Mynona on Nostr: I tried to date men and can say that it's not true. How can you love someone who ...

I tried to date men and can say that it's not true. How can you love someone who hates you and is not aligned with your interests? Two ways: either you normalise and internalise the misogyny, if you even can, or you will constantly cope with cognitive dissonance and the feeling of being invaded. Or your relationship does not imply love and connection, and in that case, what does it even imply and why are you putting effort into a man you don't care about?
All of these options undermine you and other women. And I haven't even started on the fact that most women do end up being just used domestically, sexually and emotionally by their Nigel.