Carlos on Nostr: I dunno, I think you're making too many assumptions. Do you know she is capable of ...

I dunno, I think you're making too many assumptions. Do you know she is capable of managing money better than her husband? Maybe he really is protecting her. If their collective income improved a lot, how do you know the husband wouldn't spoil her? I mean, after 13 years, I'm pretty sure they have some kind of understanding that goes beyond male domination = bad.

If you know he is controlling and abusive then fine, but this generalisation is not the best of arguments. It's really no better than a politician pushing for laws "to protect ud" for all the same reasons.

Care to imagine what would happen when the husband finds money on her phone?

I understand your POV is from a good place but just too many assumptions about cultural differences, wanting a round peg to fit into a square hole.