turk on Nostr: I’ll bite. Other’s opinions are not supposed to be important, but often are. It ...

I’ll bite. Other’s opinions are not supposed to be important, but often are.
It seems like you already made up your mind but don’t feel good about it. So you’re justifying it by his “cheater” label.

To me - a complete stranger- you’re asking for a lot stress.

Since these people have kid(s) together until the guy dies they will be in each other’s lives.

I would check my own motivations for trying to reconnect with someone whom you went for but didn’t succeed… Are you going for a win or truly want to be with her.
After all there are so many others whom you can have a relationship without all this baggage.

:: As always my comments are intended for uplifting purposes.
Please use what works for you and kindly ignore the rest :::