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Last Notes npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Eros is the vehicle The lubricant And the digestif. It is the heat that carries the truth Beyond the psyche and into the dark Where it finds its resonant place inside of you. It is the hand that kneads the dough Just enough so that on the exhale, you keep your shape. The language of the body that carries the voice of the Heavens Directly into our worldy incarnation. Without it, there is no animation Or creation. Simply a human race, subject to castration. Starving men and women Trading fast food replacements through a screen. Without it there is no Truth Just ideologies and egregores collecting steam As they cycle around the black hole Residing in every human who’s been split From the very thing that’s been theirs all along. ---------- Photo: Jamie Nease https://blossom.primal.net/036a7bd15aba692813530df90d7bb65a41fc1e69b509c96d4a099242e9ab51a7.jpg npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Nothing crazy, visiting my dad and enjoying some city vibes! npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Oooo, I lived in Toronto for basically the first 25 years of my life and never went in there! Perhaps I’ll check it out! npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie A little visit to the city https://blossom.primal.net/580a0b4ae3cedfabc12488295f0d8d67c6559cf1f7b319d57e2e615d4929c0f6.jpg npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie I wouldn’t be disappointed npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Phoenix sunset walks with @nprofile…q6up GN fam. https://blossom.primal.net/ee069f0d987e41e543d633f1609d2f465ba834b51b64a0a590f9b3a39f479424.jpg npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Most men with sex addiction are actually templated for true devotion and service. Unwinding the addiction is part of their initiation. npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Every man I encounter has the templating within him for masculine service and devotion to the Feminine. If it wasn’t there, he and I wouldn’t cross paths. That I am sure of. This does not mean, however, that he is oriented to it fully. It does not mean, he moves through the world that way. Every single one, in fact, has his own patterns and aspects that are in the way. And each one mirrors my own patterns that are not oriented fully in devotion to Her. Extraction. Transaction. Control. Domination. It is a sometimes painful chasm to hold. I know it well. It feels like a dissonance. A lack of full alignment. A contorting or twisting and trying that comes out funky. The beauty is that She does not judge. She is the most loving and neutral reflection of what is. And it is precisely in Her reflection that we can truly see 👀 This is not about men and women. Although those layers also weave their way into the dynamic. It is about order, in the truest sense of the word. Because order with Her looks nothing like we thought. It is much, much more rich, fruitful, exciting, nourishing and generous than we could have ever imagined. It is Beyond. Which is why we seek it so deeply. npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie In two hours, a group of really incredible humans is coming together online to not only meet each other, but meet themselves. Because that is what relationship actually does - it is a mirror for us to meet ourselves more deeply. It is an amplifier, a reflector, an integrator and a solidifier. We can do all the work we want with ourselves, but in connection, everything gets bigger. Which is why people shy away from it, reaching for the thing that feels “safer”. How you work with yourself within a connection is a skill, and one that can drastically impact the quality of your life. To be able to slow down time and watch what your body does and how you truly feel in front of someone. To notice where you close and open or wiggle out of a intimate moment. It is all a practice. And I’ve got a place for you to do it. There is still time to grab your ticket for today’s REUNION Salon. We begin at 1pm EST. Trust the curiosity inside of you and say yes to the unknown. We’re going to create magic and we’re going to do it together. Exactly as we are. Dropping the link in the comments. https://blossom.primal.net/c19a152247300110535e7e7e3b8792079f9fc576d54e20e9c5f2e8cb2576f9d4.jpg npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Men often need a real life, 3D example of something to believe it’s really possible. I’ve seen this over and over and over. Women can experience something in the field, and know it to be true and possible - a different kind of knowing. One of the MOST POTENT parts of bringing men and women together in an online experience centered around genuine, no bullshit connection, is that I literally watch it rewire men’s ideas of women, relationship and what is actually not only possible, but probable for them in the future. I have incredible women in my field. Like… top notch. So men, if you’re wanting to experience them and let them actually see you, come on Saturday to the REUNION Salon. It will change your life. https://www.katieloconnor.com/reunion-salon npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie In your reflection, I become. This is something that landed for me a couple years ago and I’ve watched the truth of this through all types of experiences and relationships. The moments when your essence is reflected back in the person in front of you. Whether it’s the way their body shifts, the words they say, the choices they then make or the energy you feel. You see a piece of yourself come alive in them. And you get bigger. A little fractal of your transcendental and cosmic nature becomes matter. You see yourself a little bit more clearly. And as you do, you feel it. The truth. That you are not just the idea of yourself that you have. You have irrefutable evidence in front of you of something more. Your whole life, a slow piecing together - a crafting of the multicolored, multi-textured creation of you, expressed through every person you touch. What does the chemistry of your essence and someone else’s actually produce? How do your particular electrons dance together? And what part of you is awakened through the connection? This upcoming Saturday, February 28th, from 1pm-3:30pm EST, I want to invite you to join me for an experience centered around precisely this. I am hosting an online salon to bring men and women together in an intimate, connected and fun way, I’m taking some of my favourite and most impactful REUNION exercises and combining them with a little dinner party pizazz! Tickets are $33 per person or $55 for a pair. Men, women, singles and couples invited. Learn more and register here: https://www.katieloconnor.com/reunion-salon https://blossom.primal.net/e1d791cfe1556e8ef0463cdaaaf13d59e80f47a487cbe57ed9f18987b4d82c1e.png npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Thank you! npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie An evolution. https://blossom.primal.net/d2f88b7481d7acd1ee712bb130cdbe96eef5d5b8696d3c6cea05033ce64e73ec.jpg https://blossom.primal.net/73af8faca52783f37a12e5076d7f87ad1af4fec16ac002c8d1c5ff5639ddc442.jpg https://blossom.primal.net/8593372832c0d46043722252fef9ab4a8ce6c62a99db29bccf0f0f9289bd4e5c.jpg npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Men, what aspect of you do you feel most women fail to see? And what aspect of you do you hope they don’t see? npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Can you explain this to me like I’m 5? npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie I just had a dream that told me instead of Gold being an object that should be bought and sold, it is actually the pro forma (I believe that was the Latin word in the dream) of all of life. As in it is simply a documentation of, vs being the thing itself. I woke up right when that came in and so I’m kind of foggy but if anyone wants to expand on this or if there’s something here, let me know. I was out DEEP in a nap. npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie 🙏🏻 thank you fine sister npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Well this is fantastic. Thank you. npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie I am opening space to work with two very specific men and I have a feeling they exist in my Substack community. As I have been doing sessions with men over the last year+, I’ve watched how my system interacts with theirs and there is a very particular way the medicine moves. My work with men is twofold. 1- My system reflects and puts language to what is in their system and their life in a way that they can more easily see and understand it. 2- My energy and guidance helps attune their bodies to the energy alive in them in a way that gives them more literacy and influence over their experience in the world. This is the work of a woman. I’ve also noticed my work with men moves through them faster than my female clients, simply because of the male design. Men can move energy into aligned action relatively quickly. Now, of course every person is different, but when the men are open to my sight and guidance, it can be quick. A woman’s sight is energy efficient. We can sense and reflect things that would take a man a considerable amount of resources to arrive at himself. It is not better, it is simply a way we can compliment is own intelligence. So, I am making a direct invitation to the men in my world here who feel resonance with my energy and my writing. You do not need to understand it all. It probably will not feel like a super rational choice. Because it will be your body/ soul responding over your logical mind. Which brings me to the type of man that is a good fit for this work: -You spend a lot of time in your head but you are clear that you have a very sensitive energetic body. You just aren’t comfortable feeling it often. - You are open to Feminine sight and reflection. -You are navigating a relational or personal shift in your life and are looking at yourself and your patterns deeply. These are the key ones, and honestly, if you feel a natural interest/ curiosity or pull to working with me, I always say trust that. We can discuss and I will let you know if I feel a resonance and you can feel yourself deeper too. To get a taste of the work, I am offering initial sessions for $122 so let me know if you want to book one in and we can move from there. npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie I really like this. #nevent1q…khqt npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie This is how I feel spending time with soulmate women who I hang out with in the ethers but hadn’t met in person. They also make me wear my sexy dressy things 🥰 @npub1zt7…upjh https://blossom.primal.net/c19a152247300110535e7e7e3b8792079f9fc576d54e20e9c5f2e8cb2576f9d4.jpg npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Always giving me a little extra love and taking what I no longer need 🥰 #nevent1q…v44k npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie There is a distinct energetic difference between a man pleasuring you because he gets off seeing you get off. And a man pleasuring you because he enjoys your body and the process. An attuned woman can feel the slight transactionality of the former. And before the men jump at me in the comments, I am not saying being turned on by her being turned on is wrong or shouldn’t happen. It’s beautiful and hot. But can you feel the slight difference between the two? npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie I genuinely don’t think most men know how important it is to go down on a woman. Not because you have to, but because you want to. Because you have care, and love and reverence for the opening between two worlds. And if you don’t, I don’t think you should be having sex with her. npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Ya baby! npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Literally popped on here and thought “I’m gonna go check out ginger and see if she’s posted anything” and here you are! npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Contorting our expression in the name of gentleness and femininity may be one of the greatest tropes a woman can fall for. npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie 💯💯 npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Mmm I like this and will feel into it. I think the very nature that I can become imperceptible is the piece that feels a little… off? I’m open and exploring. I appreciate to it articulation. And with gold, yes, connects to something primal. I agree with you about the beauty of a self regulating system. npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie I feel the exact same way. I have a respect for the kind of value exchange that BTC is trying to create, but my felt senses still feel a synthetic nature to it. Almost like a mimic that isn’t quite it. When I feel into Gold, I feel weight, nature, purity, gravity and light. #nevent1q…fh43 npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Welcoming a new Nostrich (yes Ginger, this is what we’re called over here 😂) to the scene! If you enjoy illusion slaying, truth serving and the celebration of Life and Union, you’ll want to follow her. Let’s give her a warm welcome 🥰🥰 #nevent1q…vls0 npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie I couldn’t put all the words needed for this magical story into just a note so I wrote a whole article. I am still soaking in the magic of receiving my painting from @nprofile…8hj5 It is not just a painting. It is so much more. Read along here: https://blossom.primal.net/abd67114b07254595b1300dd54cb0c78d92ca37445f3bcca3300dfc8325b4274.jpg #naddr1qq…c7pe npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie I feel this! Thank you for the extra layers to this. #nevent1q…ea6a npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Gingerrrrr!!!! I love you ❤️❤️ welcome!!😁😁 npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Okay but wait how did you upload the post from your laptop? npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Ah okay yes I’ve tried yakbak! Thank you npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Oh thank you so much for sharing. Really beautiful to hear your voice as well - the deep Canadian accent! :) I’m glad you were touched by the post. Also, what app did you use to leave that voicenote? npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Tonight I dance for the men. The ones who are facing the darkness. Inside and out. Who are feeling the squeeze. The call. The invitation. Tonight I felt my heart raw from the men in my life who are in the arena. Men who must battle alone. Only accompanied by my prayers and God. Men who I love. In all the ways a woman can. And so, as they are carved, one day at a time Tasked with what is only theirs to meet, I dance for them. https://blossom.primal.net/08d7794a19fb8b1887bc69c7b64430e2765d534a5fc4990005f95776e00193d9.mov npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie GM ❄️☀️ https://blossom.primal.net/1ac00b71009f34800985017c334bc63555baaed4d12f2e9ad0366f8c093a60f1.jpg npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Yes, love this. npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie My friend Julia and I were just talking about how we value the truth from men even when it’s uncomfortable or not to our preferences. And she said something that really stuck. She said (paraphrasing) that there’s a difference between the women who say they want the truth but can’t actually handle it and those who have attuned their systems to truth and can therefore receive it. And I think it’s important to remember that it is a 2 part process. Being able to receive the truth as it is requires work. It is a process of self attunement. It’s one thing to want it, but another to handle it. And also, important for men to know that when many women say they want it but react poorly, it’s not because they lied, it’s because they have not yet done the work to be able for receive and hold it. Desire is one thing. Preparing the vessel for it is another. npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie The greatest gift to be a part of this cycle. npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Oh my goodness absolutely stunning 😍 npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie The idea that women start to adopt a man’s habits and values as soon as she likes him is red pill shit - which is based on studying behaviours of the masses and making rules out of them. The masses are unhealthy. If we based all assumptions on the behaviour of the masses, BTC and NOSTR wouldn’t exist. These are systems that follow natural law. A woman connected to her own values is a woman following natural law. The rest of his suggestion, I’m on board with. #nevent1q…0ywr npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie 🤣🤣 I just clicked your profile for the first time. So great lol. Thanks for playing npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie I can switch in the bedroom but I need a man who can hold the frame in our life. npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie No definitely not. But I just haven’t ruled out the possibility of getting wet if he changed his questions 😂 npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie I actually want to say something serious here for the decentralized sovereign freedom men here: she may not have the same level of skill or interest in this frame as you, but it doesn’t mean she isn’t an amazing match. I’m here because a man introduced me to NOSTR this summer and explained Bitcoin to me as a philosophy in a way I’d never heard it before. It aligns with my values, my work in the world and the way I track energy. But I don’t foam at the mouth talking about all the intricacies of it. There’s deeper for me to explore with another human. So, if you’re wanting to connect with a woman, start to see and get to know HER. There may be incredible alignment even if she doesn’t give two shits about what operating system you run your computer on. #nevent1q…67z3 npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Not true, I think we’d be great. But you handle the finances, computer coding and the drones and I will keep the life force alive in the empire and tend to the humans in our off grid community and family. #nevent1q…xw46 npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie These make my pussy so dry. #nevent1q…kg0z npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie I have heard men complain about the fact that they will match with women on dating apps and send them a message and the women will often not respond. Let me offer something: If your opening message is asking a woman: how her weekend is going how her evening is going what she’s up to this weekend/ evening Or any other dry toast question that one would ask a friend where there is already an established relationship, you are severely hurting your chances. She does not want to tell Matt, 37, what she’s up to right now. Because you know what she’s up to? Probably lying on her couch scrolling through hundreds of men trying to find one iota of heat between her legs. Tell her why you want to get to know her. Express your intentions, desires or what it felt like to see her profile. And if you can’t because you just quickly swiped and you’re not actually that interested, go play a video game instead. npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie GM 🤍 https://blossom.primal.net/1a472b23023ea2b60ca766320346a897cee2b651a9d6b05831e61470af11efb8.jpg npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Haha☺️ npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie I’m seeing a number of people close to me rely on chat gpt too much when it comes to their spiritual and emotional health. And when I say too much, it’s because I’m watching a specific type of neuroticism start to happen. The kind that disconnects them from their soul and creates a mental world that is inorganically coded. It is dangerous and dark. We do not need all the answers. We need to live. We need to feel. And we need to remember our own biological intelligence. This addiction to understanding is the thing that will take us further from our souls. It is where we don’t understand that God can actually show us miracles. It’s where spiritual evolution actually happens. npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie A good frame is an essential ingredient for creation to actually occur :) npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Tidbits from my 2016 journal: “I remember as a kid LOVING art. I used to be a decent singer in music class. I used to make hundreds of videos. I used to dance. I also had this urge to act. I also loved making slideshows and movies. When I think now to what I could even do creatively, I don’t know! It all seems quite unattainable. I also used to write my own stories. Wow, I did it all. I hope these workshops help me find what my creative passion is.” I want to take her hand and give her a big hug. I want to tell her that ten years later her creativity will be the lifeblood of her work. That she willl write stories and poetry online where over 700 people sign up to read them. That she will dance all the time. That her voice will be played daily across the world through a meditation app and she will have people writing often about the impact on their life. I want her to know it will look nothing like she is imagining. That she will start guiding movement experiences for people’s liberation and expression and she will have never seen anything like it before it happens. That she will create her own path. I want to tell her to keep trusting. To keep living. That her heart will get broken and it will be the best thing that ever happens to her. And that ten years later, she will be so herself, that her life will reflect it in every moment. npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Happy SAT! npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Was a blast! npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie @nprofile…3n5m one more https://blossom.primal.net/bc4763609f0be8028c58e6aabc261bec32b5a5bc7ec3a631c93ce2330cb20fa3.jpg npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie @nprofile…3n5m if you ever need more sunset inspo, here is a collection of 4 from the same night in Carlsbad, CA Jan 2nd, 2020 https://blossom.primal.net/f4444bb8558c30698f689cc3a5051d03c90543cb1dc6fdad0604900aed910486.jpg https://blossom.primal.net/3725bcb706b000fe6bf09f254509973ad9bab08f5dad28b7b8d3f317f966c36f.jpg https://blossom.primal.net/624938b483587a4b8dfb74a70840c62f65a1141bc5c1a9ea21de3c17cbd5d194.jpg https://blossom.primal.net/78ce0890fe9aefa55d3b9c5b567a9f7688cf5b0c22bfc055830000db3f816315.jpg npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie 🥹 thank you. ♾️ npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie It is a privilege to feel deeply. npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie I few months ago, a few people paid me for 1:1 sessions in SATS. I’d worked myself into the BTC market as I didn’t have excess cash to invest. Today, I spent most of them on this painting with absolute ease. I am not stacking sats like a squirrel for some future day. I am choosing a currency that aligns with my values and the way I see energy moving. So, to use them to purchase a painting done of a very special photo of me- a painting that encompasses a very difficult and transformational year that has deepened my relationship to myself, god, truth and nature, well what a better way to keep the energy flowing. And I am I fully trust it will come back to me ten fold. #nevent1q…mxhl npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie I am going to buy it! I must have it. My parents may also get it for me for my bday. Standby! 😍 npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie So incredible to watch it come alive 🥹 npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Tears. This captured the exact feeling alive in my soul standing there. A place I stand often as my dog does her morning sniff. It is so so peaceful. Quiet. Sometimes some birds. The weight of winter bringing so much beauty. What a absolutely incredible piece of artwork @nprofile…8rc0 thank you 🙏🏻🙏🏻♥️ #nevent1q…yk4s npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Love this so much npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Gorgeous npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Turn on your sound to be transported somewhere magical. I want everyone to visit this place, no matter where they are, physically. Download the full 24 minute audio journey. You can DM me your email and I will send it to you. https://blossom.primal.net/be9b66121d3b06b35f99c1c2724e012b55f1d584504795280854772caed71a44.mov 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 npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie I can feel there is something more to come. And can’t wait when it does ☺️ npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Oh my goodness this is incredible to witness. Thank you for taking us along on the ride 🫶🏻 npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie 😍😍 watching this come to life is magnificent. I love that you used spatulas! #nevent1q…896t npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Bringing the gift of winter right into your hearts, the best way I know how. https://juliapartyka.com/meditations https://blossom.primal.net/325f10bee68462403834d7e1d32f3bdac8005965036b6033b74126665ff94f6b.mov npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Our pond has been looking glorious over the last couple weeks and it was calling my name. But we’d have snow then melting and a few days above zero which made it look amazing but also had me think it wasn’t thick enough. Well, yesterday was so cold I thought, “I gotta go test it and see” It was PERFECT. I got my dad out to come safety watch, put on my skates and was a kid again. 2 hours later we were hit with a blizzard and it was buried. I am always reminded to make moves on those nudges I get, even if I’m the only one who wants to explore it. Life moves fast. Windows of opportunity close. Go play. ❄️ https://blossom.primal.net/e97d3c7b765e70e4c9dea80776387b53005bae779eae6d3beaf2b9253045664e.mov npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Opening NOSTR to see this and I audibly gasped. How beautiful 🥹 #nevent1q…yp8h npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Yes! npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Oh my goodness! 🥹 I just audibly gasped! npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Merry Christmas everyone 🎄 https://blossom.primal.net/9515859d242d68669e5edf45e71b73d7ce2132ecc5e2259e03f156bdb656c9b1.mov npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Go to Settings > Zaps and you can change your default! npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie This has been me so many mornings, taking my dog out and to have had my friend capture it in such a beautiful way really touches my heart npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Omg I would be HONOURED 🥹 Photo credit goes to Chelsea Adair if ever relevant npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie I love it so much npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie In my morning element. GM everyone ❄️ https://blossom.primal.net/e415aaeb27996b74ab5be9c08eeed7dbbb2f133aad9e55066ddb86ece441e932.jpg npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Ah and amethyst is only for android right? npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie #asknostr how do you send emoji reactions to posts that aren’t “likes”? 😂 Yes, 4 months in and I am asking now lol npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie GM ❄️ https://blossom.primal.net/71043534152f60b2db7ba51e9913c80d032ac12a0681dde7bc9ec1abc7cfee5d.jpg npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Give a girl a miniature chainsaw… https://blossom.primal.net/7ed002d192ada02072f1124ffd9a64a608a9dcbc377e9247c21cca167fd930c7.jpg npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie https://www.katieloconnor.com/the-coalescence-collection https://blossom.primal.net/ef6cbcf58dc6157d228da43007114cb86340b28b68e9cd21535aeb8055daa25d.mov npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Is this you? If there is one thing I see over and over and over with women who “do the work,” it’s that they all, at some point, find themselves in a dynamic where they become a dumping ground for someone’s story and trauma. People (including men) feel safe opening up to them and then a few things happen - either they stay open, lose themselves and consume the energy of the person sharing, which leaves them feeling heavy, uncertain and drained. Or, they begin to coach, therapize (a word I made up) and try and fix the issues being revealed to them by the other person. The number of women these days who are tired of holding for their men is high. I hear it often online and I had the same thing in my past relationships. There was even an article in Vice talking about the phenomenon of “Mankeeping", which shows me how many women find themselves in this spot and have no idea that they are responsible for this dynamic playing out in their relationships. Also, when you “mankeep,” you kill the eros and that will be the death of the relationship. I think this is a great initiation for those of us who have healing energies. We all have to do this dance with our relationships and it’s part of the curriculum of our own expansion and trusting the power of our energy. When we find the spot of holding ourselves in such a way that we can allow someone their experience without taking it on or jumping in to fix it, we create an opportunity for real transformation - for BOTH people. This is the power of Witnessing. But how, you might ask. Well, we’re going to get right into it in tomorrow’s REUNION workshop. We’re going to look at different situations with men and women (that also apply to all sexes) where we get looped into dynamics that kill the spot of connection and transformation. You know, those conversations you seem to have over and over again that end up at the same place? I’m going to guide you into feeling the actual energies that are playing out in your own system during these conversations and we’re going to practice what it means to truly witness someone. This will change your relationships. Because this is such a big one, I have decided to offer this workshop as a 2 for 1 deal so you can bring someone you care about. They must come live and then they will also get a recording. If you cannot make it live, you can still sign up and get the recording. The workshop is $99. It will give you a blueprint that will transform the way you care for those you love. So join us Tuesday, November 25th at 3pm EST. It will be about 2 hours. You can sign up here. https://www.katieloconnor.com/reunion npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Fantastic ask, Rae. I’m combing the comments npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Yesterday I was with a man and I danced. For me. For Her. Only. And he watched. Unlike anything I have ever done before. So much of my life, I’ve felt the need to speak. To bring the vastness of my soul and the consciousness it is connected to, through the succinct articulation of my words. As if that is the only way to give. As if that is the only way to be seen. As if I must always Know. But yesterday I found another way. A way so true and close to my heart that it felt like the only way I could have done it. My desire for our time together was to be witnessed in the truth of the moment. That’s it. And as I was looking into his eyes and my mind started to lock up with, “What’s in there? What wants to come out?” All I could hear is Move. He clears space on the floor, blanket down and I get on my knees. Feel the earth. Breathe. Music comes on and I let it touch my insides. The ocean swells. Ahhhhh comes a sigh. My chest bubbles and I know it’s coming. Sobs. My hands on the floor hold me steady. Bowed in devotion to the very thing that tethers me to the now. Earth. I can feel him there. But my eyes remain closed. This is for me. The big thing that’s lives inside that feels like it might destroy me at any second moves through my system in waves. An ocean within moves my limbs. Eventually I rise. The music becomes more sensual. Mmmmm. The alchemy. My hips start to dip. The primal pose of a woman in service. Legs spread. And then I hear it. Look at him. Fuck. To see and be seen in this. Can I do it? Yes. This is why I’m here. Ever so gently I open. Never leaving myself. But letting him in deeper. And then they close again. And open. And close. Full permission for my own pace. He watches. With reverence. Respect. Intention. I smile. The tension slowly disappearing from my body. It’s out. And I’m here. Still alive. And loved. This is for him too. ————- To witness and be witnessed is an erotic act. It is to let yourself be moved by what is being revealed in front of you… without leaving your mark. Tomorrow (Tuesday Nov 25th) at 3pm im holding an online workshop where men and women are coming together to explore the relational skill of witnessing - one that I think can have major transformational effects on relationships, and the humans in them. If you’d like to join us, it’s $99 and you can bring your partner. Scroll down on my main page to see the button for single registration: https://www.katieloconnor.com/reunion https://blossom.primal.net/ae89f67c78fd277366c6691b66fbd7e0c1292bade0ef991ea4e09669f2bafb77.png npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Thank you npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Thank you npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Years ago, when my ex and I were discussing some things after we broke up, he said to me, “I’m sorry I have been critical of your emotions. I realized that it was uncomfortable for me to see you in your emotions and pain so I tried to make you wrong for it so I didn’t have to feel my own shit.” Me being “fragile” was a consistent pattern in our relationship. Now, I am so clear that that was a reflection of my own beliefs playing out in him. But hearing him say that really clicked something in. When you start to see the bigger picture of what is playing out, it begins to shift the whole dance. Because when we don’t have language for what is happening, it’s very difficult to have a relationship to it. Having language for a sensational experience and relational dynamic creates an opportunity to separate ourselves from it. And with that, (combined with deeper capacity work) comes agency. I see so many couples where there is this gap where they cannot meet each other. Like a black foggy hole between them they keep circling but cannot meet in. One of my gifts is that I can see the meeting point. The very spot of truth that, if acknowledged, would create more energy and movement between them. I used to see this with my parents and it would frustrate the shit out of me. Many times I would inappropriately jump in to translate for them in order to soothe my own sensation. But now, I use this gift to illuminate things for men and women so they can see and feel the dynamic that is operating more clearly. One of the things I am doing with this REUNION series, is giving language and a practice field for specific relational areas that often give us challenges. Not so things can be fixed, but so you can have more literacy of what’s happening and therefore the ability to relate to it differently. Witnessing is one of those areas I see an opportunity for. It has the power to really transform connection and the individuals involved. To witness is to take your hand off the wheel of control. It is to stay on your mark and let someone fully be as they are. It is to trust. Next week’s workshop is going to go deep into Witnessing, for both men and women. I’m opening it up as a standalone workshop. If this is resonating with you, and you want a frame for you and your man or woman to work with in those stickier spots, I’d love to have you both there. It’s on Tuesday November 25th at 3pm EST. $99 per person and there is a recording. DM me for the link. Singles are welcome as well of course. npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie https://blossom.primal.net/12edfd87b98651887924eb99f96146046d4933ec38aa12f6df0e3a3a4c030ce4.png npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie 💯 npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Truth is relationship lube. npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie A ONCE IN A LIFETIME OPPORTUNITY https://blossom.primal.net/d7d3a45053e4e977d68a674b4e36e2d2098bbb3ba4e33310d9ffa77a2790c45d.mp4 npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie GM https://blossom.primal.net/553b9851c45a2e8ba972948176b5758601940e8e65bf1b842ba412dfed84221b.mov npub1u9grqx8ea0pjf5hjjvytyg2254nx5q5nduh92fqt30x9p2r64kjspur7hd Katie Is your first thought to appreciate them caring or to feel misunderstood because “they have no idea what they’re talking about.” Can you let in the fact that they want to support you, without needing to take the advice? Receiving from those who care (whether it’s a partner or a family member) when you’re on a path of awakening and transformation, can be a delicate thing. You are changing. The way you orient to the world is changing. They are often using a different map and their “help” may feel like an insult to the parts of you that are searching for validation and affirmation. There are two important parts that you are responsible for: Bringing discernment to who you share new desires or challenges with (even if you’re not asking for support.) Consciously unhooking someone’s competency with supporting you from the level of love and care they have for you. Just because they don’t understand, does not mean they don’t love you. And it is in the gap between their love and understanding that deeper intimacy is created. When you can receive their care, without needing to take the advice, your body can actually feel more open to sharing what’s true. There is internal space to reveal more. And as you share more about your values and your experience, they get to know you more deeply. You offer a meeting point where a new level of connection can be created. This is the beauty of relationship. The meeting of two different, separate beings in a new location that never existed before. Are you willing to lead that? Being able to separate love from understanding has been one of the single greatest shifts for my relationship with my family, and in turn my relationship to my path. I open to their support in whatever form it comes, while holding the truth of what it is I really need. I take responsibility for what I share, not from a place of withholding, but from an acceptance of the truth and an honoring of my more delicate desires. I’m bringing REUNION to you in a new format. A series of 5 workshops that touch on the most important aspects of true, connected relating, especially for those on a path of transformation. The first workshop is next week, so reach out if you’re feeling the desire. https://blossom.primal.net/6ef40bb02afe320aa87c6d938d120747266937998856c022db118073dd0a9392.png