Bip 110 does much More than restoring data carrier size. You are being disingenuous. You don’t have to run v30. We certainly don’t we this retarded soft fork are shrieking retard noises about csam.
I could give two shits what node you run. What I care about is a poorly planned soft fork that lacks consensus and has a stupidly low activation threshold that is likely to result in a chain split. Either fork off clean or shut the fuck up.