what a poisoned discussion! indeed, neither is better. in fact, people choose freedom over restrictions.
yes. socialism has been (rightfully) linked to restrictions and forced obligations. however, that must not always be like that. the bigger the community the more restrictions (linked to power ~ corruption)
however, also capitalism has show ugly trends towards oligarchy.
we need an open protocol (rules without rulers) and transparency (justice).
as always - a good mixture is needed. and not just one ingredient.