I’m just slowly introducing the concept of true freedom. Maybe try putting some different things in perspective.
Ask, if you didn’t have to work for this employer, what would you do and why?
The kids I’m really focusing on independence. Making sure they hold up their end of the ship. Teaching them that everyone has a roll in the house and that mom and dad can’t do it all. When they do their duties, there’s a lot less yelling and poor attitudes in the house.