sandwich on Nostr: hello, I'm sorry but if your relay can be found, it will be broadcasted. Obfuscation ...

hello, I'm sorry but if your relay can be found, it will be broadcasted. Obfuscation of relay liveness only promotes information asymmetry and doesn't solve your particular problem. If we get another field in NIP-11 to flag a relay as 'private' I would likely respect this value, but that doesn't mean others would not. I do not have the bandwidth to process and validate removal requests.