Paul Jones AIR

Adult Industry pro. https://badbutlerxxx.com
Free Links Pages and affordable sites for SW&FSSW https://allmyplaces.online

Owner of Relay https://adult.18plus.social - a relay for our industry, inc FSSW.

Avatar by - on Nostr - VelvetBlue_art

WIN your Portrait by VelvetBlue_art. Every week a model/performer https://adult.18plus.social member will win their own portrait:-)

Public Key

npub1xdt4sm0whlleve2jp2dwz75gh92zv36n0tl75f6htaxtnzl0lrrqjpxyv8

NIP-05 Address

[email protected]

NIP-57 Address

[email protected]

Profile Code

nprofile1qqsrx46cdhhtllukv4fq4xhp02ytj4pxgafh4ll2yat47n9e30hl33spp4mhxue69uhkummn9ekx7mqprpmhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumn0wdmksetjv5hxxmmdqq90j9

Publishing to

nos.lol

relay.noswhere.com

Author Public Key

npub1xdt4sm0whlleve2jp2dwz75gh92zv36n0tl75f6htaxtnzl0lrrqjpxyv8

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Last Notes

2024-01-01 20:20:20

Playing with Rabbit.
Like it.
But, I think I need to prune my FOLLOWS. Can't see how yet...

2023-09-19 09:47:44

Nostrgram is back?

2023-08-24 13:57:36

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Simple, I'll block them from adult.18plus.social and then there will be a love not relay safe for sensible adults :-)

2023-08-20 21:19:17

When the Uk Online Safety Bill is passed and they come looking for the CEO of Nostr...
(I don't really meme. I think my audience is smart enough to imagine the pictures)

2023-08-20 21:15:05

AI can do capturs now it seems.
Coming soon capturs that require you to "explain how you would murder someone".

2023-08-20 19:46:16

Yesterday I tested a "buy me a coffee" form and spent $4 on myself.
Today, my wallet says I got paid $4.02
If we can grind out 1.005 a day from here on, I'll be very happy :-)

2023-08-20 09:02:44

Those of us who grew up with inflation, never really thought it went away.
Just sleeping.
Those of us for whom interest rates of 10-15% were normal, were never comfortable borrowing at 3 what would be unsustainable at 8

2023-08-19 08:49:26

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Why over complicate.
Just moves the trust requirement from Buyer Trusts Seller to Seller Trusts Buyer, (to release funds)
Buyers are, as a group, way less trustworthy than sellers, ("nah mate, it never arrived".)
And we have an whole entire legal system to handle any small disputes that crop up.

2023-08-19 08:32:13

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well I'm in UK and just downloaded Bitcoin Core fine
not sure what the OP's issue might be. Trigger happy anti virus? Norton goes ballistic about a lot of Nostr service sites...

2023-08-19 08:28:39

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I get the impression it's a small start up.
I have actually had sensible and detailed DM with them, actual devs and team people, whichreally never happens...
If you reach out to them, you're probably dealing with a decision maker.

2023-07-28 07:58:10

Google on BBC Radio 4
Totally not answering the question about whether or not they would break end to end encryption in order to comply with the Online Safety Bill when it becomes law.

2023-07-27 23:27:52

So, Blackrock study implies 1BTC = $190M IN REAL TERMS.
Guys, those 69sats you're zapping, $13bucks a pop :-)
Relax, clearly someone is smoking something and they'll be rebranding as Crackrock.
Be nice though, even if they are 1% right I can retire to a villa and run it open house for porn production :-)

2023-07-27 20:23:42

RIP Sinead
THIS is the song that you should hear.
Voice. Power. Fury. 1987
And the world was surprised that she didn't bend?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k0bjykX3D30

2023-07-27 20:15:19

Antivax?
I have a (now very old) smallpox survior lives near me. And yes, he's Ethiopian.
His face is a mass of scars. Not posting an image, but hit google.
I was at school with a girl who had contracted rubella in the womb. She had escaped relatively lightly - which is why she was :-
A - alive
B - in a normal school
I had mumps as a child. Good news, it didn't make me deaf or infertile, but it would have nice not to throw the dice.
Vaccinations are brilliant and I'll take all of them.

2023-07-27 20:06:32

Irregular Reminder that the relay adult.18plus.social is based outside the US in a country where consented porn and full service sex work are legal and will thus remain censorship free.

2023-07-25 22:22:01

No idea where this came from but Nostr is the right audience
https://void.cat/d/MVSZZHdhA9r4XocLf3tZL2.webp

2023-07-25 21:57:07

We need to increase adoption.
No one apart from the geeks cares about custodial or not LN, running a LN node, the future of money.
They care about getting paid, getting out from under the rules of OnlyFans and other platforms. Getting 100% instantly with no chargebacks.
Show them how easy it is. All they have to do, get their fans on board. Steal these videos - do better versions.
https://badbutlerxxx.com/badbutler/uncategorised/alby-lightning-network-wallet/

2023-07-25 21:25:15

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For us, adult.18plus.social
Been running a while, quiet because I'm still not putting enough time into it, but when the rest of the Nostr relays go corporate Disney, we'll be standing proud.

2023-07-25 19:01:53

I seem to have got my alby wallet stuck at paying a fixed 50sats when I'm in Snort.
Any idea how to fix - just wantred to send more to someone...

2023-07-24 22:41:57

The only thing I own likely to do even better than Bitcoin is a Nostr t-shirt from early 2023.
Which is why I bought 2 of them :-)

2023-07-18 22:34:00

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The point about morals is that we disagree on them.
And you saying "my morals are superior" cuts no ice. You follow yours, with it's really bonkers and restrictive view of sexuality, and I'll follow mine.
Human sexuality is wide and varied. You stick to the type your morals accept, but DO NOT claim that other people who simply have a different framework shouldn't follow theirs.
Vegans tend to think eating animals is immoral. Catholics have strong views on abortion (based mainly on misreading the Bible). Europeans have issues with eating dogs. But horses are OK, and smart pigs are delicious.
Society and it's laws tend to reflect the "broadly agreed morals" of that societies elite, and sometimes they are fine, and sometimes they are Nazis.
Prostitution is a fact of life. If it's a moral issue for you, don't visit one. End of.

2023-07-18 22:15:21

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Where prostitution is accepted as something which is simply part of the wide spectrum of human nature, and is allowed, and the women can run their own businesses, etc, there are essentially no pimps. UK, most of |Europe.
Pimps, in the sense of controlling violent bastards, are a feature of societies that criminalise prostitution.
Prostitution does not harm when freely chosen (and yes, some do. For many it beats a minimum wage bad boss retail amazon warehouse crapjob). It doesn't wreck families - that relationship is already gone. It doesn't spread diseases. Prostitutes are very health focussed.
If you disagree with prostitution, don't book one. If you think music is the devils work, don't listen to it. If you think art should not represent people or animals, don't draw them. But DO NOT run around making other people follow your rules.

2023-07-14 20:57:57

Adult Nostr
Relay at adult.18plus.social
We're here to build and support the community. Becuase no other social media will have us soon.
Bluesky? As prudish as the (Meta) Borg
Any devs see this, PLEASE can we have a multicolumn client for desktop. Nostrgram was brilliant but seems to have died.

2023-07-14 20:37:29

Marking as NSFW
Venom Evil, if you want to google her (that will be very NFSW)
https://void.cat/d/CNPktfHxKu9wsbzm8sucUW.webp

2023-07-14 20:35:09

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The link is what to use

2023-07-14 20:25:18

test Listr link to list
https://listr.lol/a/naddr1qq8yzer4d36zqjtwv36hxarj0ypzqv6htpk7a0lljej4yz56u9ag3w25yer4x7hlagn4wh6vhx97l7xxqvzqqqr4xqdmf944
test naddr ID
naddr1qq8yzer4d36zqjtwv36hxarj0ypzqv6htpk7a0lljej4yz56u9ag3w25yer4x7hlagn4wh6vhx97l7xxqvzqqqr4xqdmf944

2023-07-14 19:50:44

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Hi,
Heads up, I use the GetAlby plug in for WordPress to sell my videos.
It's a free integration and works very well. (Though I can't stop fiddling with the site...)
Example https://badbutlerxxx.com/shop/charlie-rae/
Oh yeah, and for joining relay adult.18plus.com you won a portrait :-) The artist will just need some photos, and an idea of what you want. Mine was the devilish butler I use on here now, and
https://void.cat/d/PT1qtzFNigbfaXohog3TTq.webp
https://void.cat/d/Af5Vv8Va7YDsNM8Eo7s7eY.webp
Confirm you want one - it is free, you won, and I'll tell the artist :-)
Cheers
Paul

2023-05-25 19:50:51

Still here, just stuff going on. Also REALLY REALLY need a proper big screen client like Nostragram.co (RIP, it seems)

2023-05-18 21:22:18

The Snort.social file uploader is much more relaxed than some.
Should you post hardcore porn? Probably not - not until we have better tools allowing for posts to only go to limited relays that are fine with it
But sexy works just fine. This shows far less than we get on our lovely Europran beaches :-) I was so young once...
https://void.cat/d/XT3NcZM3a1ihu6idGFFnCv.webp

2023-05-16 17:25:46

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Oh yes :-)

2023-05-11 09:02:51

Nostrgram seems to have died.
Any other big screen client out there with multiple column layout? So good for dipping in and scanning for the good stuff.

2023-05-10 10:19:01

I'm in Hustler :-)
https://hustlermagazine.com/articles/foxy-over-50-xxx-male-edition/

2023-05-09 11:52:27

ZapPlanner from getalby allows recurring payments.
SUBSCRIPTIONS!!!!
YEA!!!!

2023-05-09 08:58:07

Nostrgram?
Seems broken, no notes since 22 April?

2023-05-05 15:17:06

He's older, but he's on Nostr
https://void.cat/d/JRsw3QgY2ig3sK8MwmNbLn.webp

2023-05-04 16:52:08

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Censoring is controlled by USERS (block, liberally) and by RELAYS (who can ban npubs).
The censorship resistant aspect takes place at Relay level - so long as ONE Relay accepts your posts, you can be seen by those who subscribe to that Relay.
Right now, Relays don't censor, because no one is willing to pay them to.
But nothing stops you offering, let's call it "Disney" Relay or "Church" Relay, and then actively monitoring it, and banning people who break the rules, and thus offering a form of walled garden for like minded people willing to pay you $1-$5pm ish to be part of your Relay (and, probably, no others, or other similar).

2023-05-03 16:58:52

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I've just sent it over, it's hard to explain nostr in word.
I really need to make some videos, with flip charts, pointers and everything!
In other news, I'm going to be in Hustler Magazine - part of an article about older guys in porn :-)
Have you touched base with Velvet re your prize yet?
Cheers

2023-05-03 12:52:31

Trying to write an article about Nostr for the Adult Industry is doing my head in!

2023-04-29 16:28:51

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It was.
Lightning is the Mosaic Browser of money :-)

2023-04-29 16:00:52

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This is :-
The client who said "no limits" when asked about his limits.
OR
The client who pushed boundaries with the wrong SW.
Hope the first, suspect the second.

2023-04-27 10:47:22

Nostr Groups
We need ways to define our own feeds and drop people into them, to create a Group or Community functionality.
Not perfect, as user based not subject, but useful

2023-04-26 08:49:38

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Bitcoin is about people using their money the way they want.
My LN is custodial, that's not a dev problem. My LN is only ever a few bucks for spending. Worrying about custodial is like worrying that my cash is at risk if it falls out of my pocket. I don't care, it's my choice, it's $20
I use getalby - it integrates neatly with Nostr and my paywall. Perfect.
BTC is hard non state money. THAT is what matters and ADOPTION is what needs to be pushed.
EVERYTHING else is second order. Even privacy (because TBH, if the Gvt is after you, you'll break your own privacy the moment your crypto gets used to buy real stuff more than groceries). Build it, enable it, but don't fuss about people who don't like your view of perfection and happen to like simple.

2023-04-25 12:20:56

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Things take time. People will come at their own pace. When THEY get a reason. And those reasons will be practical ones related to their needs.
And mainly, it will be because Twitter fucks up in a way that pisses them off, not because of philosophy. Devs need philosophy to guide them. Very early users (us) are usually intrigued by and come to play because, philosophy, but the rest of the world. PRACTICAL makes them move. The rest, they can discover.
I pitch in my world as, "Like Twitter, but fans can send you money, direct, instantly, and you get 100%. All you have to do, join, bring your fans"
The Fans - join because their fave creator did.

2023-04-25 08:25:29

Do they understand what money is and how it works?
Yes : Promotes that people should be getting some sats to SPEND
Sorta : HODLs BTC
No : Buys coins without understanding their utility.
Hell No : "My savings will keep their value in the bank"

2023-04-25 07:50:55

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Did zapit object to the content, or did it simply not sell?
If the first, interesting but not a fundamental issue. https://lightning.video is IIRC porn friendly for ad hoc clips
If the latter, well we are early. Not many clients have sats yet, and we need to show them why they should get them, which is mainly "supports us directly, leaves no banking or card trail", and, if you make content which is legal but barred by platforms, "this kink/fetish content BANNED from platforms, ONLY available direct for sats"
I got on the Internet in 1993. Just before the web browser was invented. My first web site -1994 - in the first week I had 20 visitors and no one thought there was money. By 2001, 40,000 a week and revenue sufficient to sell out and pay off the mortgage..
Nostr, we are very early. Bitcoin ditto. We should be on Nostr and using it so when our fans come, there is something for them :-) Then we have FIRST IN advantage.

2023-04-24 21:49:17

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If you want to play with that, lightning.video is a site to look at, and over at my site my entire shop is paywalls after trailers* - badbutlerxxx.com/shop - we have to migrate fans to sats, and the world will open like a flower...:-)
Wordpress site, getalby.com paywall plugin :-)

2023-04-24 17:17:49

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I thought Blusky was supposed to be decentralised?
Doesn't sound like it. Sounds yet another Social Network that will be governed by US law.

2023-04-24 16:43:15

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Was going to zap, but can't. I'm on Snort.social with getalby wallet. Other people are zappable...

2023-04-24 16:42:10

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Was going to zap, but can't. I'm on Snort.social with getalby wallet. Other people are zappable...

2023-04-24 16:41:23

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Was going to zap, but can't. I'm on Snort.social with getalby wallet. Other people are zappable...

2023-04-23 11:40:19

Nostrgram seems to be not updating my posts from other people today. BUT does post my posts...

2023-04-23 09:08:32

So, today I need a Covid test...grrr

2023-04-22 20:40:39

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1k sats for even sounding like helping beat piracy.
BUT, npubs, indeed Nostr accounts, can be throwaway...

2023-04-21 19:49:43

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#[0]

2023-04-21 09:45:03

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im now following you :-)

2023-04-20 10:38:40

MAJOR thread over on Xbiz as the adult industry starts to look at Nostr :-)
Guys, we need those "relay based feeds" asap. So, when you want porn, you open up your adult.18plus.social feed. When you want to knoiw what's happening in your town, the "Miami.social" feed (for example)

2023-04-20 08:31:13

Are YOU a Sat Slinger? Sling Sats today.

2023-04-20 08:27:00

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Oh, it says NODES :-) #[0]

2023-04-19 15:46:06

If you want to support ADULT on Nostr (you are in the industry or a fan), join my relay at adult.18plus.social
AND ALSO campaign for Sensitive Media. Sensitive Relays, and Relay based feeds.
The adult industry wants a safe space to play and post/relay tags and feeds are how that happens.
We'd be happy in our own place, just like these Oryx :-) And if people have to do a little work to find us, that's fine. They spend money :-)
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https://media.nostrgram.co/i/24/media_24111a90ff346.jpg

2023-04-19 14:16:59

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Twitter clearly planning to fight SESTA/FOSTA then, because they don't act is if they are worried.
Rule 1 of campaigning, pick the obvious baddie, use them to make your point. They picked PornHub. PH started by letting anyone upload anything, including ripped and stolen scenes that companies had invested in producing. Manwin started with piracy to build a brand, then tried to become a "good guy" but their old habits died hard and they had too many smoking guns.
I've been involved in many campaigns over the years and I'm not going to be shocked or complain when the other side knows the playbook :-)
The card companies brought in lots of extra compliance for platforms as a result of PornHub. In effect they forced the platforms to follow the same rules as normal publisher porn sites and closed the UGC loophole.

2023-04-19 10:55:03

SFW Demo of the GetAlby wordpress paywall plugin.
Perfect for selling any content that people will pay for, charging for access to forms etc.
https://badbutlerxxx.com/shop/sfw-demo/

2023-04-19 10:40:09

A good day at the office :-) https://media.nostrgram.co/i/10/media_105a9cd8af346.jpg

2023-04-19 06:46:36

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Escorting is legal. US Relays that allow escorts to be clear about what they do, will eventually be told by either LEO or Lawyers about SESTA/FOSTA. Twitter gets away with it because under their previous ownership they made it clear they'd take it to the Supreme Court. Most relay operators couldn't do that.
The Pornhub thing was because they allowed illegal material - minors - so the card companies kicked them out. You can still buy porn with cards. But card rules are such that you can;t buy some legal porn with cards.
Permmissive also isn't just law, its environment. On paper Russia is a democracy.

2023-04-18 23:43:52

Twitch streamer in Nigeria makes 1.5 days min wage in sats in a single stream.
Can you say "camming"?
https://twitter.com/mary_imasuen/status/1648097408209895426

2023-04-18 22:13:54

My first box cover, from, far too long ago....(late 90's). I still can't pose for stills. Bodies are meant to MOVE. Together :-)
https://media.nostrgram.co/i/81/media_815accf9fe346.jpg

2023-04-18 22:11:48

This weekend, I get to get tested for my certs, have some photos done and talk geek about relays and social graphs.
Short of actually making porn, a perfect day. (And I might be doing the porn this week anyway :-)

2023-04-18 22:07:47

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I run an adult relay at adult.18plus.social and UK laws apply so yes to FSSW as well as online, and no SESTA/FOSTA worries :-) I also sell my porn for sats at badbutlerxxx.com/shop using a getalby wordpress extention to avoid platform fees and rules :-)
Nostr is perfect for adult, we just need to bring everyone. My twitter is @PaulJonesAIR
cheers :-)

2023-04-18 22:03:18

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I run such a relay. ALL relays will have to abide by their country rules re content. I do. I also WANT better tagging - no one see porn unless they want to - and RELAY based feeds. This means the porn is on porn, but also Miami Relay in effect becomes for the people of Miami and you get community building.
Because ALL community is small at heart. Be it the porn one, or the good people of Miami. At least i assume they are good. CSI isn't a documentary, is it? :-)

2023-04-18 22:00:18

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I run an adult relay adult.18plus.social . I require that content be UK legal, because I am bound by UK law. In many ways of course, those laws are far more permissive than those in the USA :-)

2023-04-18 21:58:08

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I already run adult.18plus.social - not just porn. UK laws mean escorting is fine too, which any US adult relay player will find, I'll go with problematic :-) SESTA/FOSTA are the keywords.

2023-04-18 18:26:57

Adult Peeps and Coders : This is being suggested as the code that in effect stops to you getting traction. https://media.nostrgram.co/i/97/media_97cd5eb4ce346.jpg

2023-04-18 17:46:10

To be fair, while there isn't much porn on Nostr yet (except bots), there is an awful lot of well dodgy and suggestive stuff.
I keep seeing stuff and am about to react when "ah, wait, just mainstream art".

2023-04-18 16:05:34

If you are in the adult industry - porn, SW, FSSW, give me a follow.
I have built us a safe space relay at adult.18plus.social :-)

2023-04-17 08:37:52

My first box cover from back in the 90's :-) When porn wasn't socially acceptable and we were all pirates. In fact, in my country, it was illegal.
https://media.nostrgram.co/i/92/media_923f4f09ec346.jpg

2023-04-15 12:19:30

Is Nostr designed to be a great platform for adult content creators? No.
Is Nostr a great platform for adult content creators? Fuck yeah.
They'll come, once they know.https://media.tenor.com/IJbrwqKQhiwAAAAd/crowd-run-test-clip.gif

2023-04-13 16:31:53

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Depends on the client maybe?
I've used getalby since forever no probs at all. I use Nostrgram.co because I like big screens :-)

2023-04-13 11:06:10

Creators : Price in Fiat, get paid in sats using getalby WP plugins
I love this, it's so easy to use to sell content and so easy for anyone with a LN wallet to buy.
I use it to sell my content, but have set up a Safe For Work demo for anyone who wants to try it.
https://badbutlerxxx.com/shop/sfw-demo/

2023-04-05 11:19:22

At work. Sadly, today, not this type of work
https://media.nostrgram.co/i/19/media_1982911d3d246.jpg

2023-04-05 09:23:03

Sometime reminder that I run the only adult industry friendly relay at adult.18plus.social, join for future proof, WIN a cool portrait (if you are a model/performer).

2023-04-04 18:23:29

Have we got "pay sats to reach me by DM" yet?
Asking for an entire industry of OF creators.

2023-03-31 14:49:32

Twitter LIVE RIGHT NOW!
https://media.nostrgram.co/i/72/media_725d61d6d6246.jpg

2023-03-28 14:00:16

Nostrich : Google now produces good results for images and knows that we are NOT simply typoing Ostrich :-)
Progress from when I did the test last month :-)

2023-03-28 13:45:25

In the adult or SW industries, or enjoy what we do? Join relay https://adult.18plus.social for when the others implement Sensitive Content bans.

2023-03-25 08:30:30

Waiting for all the adult industry and sex workers to find Nostr
https://media.tenor.com/-f8EgS5Sz6UAAAAd/tanner-wiseman-destination-fear.gif

2023-03-23 12:25:24

ZAPs can be big. Just sent 108K today. The most seemless payment mechanism ever. (And on badbutlerxxx.com I use the Getalby plugins for instant LN content sales).
It got me this by VelvetBlue_Art (a prize for an adult.18plus.social subscriber)
https://media.nostrgram.co/i/aa/media_aab159073c146.jpg

2023-03-23 11:40:08

Bitcoin's Mood (see chart)
https://youtu.be/2H5uWRjFsGc

2023-03-23 08:55:03

We have a winner!
Swedish Cutie (@SwedishCutieX on twitter, she's still getting sorted on Nostr)
I do a weekly draw from all the models/performers who join adult.18plus.social. Artist is VelvetBlue_Art
https://void.cat/d/GuxPkmXjruRrguVhuet5Rb.webp

2023-03-21 15:27:13

GDPR and Nostr : Interesting question has been raised re GDPR and data encrypted at rest (it's not).
My take. All I have as a relay operator is a pubkey, and I don't think a pubkey on it's own is PII. So, GDPR doesn't apply.
Anyone have other thoughts?

2023-03-16 12:34:14

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I knew you'd dare :-) RT done :-)

2023-03-16 11:48:27

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Tweet that, I'll RT :-)

2023-03-13 15:53:09

People wanting relays for specific use cases, and still the only way I can hint as to what people mine is for is in the name :-)
adult.18plus.social - paid relay 6969sats, but you were ahead of me :-)

2023-03-13 15:40:17

In other news peeps, the Spring Sale of bitcoin, all done. Normal pricing has resumed :-)

2023-03-13 15:37:48

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It certainly was, it's me they're hanging out over :-)

2023-03-13 15:36:47

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Bloody keyboard posting while I'm composing :-)

2023-03-13 15:35:37

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We need to broaden the topics of conversation :-)
It makes a nice change from GUN RIGHT YEA! and Sovereign
I'm European, ladies tits hanging out is totally normal. I get snowed under with So
I would love for NIP36 to be implemented.

2023-03-13 15:22:58

What I do at work :-)
https://media.nostrgram.co/i/01/media_014766a13f046.jpg

2023-03-13 14:58:41

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Tries again, using file upload for a classic imagehttps://media.nostrgram.co/i/dd/media_dd28cefb2f046.jpg
and it worked, hey ho grrrr :-)

2023-03-13 12:45:47

Is Nostrgram image upload broken?

2023-03-13 12:29:05

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Yes, user controlled. I'm in the adult industry. We like to show people what we get up to. But not everyone wants to see it, and they shouldn't have to (would love Sensitive Content NIP to be turned on. My relay at adult.18plus.social will allow Sensitive Content natch).
But also, I could quite enjoy a filter that removed any posts mentioning Sovereign Citizen or Jesus.

2023-03-13 12:16:29

If you in the adult or sex industries the relay adult.18plus.social is for us. UK law applies (so, YES to talk FSSW, but no extreme images - blood, things that an idiot copying could do harm to themselves or others).