elilla, quarantined on Nostr: was talking with a friend about the desexualisation of queer spaces, and I realised ...

was talking with a friend about the desexualisation of queer spaces, and I realised that the reason I like people who are brazenly/publicly hypersexual even if I don't feel actually that sexual anymore, is that people who despite everything still wear their sexualness on their sleeve make me feel safer.