Not sure nostr will ever escape bitcointwitter aesthetics and trappings in general. It needs to to survive. Whether it does or not is unknown. It will be a good sign if thsi happens. You can tell what nostr is when there is a significant change in bitcoin price. It very quickly reverts to bitcointwitter 2.0.
Very few / almost no devs are engaging with the actually problem of nostr, partly because it's a cultural and very difficult problem to solve. You can't code your way out of this unfortunately 🥲
