Silberengel on Nostr: Yeah, the soliciting probably eventually changes their self-perception. I went ...

Yeah, the soliciting probably eventually changes their self-perception.

I went through a whole modesty-obsession phase, which made it worse, not better. I didn't get that I was just doubling down on what was already making me so appealing and opened up an additional, niche market (really religious guys). Gave up on the head scarf. That's was the sexual version of waving a 🚩

The irony, it hurts.