Susiebdds on Nostr: I am so blessed to have found the best group of wonderful girlfriends here in Hawaii. ...

I am so blessed to have found the best group of wonderful girlfriends here in Hawaii. Interestingly, all but one are divorced so dating is a common topic of discussion. My 2 cents is always this:

Don’t focus solely on what the man brings to the relationship. Look at what you bring. Be as concerned about your significant other’s happiness and well being as much if not more than your own. That is something you can control and if you are with the right person, they will feel the same way which results in a loving, deeply fulfilling relationship.

*All this being said, despite the fact that these women are all gorgeous and financially secure, dating in your 40s still sucks and that is especially true on the islands.