Balloon and problem are derived from the same Greek word. ๐ป Posts ENG / NL (/ DE) #bxl #EU ๐๐ฅ Your typical social justice warrior #antifa #activism #queer #LongCovid #mentalhealth โ๏ธ๐๐งท she/they (zij, sie) (on fedi since nov22) pfp: I am a white woman with blond hair and gray eyes. do contact me: about the use of cw or alttext the personal is political: black lives matter. trans rights are human rights. no one is illegal. the pandemic isn't over. sex work is work. from the river to the sea. pride is a riot. vaccines work. no borders no nations. no justice no peace.
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Last Notes npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ That stunt Cards Against Humanity is pulling off is so incredibly fucked up. Anyway if you're a registered voter in PA, GA, NV, AZ, NC, WI, or MI, you can bully Elon Musk in an extremely small way, with just a few clicks. I'd do it. https://www.apologize.lol/ #CardsAgainstHumanity #ElonMusk #Pennsylvania #Georgia #Nevada #Arizona #NorthCarolina #Wisconsin #Michigan https://files.strangeobject.space/media_attachments/files/113/283/428/744/957/190/original/5ac01f39b2a3a7d0.png npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ yes npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ Totally doubting how I want to proceed wrt a new instance. How anonymous do I want to be? And I'm too tired to figure out: do I post there who I was here? Or not? npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ it sucks so much. I hope the kid finds some relief in knowing you're there. ๐ npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ is there anything you can do for the kid? Sometimes, a small gesture can have a wholesome effect. If the kid thinks "my parents think xyz is important but aunt duusi doesn't agree", it can mean the difference between growing up with absolute truths vs with opinions. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ - I have been on an airplane. I'm imagining going to space is "similar". - I've been in a submarine, in a museum. Even that made me scared. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ this makes me so sad npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ yeah I understood that. I don't understand why you seemed to be okay with reducing pilots. I don't see any advantage, except "economical", which I couldn't care less about. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ to add to dutch. It's difficult to find THE translation. - there's variations on diseases, already mentioned. "Kanker op" = get cancer, literally cancer up. - kust m'n kloten = kiss my balls - de pot op = [get] on the pot, aka the toilet (to shit) - bol het af, hoepel op, donder op, ... = go away, get lost - also "moeder heeft vis gebakken" = mother has made/baked fish. Lol. This is an addition, you say this after any of the above, for emphasis. I think the implied insult is that you are a little child that's supposed to be at home in time for dinner. Like "go away, your mom is waiting for you". npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ Something I have wondered about often. Apparently inconclusive. *"Whether the Web has increased the prevalence of conspiracy theories or not is an open research question."* https://files.strangeobject.space/media_attachments/files/113/220/348/494/423/137/original/ffe58ad992bf3e1f.png npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ I'm not a native English speaker and in my language we do this correctly and this has bothered me about the English language since forever. You're wrong. Wrong. Stop doing that. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ but why would you want that npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ From a reddit comment: We carry around bacteria, fungi and mites on and in our bodies at all times, which all together weigh one kilo. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ Recently, in one of my disastrous conversations about LongCovid, I was referring to wikipedia as a referral that something was pseudoscience. They replied that wikipedia wasn't a trustworthy source and that "anyone can write whatever they want on there". I'd like to point out that, during the past year, I got more and more convinced that this is true, just not for wikipedia, but for regular media. Y'all. They just write whatever they want and click publish. I'd hope to see repercussions within my lifetime but I'm not betting on it. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ To be a bit more clear. I find it disgusting to frame this as "mainly provocative" and not a vile bloodthirsty attack of a colonial apartheid state led by a war criminal. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ Meanwhile, on AlJazeera: "Iran's wrath will be extraordinary". npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ In the Belgian news it's said that Iran might not react because "it's a trap" and Iran knows better and for sure the US will then attack Iran etc. But this "it's a trap" I mean wtf. That's like bombing Iran and then saying "Iran is not going to react, it's a trap". More than 700 people dead, "it's a trap". The media, people, wtf. How one-sided can it get. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ I am fucking disgusted to find out that the terrorist attack with the exploding devices has been called "pagergate". As if it's some type of fraud scandal. For fucks sake. Children were murdered. #Lebanon npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ I didn't vote for the forest cause I don't need my personal forest, I can share! I got housekeeper and chef, I can totally deal with the rest if those things are sorted. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ I found a huge list on the website of the international schema therapy association and I clicked on a few profiles that seemed nice and why did they cost 150$/h? I currently pay 60โฌ/h. ๐ซฃ npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ I have made an account on a new instance to look around and I'm now waiting for approval. Let me tell you I am not ready to quit therapy. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ the search bar is back! hurray npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ so the same goal but a different means wouldn't really fit? npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ :boost_ok: Looking for a therapist - online, timezone: I'm in Europe. - schema therapy (or similar) - queer + neurodivergent positive - I have been in therapy for many years, with several practitioners. Schema therapy has helped me the most, and I feel I could make progress there. Let me know if you see a therapist that fits these, or if you know someone! npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ If you say "change course" in English, does that sound like a u-turn? In Dutch the similar expression doesn't necessarily mean a radical change, it can be small or more like a methodical change, not a goal change. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ I'm going to change course and try to find a therapist online instead of irl. Pros: more choice, so hopefully I can actually find someone adequate. Cons: worldwide searching isn't easy. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ I do like where this name came from, it's a cute story:<li>I was born second half of the 80s, so when Gorbachev was in the news often.</li><li>my first babbling often sounded like "aza baja" which my family interpreted as Azerbaijan. I had a bit of a Russian accent too, they say. </li><li>my cousin, who was 2 when I was born, couldn't pronounce my name (Elisabeth) and turned it into Ebebabe.</li><li>so Gorbachev + Ebebabe = bebachev.</li><li>(tjof instead of chev is just unofficial phonetic spelling.)</li> npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ confirm, you need to refresh. Also the notifications icon isn't always showing correct (like it says you have new notifications if you don't.) npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ yeah there is hope to be found in certain things. But I also feel like we're just going from crisis to crisis cause we don't really look at the root issues. Which can be so tiring to realise. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ Ah wait, I forgot, some people have friends and family npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ If you don't have a minimal amount of hope, why would you stay alive? npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ Most of the time I'm trying to be hopeful, Israel is about to collapse, HIV is about to be cured so they're going to cure LongCovid also, people are protesting, I am healing. But damn it can be difficult. What if shit just gets worse and worse and worse. And they keep killing people and destroying shit. Fuck. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ #brussels #vaccine #covid #CovidIsNotOver #bxl #bruxelles #brussel #belgium The Covid vaccine is free. You need an ID and Belgian health insurance, and it's on appointment. I'm getting mine in a pharmacy, but not all pharmacies do this. Here's a finder: https://www.pharmacie.be/PharmacySearch?Query=1000&serviceFilter=COVIDVACCIN npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ I use it by default when I'm on my laptop. So I'm happy about it, but I haven't tested anything else, except the actual mastodon thing. And I use my phone more often. You can easily test it, just go to elk.zone I think. Multiple accounts: yes. It's in alpha but honestly I don't notice much about that. Except the search field has gone missing recently, oops. I don't think you can do the multiple columns thing, which some people seem to like but I find inexplicable lol. It's just a very minimal layout, all instances look the same, no fireworks. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ thanks I'm gonna need to sit down to check this all out npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ how about using elk? no installing required, just a website client or what's it called. @npub1z2pโฆ9wfy You're not asking for advice so sorry if not applicable. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ can you point me towards more info on this (= iraq invasion for Israel)? Like search terms npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ completely different and maybe too banal to add but this focus on ""women"" just has so many perverse effects. Gymnasts are always called girls until there's a news article about how the clothing rules are sexist, then suddenly the word women gets its turn. Even though those rules also apply to minors. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ absolutely. The US bothers me at a high but stable level. Belgian politics frustrate me also highly but with more intense peaks. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ Sure I'm pro cycling infrastructure but could you just mรฉntion the state of the world please? Maybe wear a keffiya while talking about your โจincreasing awareness for underprivileged youthโจ npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ (talking about Belgium, not the US, lol. We had general elections in June and now local elections in October. So politicians have been in campaign mode for months.) npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ I'm so done with the election campaign npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ admins with a moral compass. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ Scheduled covid vaccine for Monday npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ "you think you're the shit but you're not even a fart" npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ I am once again baffled by the speed at which some people make decisions and turn them into actions npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ and like, I hate questionnaires that go "what do you do in your daily life for the environment?". Bitch my entire life is set up revolving around this shit. The place I live, the clothes I wear, the food I eat, the events I attend, the friends I have, the transport I use. Jeez. I feel guilty about the 2,5 things I did in the past year that weren't eco-friendly. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ once I was a participant in a European project which was supposed to be environmentally friendly. So we took the train for 8 hours to another country. Another project that we heard of, in the same subsidiary pot, wrote that they would "encourage their participants to carpool to the airport". I'm so done with applauding for this shit. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ - Abortion rights not extended from 12 to 18 weeks - LEZ plan delayed (low emission zone, supposed to get stricter gradually) - cops will not be prosecuted, in an extremely obvious case of murder-by-cops npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ there is a lovely typo in your alttext npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ Chose the wrong line in the supermarket npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ I'm not having the best time here lately but I'm in the supermarket right now buying fresh figs and plums npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ I'd say there needs to be some type of mutuality. I think. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ (btw let me add that there's a certain type of poster that focuses on growth and it's a huge red flag. If you only focus on growth without quality and safety, then yes, I'd say that means "more Nazis is the way to go." Nope.) npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ It depends how you phrase it. Growth is not my first priority. But if you say "focus on growth" I could say yes to that, IF it's part of a list. I miss having more friends here, and certain topics are almost completely absent (eg gymnastics). But! I'm absolutely against putting growth on a higher priority than other issues, like safety, security, privacy... (Not going to expand on this, not because it's not important but because I know you know.) But also! If you remove growth altogether from the goals, then I feel you might as well build a platform for you and your 5 friends and call it a day? I don't want an alternative for capitalism in my living room, I want an alternative for capitalism to take over the world. So yeah. Growth. Growth AND safety. Don't make me choose, I don't agree that those are real opposites. They are turned into opposites through a scarcity context, which runs rampant, and is in itself capitalist thinking. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ I don't know if I can explain it. In those statements you could rephrase connection as friendship. Also I can be attached to a baby, yes. But I don't know what else to say. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ Comrade รกnd demure ๐ https://files.strangeobject.space/media_attachments/files/113/194/319/327/479/535/original/e74885831b02e437.png npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ Bow down bitches https://files.strangeobject.space/media_attachments/files/113/194/002/880/758/921/original/2d3040457e2043c1.png npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ Graph from a few months old https://files.strangeobject.space/media_attachments/files/113/193/905/378/314/617/original/1a96164de5a57b06.webp npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ Called with my mom. We didn't mention anything regarding the US elections or our respective opinions. Just a chat. Okay then. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ I used to be ancient warrior but then I got therapy and a chronic illness so now I'm bread. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ those are such good questions that I'm embarrassed to add "When?" to this otherwise marvellous list npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ lol. So yeah James and Esther had requested donations for some costs and fortunately there was enough for them to also order pizza. And then a few people joined in (online), at #StrangeObjectPizza. And a few months later we did it again, I don't remember the occasion. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ Like the last supper npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ Lets organise a final strangeobject pizza night. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ maybe one of the tools of @npub1kqcโฆ7wgd ? npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ which part? For me, common ground is related to rational thinking. Babies and pets don't do that. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ no idea. That's gonna be the hardest part. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ once you posted something like: pronouns in username < pronouns in handle and I thought that was an extremely big flex so I'd say you have to keep that part npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ yes I've noticed it doesn't work retroactively. So you need to wait until someone makes a post. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ absolutely. And most of them are hidden from home feed. So my main feed is pretty short and then I have extensions like cool science or cute pet pictures. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ can I ask how the search bar is doing? It disappeared and I miss it. I do agree it needed a bit of care. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ I don't have enough spoons to gather thoughts on so.s, so right now I only want to say that if you are not a tech-person and feel unequipped to do this migrate-thing: please don't worry too much about it. There are plenty of blogposts to talk you through it, and in the end it's just exporting and importing a few things at the correct place. I am not a tech-person and I have done it :) I remember feeling stressed about it but that's not necessary. My inbox is open and I'm sure a lot of others' are as well. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ I don't think so. I try to be up-to-date about these things and this would be massive news, I think I'd know that. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ that name though ๐ npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ Oh no just yesterday I was about to post something about worrying about our admins npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ ps tusky has fixed this bug in the nightly version, you can switch to that or wait until they update the main version again. I also thought it was extremely annoying and I'm on nightly, so I'm really happy it's over for me! npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ you're in for a treat when you discover the Black-owned symbol lol npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ From the river to the sea. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ I don't like the term connection, maybe indeed cause it doesn't seem to make a lot of sense to me. In therapy I had a aha-moment when learning that attachment styles refer to connection (or something). I really prefer the term attachment, I don't know why, but it's way more clear to me. Trust is also a good term. I don't think connection means "common ground". You can connect with a baby or an animal and I wouldn't say you have common ground with them. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ Personal addition: I'm afraid this means Israel is going to escalate even further in the west bank. I mean it doesn't take rocket science to imagine why one would want to remove journalists. #FreePalestine #AlJazeera npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ Israel closes Al Jazeera bureau in Ramallah. Heavily armed Israeli soldiers raided the office of Al Jazeera in Ramallah, throwing the team out. The journalists aren't injured, but the building is sealed. Ramallah is in zone A under the Oslo agreements (= in full Palestinian control), so Israel doesn't have the jurisdiction to do this. They rely on military power and impunity. https://www.aljazeera.com/news/2024/9/22/israel-closes-al-jazeera-bureau-in-ramallah-all-you-need-to-know npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ At some point in the pandemic, it was very common for any type of place to put disinfectant hand gel at the door. So one day I enter a self-service lunch place and first thing I see is a big white container with a pump, on a table next to napkins and cutlery. So I hold my hand under the dispenser and I'm a nano-second away from pushing the lever with my other hand, when I saw it wasn't alcohol gel, but mayonnaise. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ Six months ago: Black people calling out racism is not "drama". Today: Black people calling out racism is also not "infighting". npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ My mom's availabilities and mine aren't lining up for a call and now she's using the ๐ emoji. It's unclear to me if she's annoyed at me or at the situation. Either she wants me to assume it's the situation, or this is going really wrong. In both cases I'm really baffled about her expectations. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ I have effectively gone from 8gb to 7gb. And hopefully no more notifications about storage for a while. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ fuck yeah I fucking hope so npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ Bandaid on my scrolling-thumb ๐ฉ npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ I forgot when I got my IUD. It's supposed to last 5 years and I'm either at 4,5 or at 5,5 years. I hope my doctor knows. I'm reminded of its existence cause I've been bleeding for a few days already, which is very unusual. To be added to my to-do list. Also, bleeding is annoying. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ Moved to peanut-cashew-butter with fig jam ๐ npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ At this point it feels like I'm just waiting until Iran pulls up. Not sure why they aren't doing that already. I guess fear of US retaliation. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ Managed to leave the house cause I wanted a baguette for dinner. With choco. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ I deleted it recently and I'm so happy about that. Whether it was a smart thing to do, is a different question. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ in most places it's pretty illegal to film someone else's property. So you would be in the right to ask about this. Of course being legally correct isn't the only thing that matters between neighbours. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ I feel like I shouldn't be disappointed in this whole situation cause there's nothing new under the sun. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ I guess I feel ready enough to talk to my mom again. She sent me that vague email as a way to reach out and then also texted me a few days later that she would be okay with calling. I postponed replying with my availabilities but now I let her know. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ Painted my nails black cause I'm an anarchist. What is the state going to do about that, huh npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ Yesterday I saw my friend and we had a long conversation about everything that made me cry over the past 2-3 weeks. Overdue and really nice. I asked for help and she offered many solutions. Kiddo was actually in a very bad mood, tired from school and the lack of a nap. I asked if I could put my hand on her belly to feel the baby move but I couldn't feel anything. npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ tidal and bandcamp? npub1g77ckex33trafu3ulrun8f6ptwysg4nkdlr2j2aw6275ekajtxts080d80 bebatjof ๐ต๐ธ suggestion to add hashtags to your post?