If anything it made me more rebellious. Also there is a distinction between respect and fear.
I think it always resulted of my parents being overwhelmed and helpless. Losing ones temper is not something to look up to and will not gain you respect.
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If I think back to my school days, there were teachers that were respected and there were some that were feared. The ones who were respected did not have to work with great punishments.
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My goal is to set boundaries, be someone to look up to and to hold on to.