Several months ago, a dear friend received a devastating cancer diagnosis.
Amidst this dark news, light and miracles began to illuminate almost immediately. We learned that the cancer had been detected at a very early stage. Things then moved really fast; the right people appeared at the right moment, and from diagnosis to surgery to recovery was a matter of weeks. In order to ensure a comprehensive recovery, a light treatment of chemotherapy was recommended. While the side effects should have been minimal, they were more pronounced and uncomfortable than normal. One of these side effects was hair loss. Having experienced extensive hair loss myself after each of my pregnancies, I understood the self consciousness that comes along with it. After my second pregnancy in 2021, I embraced the change by cutting my hair into a pixie. Rather than allowing the situation to control me, this was my way of regaining control over the situation. I acknowledge that everyone deals with traumas differently, and with our friend, it’s been very challenging for her to maintain sight of the miracles and blessing rather than the lingering challenges and continuing toll the hair loss has taken.
The universe in its wisdom decided to intervene by juxtaposition.
Michael was out for a walk yesterday when a stranger approached him, asking for directions. Out of nowhere, the man began pouring his heart out, confessing that he was in the midst of chemotherapy and felt as though it was killing him slowly. Tears streamed down his face as he shared his agonizing journey, that he had no family by his side, and he was relying solely on his faith in God.
Michael instantly recognized the encounter held a profound message for our beloved friend. This stranger, in a much more advanced state of illness, was undergoing aggressive treatments, and in absolute loneliness with his battle. In contrast, our cherished friend was enveloped in the embrace of a loving family, surrounded by dozens of caring individuals and a devoted partner. Furthermore, she had been blessed with healing!
We shared the message with our friend, illuminating the power of perspective and appreciation. Two people in a seemingly similar situation. One that’s been blessed by miracle after miracle but who is mired in sadness, unable to fully appreciate the blessings and “carpe diem”. Indeed, the hair loss is undoubtedly distressing, but when placed in the context of what could have been, and with the knowledge that it would eventually grow back, the temporary loss is but a poignent reminder of the long life that lay ahead. There is literally time extended to her life whereupon it is sure to grow back!
We all have our own challenges big and small; can you awaken appreciation and find the hidden blessing within the challenge you are currently facing?
Photo from 2021
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