naruto on Nostr: But isn't the lightning node going to ask for that specific message from the relay? I ...

But isn't the lightning node going to ask for that specific message from the relay? I could be misunderstanding nostr if so.

I get that the node is always online. It does sound like you're suggesting Alice's wallet use nostr to communicate with my lightning node also so Alice can send me a payment? Is there another way I can receive a payment from Alice without me manually needing to generate the receive invoice when Alice wants to pay me? How can I receive the payment while I'm asleep, how would it work?