I like your reframing.
We have swallowed the "sex-positivity","you can have it all" vibe for too long.
I do think there are still a lot of people finding each other by the number of hand-holding that I see walking around.
And it's about the cars too:
guy in BMW: red flag.
guy in F150/ Honda Accord-- could go either way, leans positive
Guy in Toyota Corolla, Prius. if he's not a delivery driver -- grab him. clearly doesn't have issues.
I think it's important to be philosophising and shitposting while you're waiting for God.