I recommend watching Troy Sivan for inspiration. He seems to have masc/NB flirty energy in his music videos. He's cishet straight but appears quite gender fluid in the videos.
Though I started with 'One of Your Girls' where he plays a very convincing sexy woman and got into his music from there. You may like the male models too.
https://youtu.be/ZhGl8McrOHo?si=H-Wph1b5e7bOuNh1