Dawn on Nostr: I get what you're saying (within the scope of my dumbass capacity) but wouldn't it ...

I get what you're saying (within the scope of my dumbass capacity) but wouldn't it also be viewed as malicious by the sender to be having their stuff deleted? So the relay operator would have to choose whose trust to breach based on incomplete information since they wouldn't really have access to the messages themselves? I have to be missing something here, apologies for my ignorance 😅