I wish there was a better solution to finding someone to date who doesn't mind or also likes diapers/babyfur
I just kind of figure getting to know anyone and then going "so uh, diapers" and being rejected otherwise. It's like the "sea" is more of a pond.
Not directly related but it kind of comes back to your reply about "saying awful shit about babyfurs" - it's like fear of rejection but with decent probability it will happen otherwise if you go into one without it being noted before you begin the relationship.