inventor on Nostr: There is no other choice. You must get locked to a client if you want to defend ...

There is no other choice. You must get locked to a client if you want to defend yourself from LE EVIL MALES.
Because the other option is to break Nostr.
Here, this is the solution to your problem:

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I think women of Nostr should try out Hen house for a more moderated experience https://henhouse.social/ it's a ditto instance. It not out yet but they can sign up.