I don’t know Jack Dorsey.
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Last Notes npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Time to go shopping! npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Happy full moon! 🌕 I get to experience my first full moon party tonight. Went to an observatory last night and was able to get a close up view of the moon. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Does my late Sunday morning work? Like 10 or 11am my time. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Love to! Late Saturday or sometime Sunday would work best for me. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Congratulations! npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Btw guys you can build your own community using @npub10qd…arpj. I think of Ditto as mastodon meets nostr. #note1h5e…dlar npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory You are an awesome, kind woman who has been through some shit. It was amazing being able to spend time with you in person. Hopefully we will be able to again in the future. I’m sorry you’re having to deal with people harassing you. Don’t let the bastards get you down. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory https://youtube.com/shorts/_KuKP6jRDEg?si=9qPGUTwLs-9D-X_E npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Happy Birthday to your son! npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Also let me note that we are only able to go off what SameCat has shared and what’s on the sex offender registry. We most certainly do not have the full story. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory I’m sorry but a 14 year old getting inebriated and having sex with a couple in their 20’s shouldn’t be ok. SameCat and his spouse should’ve acted like adults and not let a young teenager party with them. I don’t think the cops and/or prosecutors were in the wrong here. Neither are the people doxxing SameCat and connecting his anonymous profiles where in some he has recently posted neo-nazi, homophobic, and perverse posts. Everyone wants an open public square for freedom of speech but forget in the days of public squares people were openly shamed for inappropriate behavior. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Sats are on sale today. Plan accordingly. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory I haven’t done much to alter my experience but I’ve definitely experienced being told that I look great with no makeup on while I’m wearing what’s a full face of makeup for me. Once I even had purple eyeshadow on. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Based on the registry and the charges it seems like the young lady in question would’ve been 13 when you were almost 24 years old, is that correct? npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory I’m interested in the facts npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory So I guess you’ve heard about the mysterious dm’s claiming to dox you… how much truth is in it? npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Where y’all at? I’m in town npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory What’s the name of this piece? npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory 😍 npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory It happened tonight. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Moisturize me! npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Any SF Nostriches feel like an impromptu meetup for a pint at The Shannon Arms on Taraval at 19th Ave.? I’ll be there and so will @npub1jzu…3vm0 and possibly @npub1jdy…fwsu npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Thanks so much @npub1aeh…4nwx Been rocking 21 since my first basketball jersey so so many years ago. https://image.nostr.build/6552a157a0df2a0939243c7ab3320e6c42e849ccbc36fa6d4eca812ee65d9821.jpg npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Labour Party leader… pretty sure I’m right but please confirm. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory I hope your days and weeks keep getting better. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Awww what cutie! 😍 Glad you found his people. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory 🫂💜 Sending you love and strength @npub14yf…wpyu Hang in there. I’m here if you want to talk. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Do I have to pick?! npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory It was so awesome to meet IRL. You’re awesome! #note1lm2…99zm npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory 💯 You’ve outed me. I am @npub1xsw…p4xw npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Prune, if you must. Curate your feed. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory @npub1eeq…at9s deserves the credit for this beautiful design npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory @npub1h50…rqev @npub1xts…kk5s come get your boy. He’s spouting nonsense. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory At PubKey. I’m the one in the Damus shirt. https://image.nostr.build/ab6ca6a079cb307c5b81f0aeb6c86132c81a0563038b27b56d0d315e3d27d353.jpg npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory In the room… LFG!!! https://image.nostr.build/cf23c3913077c542d4b06893da4d42fc32ee89c49365579b5e656adfae7ec267.jpg #note1ak3…cj2s npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory If you’re ever visiting Arlington National Cemetery please remember that people are there burying and visiting lost loved ones. It might be part of your vacation, remember for others it’s a time and place of mourning. Please be respectful. Stop for funeral processions and place your hand on your heart. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Reposting so I’ll remember to read this when I have the chance. #note1pkx…dxjp npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory The same man who wrote Hooked also wrote Indistractable. It’s worth a read. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Long time no chat! We should remedy that! npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory My mom thought for years that My Sharona was singing Rice-a-Rona. She was like why are they singing about rice? npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Shrinkflation has come for Clif bars https://image.nostr.build/5e34e82e89a83da1d48168a7647137908207fdfd43e1d93bc629a9317dd349cd.jpg npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Nostriches trying to figure out #ballstr npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory @npub1ey4…mp7x is responsible #ballstr npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory #ballstr npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Just enjoy it! #ballstr npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Ladies of Nostr #ballstr npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Most of Nostr wondering what’s happening right now #ballstr npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory #ballstr https://image.nostr.build/40491df08aa94859f5ecb2285a5a18657a022106c51b84710fd65cf9ce9bdfd2.jpg npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory My boyfriend has been playing with my image in ChatGPT. Should I make one of them my pfp? https://image.nostr.build/fc747242a143af125724e1ff5fd59c554ec72058e231797445b364bec4c22e9b.jpg https://image.nostr.build/1a8f199dc017cea768e0146f7a57fc45eb388d44bbd601d269b52bafb5770ca1.jpg npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory If you’re willing, keep feeding the mom. It will allow her to stay close. You could even see if she’s willing to move inside with them. She might move them to a warm spot with food and water readily available. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Observe them at a distance and see if a mama cat returns. Give her 8 hours. Their best chance of survival is with their mom, second best chance with an experienced kitten rescuer. Mama cat may have just gone to get food. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory I like this excuse. #note1e25…70c7 npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory https://image.nostr.build/bdd62795f8f83c7a266e13167aba02187ba056123e70cea958c554f191e34dea.jpg npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory 🤣💯 npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Well that was our second and last date and it was several years ago. 🤷🏼♀️ I’m dating someone very lovely right now who brings me coffee. 🥰 npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Let’s be real, he probably hasn’t even seen this. What’s he gonna say, “Truth I don’t know her”? npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory 🤣😂🤣 npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Glad you’re willing to be his personal messaging service Marie! I think you’ll be forwarding or returning calls a quarter after never, right? npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory It was one a few weird things that signaled it was just not meant to be. Do find it weird that someone would comment and find it offensive that I ordered a drink when he was over 20 minutes late. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory I was meeting someone at a coffee shop once. He was running late and I was thirsty, so I got a drink. He called me out for buying my own and said he thought that signaled I wasn’t that interested. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory From my experience disagreeing on what is reasonable does not equate to being out of their league. Plenty of people have different standards for a prospective partner vs themselves. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Private Nostr ladies chat happening tonight at 8pm Eastern/ 5pm Pacific time. Contact me if you’d like to join. Sadly Queen @npub1el3…l27r has said she’ll be unable to make it this week. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Good morning! npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Great recipe! npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Hmmm 🤔 One confused American over here. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Understandable. Where’s the fairy godmother and her magic wand when you need her? npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory I’ve had men tell me that they felt like the engagement ring is more of a signal to other men. I’ve seen engagement rings I wouldn’t wear swimming cause you’d just sink right to the bottom. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Oyyy I’d probably replace it. I’d worry any sealer applied afterwards would degrade with cleaning. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory This is after scrubbing and the grout used to be white. I think it just has to be redone. https://image.nostr.build/b2d484454b79af1d8b15571fbe66da668b2633b6774c71fa124bf8a87212301c.jpg npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Please pass along any good tutorials. Apparently mine is beyond saving too. It just won’t come clean. Bad case of the dingies. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory According to the googles if grout isn’t easily coming clean it’s time to redo the grout. Oy vey. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Damnit. 🤦🏼♀️ npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Battle cleaning grout today. At what point do you just go fuck it, I’m regrouting all this tile? #asknostr npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Where I’m from traditionally a bride’s parent’s foot the bill for the wedding. Many couples are jointly paying for their own weddings now. But I’ve never seen a groom expected to pick up the whole tab for a wedding. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory It was great to meet you too! npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory I feel like when it comes to others you don’t really know the truth of their relationships. You only know who that person is to you. I have an ex who was a great friend and absolutely toxic as a boyfriend. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Being able to work in partnership and for the highest benefit of your partner is important. People have different ideas of how that looks for them. I think finding a partner who shares your goals and outlook is incredibly important too. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory It might be later on Friday for you. Will you be on CEST? npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory He’s good, pretty busy. This weekend sometime? Glad to hear you’re well. 💜 npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory I’m doing well! We should organize a chat sometime soon. How are you? npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Almost there! Woo-hoo! Keep going! 🎉 npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory My mind is still overwhelmed by the British Museum. 🤣 It fried my brain. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Pretty flowers 😍 Wish I was seeing the city in bloom. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory We didn’t watch Mean Girls and think damn I want to emulate Regina George. It was a social critique on a phenomenon that existed before the film. Just like men compete with other men. Women compete with women. I’ve yet to interact with a troll presenting as male on here and think it’s actually a woman behind the keyboard. I have dealt with npubs presenting as women and think I’m pretty sure that’s a man behind the keyboard though. I’ve encountered both male and female trolls on Nostr. Men and women troll differently online, just like in real life. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory I don’t know your situation. Having dealt with a lot of medical billing situations, I’ve had scammers unconnected to the hospital/doctors trying to collect money from me. Record keeping is everything. Keeps notes of every phone call and the name of every representative you speak to. It’s an absolutely insane process imo. Feels like banging your head against a wall dealing with medical billing. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory I know more stay at home moms. They are not getting leisure time while their husband is at work. At best they’re getting a bit of time while the kid(s) are napping but it’s usually time filled getting things done without kiddos slowing you down. Their husbands pitch in on childcare and household tasks after work too. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Glad you’re getting around again. Mobility issues suck. Recovery can be slow and a roller coaster from my experience. Doing pretty good personally right now. Knock on wood, cross fingers, and say a prayer it stays that way. 🤞🏻 npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory I get that. My discomfort is more about me personally than someone else’s success. I personally need to confront my discomfort and either change it or accept it. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory I think how one handles wealth is more important than the amount. If a guy is driving a Lamborghini as his everyday car he’s not on the same page as me. Also if there’s income/ wealth disparity how does your partner make you feel about it? How do they seem to feel about it? I don’t want to be with someone who would hold a grudge against me or treat me as less than because of their material wealth. I’ve seen guys with a little money acting like every woman who says hello is after their bag. Then I’ve seen multimillionaires who were generous with their time and attention. It’s more mindset than pure numbers. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory I don’t think they do. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Yikes! Sounds like it didn’t end well. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory I’m known amongst friends of being blunt and straight to the heart of the matter if they’re unloading or asking for advice. As far as I know I’m not autistic. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory I did use something similar but it was a 23 year old hitting on me so I said go play in your own sandbox. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory It’s sad but it’s also really good to know if a potential partner doesn’t believe they’re capable of changing their behavior patterns. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory I’ll be honest and say I’ve talked about dates with friends like the date was a candidate applying for a job they weren’t qualified for. I’ve also been on a date and felt like I’m not qualified to be here, I’ll just excuse myself. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Also I haven’t figured out how to tell someone, typically a friend, your list and expectations are batshit crazy in a polite way. I’m taking suggestions. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory I call that elimi-dating. I’ve been on dates and observed them where one or both parties are elimi-dating. It’s awful. I’ve had more enjoyable job interviews. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory Also I would fully expect that lady to be skulkin’ around the dude but also whichever poor woman he dates next. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory I’ve come to the conclusion that male and female dating standards are on the whole wild these days. We all talk like there’s a generally agreed on dating standard that we’re all supposed to know. Meanwhile I’ve seen a woman ask if there’s any tea or red flags about a man and then proceed to share a mugshot. While another woman thinks because she chatted with a guy on a dating app and then they met for coffee 2 weeks ago with no contact since then, that he’s a cheating boyfriend for meeting someone else for coffee. I knew from personal experience how crazy men could be but damn the stories some women tell on themselves is wild to me. npub17x7htjej3hgcqwqj86u9yvpcunhw6nz4zclzph2zfnlwe4v0yp8qrxvgap Mallory This 💯 Too large a percentage of the dating pool needs to take a long hard look in the mirror and reevaluate either what they’re doing/offer, what they are willing to accept in a partner, or accept that they’re going to be single.
