Look, I could give you examples that make me uncomfortable about different situations (I'm a sensitive dude) if you press me.
I would rather not though, because I don't want to speak for marginalized groups as I'm not a part of these communities.
For now I'm just going to say your not using kids gloves can come off as abrasive if people don't actively follow.
I hope you're ok with this response, I know it's pretty vague.