Psychologist, writer, author, speaker. I’m licensed in a few states and living in South Dakota. Or 12 pigeons in a trench coat. I hope you like memes and cat pictures. #ActuallyAutistic, #ActuallyADHD. She/her :rickroll:
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Last Notes npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. How do I get crows to start coming to my yard? I want to be their friend but I don’t go places where crows are so I’d like to try and get them to come to me 🐦⬛ I promise to leave them awesome treats npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. I love waking up to the sound of rain and thunder ⛈️ npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. Will probably be kind of quiet on here during my vacation next week, try not to do anything too interesting until I get back because I have FOMO, ok? Also drink some water, stretch your back, and tell someone you love them 💜 npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. Great news!! New Hampshire is eliminating their state autism registry!! https://t.co/r7Vgcc7QK1 If you haven't heard of these before, bad news: seven states (previously eight) mandate that providers register autistic clients with the government health departments: https://resiliencymentalhealth.com/2022/03/02/petition-tell-the-aclu-to-fight-mandatory-autism-databases/ npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. #SelfCareSunday https://files.ohai.social/media_attachments/files/112/669/176/533/861/277/original/b9a10f149b7dabd9.jpg npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. Is it really autistic pride day?? Ahhh I didn’t prepare anything! npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. If you need a laugh though, there’s a Facebook page called Farmer Girl that’s an AI trying to catfish people and…the tech needs some tweaks The comments section has bots trying to flirt with her, and what I assume are well meaning bystanders trying to explain to the bots that she’s AI https://files.ohai.social/media_attachments/files/112/635/247/556/917/741/original/89fee691cb428a4e.jpg npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. Sunday snuggles 💜 https://files.ohai.social/media_attachments/files/112/588/488/762/468/787/original/0ba596c3a9e74351.jpg npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. Caption this? #catstadon #CatsOfMastodon https://files.ohai.social/media_attachments/files/112/559/795/852/297/225/original/d3140231e740a13d.jpg npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. Hey remember in 2016 when clowns were chasing people? Did we ever figure out what that was about, or did they stop and we just decided not to question it further? npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. Today is my birthday, and if anyone is so inclined, here are three orgs I like to support: OneSpirit Lakota: https://www.onespiritlakota.org/donate Autistic People of Color Fund: https://autismandrace.com/autistic-people-of-color-fund/ Safe Harbor: https://safeharborsd.org/involvement/donate/ npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. I guess I’d been hoping that “brain worms” were made up for memes and bits but now I’m forced to confront that they are very real. I may never sleep again. npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. No mask mandate because South Dakotans are “too smart” to need one, but she overturned our vote to legalize weed because we “didn’t understand” what we were voting for 🙄 npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. Having a high anxiety evening for no particular reason. Reminding myself my feelings can be both valid and not grounded in reality. 💜 npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. I’m only interested in feedback about autistic representation from #ActuallyAutistic folks. If you’re not autistic, you’re welcome to listen and learn in these discussions, quietly. Others can run their spaces however they deem appropriate. This is my own boundary. npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. It was raining, then it dropped below freezing, now it's supposed to snow for 20 hours and then get really windy. It's springtime in South Dakota. npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. A tale of two companies.... In the last week, 2 companies requested consults from me. One paid me a consultation fee, and the other insisted that I needed to provide free labor before they decided if I was worth paying. The company that refused to pay me got an assertive email. The company that paid me got: - 2 professional connections I introduced - Free advertising on my socials leading to several confirmed sales - An ongoing partnership that will be mutually beneficial 🔥🔥🔥 npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. A company I do education for asked me to prepare a talk and asked what my rate would be. I told them, and they replied that they had budgeted $100 more than I asked for so they'd be paying me over my rate. This is the way, not asking people to work for free. npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. Shout out to my co-author, Armani the cat, for elevating my manuscript quality 🤣 https://files.ohai.social/media_attachments/files/112/083/783/977/740/534/original/6086f9d3215a42c1.png npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. Continuing Education Course: Neurodiversity-Affirming Psychological Evaluations: ADHD and Autism It is well past time that providers and evaluators took a neurodiversity-affirming approach with our clients. Unfortunately, many clients have experienced harm as a result of non-affirming practices and approaches to care. This course is essential for those who have a basic understanding of neurodiversity-affirming mental health care and who conduct evaluations with ADHD… https://resiliencymentalhealth.com/2024/03/08/continuing-education-course-neurodiversity-affirming-psychological-evaluations-adhd-and-autism/ npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. Hi friends! I have another article to write. The topic is ADHD-ers sharing our experience of what it is like existing as an ADHD-er. Need to send questions to about five folks about their stories. You can reply here or submit a contact form: https://resiliencymentalhealth.com/contact/ and I'll send questions. I would need responses by 2/15. Any takers? @npub1cr2…7v5x #ActuallyADHD #AskingADHD #Neurodivergent npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. San Diego State University has put a form on their website encouraging students to snitch on faculty who cancel class for the strike. You know what they say, snitches get a ton of spam responses https://app.smartsheet.com/b/form/2a7626b7413b4a16989f2ea0b8d86a47 npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. When you de-activate LinkedIn, it shows you a random person you're connected to and says you're going to "lose" that person. 🤣 npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. Florida’s New “Special Persons Registry”: I Hate It On January 1, 2024, Florida enacted a new law, and I hate it. The so-called “Special Persons Registry” gives Florida police the right to make lists of residents based on their disability status, including those with formal diagnoses of Downs Syndrome, dementia, autism, and others. Supposedly this will “improve relations” https://resiliencymentalhealth.com/2024/01/04/floridas-new-special-persons-registry-i-hate-it/ #Uncategorized npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. @npub1ccn…czwu Random unsolicited advice: if you suddenly start experiencing “demonic forces” in your home, check for a carbon monoxide leak. It can cause hallucinations, weird behavior, irritability, etc npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. At the craft fair today, a child asked me, “What do you wish you did in real life?” I’m not sure what he meant so I’ll share it here. What do you wish you did in real life? npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. I find it ironic that a company that paid me to do a write up about how competitive pay is the #1 predictor of employee retention and satisfaction just denied me a raise because "your pay is already above the network average," even though I looked at the numbers myself and my pay is in fact 75% BELOW the network average. Hate to sound like a Karen but I replied asking that my request be forwarded to a supervisor. Pay me or lose me. npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. Since it’s scary season (the best time of the year), I’m sharing a horror movie resource I use a lot: doesthedogdie.com I love scary movies but there are certain things I won’t watch. DTDD is a trigger warning resource with hundreds of possible movie triggers listed. It was developed by folks who, you guessed it, wanted to be able to avoid films where the dog dies. 💜 npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. The Catholic college where I got my BA released a statement today saying they're changing their admissions policy to explicitly support and respect all students' gender identities, including all trans and non-binary students. This is huge - last year my Catholic high school issued the opposite policy. I haven't made a donation in the 13 years since I graduated. Today I made a donation with a note saying that policy is why I donated for the first time ever. Good for them. npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. Your value as a human is not tied to your ability to contribute to capitalism 💜 npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. My neighbor is having a yard sale and is selling a ton of yarn for cheap. Please remind me that I am never going to learn to knit, and I should leave it for someone who will put it to good use. npub10vl0yl0c70gv2cvsmlnys7kksecpue9yurmxsjuyu4wk2whvrn6qaaxsf2 Dr. Amy, Psy.D. Stop demanding people out themselves. Some queer people have homophobic/transphobic relatives and it’s not safe for their sexual orientation or gender identity to get back to their family. Some queer people live in states where the government is actively trying to kill them. Some queer people simply don’t want to share that information with you.