🎀Udon🥛 on Nostr: Broader trend seems to be men and women never want to change themselves to be more ...

Broader trend seems to be men and women never want to change themselves to be more attractive to their (potential) bg/gf. Among the susual culprits I blame the popularization of 'mental illness' as giving people a never ending excuse to be garbage and never change. "I'm not an awful bitch, I'm BPD", "I'm not a lazy slob, I'm depressed"