Well why would it? What bob are we talking about? What email server is he on?”
A big part of what we’ve been masking in our clients is feigning decentralization via a centralized blob of relays. Thats what damus has been doing to make it friendly to users. But its a lie. There is no one global feed. If we want nostr to take off we need to change our clients and ux to stop pretending there is a constant set of relays that eveyone is on.
Damus is the worst offender here, i will start putting more effort into this front.
quoting note10d2…xnj075% of the time when I'm @ing someone in Amethyst, I have to go to nostr.band, search for their profile, copy their npub, then go back into Amethyst and paste it.