Me: three trauma responses in a trenchcoat. Banner image is a photo I took of graffiti on the bathroom wall at a bar in the Twin Cities. I put the queer in SQL. My name is Wendy but I'll also answer to Casio, Sugartits, and that crazy bitch. Egg Crack: Dec '23 HRT: 31 Jan 2024 Leap Day: 22 Mar 2024 Of an age that Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy defines my world view. pronouns: Sugartits location: Powderhorn, Twin Cities sexual orientation: Suggestible age: Is transphobic
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Last Notes npub1h3zjy6jkcf90hllgdrwsf8d0am6ul8hscu87kxzhq76dvp2d348szgsp3w Wendy "Casio" 🏳️⚧️ Even if you have access to therapy, it's not like it's just going to work on everything. It could, I like to hope, with enough time; untangling a lifetime of stuff can take a significant chunk of a lifetime. npub1h3zjy6jkcf90hllgdrwsf8d0am6ul8hscu87kxzhq76dvp2d348szgsp3w Wendy "Casio" 🏳️⚧️ Awesome. npub1h3zjy6jkcf90hllgdrwsf8d0am6ul8hscu87kxzhq76dvp2d348szgsp3w Wendy "Casio" 🏳️⚧️ My general rule, if I'm asking myself this question, it's time to leave. npub1h3zjy6jkcf90hllgdrwsf8d0am6ul8hscu87kxzhq76dvp2d348szgsp3w Wendy "Casio" 🏳️⚧️ Where are you at? npub1h3zjy6jkcf90hllgdrwsf8d0am6ul8hscu87kxzhq76dvp2d348szgsp3w Wendy "Casio" 🏳️⚧️ Hi Lucy, totally get how this could be hard to focus on right now, but thought I'd ping you anyway. If the world is just too much right now, I get it. If not I would love to find out more. npub1h3zjy6jkcf90hllgdrwsf8d0am6ul8hscu87kxzhq76dvp2d348szgsp3w Wendy "Casio" 🏳️⚧️ Thank you! npub1h3zjy6jkcf90hllgdrwsf8d0am6ul8hscu87kxzhq76dvp2d348szgsp3w Wendy "Casio" 🏳️⚧️ I just don't know what happened. I have never been told. I want to be educated. Sources, someplace I can read what happened, would be very welcome. npub1h3zjy6jkcf90hllgdrwsf8d0am6ul8hscu87kxzhq76dvp2d348szgsp3w Wendy "Casio" 🏳️⚧️ "I could tell you about how even after the concentration camps were emptied after the war, that queer people were not liberated by the Allies, they were relocated to new prisons." I have heard this mentioned before, but I have never been told, and I still don't know what happened. I can search and find hundreds of articles on persecution of us by the Nazis, and I can find out that anti-queer laws were left in place, but I have no idea what happened to us when the camps were liberated. npub1h3zjy6jkcf90hllgdrwsf8d0am6ul8hscu87kxzhq76dvp2d348szgsp3w Wendy "Casio" 🏳️⚧️ If you don't have Signal installed on your phone, please fix that. You may not need the security for yourself, but someone you talk to will. Everyone needs to have it. ⚧️ https://signal.org/ npub1h3zjy6jkcf90hllgdrwsf8d0am6ul8hscu87kxzhq76dvp2d348szgsp3w Wendy "Casio" 🏳️⚧️ Oh I don't feel horribly old for a change. Just going to bask in this moment, remembering Maxis Games. npub1h3zjy6jkcf90hllgdrwsf8d0am6ul8hscu87kxzhq76dvp2d348szgsp3w Wendy "Casio" 🏳️⚧️ I see something in the shape of a girl. I don't think you're hiding very well. npub1h3zjy6jkcf90hllgdrwsf8d0am6ul8hscu87kxzhq76dvp2d348szgsp3w Wendy "Casio" 🏳️⚧️ Please stop reminding me I'm old. Maybe I should campaign for the use of CW's for this sort of thing... npub1h3zjy6jkcf90hllgdrwsf8d0am6ul8hscu87kxzhq76dvp2d348szgsp3w Wendy "Casio" 🏳️⚧️ aw this is beautiful. npub1h3zjy6jkcf90hllgdrwsf8d0am6ul8hscu87kxzhq76dvp2d348szgsp3w Wendy "Casio" 🏳️⚧️ I have a hunch that today will always be remembered as the day I met Rikki. I suspect I have begun a friendship that will turn out to be very meaningful, to both of us. npub1h3zjy6jkcf90hllgdrwsf8d0am6ul8hscu87kxzhq76dvp2d348szgsp3w Wendy "Casio" 🏳️⚧️ So my spouse has been working the County Fair all week (haven't really spent any time with her since Monday), which to me is crazy: crowds of people, most of whom I won't like, is my idea of a very bad time. But she is predisposed to liking people, so. Anyway she texts me to say she met an older (75) trans woman who lives in the neighboring town, and gave me her number. This is the sort of thing that happens to her. Like, the odds of that are kinda unreal, but here we are. It sounds like the woman's wife passed away not too long ago. I'm meeting her at a coffee shop, headed out the door now. npub1h3zjy6jkcf90hllgdrwsf8d0am6ul8hscu87kxzhq76dvp2d348szgsp3w Wendy "Casio" 🏳️⚧️ My heart dies a little every time there's lettuce in my steak salad. npub1h3zjy6jkcf90hllgdrwsf8d0am6ul8hscu87kxzhq76dvp2d348szgsp3w Wendy "Casio" 🏳️⚧️ so true, isn't it? npub1h3zjy6jkcf90hllgdrwsf8d0am6ul8hscu87kxzhq76dvp2d348szgsp3w Wendy "Casio" 🏳️⚧️ New socks, just in case people were unsure about what I am. https://chaosfemtw.files.fedi.monster/media_attachments/files/112/873/891/935/273/125/original/2d690bdd5cef9b59.jpg npub1h3zjy6jkcf90hllgdrwsf8d0am6ul8hscu87kxzhq76dvp2d348szgsp3w Wendy "Casio" 🏳️⚧️ My reaction when reading above was "hey, I just learned the secret handshake, and I was already doing it and didn't even know." So maybe, even though it came from a place of insecurity, I'm just going to keep doing it now, for different reasons. npub1h3zjy6jkcf90hllgdrwsf8d0am6ul8hscu87kxzhq76dvp2d348szgsp3w Wendy "Casio" 🏳️⚧️ Oh hell, that is exactly how I have been answering that question when asked. That, or "I prefer Wendy." npub1h3zjy6jkcf90hllgdrwsf8d0am6ul8hscu87kxzhq76dvp2d348szgsp3w Wendy "Casio" 🏳️⚧️ Hello world