Guy calls into Dave Ramsey,
“I am on baby step 2, want to get married, my wife wants a big wedding, I want to go down to the courthouse.”
Dave: “And you are just now learning the first lesson of a successful marriage, happy wife happy life.”
Dave recommended middle ground; vacation wedding on a budget.
The red pill is: this isn’t the first time she will want to spend, in fact it is a red flag that she will want to spend even more after commitment is finalized.