The words you use are important. There is a bi-directional effect between words and thoughts. The same paradigm exists between thoughts and perception. A change in perception can happen in an instant, and can turn your reality 180 degrees. So, the words you choose, share, and receive can alter reality.
I first came upon this concept in the 90's, and have been studying and playing with it ever since. I was talking to a friend about my new discovery, and he gave me a great example. He said, "There is a difference between telling someone 'Don't forget your keys.' and 'Remember your keys.', because the subject is what your subconscious pays attention to." One concept pointed out here is that the subconscious ignores 'not' related words. In his example, the subconscious would either hear "forget keys" or "remember keys".
This concept is common when making affirmations. If you focus on what you want, you'll get it. If you focus on what you don't want, you'll get that too!
If you desire better health, focusing on not being sick will give you undesirable results. If you seek having more money, focusing on not being poor won't get you there. Focusing on not being alone will not bring you a lover, or community. Instead of hating war, it's more effective to love peace.
For a while, I did my best to eliminate "not" words from my vocabulary. However, I found a way to use them that I believe works! If something is a total drag, I will say that it is "not fun". Now my subconscious picks up on "fun". Yay!
Training yourself to use a different vocabulary takes a bit of patience. It's easy though! Pay attention to your internal dialog, and phrases you frequently say. Analyze them, and if there's any "negative wording", it's time to find a replacement. This is where it gets fun.
Turning a phrase around, while keeping the same intention, is like a puzzle. It may seem like there's no "positive opposite" at first. However, with some creative play, you'll discover a new way of saying the same thing.
In some cases, a concept only needs a shift to something stronger, or more solid, instead of a complete 180 degree turn. Some examples are:
"difficult" or "hard" becomes "challenging"
"I will try" becomes "I will do my best" or "I will do it"
"should" becomes "may be better to"
Crafting word choices is a life-long activity. I probably have areas of my vocabulary to hone, even while explaning this subject. Sometimes change feels awkward at first, however, persistence pays!
Our words have power. Our thoughts do too. Why else would censorship be so desired by the perpetually fearful? It's because the words we use can change reality, and can do so in an instant.
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