quantumdrc on Nostr: “Petty Circles” A #ResidentOracle message by Dr. C You are in a push-pull dynamic ...
“Petty Circles”
A #ResidentOracle message by Dr. C
You are in a push-pull dynamic with someone close to you. For some it is a repeating argument that never gets solved with your intimate partner. For others it is a series of stepping forward only to step back, especially when they are triggered.
You want it to work but are exhausted and fed up. It feels like hitting your head against the wall.
Your advice is to go within and assess if you really want it to change. If yes, then tackle the problem differently.
Option 1) Take their side, argue their point for them, and then ask them what behavior or action they want to see changed. Then assess with them if that is really the issue or if it is something deeper that is unconscious by asking them how that will make them feel and why. For example, fighting about something silly like the toilet paper roll can be a subconscious bid for control over the environment out of a deeper sense of anxiety that they are trying to manage. By arguing their point for a moment and then asking them to go deeper to explore how it will make them feel beyond just “better” and *why*, you have a better shot of gaining clarity and opening up heightened awareness about their psychology. You also take the position of leading them through maturity and wisdom rather than petty arguing that they may feel more comfortable with. This can lead to increased growth and change for them if they are open to it.
Option 2) For others, if you really want it to change then drop your side of it. By releasing the need to win or by walking away, you diffuse the power struggle. It is likely symbolic anyway and not really about this issue. So what you will find is that they might come for you with a different issue now. This will reveal to you if they are operating from a position of being unreasonable and just trying to control you or for fight for power for some other unrelated reason. Then you can decide what to do with this new clarity.
If you need help exploring this pattern you can DM me for a private session as this type of shadow work is my speciality.
Sharing your love with #zaps and likes are appreciated to support the manifestation of this gift.
#messageinarelay #channeled #nostr #grownostr #nostriches #drc #qstyle
Disclaimer: Please consult your intuition and guides to make sure this advice is for you. Some messages are meant for others or at a different time in your life while other messages will be partially resonating for you with other pieces resonating for someone else. Timelines are always shifting and changing so only take what resonates for you in that moment. 🌬
A #ResidentOracle message by Dr. C
You are in a push-pull dynamic with someone close to you. For some it is a repeating argument that never gets solved with your intimate partner. For others it is a series of stepping forward only to step back, especially when they are triggered.
You want it to work but are exhausted and fed up. It feels like hitting your head against the wall.
Your advice is to go within and assess if you really want it to change. If yes, then tackle the problem differently.
Option 1) Take their side, argue their point for them, and then ask them what behavior or action they want to see changed. Then assess with them if that is really the issue or if it is something deeper that is unconscious by asking them how that will make them feel and why. For example, fighting about something silly like the toilet paper roll can be a subconscious bid for control over the environment out of a deeper sense of anxiety that they are trying to manage. By arguing their point for a moment and then asking them to go deeper to explore how it will make them feel beyond just “better” and *why*, you have a better shot of gaining clarity and opening up heightened awareness about their psychology. You also take the position of leading them through maturity and wisdom rather than petty arguing that they may feel more comfortable with. This can lead to increased growth and change for them if they are open to it.
Option 2) For others, if you really want it to change then drop your side of it. By releasing the need to win or by walking away, you diffuse the power struggle. It is likely symbolic anyway and not really about this issue. So what you will find is that they might come for you with a different issue now. This will reveal to you if they are operating from a position of being unreasonable and just trying to control you or for fight for power for some other unrelated reason. Then you can decide what to do with this new clarity.
If you need help exploring this pattern you can DM me for a private session as this type of shadow work is my speciality.
Sharing your love with #zaps and likes are appreciated to support the manifestation of this gift.
#messageinarelay #channeled #nostr #grownostr #nostriches #drc #qstyle
Disclaimer: Please consult your intuition and guides to make sure this advice is for you. Some messages are meant for others or at a different time in your life while other messages will be partially resonating for you with other pieces resonating for someone else. Timelines are always shifting and changing so only take what resonates for you in that moment. 🌬