The purpose of having standard forms is to establish a norm. Any movement away from the norm should have to be justified, to signal an aberration to the negotiating partner who is in the weaker position. As in, "But all of your friends wives are getting €500 pin money, why do I only get €50?"
Those other men probably loved their brides more, and this is useful information for her to have when deciding to marry him.
Laeserin / StellaInForest
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2024-05-30 09:27:05
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