Yes! But you’re TOO YOUNG to know at your age, kid!
1) Figure out *WHO* you are first and COMFORTABLE being single and SOLO ON YOUR *OWN* first!
Best relationships are those which are complementary and they bring out the BEST in each other. And learn from each other; they’re better together but *NOT* co-dependent.
2) Keep dating compatible people based on SUBSTANCE, *beyond* hot looks and figure out what you like, dislike and what you are willing to put up with after the glow of infatuation phase has faded aka Honeymoon Phase.
3) Don’t get married til early 30s. Most people who marry in their 20s are not with their Foreva Partner nor/and in happy, loving, healthy marriages.
4) When it’s the RIGHT Person — The Love ❤️of Your Life — *BOTH* people KNOW it in their heart, brain and guts. There’s no chasing involved nor any games.
It can happen right away in special situations but different than “Love at First Sight” which is a thing usually experienced by guys cuz about how physically attractive the girl is. NOT the same thing!
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