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2024-09-13 15:47:48

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I always feel for people trying to find the right antidepressants and dosage. This could make you feel much better or want to die, see you in a few weeks to try again.

2024-09-12 19:13:39

I love when medicine side effects are like, you're going to get constipation or diarrhea, but you're not going to know which until it's too late, good luck.

2024-09-11 05:07:36

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Trump simply will not answer on abortion, why is this so difficult?

2024-08-24 15:35:24

What is a small thing that a person does or can do for you that makes your life better?

2024-07-28 16:57:35

I keep seeing Cursive come up, so I'm curious. Feel free to elaborate in the comments.

2024-07-27 15:26:21

Can you imagine if someone, anyone had said, "You won't have to worry about voting in 4 years.", during the Cold War?
How are they all not being investigated as threats to the nation?!

2024-07-27 07:42:32

Fox News posts this article mentioning the amount of Marijuana charges that were prosecuted while Kamala Harris was DA, basically stating that she's a hypocrite. It's nearly 2,000. What it neglects to mention is only 45 of them actually ended up doing prison time. Is she perfect? Nope, there are no perfect candidates, but always, ALWAYS, look for context.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.foxnews.com/politics/vp-harris-says-nobody-should-go-jail-marijuana-use-despite-overseeing-pot-convictions-da.amp
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.mercurynews.com/2019/09/11/kamala-harris-prosecuting-marijuana-cases/amp/

2024-07-23 20:59:00

What To Do When People Post Good News or Something Positive:
Favorite or Boost
Leave a nice Comment
Scroll past and do nothing
Literally nothing else!!!
We all know life is hard, and plenty of other bad things exist. Allow people to enjoy their moments not suffocated by fear and anxiety. Hope is important, stop shaming them for it.

2024-07-20 06:07:25

Why do goats always be looking like their waiting for a soul to possess them?

2024-07-18 21:55:20

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TOTALLY, I could go off for a long time about Hitler's history with women and girls.

2024-07-18 21:41:50

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That is a great point, I think fear is a big part of it, losing your community, and challenging your own beliefs as well.

2024-07-18 21:24:45

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RIGHT! I remember being told I was over thinking it

2024-07-18 21:02:17

Can you imagine being this repressed? We'll accept your LGBTQ+ self over here, ya'll. You don't have to do a Fascism.
https://www.pride.com/republican-national-convention-grindr

2024-07-18 16:06:50

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It feels like it's been 100 years

2024-07-18 15:53:26

Seriously, if the American Election cycle was a TV series, I would say it was being way too over the top and dramatic, this much stuff just doesn't happen, and yet here we are.

2024-07-18 15:28:03

Stop being in an abusive relationship with Trump, stop giving more energy and kindness to him, then he will ever give to you. He wants a good amount of us dead or our rights taken away, so just stop asking us to give up another piece of ourselves, so we can act like everything is normal. The only thoughts and prayers I'm sending is that he gets the consequences of his actions.

2024-07-18 05:16:10

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Different people were posting these on Tumblr

2024-07-18 02:44:06

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Sometimes it helps knowing other people realize how ridiculous all this is

2024-07-17 22:23:02

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It's that important of a poll It's giving 110%

2024-07-17 22:16:56

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Matt Berry is the best, him and David Tenant are National treasures

2024-07-17 22:15:18

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Why do people have to ruin things

2024-07-17 22:14:20

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Believe it or not Dairy Queen and KFC, great straight cuts

2024-07-17 20:36:12

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I also wonder if it's a lack of true values. I've met people who have "trendy values" and they just go for what gets them what they want.

2024-07-17 18:50:37

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Oh no, I was thinking the frites like in Steak Frites, but there are other kinds!

2024-07-17 18:22:52

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Right, exactly, like listen and correct, take fucking criticism.

2024-07-17 17:52:36

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I was afraid they were more in the dumpling category, but it's certainly a top food

2024-07-17 17:28:05

Yesterday I learned that trying to pin down even every grouping of potato dishes was nearly impossible. I had to leave off so many, that were kind of the same thing, but existed different cultures. I have a pretty good handle on this kinds of potato dishes, and even still y'all showed me a couple things I've never seen.
So, I'm going to do a French Fry poll, yeah I'll probably miss some types, but I'm basically categorizing it as a potato cut up into batons, slices or wedges of some kind, and deep fried. I'm skipping anything finely diced or shredded, because it would just be too much.

2024-07-17 17:16:42

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Yeah, when I started thinking about potato dishes, I quickly realized there were so many I would have to consolidate, otherwise there would be hundreds, and nearly every country had a similar dish by a different name, I was trying to think of the most common usages, and eventually I was just like I'm going to put an other category, because dang, people love taters.

2024-07-17 17:13:17

It's true though:
https://media.beige.party/media_attachments/files/112/802/465/673/551/621/original/f58b30f825469d32.jpg

2024-07-17 06:48:31

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Mmm

2024-07-16 16:57:10

Grind Culture Bros Be Like:
Life Goals:
Do a Capitalism so hard I stroke out.

2024-07-16 15:40:19

Consistent Bare Minimum will give you better results than doing too much, and burning out.

2024-07-16 04:12:06

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I already financed through a local credit union, the dealer's interest rate was double

2024-07-16 03:24:15

I'm in the process of buying a new used car, anyone have an advice on negotiating the best deal?

2024-07-14 22:06:59

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This kills lol

2024-07-14 21:17:15

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I don't want to be too much of an optimist here, but I am seeing a trend...hopefully it keeps happening

2024-07-14 20:59:36

Hubs got a new sticker for his laptop, and it's cracking me up:
https://media.beige.party/media_attachments/files/112/786/375/225/659/178/original/e99d125f6795aad5.jpg

2024-07-14 20:48:17

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Always waiting for the other shoe to drop

2024-07-14 20:43:27

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It is sooo pervasive in society more so if you grew up religious, I still fight it too

2024-07-14 20:35:36

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Exactly, that's the difference between toxic and healthy monogamy

2024-07-14 20:04:43

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I have no problem with it, if it's what people want to do, but the way we view it is pretty skewed sometimes.

2024-07-14 19:57:29

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I know it's probably elementary school, but I was excited we are the same age. We should probably make friendship bracelets lol

2024-07-14 19:35:16

I saw this posted on Tumblr, and the comments were very angry, and admittedly I was thrown by the title at first too. I read through it though, and couldn't find a lie, this is just stuff a good Relationship Therapist would tell you:
What I mean when I say "toxic monogamy culture"
the normalization of jealousy as an indicator of love
the idea that a sufficiently intense love is enough to overcome any practical incompatibilities
the idea that you should meet your partner's every need, and if you don’t, either you're inadequate or they're too needy
the idea that a sufficiently intense love should cause you to cease to be attracted to anyone else
the idea that commitment is synonymous with exclusivity
the idea that marriage and children are the only valid teleological justifications for being committed to a relationship
the idea that your insecurities are always your partner’s responsibility to tip-toe around and never your responsibility to work on
the idea that your value to a partner is directly proportional to the amount of time and energy they spend on you, and it is in zero-sum competition with everything else they value in life
the idea that being of value to a partner should always make up a large chunk of how you value yourself

2024-07-14 17:30:06

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I guess you could say that about all songs in some way, but now I have to go relisten to every Ke$ha song. It's not too far from imagination that a generation who feels like they have very little hope has so many songs about living in the moment, when the future feels so doomed.

2024-07-14 17:17:45

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I have two music listening modes:
Background: Where I'm mostly just humming along enjoying melody and rhythm.
Intensity: Where I can't do anything else, but hear the music, and everything else falls to the side.

2024-07-14 17:11:53

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Admin work hard to keep this place nice for the rest of us, I'm so grateful.

2024-07-14 16:40:21

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Just an aside, I'm not shitting on journalism as a practice, just the clearly bought and paid for major media outlets. Being an actual journalist in this moment in time, is a dangerous and respectable job, standing up to authority and printing the truth is heroic at this point.

2024-07-14 16:21:47

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I do get that it is different than regular social media, and you have to approach it differently, and maybe everyone doesn't know how. If you're used to posting and not interacting, this would definitely be culture shock.

2024-07-14 16:14:32

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LOL I fought tooth and nail for boosts on any other platform, people here are generous, if they like what you say, they usually propel your message.

2024-07-14 15:31:49

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PDF LINK:
https://socialwork.buffalo.edu/content/dam/socialwork/home/self-care-kit/self-care-assessment.pdf

2024-07-14 14:24:49

Last night one of the top trending hashtags was Staged. Multiple large media outlets wrote articles shaming people for spreading misinformation, and believing an assassination attempt was staged.
I'm not here to claim that it was staged, I will wait for more information, before I form an opinion, but can I just talk about the audacity. You, a major media outlet are afraid of people spreading misinformation? Are you afraid people are taking your jobs? Maybe, instead of being hypocrites, you should talk about the fact that a man who wants to be President, and his people have lied, tricked, and cheated so often, that our immediate reaction to this is FAKE! Maybe, just maybe, a FELON like that shouldn't be President AGAIN. There can be no respect for a man like that.

2024-07-14 06:37:05

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I went with weed gummie as it is close to bed lol

2024-07-14 05:59:13

I feel like I'm getting desensitized. Nothing about this feels surprising anymore. I can't just keep being stressed and exhausted by this, I still have to live, and sleep.

2024-07-14 04:57:54

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That's a pretty good representation

2024-07-14 02:33:30

Yep, that's a normal way to react to being shot at:
Trump replied: “Wait, wait.” He then pumped his fist, mouthed the words: “Fight, fight, fight.”
And the crowd at the rally responded with cries of: “USA! USA! USA!”
Armed troops in uniform soon arrived as some spectators shouted abuse at the media.
Agents then whisked Trump away from sight.

2024-07-13 17:53:21

I saw Inside Out 2 last night. I really enjoyed it, but I noticed something. Riley's parent's emotions had all settled into the sex that they presented as, whereas Riley had emotions that presented as male, female, and non-binary. I don't know if this was intentional or just portraying a young person still figuring out identity, but I thought it was an interesting touch.

2024-07-13 16:07:48

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LOL love it

2024-07-13 15:46:30

Husband: I really like this picture of you.
Me: What, why? It's kinda blurry, I'm making a weird face, and I'm a sweaty mess.
Husband: Hehe Boobies!
https://media.beige.party/media_attachments/files/112/779/470/464/101/315/original/4dfe540d851abc44.jpg

2024-07-13 04:46:29

Is there any freeze dried candy that is as good as the original candy?

2024-07-12 20:44:59

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Fuck

2024-07-12 20:39:14

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LOL

2024-07-12 18:18:36

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That's too true, most of the successful hacking attempts are because Upper management gave crucial information to someone without verifying their identity

2024-07-12 17:55:54

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That is disappointing, but not surprising.

2024-07-12 17:53:09

Why are companies that should specialize in cyber security, really really shit at cyber security? I've never had faith in privacy from Corporations, but they can't even cover their own asses.

2024-07-12 16:45:26

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AGREED, like you learn to grow around it, but it's a part of you, that doesn't make you weak, it makes you empathetic

2024-07-12 16:26:03

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At least if it's secret anyway, all love to my poly friends.

2024-07-12 16:12:35

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Yeah I've seen it a lot too, like people don't have enough confidence in themselves to do it on their own.

2024-07-12 15:50:02

Okay, this is me just talking about some stuff in my life, that's currently stressing me out. None of you know these people so it won't hurt anyone to spill a little tea.
Some friends of mine are divorcing, and I'm friends with both of them. It's a situation where they both carry some blame, and it isn't one of those, This is clear the side you should take, things.
One of the people, James, can be something of a man child sometimes, likes being cared for, and is very resistant to change, but also can't settle either. This has been rough for his spouse Amanda, who is one of those people everyone likes, but has trouble expressing her issues with people often to remain likable. The whole thing festered too long, and Amanda ended up cheating. Yeah, it sucks, but I'm going to say something unpopular here. Some people cheat, because they are cheaters, they intended to cheat, and they always will, but some people cheat, because they are stuck, and something deep in their brain knows they need to change the situation, so they do an "unforgivable" thing, and I think that is the situation. Either way, other than instances of abuse, there are rarely relationships that end, because of just one person, there's a whole lot of gray in between. In these situations, I never want to take sides, I don't want to cast out either one from our circle, and I never know what to do in these situations. I'm still navigating this with my brother and his ex, when they broke up, and I'm still friends with both, and while they aren't full of hate for each other or anything, they still aren't at the point where they can hang out with each other either. I don't know, it just feels heavy, and I don't want to leave anyone out or make anyone feel bad for leaving a relationship they were unhappy in. It's just a part of life and I'm doing my best to figure it out.
Anyway, have you ever been in this situation? How did you handle it?

2024-07-12 15:19:43

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LOL

2024-07-12 14:55:05

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This is crazy true, if you looked at the headlines, it was all Biden Says A Name Wrong, and it's like George W straight up couldn't say multiple sentences sometimes, but no one said he was too old to do his job, Obama almost passed out once and no one said shit, Trump actually has dementia and they aren't talking about that. You realize the extent of the maligning.

2024-07-12 04:03:16

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OMG RIGHT!!! Learning all the things that weren't okay was a whole thing

2024-07-12 04:01:59

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I feel this ❤

2024-07-12 04:01:07

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Hey, you can be both lol

2024-07-12 03:42:38

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HE DID!!!!

2024-07-12 03:33:12

Today I Learned:
My husband went to Christian School, and apparently they had a Fight Club.

2024-07-12 02:49:07

Things No One Tells You, But They Should:
All trauma you've repressed through your teens and 20's will come bite your ass in your 30's, you will not escape this reckoning.
What else do you wish someone would have told you?

2024-07-11 18:21:26

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2024-07-11 16:44:43

I sure do miss journalism.
The Daily Times, New Philadelphia, Ohio, July 9, 1924
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2024-07-11 16:03:07

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That's why lol
I used to work at a restaurant with a large group of people who would come in every day and order the same thing every day. That sounds awful to me, but some people love it.

2024-07-10 22:16:20

Okay something I've been thinking about.
Disclaimer: These are my own thoughts about myself, which are often confusing, but in no way have anything to do with how you feel about it yourself. This is mostly me working out feelings and trying to get context. I'm curious what other people do with these kinds of thoughts.
I have a disease that is sometimes under control, and other times it is not. It can cause Chronic pain, that can be anywhere from a mild annoyance to stuck in bed. But if you asked me, Do I have a disability, my instant reaction would be No. I know logically that it totally meets the parameters, it can really interfere with my life when it's bad, but it's not something that is visible, so a huge part of me says, you're not allowed to claim that. Now this is silly, I know a lot of disabilities aren't visible, and I would never discriminate against someone else because they don't have a visible disability. Another part of me is afraid of the label, not because I have a problem with it, but once you use that word, people look at you differently, they start making assumptions about you, they start thinking they can give you advice or decide your worth. And I feel like a wimp, because it's brave to say Hey, I am disabled, but often I don't feel "disabled" and I realize, like fuck, I'm falling into this trap of deciding what a disability means. I feel pulled in different directions, I'm a person with issues, disability will be a part of everyone's life at some point, I'm just me. For people who rely on someone else to decide if they're "disabled enough" to get the tiny amount of income their government provides this is a whole other bucket of hornets. Then you're forced into telling strangers intimate details of your struggles so you can support yourself and your family, with a really good chance of being denied. I mean, Fuck, it's hard for it to not sound like a bad word when you're treated like a criminal for health issues. I'm rambling on, so I'll just ask:
So, how do you all feel, does the label bother you, empower you, something entirely different? Tell me your thoughts!

2024-07-10 19:55:37

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Not everything has to taste like Extra Virgin Olive Oil , it's not great for high heat cooking anyway

2024-07-10 19:52:29

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LOL, depends on the person

2024-07-10 19:21:47

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Ohhh yeah that one definitely divides people

2024-07-10 19:17:44

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Wait, whipped eggs?

2024-07-10 19:16:14

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Like I can understand why people like it, but it just weird me out lol

2024-07-10 19:12:00

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NOOOO it's chunky custard lol

2024-07-10 19:09:18

TV Chefs, please stop trying to get me to make your soupy ass Scrambled Eggs.

2024-07-10 16:08:48

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Yeah, I can see that, I can definitely get overwhelmed if too many things build up.

2024-07-10 16:03:43

Here's my question:
How do you motivate yourself to do a task you don't really want to do?
Lately, I've been saving episodes of podcasts I'm really looking forward to listening to, and telling myself, You can listen, but you also need to fold laundry, or wipe down the bathroom, ect. It work okay most of the time, like giving myself a tiny award.

2024-07-09 20:41:47

BRA RANT!
Alright, I have what science would call big ole titties, and as I've aged I just have way less patience with feeling uncomfortable at all. Because of this I rarely wear underwire bras anymore, but someone will always tell me I just haven't tried the right bra or haven't worn the right size. Here's the thing though, I HAVE. I've spent hundreds of dollars finding the right size and best quality, and guess what, wearing them more than a few hours still gets uncomfortable. Still, for years I felt like I owed people seeing my Tits conform to some kind of standard that's not even based on real Boobs. Like maybe we can just wear what we want or not wear it, I feel better with a little support, but if you don't, do your thing. If you love your underwires, do that too, your boobs and what you do with them isn't anyone's business.

2024-07-09 19:15:22

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I've had people tell me this! No lie lol

2024-07-09 18:30:13

Whenever I say "Bless You" to someone when they sneeze, I shoot them some finger guns, and remind them to be thankful that I kept demons from flying into their mouths.

2024-07-09 18:03:26

I love when people act like they are being naughty, because they added hot sauce to food.

2024-07-09 15:36:58

This is fascinating:
https://youtube.com/shorts/VfsUefFIhCk?si=o8b4MW5t2cQRfRGO

2024-07-09 15:08:24

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Oh, so you're the one

2024-07-09 14:59:22

So, when people start yelling about there only being two genders, we all get to roll our eyes and say, "Omg, you're being so middle school right now!"
https://media.beige.party/media_attachments/files/112/756/646/817/497/889/original/303aa432d17f7174.jpg

2024-07-09 04:24:13

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Upon reflection, I have realized my weed gummie just hit, and this might be a personal situation, and not something everyone else might understand.

2024-07-09 04:23:00

I love when guys think they have a sexy move, and it's showing you their butt, and shaking it around.

2024-07-09 02:19:54

Husband: You know those brownies you made?
Me: Know them? They've been inside of me!

2024-07-08 05:57:17

Welp, opened Snapchat, and got possessed again.
https://media.beige.party/media_attachments/files/112/748/852/148/541/151/original/c58ba5ecdc4a3db5.jpg