acv on Nostr: #[0] I was hoping the 'social network' settings would help with loading notes but ...

Iris (npub1wnw…95l8) I was hoping the 'social network' settings would help with loading notes but it's still struggling. I don't know what it's doing when it tries to find a note, even if I use the relay that has it (as documented by nostr.band) - Do some relays not respond to queries? Do you randomly pick a relay to query? Do you query them all? I just can't understand why it can't load a note when I'm using the same relays, especially now with the social network settings turned off.