npub1dn77zukvnszs0ead8k9mshxzvtw4u6ewu5c7y9rx9rpzmyn3vryqlxm0xf (npub1dn7…m0xf) It seems like this is extremely common - the family honors the independence, knowing some shop is going to drop at some point, a phone call, an ambulance. Then it will change. When maybe the "event" could have been avoided entirely, which could be a devastating one.
There's no way to know, and there's no right answer. Prayer does not seem unreasonable.