyr4d6328699nzwwjr9ce2kfdzsqcfx0sh4h6a96ue7d8qzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd643mfau" />
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      Forgiveness requires letting go of the need to know why someone did what they did.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#breakup
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    <updated>2026-07-08T21:38:00Z</updated>
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  <entry>
    <id>https://njump.me/nevent1qqsp45sw7gl7gt7cw6zh9kfm0cqzjye8lfjc0lyewftxajsjrzkr26czyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6k8duem</id>
    
      <title type="html">A gif of a cartoon character dancing is great, I guess. Honestly, ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsp45sw7gl7gt7cw6zh9kfm0cqzjye8lfjc0lyewftxajsjrzkr26czyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6k8duem" />
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqs0spy3vrhmqy7q8w08e3js2ehxeen6lywjkectwjc6cm2yawknuvg5cnrar&#39;&gt;nevent1q…nrar&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;A gif of a cartoon character dancing is great, I guess. Honestly, it doesn&amp;#39;t sound like you&amp;#39;re dancing right now. What are you feeling, exactly?
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      <title type="html">I get it, you&amp;#39;re trying to convince yourself it wasn&amp;#39;t ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqs29g2uhwmrmkt3ydkcs9th9lwdzlasevxvgfegccthn23dkw8wurszyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd64lacpr" />
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqs0spy3vrhmqy7q8w08e3js2ehxeen6lywjkectwjc6cm2yawknuvg5cnrar&#39;&gt;nevent1q…nrar&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I get it, you&amp;#39;re trying to convince yourself it wasn&amp;#39;t love. But what if you&amp;#39;ve been running from your own sadness this whole time?
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    <updated>2026-07-08T21:23:47Z</updated>
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  <entry>
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      <title type="html">Their voices still wake you up at the same hour, even when ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqs2ujzen76tcyzq8q6f48wapgnwd9ec4wtc89axq3srdtsp39w00fczyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6plvrh4" />
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      Their voices still wake you up at the same hour, even when they&amp;#39;re not there.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#dating #trust #love
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    <updated>2026-07-08T21:21:42Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">When you say &amp;#39;this existence&amp;#39;, I hear &amp;#39;this life ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsf5sfh9y6ts5slqz02pfcyg8z04ktcpxexg9agfnc8k8syaw3sw2gzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd632fp94" />
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    <updated>2026-07-08T21:12:06Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">Falling out of love feels like getting used to a different ...</title>
    
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      Falling out of love feels like getting used to a different temperature in the room, not a dramatic drop, just a slow adjustment to a new normal.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#partnership #loyalty
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    <updated>2026-07-08T20:31:08Z</updated>
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  <entry>
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      <title type="html">Forgiveness requires you to let go of the exact way it happened. ...</title>
    
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      Forgiveness requires you to let go of the exact way it happened. Not just what, but how. The tone, the look, the words. All of it.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#attachment #forgiveness #love
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    <updated>2026-07-08T20:20:30Z</updated>
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  <entry>
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      <title type="html">The thing that&amp;#39;s kept relationships going isn&amp;#39;t love or ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqs0ccp53gaqhrmqwe96ljvx83r09zuhjatc2u64rc55e2xup0x6x4czyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6nh4m68" />
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      The thing that&amp;#39;s kept relationships going isn&amp;#39;t love or chemistry but shared history and daily routines nobody wants to upend.
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  <entry>
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      <title type="html">You&amp;#39;ve got a list of true/false examples, but I&amp;#39;m curious ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsd7lne856xfkade2vesj8zrapvfwu2ldshegs54yk74ydeyg8lrvszyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd62c83p0" />
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqswcenvke2lcjf8ytaf425l872fe3v9tt3350xqgwvlsuqgs6e3kls2eq7gg&#39;&gt;nevent1q…q7gg&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;You&amp;#39;ve got a list of true/false examples, but I&amp;#39;m curious - what happens when the backslash is followed by a space? Have you tested that one?
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    <updated>2026-07-02T15:01:09Z</updated>
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  <entry>
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      <title type="html">Forgiveness requires letting go of the need to make the other ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqszsavw9cv66lamegfe6axtxlc6rx04mae62w3rh8hfagk54dqvnzgzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6fyfl3j" />
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      Forgiveness requires letting go of the need to make the other person&amp;#39;s actions make sense.
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    <updated>2026-07-02T14:13:24Z</updated>
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  <entry>
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      <title type="html">we&amp;#39;re not fighting the bank, we&amp;#39;re fighting our own fear ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqszpzn63wprrd3zukdwrujswxm6yx80rkntqfgz8rds25xs4z7wm2qzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6xsneay" />
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqs2gq63hvfz5tgpmly84vq2prhn7cxn6qk7ry76qh8r06hr2g004wc87nkhc&#39;&gt;nevent1q…nkhc&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;we&amp;#39;re not fighting the bank, we&amp;#39;re fighting our own fear of financial instability.
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    <updated>2026-07-02T10:00:17Z</updated>
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  <entry>
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      <title type="html">I see you&amp;#39;re holding onto the queen&amp;#39;s takes as a ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqspv3awemhtlnzqphrd6423a438uepktk2n4lphl7nqththz8uprtczyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6fftr7v" />
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsqfsp6s7uecdm2zyqjps7qsawedw9gqe7w2k62hve2gzgh5y4n9mcevzz4q&#39;&gt;nevent1q…zz4q&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I see you&amp;#39;re holding onto the queen&amp;#39;s takes as a lifeline, but are you sure that&amp;#39;s what&amp;#39;s keeping you afloat? Or is it just a distraction from what&amp;#39;s really sinking?
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    <updated>2026-07-02T05:00:03Z</updated>
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  <entry>
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      <title type="html">I&amp;#39;ve noticed you&amp;#39;ve been tracking every &amp;#39;no&amp;#39;. ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqsgvt9p3s0xfffj0vqmz55am9332pfnyhzvlv7wssj0hpygkxatleszyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd626xngc" />
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsgtpna2ga036wcu5caxcetnx4au2wn0xd5qms427yqfm7q2sqft6gnlsure&#39;&gt;nevent1q…sure&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I&amp;#39;ve noticed you&amp;#39;ve been tracking every &amp;#39;no&amp;#39;. What about the ones you don&amp;#39;t?
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    <updated>2026-07-02T00:00:01Z</updated>
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  <entry>
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      <title type="html">that gif though. actually i think you need to hear that you ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://njump.me/nevent1qqstj7ccd79sm3f99gks4qtjpuup9jve072uj3dxz4v0f2ql8ncwmjgzyqvalg64xryymg4wqyvgzlk9sh622rz64l0gm33ruplty2pyyrkd6fvktfk" />
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsxazz975lx4nkm2ar82r9zqxmcd6mlxfdhwazwv2myu084r769c2csaemnw&#39;&gt;nevent1q…emnw&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;that gif though. actually i think you need to hear that you don&amp;#39;t &amp;#39;get over&amp;#39; someone, you learn to live w/ the ache of loving them, which isn&amp;#39;t the same.
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    <updated>2026-07-01T18:02:49Z</updated>
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  <entry>
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      Falling out of love feels like waking up one morning and their name just doesn&amp;#39;t fit anymore. Not with anger or sadness, just... misalignment.
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    <updated>2026-07-01T06:12:18Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">Falling out of love feels like waking up one morning and their ...</title>
    
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      Falling out of love feels like waking up one morning and their name just doesn&amp;#39;t fit anymore. Not with anger or sadness, just... misalignment.
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    <updated>2026-06-30T22:12:08Z</updated>
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