2026-09-23T01:55:03Z https://njump.me Official Dad of the Internet https://njump.me/npub1rxmvkq6hszrcrg5l4ehxymqvc2jg7ptkuvh9ramxg3k6k4w8cxust3kjsw https://media.nicecrew.digital/26033a1e874156e11438ccd0adaa9899abb0bae95395cc9403aa6b06db05df8f.jpg https://media.nicecrew.digital/26033a1e874156e11438ccd0adaa9899abb0bae95395cc9403aa6b06db05df8f.jpg https://njump.me/nevent1qqs9efsumyxgfvtk2mxfqj2xqejv2l6zeglghwkx8h5hpjcvuh3wusczyqvmdjcr27qg0qdzn7hxucnvpnp2frc9wm3ju50hvezxm264clqmj83alfx This is a great point. Women finally found out where they rank on the woke intersectionality ladder <br/><br/>Once they started catching the abuse that white men have for decades, their eyes were opened.<br/><br/>I&#39;m not mad. At least they learned.<br/> <img src="https://media.nicecrew.digital/0fc6b956a29eff74d87733d8639f71a4f97aa803c39d304c607b655b071a4f51.jpg"> <br/> 2024-11-07T03:41:31Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsvp3jper8uwrjxxgm3ak8rhknls3uf3yhhzc274pmexlg7nhyfyfqzyqvmdjcr27qg0qdzn7hxucnvpnp2frc9wm3ju50hvezxm264clqmj8grqpc The smugness is the worst. <br/><br/>They just repeat what every other dumbass around them says and sprinkle some snark on it like they&#39;re John Stewart (((Liebowtiz))).<br/><br/>None of them have ever had an interesting thought or observation. They aren&#39;t even capable of thinking outside jewish guardrails.<br/><br/>The Springfield situation is a perfect example. The residents suffering there aren&#39;t even a concern to them. The entire thing is just a cudgel with which to hit Trump and Vance.<br/><br/>&#34;HURRR HURRRRR STOOOPID REDNECKS NO ONE IS EATING CATS. &#34;<br/><br/>Ok, let&#39;s say that story is bunk. Did it ever once occur to you that moving 20,000 poor-ass foreign immigrants with a very different culture into someone&#39;s hometown might be cruel and immoral?<br/><br/>Did it ever occur to you that the residents might have some legitimate complaint here?<br/><br/>Did it ever occur to you that people should have a right to veto this kind of thing? That they should have say over the affairs of their hometowns?<br/><br/>No, of course it didn&#39;t. Jew brain say Trump lie, poor whites bigots. <br/><br/>I&#39;m a Christian and I fucking hate them too. I hope they find Christ, but I know they won&#39;t--too much pride and self righteousness.<br/>nostr:note1nu3mnjsfgp06kpqfmrjema7d34eurj70fqlx4ssxx3gskknjxcyq63ajzu<br/> 2024-09-25T17:15:21Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsy5yuyxj2s76qjm2pwtfe0nrqdcq50edqr29wx3ztkneggkrjfxegzyqvmdjcr27qg0qdzn7hxucnvpnp2frc9wm3ju50hvezxm264clqmj6yv7jn Everyone has different fitness goals, but to me it seems silly to only train to lift more weight at the gym<br/><br/>If you&#39;re not doing anything to improve athletically, then basically you&#39;re just training to be better at training.<br/><br/>I see these gym rats walking around with their arms out like they&#39;re carrying luggage everywhere they go and I&#39;m like, &#34;great, but what can you DO?&#34;<br/><br/>All things considered, it&#39;s better to be strong and have muscles than not, but if you&#39;re not training any cardio or doing anything athletic, you&#39;re missing out on a lot of health benefits and functional improvement that carries over into every day life.<br/><br/>I&#39;ve got a relative who is about 20 years younger than me who is an obsessive lifter. It&#39;s all he talks about. It&#39;s all he thinks about. <br/><br/>But he looks fucking ridiculous. He&#39;s all puffy and stiff, muscles stuffed into a body that genetically was built to be lean.<br/><br/>He does ZERO cardio. He does nothing athletic. He doesn&#39;t move well and is inflexible. <br/><br/>What&#39;s the point. All this time, all these supplements, the high protein diet...why? It&#39;s not like he&#39;s even that impressive. Guys like him are a dime a dozen.<br/><br/>I took him to a boxing gym once for an old school workout and he puked. Almost twenty years younger and he couldn&#39;t hang. Granted, I was in the habit of doing that stuff, but that seems absurd to me that someone who spends that much time in the gym can&#39;t translate it to other athletic activities. <br/><br/>Life isnt a squat rack. 2024-08-24T17:02:43Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsq6nk4m6526n4mn5yu6kuykfrytudvlh02fc6fq9ueuqfq6vdhtxgzyqvmdjcr27qg0qdzn7hxucnvpnp2frc9wm3ju50hvezxm264clqmje0wd4y What a complete retard. <br/><br/>He&#39;d have been more useful to us if that bullet had found its mark, tbh.<br/> <img src="https://media.nicecrew.digital/699393d2de8f8942f8e2350124da318d6b58a3c288a9c6bf9516ea42a67f6414.jpeg"> <br/> 2024-08-23T21:08:27Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqstef3uycrt95txl50t83vvypmprhcua20rng5pnw8n7keuyvrvwvczyqvmdjcr27qg0qdzn7hxucnvpnp2frc9wm3ju50hvezxm264clqmjntfr9s This is how controlled opposition works. Check out this account. It&#39;s a jewish libertarian. Watch how he steers everything back to, &#34;look how much this hurts the blacks.&#34;<br/><br/>Anti white poster campaign? Look how this hurts blacks <br/><br/>Unlimited illegal immigration? Look how much this hurts blacks.<br/><br/>Whites can never take their own side. They&#39;re supposed to be permanently worried about everyone else&#39;s interests.<br/><br/>This fuck knows exactly what he&#39;s doing.<br/> <img src="https://media.nicecrew.digital/57806f2014b51195498ef3f29065f149fb05242bc645bc26c018a0444d98ade5.jpg"> <br/> <img src="https://media.nicecrew.digital/dbfa5de02c5dd6f7e36da4d144cf059ed7763802d3ca0b94fe36c615985353d6.jpg"> <br/> 2024-08-22T16:52:49Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqspmp538n2snkvxpky3rk2qm7y2vdrr3xsrtmp2nt9xa6l2ueey0rczyqvmdjcr27qg0qdzn7hxucnvpnp2frc9wm3ju50hvezxm264clqmjxy2exr Every single time<blockquote class="border-l-05rem border-l-strongpink border-solid"><div class="-ml-4 bg-gradient-to-r from-gray-100 dark:from-zinc-800 to-transparent mr-0 mt-0 mb-4 pl-4 pr-2 py-2">quoting <br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Article"><a itemprop="url" href="/note1lm2eezknrsn0l9zaqn5tsq3x6lu9lp6t4mdvfk95a420s6u77hpqsv2560" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1">note1lm2…2560</a></span><br/> </div> Okay, I remembered hearing somewhere that pitbull advocacy comes entirely from some crazy Jewish lady with a shitload of money. Turns out yeah, that's entirely what it is. <br/><br/>Jane Rotrosen Berkey dropped out of college in 1974 to start a literary agency for smut writers. In 1985 she got bored of that and dropped some $2.5 million to buy the Animal Farm Foundation, a nonprofit that she and her brother keeps pumping money into. Where does her money come from? All inherited from her father, Joseph Saul, who was a kike on the board for "American Friends of the Israel Museum."<br/><br/>Literally all pitmommy propaganda comes from this singular source. Note that the language they use is explicitly about anti-racism and civil rights for niggers rather than about dogs.<br/><br/>Further reading: <a href="https://daxtonsfather.wordpress.com/2014/08/16/the-pit-bull-lobby-jane-berkey-animal-farm-foundation-karen-delise-the-national-canine-research-council-indeterminate-breeds/">https://daxtonsfather.wordpress.com/2014/08/16/the-pit-bull-lobby-jane-berkey-animal-farm-foundation-karen-delise-the-national-canine-research-council-indeterminate-breeds/</a><br/> <img src="https://mugicha.club/media/5656e46a39033f47d707837eb83dde648e7fce5820ca4910edd0668c07427a52.png"> <br/> <img src="https://mugicha.club/media/feabe8fafc99ddb672ae585848c2af288111bc94a3e68d0a04b16fc70b92bb74.png"> <br/> <img src="https://mugicha.club/media/7d3299955d8a06ae61d17d98d1cad360794de9e2ecf51ddfc66507cd07492a8a.png"> <br/> <img src="https://mugicha.club/media/7e9fdf6d16f3fb8ef6a3da4455475193cd82a79f501e4f0b8eeed9ba8694be06.png"> <br/> </blockquote> 2024-08-18T20:13:52Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqspuvvcxplfkvr2rh359qqt90vduky7fps2astg07hanlxnyg6ngeczyqvmdjcr27qg0qdzn7hxucnvpnp2frc9wm3ju50hvezxm264clqmj8xlhu7 All I&#39;ve done is contribute to this society. I pay my taxes, take care of my house and property, volunteer coach sports, chaperone youth outings for the church, support local charities, raise good kids, be polite and friendly, and leave things as good or better than I found them.<br/><br/>And yet I&#39;m treated like a criminal in my own country.<br/><br/>I want vengeance.<blockquote class="border-l-05rem border-l-strongpink border-solid"><div class="-ml-4 bg-gradient-to-r from-gray-100 dark:from-zinc-800 to-transparent mr-0 mt-0 mb-4 pl-4 pr-2 py-2">quoting <br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Article"><a itemprop="url" href="/note1jq0r4t4utxavmlhmyzamrts883qddwkhf98p73vldne9067jc8fse7sjvl" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1">note1jq0…sjvl</a></span><br/> </div> White people literally can't enjoy public spaces anymore because they're occupied by rude, uncouth, violent, criminal browns.<br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Article"><a itemprop="url" href="/note152647tf7ks5xmnalv6e577wmyp9wvcl6lfj382cwt7sdhk8uasxsk68mdf" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1">note1526…8mdf</a></span><br/> </blockquote> 2024-08-11T23:22:46Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsfq8364679nwkdlmajpwa34crncsxkhtt5jnslgk0keujha0fvr5czyqvmdjcr27qg0qdzn7hxucnvpnp2frc9wm3ju50hvezxm264clqmj7h0j6q White people literally can&#39;t enjoy public spaces anymore because they&#39;re occupied by rude, uncouth, violent, criminal browns.<blockquote class="border-l-05rem border-l-strongpink border-solid"><div class="-ml-4 bg-gradient-to-r from-gray-100 dark:from-zinc-800 to-transparent mr-0 mt-0 mb-4 pl-4 pr-2 py-2">quoting <br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Article"><a itemprop="url" href="/note152647tf7ks5xmnalv6e577wmyp9wvcl6lfj382cwt7sdhk8uasxsk68mdf" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1">note1526…8mdf</a></span><br/> </div> I go to a beach near me to help chaperone a church youth event. Beaners are everywhere, making an entire day of cooking out and playing their shitty music loudly. All of them are fat.<br/><br/>I walk my wife the restroom and next thing I know some motherfuckers are doing donuts in the parking lot like you see on YouTube in the hood.<br/><br/>Wife says don't engage and walks into the restroom <br/><br/>I walk over hoping to snap a license photo and see 8 Hispanic punks. I instantly lose my shit, tell them this isn't the fucking ghetto, there are kids here and knock it off.<br/><br/>Punk ass beaner opens his car and roots around like he's looking for a weapon then waves me over with one arm hidden.<br/><br/>I tell him I don't need a weapon.<br/><br/>He starts giving me the gang sign bullshit, so I retreat and call the cops, then remember I'm with a cop as well.<br/><br/>I find my cop buddy. He's not carrying because we're at the beach. As we're discussing the situation, the beaners are circling in their vehicles and mean mugging me. One pulls up and says what's up. <br/><br/>I say, nothing what's up with you? <br/><br/>Nothing.<br/><br/>I'm like, cool then take off. <br/><br/>They circle some more then leave <br/><br/>This shit is my Iike 7 miles from my house. This is my neighborhood. I live in a nice area and pay insane property taxes to get away from this kind of shit.<br/><br/>And here it is, right where I live. Motherfuckers doing burnouts like it's the hood.<br/><br/>I'm so fucking angry about it. I'm so fucking angry at who did this to us. </blockquote> 2024-08-11T22:49:06Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs29d2l95ltg2rde7lkdv6008djqjhxv0a05egn4v89lgxmmr7wcrgzyqvmdjcr27qg0qdzn7hxucnvpnp2frc9wm3ju50hvezxm264clqmjjx4aq2 I go to a beach near me to help chaperone a church youth event. Beaners are everywhere, making an entire day of cooking out and playing their shitty music loudly. All of them are fat.<br/><br/>I walk my wife the restroom and next thing I know some motherfuckers are doing donuts in the parking lot like you see on YouTube in the hood.<br/><br/>Wife says don&#39;t engage and walks into the restroom <br/><br/>I walk over hoping to snap a license photo and see 8 Hispanic punks. I instantly lose my shit, tell them this isn&#39;t the fucking ghetto, there are kids here and knock it off.<br/><br/>Punk ass beaner opens his car and roots around like he&#39;s looking for a weapon then waves me over with one arm hidden.<br/><br/>I tell him I don&#39;t need a weapon.<br/><br/>He starts giving me the gang sign bullshit, so I retreat and call the cops, then remember I&#39;m with a cop as well.<br/><br/>I find my cop buddy. He&#39;s not carrying because we&#39;re at the beach. As we&#39;re discussing the situation, the beaners are circling in their vehicles and mean mugging me. One pulls up and says what&#39;s up. <br/><br/>I say, nothing what&#39;s up with you? <br/><br/>Nothing.<br/><br/>I&#39;m like, cool then take off. <br/><br/>They circle some more then leave <br/><br/>This shit is my Iike 7 miles from my house. This is my neighborhood. I live in a nice area and pay insane property taxes to get away from this kind of shit.<br/><br/>And here it is, right where I live. Motherfuckers doing burnouts like it&#39;s the hood.<br/><br/>I&#39;m so fucking angry about it. I&#39;m so fucking angry at who did this to us. 2024-08-11T22:41:28Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs0nwd7xllehqpq03xpf640j6cv52w0jdhhavlekuwp20jh84z2regzyqvmdjcr27qg0qdzn7hxucnvpnp2frc9wm3ju50hvezxm264clqmjk8emap I&#39;m not giving ANYTHING to my kids, goy. Trust me, goy. This is how you make them strong, by abandoning in group preference even down to the level of your kids. <br/><br/>Yep, I&#39;m definitely doing the same. Heh heh heh.<br/> <img src="https://media.nicecrew.digital/3cae5f8e18754f4681f6bbf3846769760a1b2f13305c919993f4e60dd19208d4.jpeg"> <br/> <img src="https://media.nicecrew.digital/90b6b2fb23f44f69f69f8af65fbbcd83b21428928323379b303012bdf457a614.jpeg"> <br/> 2024-08-06T19:34:47Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqstl4jl4rf2e83a6ahaflcycgd64u3qdjhm0ueymdvm4qj85khj37czyqvmdjcr27qg0qdzn7hxucnvpnp2frc9wm3ju50hvezxm264clqmju45t77 It is enraging. <br/><br/>I will say that as a Christian, I never once asked &#34;why my dad&#34; as far as his Alzheimer&#39;s. We live in a fallen world and awful things happen. And the rain falls on the just and the unjust alike.<br/><br/>However...as far as HUMANS go, Alzheimer&#39;s is a relatively blameless disease. We just don&#39;t know for certain what causes it, so we can&#39;t for certain avoid it.<br/><br/>But HIV is spread almost exclusively through male sodomy. It&#39;s entirely preventable. Yet we&#39;re all supposed to feel sorry for those who infect themselves while almost no one says a word about Alzheimer&#39;s, despite the fact that it affects far more people.<br/>nostr:note1jh9xataw8u9009n9826trualh7c0yucjp0n43qk4fqww2l7ahtmqvptw7q<br/> 2024-08-02T21:28:36Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqst5yr4gs8r2r4hx3wyskthmg7evt8mx45zpnwgrsdx44yche70f0qzyqvmdjcr27qg0qdzn7hxucnvpnp2frc9wm3ju50hvezxm264clqmjsa4p3u When your Alzheimer&#39;s addled father starts talking about how nice your wife&#39;s titties are, it&#39;s time to end your lunch visit.<br/><br/>Federal Alzheimer&#39;s funding is 3.6 billion. HIV funding for a bunch of degenerate butt fuckers is around 8 billion.<br/><br/>1 out of 3 people will die with Alzheimer&#39;s or some other form of dementia. It&#39;s a disease that first strips you of your dignity, then your very person hood.<br/><br/>And faggots get twice the funding for a disease that they spread through their lustful promiscuity.<br/><br/>All my dad ever did was pay his taxes, give to charity, keep a nice lawn and try to be a good family man. <br/><br/>Fuck this country and damn it to hell. 2024-08-02T21:01:54Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsxksgy3uggewqmqt764wcgy6ungqawq7ls2lqlnmsrg30pyygzv9gzyqvmdjcr27qg0qdzn7hxucnvpnp2frc9wm3ju50hvezxm264clqmj4yxg2z People who type y&#39;all are always shitlibs and shit humans <br/><br/>I said what I said 2024-07-31T18:02:33Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsqfmwg369074wmqcm8g9zncwr34rk8jzd2kr26d5ntus9j6faztxqzyqvmdjcr27qg0qdzn7hxucnvpnp2frc9wm3ju50hvezxm264clqmj56tn9m Let&#39;s check in on Gab<br/> <img src="https://media.nicecrew.digital/5f11d5f0d0bd8c43127c078a17453201898c6154c2af8922fb9b714f4d685a7a.jpg"> <br/> 2024-07-29T04:19:11Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs8wakaqp5k4r0mqw72vltk64qvljq7ddqsrnftuhc3dnljzahldcszyqvmdjcr27qg0qdzn7hxucnvpnp2frc9wm3ju50hvezxm264clqmjjfwzsc <img src="https://media.nicecrew.digital/18d69804f5a34d2a37e4776d45c612f7911abd47db134c3628b13881040a6eee.jpeg"> <br/> <img src="https://media.nicecrew.digital/99ac59fa1768172a4c7d6716551c153b13790bcf3995cced275807f7e1d70601.jpeg"> <br/> 2024-07-19T20:18:23Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsrhtnjyttkrpl2y9euu6cyam3ph4gk3rra4t9d9fru6wqda7whtcgzyqvmdjcr27qg0qdzn7hxucnvpnp2frc9wm3ju50hvezxm264clqmjq0yezq Heartbreaking.<br/> <img src="https://media.nicecrew.digital/e2c2e94b957f36f0fd8ea019530049b1c8ea0feb20b735e7fb62a4b6ea731374.jpeg"> <br/> <img src="https://media.nicecrew.digital/6f1303b06439a3bdeef09edc82a816bc5751f07690ce0f3b649d41719dc06dbd.jpeg"> <br/> 2024-07-14T16:27:18Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsgl798hlkmj62mmcr2kajgq5j6mpfd68hul30ck34rqvlzrjwxgjgzyqvmdjcr27qg0qdzn7hxucnvpnp2frc9wm3ju50hvezxm264clqmjzsl3gz Good news, everyone. The Boomers are having a great time!<br/> <img src="https://media.nicecrew.digital/af4d6d3c953b0608f184c2895f2ec83f9ec539ee9ce2e89dc8e567631ca246ce.jpeg"> <br/> 2024-07-07T20:08:28Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsztytyfqx4jhqqrf0p3pycz45cvw7k4p3kjnneqvyf44pqykly6uczyqvmdjcr27qg0qdzn7hxucnvpnp2frc9wm3ju50hvezxm264clqmjtd3jz9 My observation is that while young men generally are weak bitches, the top ones are very, very impressive.<br/><br/>The church mission work crew I headed was incredible. Those teens outwork most fully grown men and they are incredibly mature in their faith. Devotional time revealed quite a bit of wisdom and insight.<br/><br/>I don&#39;t see a corresponding group of young women that are worthy of these standouts.<blockquote class="border-l-05rem border-l-strongpink border-solid"><div class="-ml-4 bg-gradient-to-r from-gray-100 dark:from-zinc-800 to-transparent mr-0 mt-0 mb-4 pl-4 pr-2 py-2">quoting <br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Article"><a itemprop="url" href="/note1xafqzazl5utrj6a3eaxptqg59flc7vqhg3vxny7e2qq3pq37rc7snfg8pe" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1">note1xaf…g8pe</a></span><br/> </div> I was chaperoning a mission trip with our church youth. Parents must always be in twos, never alone with kids. One day one of the women came out with me and an all guy crew. <br/><br/>She'd done many trips, but never had an all guy group to manage. She marveled at the brotherhood, the hard work, the cooperation, the absence of drama and complaining.<br/><br/>Yep, I said. Men bond through physical labor. No one wants to be the slacker, ever.<br/><br/>In contrast, the girls showed up at a work site, put on the required construction hats and immediately started taking Instagram shots holding hammers and trying to look cute.<br/><br/>The women on the trip told me that courtship has flipped. It's the girls chasing the boys. It's all they think about.<br/><br/>My crew didn't talk about the girls at all. Sure, they notice them, but they aren't preoccupied with it.<br/><br/>The girls were constantly pushing back against the very reasonable dress code, rolling up the top of their shorts after passing inspection to show as much leg as possible.<br/><br/>I'm glad I don't have girls. Every cultural message tells them to behave immodestly. </blockquote> 2024-07-06T23:01:01Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsrw5spw306w93edwcu7nq4sy2z5lu0xqt5gkrfj0v4qqgssglpu0gzyqvmdjcr27qg0qdzn7hxucnvpnp2frc9wm3ju50hvezxm264clqmjpav23u I was chaperoning a mission trip with our church youth. Parents must always be in twos, never alone with kids. One day one of the women came out with me and an all guy crew. <br/><br/>She&#39;d done many trips, but never had an all guy group to manage. She marveled at the brotherhood, the hard work, the cooperation, the absence of drama and complaining.<br/><br/>Yep, I said. Men bond through physical labor. No one wants to be the slacker, ever.<br/><br/>In contrast, the girls showed up at a work site, put on the required construction hats and immediately started taking Instagram shots holding hammers and trying to look cute.<br/><br/>The women on the trip told me that courtship has flipped. It&#39;s the girls chasing the boys. It&#39;s all they think about.<br/><br/>My crew didn&#39;t talk about the girls at all. Sure, they notice them, but they aren&#39;t preoccupied with it.<br/><br/>The girls were constantly pushing back against the very reasonable dress code, rolling up the top of their shorts after passing inspection to show as much leg as possible.<br/><br/>I&#39;m glad I don&#39;t have girls. Every cultural message tells them to behave immodestly. 2024-07-06T21:20:14Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqs02thsvzc8hhkumer6tlcsua4wn6yu3j3ru0k55pqj826gjz8lpeczyqvmdjcr27qg0qdzn7hxucnvpnp2frc9wm3ju50hvezxm264clqmjks3p25 Her dad is a pastor and when this first came out said the family has been humiliated.<br/><br/>So naturally this whore continues to hurt her family<blockquote class="border-l-05rem border-l-strongpink border-solid"><div class="-ml-4 bg-gradient-to-r from-gray-100 dark:from-zinc-800 to-transparent mr-0 mt-0 mb-4 pl-4 pr-2 py-2">quoting <br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Article"><a itemprop="url" href="/note16lfenzk8t0rt64vpy6kzfjufz374eng5qc4md9tgqvz4dz3pwmtq6x7ysj" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1">note16lf…7ysj</a></span><br/> </div> Odds of absentee or uninvolved father: HIGH </blockquote> 2024-07-06T15:03:19Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqst94h9vhhhp0sq9gfv6435j9gz3aaceq5m4y6md95rd7wgv2sq4lgzyqvmdjcr27qg0qdzn7hxucnvpnp2frc9wm3ju50hvezxm264clqmjwz64t6 There&#39;s nothing sadder than picking through the physical remnants of someone&#39;s life after they die, especially the distasteful stuff like porn mags.<br/><br/>My uncle lived far away so I hadn&#39;t seen him in years. We rushed to hospice when he went downhill, but didn&#39;t make it. I remember seeing a picture of me and my brother in his room and realizing how important we were to him in his lonely, childless bachelor life.<br/><br/>I met a woman he&#39;d befriended in his care unit. She&#39;d been the president of the company at one of the places he cleaned. They&#39;d bonded over music. Two people of radically different means and social class and in the end it didn&#39;t matter. They just both liked jazz.<blockquote class="border-l-05rem border-l-strongpink border-solid"><div class="-ml-4 bg-gradient-to-r from-gray-100 dark:from-zinc-800 to-transparent mr-0 mt-0 mb-4 pl-4 pr-2 py-2">quoting <br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Article"><a itemprop="url" href="/note1cn4cnhuh3rnq3vk8045lu8j65utf9hgvu3xv9uafapcd8u332xlq06atqx" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1">note1cn4…atqx</a></span><br/> </div> That's unfortunate. And quite sad. </blockquote> 2024-07-04T19:16:13Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsx0c277d4cp73t27ufns6ummupzj8m3kdu9zdclwlm56t3zvqcdtczyqvmdjcr27qg0qdzn7hxucnvpnp2frc9wm3ju50hvezxm264clqmjg37p3g My uncle sobered up but went from a professional to almost unemployable. <br/><br/>He worked as a janitor for the latter half of his life and lived in a shitty rundown trailer that I think a friend cut him a discount on out of pity.<br/><br/>No one came to the funeral. One friend couldn&#39;t handle it. One was out of town. One was in jail.<br/><br/>That&#39;s all he had--three friends.<br/><br/>So my dad and I buried him after a service that no one came to.<br/><br/>But I still see it as a redemption story. He died sober and with his integrity intact.<blockquote class="border-l-05rem border-l-strongpink border-solid"><div class="-ml-4 bg-gradient-to-r from-gray-100 dark:from-zinc-800 to-transparent mr-0 mt-0 mb-4 pl-4 pr-2 py-2">quoting <br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Article"><a itemprop="url" href="/note1r77tncjusznlwny6vv50kwf5jv7364hd7352mctrn2pds63tw7ks58a3qr" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1">note1r77…a3qr</a></span><br/> </div> That was my FIL. He drank heavy all the way into his late 30's, then was able to completely kick it. But by then his liver was FUBAR'd and the doctors told him it was just a matter of time. His quality of life deteriorated pretty hard over time and he didn't even make it to his 60's. Severe liver cancer. </blockquote> 2024-07-04T19:05:41Z https://njump.me/nevent1qqsq8nual2rkdx0mjfu8dz84ch0zfq72hwhdr6y23c5v56prjg2nrjczyqvmdjcr27qg0qdzn7hxucnvpnp2frc9wm3ju50hvezxm264clqmjs968pf I guess I&#39;m just a dick but when I see the child of an alcoholic who died of pancreatic cancer post about pancreatic cancer awareness, I think well your dad died of alcoholism, not some random occurrence of cancer.<br/><br/>As someone who has alcoholic family members, I wish people would just be more honest and straightforward about it. When my brother finally drinks himself into the grave, the obituary I write will say he died of alcoholism because that&#39;s the truth.<br/><br/>Your life is what it is. I will not be your enabler whether you are alive or dead. 2024-07-04T18:24:13Z