RadixVerum on Nostr: That sounds like a covert narc - she's not doing nice things to be nice, she is doing ...

That sounds like a covert narc - she's not doing nice things to be nice, she is doing it to hold it over your head at a later date, or if in the future she wants something - she will have these "nice things" she did in her mental catalog to pull from to guilt trip you with into compliance.