purrs_for_Her

i used to think that being a good sub meant not express my true feelings to avoid making waves and be "stable." but this was terribly wrong.
it pulled me away from the relationship because all #relationships encounter friction, an #FLR is no exception.
the useful skill to learn was how to share honest thoughts, concerns, desires without breaking the dynamic. that kind of communication builds intimacy and trust.
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2026-09-08 18:00:20 GMT

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sometimes i wash dishes as Wifey is cooking and i think She uses extra dishes just to mess with me lol

2026-09-08 16:15:47 GMT

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triple purple~!

2026-09-08 15:58:29 GMT

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beautiful~! :3

2026-09-08 15:57:37 GMT

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i just rawdog the dishes
>.<

2026-09-06 23:43:23 GMT

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at nighttime, of course :3

2026-09-06 13:51:50 GMT

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boiling slowly, like frogs in a pot, the elites and the gates foundation poison our food and keep us entertained with football matches as they tighten their iron grip on power. wake up, sheeple.

2026-09-06 13:28:22 GMT

what it feels like when Wifey tells me i have a slutty waist:
https://image.nostr.build/c677e6a562012d2a54c58466714af31052c883377476b540a8b4b15519bf720c.jpg
#nsfw #art #artstr

2026-09-06 03:06:05 GMT

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orange peak

2026-09-05 17:14:05 GMT

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mmmmmmm

2026-09-05 12:34:06 GMT

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does this mean i have to change my password fr..?

2026-09-05 12:27:34 GMT

tried to make a french rolled cheese omelette >.<
#food #foodstr #cooking #cookstr
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2026-09-05 02:50:31 GMT

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wooooooooow
<3

2026-09-04 20:03:29 GMT

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🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂

2026-09-04 19:58:45 GMT

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i think you can "mute" them by not using the major relays..?
but not sure
ditched primal and damus, but had one on ditto

2026-09-04 17:15:26 GMT

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2026-09-04 17:07:43 GMT

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she loves you lol

2026-09-04 17:06:16 GMT

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cute~!

2026-09-04 14:22:33 GMT

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#nevent1q…33qk

2026-09-04 13:11:46 GMT

one of my love languages
#nevent1q…wlty

2026-09-04 13:10:24 GMT

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yes, ma'am
xD

2026-09-04 12:14:46 GMT

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don't make yourself be positive and kind. be sad and angry and pissed off. because you're being harassed. you don't have to act recklessly in anger, but let yourself be angry.
🫂🫂🫂

2026-09-04 12:08:27 GMT

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yikes
i thought playing around with the relays would help, but meh
i admire the ingenuity lol

2026-09-04 11:29:19 GMT

whoooooooooa~!
what is up with the anon bot notif spam. crazy.

2026-09-04 11:25:16 GMT

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happy friday, fren~! :3

2026-09-03 18:33:46 GMT

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beautiful swan <3

2026-09-03 16:25:42 GMT

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especially if it's on the backside...

2026-09-03 15:39:32 GMT

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yyeeeessssss~!

2026-09-03 15:38:43 GMT

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if we don't get pounced on like a cat, how will we ever know you love us..? xP

2026-09-03 13:49:54 GMT

it feels safer hiding within the implicit
but true safety is created through making the implicit explicit
#relationships

2026-09-03 13:32:45 GMT

update:
https://video.nostr.build/5428d109de933ff1e3e9c3821d674331d8e779fda385c0ad883caf10c39b143b.mp4
#nsfw #lolz
#nevent1q…cqqw

2026-09-02 17:34:54 GMT

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2026-09-01 17:16:53 GMT

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i feel ya. me neither, my "top" game is weak but something i've been having to work on lately lol
She likes to top from the bottom so it makes it easier for me mentally.
how does it feel for you..?

2026-09-01 17:11:48 GMT

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tracks
subs are the most deviant lol

2026-09-01 17:06:32 GMT

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blip

2026-09-01 17:02:17 GMT

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the mind of a woman is a beautiful and fascinating and frightening thing

2026-09-01 13:52:27 GMT

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feast or famine
>:3

2026-09-01 12:40:04 GMT

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2026-09-01 02:29:30 GMT

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i don't think so.
if anything, i think it expands the yearning. because the fantasy is a limitation of the self—in your own thoughts, ideas, and world. intimacy requires another.
and inside another—that is a mystery unto itself; an entire separate world that may be explored, and one that you can never truly fully chart because it's always changing and growing in unpredictable ways...
you said it best—grounding a relationship in truth is objectively best. an FLR is no exception. and i think it may even be more important to be conscious of that in an FLR.
putting Her on a pedestal may be fun for play or maybe a tongue-in-cheek saying, but not for a healthy, long-term dynamic.
great question~!
this is a really interesting topic and something very human and difficult to navigate. i know i struggled with this for awhile (and sometimes still catch myself at times, tbh >.<)

2026-08-31 23:54:21 GMT

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sorry kips...

2026-08-31 23:53:28 GMT

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2026-08-31 23:30:25 GMT

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battery charged or plug-in..?

2026-08-31 23:27:19 GMT

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you better sovereignly prepare yourself for their onslaught lol

2026-08-31 23:25:39 GMT

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that's crazy
use the system
could you sue for malpractice..?

2026-08-31 16:54:05 GMT

he's a happy boy
https://video.nostr.build/1b6ce68ca961a1efcca57702089b7e162f761f066a29898e0f8953425d7f7ded.mp4

2026-08-31 16:41:03 GMT

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lucky lady :3

2026-08-31 15:55:07 GMT

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that's wiiiiillllllld
please be careful
this is why i obey my Wife no matter what, even if it feels silly to me sometimes.
because intuition is powerful.
<333

2026-08-31 15:49:42 GMT

the first order rule to be a good subby boy is exactly the same as it is to be a good lover:
*see Her clearly*
not an idealized version
not a generalized version
not a fantasy version
the very human Her
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2026-08-31 12:05:56 GMT

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*meow*
happy monday :3

2026-08-30 19:31:34 GMT

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worm wall

2026-08-30 19:17:06 GMT

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https://media1.tenor.com/m/AmxlKzIKk8wAAAAC/sailor-moon-sailor-moon-s.gif

2026-08-30 18:27:58 GMT

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2026-08-30 18:27:26 GMT

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thick thighs save lives :3

2026-08-30 01:58:07 GMT

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give what She receives; burn the rest

2026-08-30 01:54:27 GMT

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pick the jester; worship Her as a Goddess

2026-08-29 13:43:43 GMT

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https://media1.tenor.com/m/3V-Q1ofHoJYAAAAd/sleep-token-sleep-token-sugar.gif

2026-08-29 02:23:24 GMT

#100pushups #fitstr
4x25
@_@

2026-08-29 00:29:18 GMT

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it's a rough thing to sit in
🫂🫂🫂

2026-08-29 00:28:08 GMT

was running a bath for the little one
made a cheesy poetic declaration of love to Wifey
then did 25 pushups
...
i might be slightly #drunkstr :3

2026-08-28 22:02:58 GMT

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😹😹😹
ty, tho i am at the mercy of Wifey's judgment

2026-08-28 22:01:20 GMT

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it's up to me not to mess 'em up
>___<

2026-08-28 21:59:25 GMT

questions a good sub must always ask himself:
- am i giving in a way that She can receive, not take?
- or am i giving in a way that's really about me?
#FLR #relationships

2026-08-28 21:57:40 GMT

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it hot out here lol

2026-08-28 21:39:34 GMT

it's goin down fur real tonight :3
#steakstr
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2026-08-28 16:16:47 GMT

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continental explorer <3

2026-08-28 13:00:42 GMT

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awwwww
happy friday
:3

2026-08-28 12:00:09 GMT

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you know how to live xD

2026-08-28 11:47:29 GMT

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lol
happy friday~!
^_^

2026-08-28 01:43:11 GMT

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#nostr

2026-08-28 01:42:17 GMT

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https://media1.tenor.com/m/QhyU5hPB38oAAAAd/george-bush-george-w-bush.gif

2026-08-28 01:37:22 GMT

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i like it :3

2026-08-27 18:34:46 GMT

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absolutely
any request of such intimate nature by a lovely woman is truly a blessing

2026-08-27 18:19:18 GMT

the universe is as it is, not as i want it to be; and with that, i pour my heart out in gratitude.
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2026-08-27 18:12:13 GMT

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mmmmmmmmm

2026-08-26 19:55:40 GMT

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they hate when i read it in my contdecideifitsbritishoraustrailianaccentinnit xP

2026-08-26 19:40:10 GMT

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same
was the little one's favorite for awhile <3

2026-08-26 18:41:01 GMT

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can't go over it
can't go under it
oh no~!
we have to go through it

2026-08-26 18:34:44 GMT

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you have to make happiness with what's in front of you, rather than waiting for the "special" moments.
recognize the beauty in the mundane

2026-08-26 17:03:21 GMT

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2026-08-26 17:02:55 GMT

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2026-08-26 01:49:13 GMT

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awww
love it~!
so sweet
makes you feel all warm and fuzzy when they really get into it ^.^

2026-08-26 01:46:22 GMT

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it's a mood sometimes

2026-08-26 01:45:53 GMT

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orange over purple

2026-08-26 01:45:07 GMT

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awwwww
love it, Lady Mae~!
beautiful #nailstr

2026-08-25 17:25:28 GMT

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2026-08-25 15:08:57 GMT

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you are loved <3

2026-08-25 15:06:48 GMT

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nom nom

2026-08-25 01:42:31 GMT

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twin moons

2026-08-24 22:48:36 GMT

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ship of harkinian~?

2026-08-24 19:12:28 GMT

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best fren :3

2026-08-24 16:39:07 GMT

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2026-08-24 16:14:42 GMT

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2026-08-24 16:08:09 GMT

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aaaawwwwooooooooooooo
(*meow*)

2026-08-24 14:37:51 GMT

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2026-08-24 14:28:53 GMT

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yeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaarrrrrrnnnnn

2026-08-24 14:06:29 GMT

it's monday...
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2026-08-24 13:02:45 GMT

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*meow*