Ricki Tarr

Am I doing this right?

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2024-08-09 18:59:38

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@npub1mmf…eknq Those aren't criticism to me, the utility is the truth, the things that Vance complains about are things I think are positive.

2024-07-14 04:54:21

I really want to crawl into my pocket dimension. Mine involves very soft blankets and pillows, snuggles, candlelight, tea in a lovely cup, a great audio book, and a gentle storm outside.
What does your's involve?

2024-07-13 17:53:21

I saw Inside Out 2 last night. I really enjoyed it, but I noticed something. Riley's parent's emotions had all settled into the sex that they presented as, whereas Riley had emotions that presented as male, female, and non-binary. I don't know if this was intentional or just portraying a young person still figuring out identity, but I thought it was an interesting touch.

2024-07-07 16:13:09

I will never tire of reading this headline. All rich people should be forced to do this.
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2024-07-05 16:08:18

I've seen a lot of terrible design choices, but this is one of the first ones, I've seen, that I think would actually kill me:
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2024-07-02 14:52:00

Famous pic of Freddie Mercury and David Bowie cosplaying as the two types of 80's Dads:
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2024-07-02 05:56:25

They want us to feel sad, useless, overwhelmed, and powerless, because they are afraid of a people that no longer holds their values, that sees through them. This is not a war they will win. This is a Swan Song of a dying breed. They are afraid of us, and they should be.

2024-06-30 21:45:45

I wish I could get The Bible: Just The Jokes version. All this murder is bringing me down.

2024-06-28 16:13:33

Today I Learned:
My state apparently has to pay me for 3 hours so I can vote. My workplace never advertised this for some reason.
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2024-06-23 17:54:41

Goodbye Lynn.
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2024-06-21 23:52:16

Quick, what do I say?!
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2024-06-19 16:35:23

Who could have possibly anticipated this? Oh everyone, that's right.
Also, ONLY 4%!
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2024-06-18 19:19:12

I recently figured out I could post videos on here, and I'm just going to go ahead and apologize. If you can figure out the movie I'm explaining the plot of, I'm going to think you are real cool.
https://media.beige.party/media_attachments/files/112/638/756/293/197/128/original/e0c442ce99ff48da.mp4

2024-06-17 01:55:31

How old were you when you felt like you could make rational decisions for yourself?

2024-06-16 07:01:49

Many people know that Fox News paid Dominion nearly 800 million dollars, but they weren't forced to pay this, they chose to settle literally right as opening statements were about to begin. I still wonder what they had on those fuckers, or were they just terrified to get Murdoch, Hannity, and Carlson on the stand. Maybe they were all spooked after Alex Jones' 965 million dollar debacle. Either way, I hope people just keep suing the pants off Conservatives.

2024-06-14 18:53:39

For the people in the back, in case they didn't hear:
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2024-06-13 21:45:49

I have questions!
How was this research conducted?
Why was this research conducted?
Is this something people are trying to do?!
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2024-06-12 20:18:56

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If you have a cat in your avatar and you get sassy, I just think, typical cat behavior. Dogs are just like LOL Good one, must be a Golden.

2024-06-12 20:17:44

When someone follows me, and their avatar is a picture of a person and a pet, in my head, I always imagine I'm talking to the pet.

2024-06-12 16:43:07

My brother found this recipe for Salted Caramel Rice Krispy Treats, sounds good, right? Then we saw the picture of them, and he had to add his own text:
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2024-06-11 18:39:45

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@npub1yq9…9gsn I don't even like talking to children that way

2024-06-11 18:25:06

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@npub1glf…whzx Some of us are even productive members of society lol

2024-06-11 17:54:58

.Your Fat friends don't have to make you feel secure about your body.
.Disabled people aren't required to be "inspirational"
.And ffs People of Color don't have to make you feel better about your racist jokes and thoughts.
.LGBTQ+ People don't have to fit into your stereotype of them, to make you feel comfortable
.Women don't have to be maternal.
.Men don't have to be "strong and masculine".
.Older people don't have to be treated like children or be "sweet".
Feel free to add your own mini rant.

2024-06-10 15:59:02

I think we all know this is wrong.
Don't put your fingers in other people's belly buttons!
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2024-06-09 19:29:34

Okay, maybe this is my middle aged person rant, but it seems like films used to be lit better. It's like they got better cameras and better editing tools, and thought we'll just fix everything in post, but something got lost. When you see great lighting, you really appreciate the art form it is.
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2024-06-08 23:25:24

A sweet little girl said I was pretty today, and my first instinct was to correct her, and seriously, that kind of bullshit is why girls and women have to struggle with self image throughout their lives. So, I said, thank you, and told her she looked pretty too.
Like imagine saying, Actually kiddo, I'm fat, and short, and I have a big ole moon face, and weird hair, and...
I don't want to put that energy out in the world anymore. Anyway, y'all look pretty today.

2024-06-08 16:52:26

Okay, I won't say this is always true, but it almost always is in my experience.
https://media.beige.party/media_attachments/files/112/581/561/975/446/391/original/f71f6930662fa5d8.jpg

2024-06-08 15:27:00

Off to put in a day's work in The Woman Factory.
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2024-06-06 20:45:40

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Until she retires, and then it turns out some 60 something woman named Deb was holding half the company together lol

2024-06-06 20:44:52

I love when the world tells older women they are becoming irrelevant and invisible, and they're just like, Good, now I can do what I want, and no one will bother me.

2024-06-06 16:04:41

Finally, a gentle way to sweep my kittens!
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2024-06-05 03:16:44

I wish there was any job I loved as much as Herding Dogs love Herding.

2024-06-04 20:48:29

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@npub19j0…jq2x I have seen so many Employee Surveys asking how to motivate employees, and then they are mad when everyone says MONEY, BENEFITS, PAID TIME OFF, SCHEDULE FLEXIBILITY!
Cue Work Hour Pizza Party.

2024-06-04 20:40:40

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@npub19j0…jq2x It's weird because we have so much data on how treating employees better creates a better end product for everyone, and yet...

2024-06-04 19:52:24

Me: I'm an adult!
Friend: Sure, what did you eat for lunch?
Me, thinking about the Walnut Sticky Bun, Bowl of Bing Cherries, and large handfuls of Corn Chips I ate when I realized I forgot to eat breakfast: Ummm... kind of a salad.

2024-06-04 18:15:11

99.9% of jobs do not require urgency of any kind, really they don't. We've all had a boss who acts like someone will die if we don't hit some made up deadline by people who don't even do the job. No one needs their meal 1 minute faster or the paperwork before tomorrow morning. Your time off actually doesn't need to wait. Sometimes I think about how legitimately bad most businesses are at time management and hiring, and I wonder how they manage to exist at all.

2024-06-04 18:00:18

Would you rather be alone in a Space Ship with Darth Vader or the Queen Alien from Alien?
Please support the your answer if you feel like it.

2024-06-04 17:55:17

Mountain Dew has a history of picking some "interesting" colors for their beverages, but why Side Of The Highway Pee Bottle?
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2024-06-04 02:59:58

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@npub1cne…muve Some Like It Hot is the old movie I show people who swear they don't like old movies

2024-06-04 00:38:35

Alright, lots of heavy discussions today, so let's talk about something silly!
What is a movie that always makes you laugh?
Personal pick:
Anything Mel Brooks, but Robin Hood: Men in Tights, it's just funny every time I watch it.

2024-06-03 07:54:13

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And if you're a dude who would never abuse a woman physically, mentally or verbally, then no worries, the bear thing doesn't apply to you, you can just be an ally and work on making the world safer for women.

2024-06-03 07:40:34

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The best part is people trying to find statistics trying to prove that bears are more dangerous than men and finding the opposite, and then getting more mad, because they don't actually want to learn, they just want to creep on women and girls with no consequences. The bear will only kill me, so...

2024-06-03 07:37:47

These dudes are saying they can't believe women would choose the bear, and then threaten Assault and Violence on women for choosing said bear.

2024-06-02 17:35:50

This picture of Mary Tyler Moore and Dick Van Dyke actually exists in the world, and I don't know why we aren't talking about it constantly.
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2024-06-02 05:20:33

One of the things I love is when a noob starts watching Trek shows for the first time, and they're like, This is so silly, it's ridiculous, that guy turned into a lizard and impregnated his captain, that lady got possessed by a sex ghost that belonged to her grandma, the captain is sorting a room full of floofy guinea pigs, the ship runs on mushrooms, this theme song makes no sense, and I'm just like Yeah, isn't it great?! You either get it or you don't, I don't know what to tell you.

2024-06-01 21:39:26

"It was an accident." "I didn't mean to."
No one accidentally hits you. Those cruel things they didn't mean to say, wouldn't have occurred to them if they hadn't been thinking it. There's never an excuse for violence and cruelty. It's healthy to have lines that should never be crossed.

2024-06-01 02:21:05

If any of you are Axolotls you have to tell me.

2024-06-01 00:04:10

Money doesn't buy happiness is something rich people say, because they can't figure out why people don't like them.
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2024-05-31 17:16:01

Correct me if I'm wrong, but this is less than 5% of his income, so good job paying less than half of what everyone else does.
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2024-05-31 16:45:11

America: You need to have health insurance!
Me: Cool, that makes sense, but it's going to cover my whole body, right?
America: Depends, do you use your teeth and eyes?

2024-05-30 04:01:40

Friends: Who are you listening to right now?
Me, very hip: Oh, you wouldn't know them.
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2024-05-30 00:57:45

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I asked my husband if this was what it's like living with me, and he was quiet for 3 seconds, and then said, Sometimes.

2024-05-30 00:49:27

Is this what y'all think living with me is like?!
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2024-05-29 17:24:57

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@npub1kke…2d7c WHAT?!

2024-05-29 14:51:19

This was a fun one, so let's do it again. What is something you've learned that seems unlikely, even though you know it's true? Here's one I think about a lot:
Sight, while being something something many people are born with, is not an innate ability, but something we learn to do. People who were born blind or were blind for a long time, who get sight, have to learn to see.

2024-05-28 19:42:30

Fan or not, this clip remains legendary.
https://media.beige.party/media_attachments/files/112/519/946/315/560/969/original/ce2299131e0425d7.mp4

2024-05-27 15:54:37

How much alone time vs socializing do you need?
For me there are a few people who are usually equalizing, and I can just be around them, so I won't count that. But generally, I find about 3 times a week, I'm game for socializing. A day in between to rest is usually nice, but the larger the gathering or if we go somewhere particularly noisy or I'm meeting new people that involves more effort, and my social battery empties sooner. I'm very curious where everyone else falls on this!

2024-05-27 14:18:10

At some point, my purse became a walking pharmacy. Stomach upset, got a headache? I have you covered. Need bug spray or sunscreen, what about some lotion or hand sanitizer? I've got a snack, and something to freshen your breath.
When I had surgery a few years ago, I had a weight limit of 10 pounds for 3 months! Hubs said he needed to weigh my purse to make sure I could safely carry it. I thought he was joking, turns out it weighed 17 pounds!

2024-05-27 02:11:50

The Epaulette shark is only about 9 million years old as a species, making it the most recent branch in the shark family. And it is slowly but surely evolving into a land animal!
You will have to choose your side!
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2024-05-26 17:26:28

Sometimes when you learn how something works, you think, Thanks knowledge, that really helped, everything makes more sense, and other times you look up how wrists turn, and it's like WTF?!
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2024-05-24 17:13:17

Anniversary Update, hubs gave me this, and I'm crying:
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2024-05-24 15:51:28

Today is my 21st wedding anniversary. On our first wedding anniversary, we were pretty broke, so hubs made me homemade coupons for massages, but he spelled it wrong, so I got a handful of printed out coupons for 1 Hour of Messages. So, every year since I get something like this:
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2024-05-24 15:39:55

What if you were allowed to put any picture/text on any book cover. What is your book choice and what picture/text would you choose?
Ridiculous Example:
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2024-05-24 15:07:17

When the Soviet Union was falling apart Gorbachev had one thing on his mind, Who killed Laura Palmer?!
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2024-05-23 21:14:57

It cracks me up when people say that people with ADD and ADHD don't actually need their meds, they are just addicted to Adderall. Have they even met a person with ADD or ADHD?
My friends forget to take their meds all the time!

2024-05-23 18:12:35

Have y'all ever had someone act like you were hurting them somehow by just liking a food?
Any time I buy or make kimchi, my Mom says it's so gross and she doesn't want any and just on and on. I never offer it to her, or make group food with it, but for some reason she seems offended by it, and I don't know why.

2024-05-23 04:15:03

Y'all, I like all the Treks, I can't deal with your fighting, please think of the children.

2024-05-23 02:14:52

If the gods exist, it's mighty presumptuous to think they have our best interests at heart, or even think about us at all.

2024-05-23 00:16:39

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@npub1flv…ctq0 This idea that some skills come naturally to one sex over the other is so silly

2024-05-22 18:55:12

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@npub17yu…pxek Both my husband and I have been in the position where the other partner had to take in more, but the other person has always compensated in other ways

2024-05-22 18:43:10

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And just for clarity, this includes people who are disabled. Yes, maybe you have to do more physical care for a disabled partner, but care in a healthy relationship goes both ways, and isn't just physical, but also emotional and mental. In healthy relationships, both partners give of themselves to each other.

2024-05-22 18:41:04

Sometimes the way people phrase things is so telling. For instance, telling women they should be "taking care of" their husband and children. Another adult doesn't need taken care of like a child, what you want is for women to be a Sex Mom.

2024-05-21 15:38:52

You know the word queue is French, because they literally could have just spelled it "q", but there's four silent nonsense vowels at the end of it instead.

2024-05-21 15:29:18

The most ridiculous thing about cop procedural shows is when they ask where a person was, and what they were doing at a specific time the person always has perfect and immediate recall. I'd be desperately trying to remember what day of the week that was, and trying to open my phone calendar. If I was the cop, I'd immediately be suspicious of the person who remembered exactly where they were and what they were doing.

2024-05-19 23:29:04

One of the crazy things about M&M lore is that Cannibalism is not only acceptable, but encouraged.

2024-05-18 18:23:07

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@npub1fpr…lyph Me too! It's only about an hour from my house, so it's a nice place to go for the day!

2024-05-18 18:19:54

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@npub1fpr…lyph Oh my yes, I believe they are open Thursday-Sunday, so definitely worth a visit! About a 30 minute drive from Hermann Missouri also, if you wanted some wine with your cheese.

2024-05-18 16:37:45

Oh, Dairy Pics from yesterday! I've never seen such happy cows, and the cheese was sooo good!
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2024-05-18 15:44:17

It's so weird that we are all supposed to be ashamed for burping and farting. I deeply apologize to everyone for keeping my body from literally exploding, so uncouth.

2024-05-17 18:36:17

A Taco Salad is just one big nacho.

2024-05-16 18:41:34

Listen, the Victorians had their issues, but pussy and cunt are boring, give me Mossy Mound and Cave of Unimaginable Delights any day.

2024-05-15 17:27:24

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@npub138j…59ux Everyone is much closer to homelessness than they think, there is this general idea that it couldn't happen to you, but it can, especially with no safety network.

2024-05-15 16:46:43

Y'all want to hear a fact that really changed the way I thought about homelessness?
Half of all homeless people were in the foster system at some point. Social Workers often call the foster system The Highway to Homelessness. If you ever had a point in your life where you had to live with friends or family to for a short time to get back on your feet, remember that is a privilege that not everyone had.

2024-05-14 19:03:10

Just a reminder, if you're in a state without access to abortion, there is a network of care, providing safe, effective, and free abortion pills and information.
www.redstateaccess.com

2024-05-13 23:20:15

This post broke my heart, and I'm sorry if anyone ever treated you this way. You deserve to be who you are at any age.
https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/f6tmxr/is_it_possible_to_vent_without_ageist_attacks/

2024-05-13 19:26:19

OMG Y'all, I found some of my old Christian Girl writing and I'm cracking up. You can see my terrible handwriting! Feel free to share your own handwriting, it doesn't have to be super embarrassing!
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2024-05-13 15:48:48

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@npub1fpr…lyph Oh yeah dreams will get you

2024-05-13 15:22:00

Anyway, sometimes my brain creates really sad scenarios, and I play out my reactions to these scenarios, and it makes me really upset, but it's like I'm trying to prepare myself for every possibility even though it's both impossible and destructive.

2024-05-13 01:34:13

If you're like me, and Mother's Day is a rough day for you. I'm thinking of you, and I hope it's a good day anyway.

2024-05-12 21:12:34

It still tickles me that the TERFS and Transphobes tried to claim Terry Pratchett as their own, and everyone who actually knew him, including his daughter, and co-author Neil Gaiman, was like WRONG, WRONG, WRONG, you couldn't be further from the truth.

2024-05-12 16:33:13

Seriously heard someone saying they don't listen to many black artists, because they aren't really into rap. Bitch please, feel free to share songs from Black artists from any genre. Here is one of my favorites, if you like this song please check out her other work:
https://youtu.be/KovrJ8HXI1Q?si=HOYIG7YMuAUTsJz6

2024-05-12 04:04:17

You are going to make love to a Cereal Mascot, who do you choose?
I'm going Snap, Crackle, & Pop.

2024-05-10 23:24:01

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@npub1nlt…t44t We can just assume it's there lol

2024-05-08 17:00:06

What cracks me up is when you go to a restaurant, and they ask if you've been there before, and then they say, "Well, we do things a little different here", and then it's exactly like every other restaurant, but more expensive.

2024-05-05 04:07:54

If people would just send me pictures of their homemade bread, I would both appreciate it, and be full of bread lust.

2024-05-04 23:22:41

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@npub150l…r96e One of the examples was people buying soda water, which isn't some fancy luxury item. If it was like the youngsters are buying $50 Ribeyes 4 times a week, then sure, but they are buying soda water and snacks

2024-05-04 22:56:34

Young people wanting to eat good food?! What's next?! Are they going to want to get paid more, own houses, take vacations?!
https://www.businessinsider.com/millennials-gen-z-splurge-groceries-spending-inflation-gen-z-boomers-2024-4?amp

2024-05-04 02:05:01

I'm not saying anyone should do this, but if you were looking to get revenge on a colonizer, this would be a really good time to take over Britain.

2024-05-02 17:56:39

If you get mad when you see employees at a business you are patronizing laughing, enjoying each other's company, and goofing off, you're a dick. Empathize with people working a shitty underpaid job, and let them enjoy what little fun they get.

2024-05-02 03:23:31

It's strange to me when I see people get upset about people doing good deeds, and posting it online.
"They're just doing it for attention!"
Yeah, so what? I'd much rather see people doing nice things for attention, than the people who do mean pranks or wasting food. A good deed is still good, even if it's done for the wrong reasons.