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I don’t, that’s why I’m talking about it 😊 Ask me anything about human behavior and I got you, but when it comes to anything tech wise I’m completely lost. Lots of other people have had some great ideas!

2024-04-02 02:43:16

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🤣🤣🤣

2024-04-02 02:21:14

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I just wanna shake them! 😂

2024-04-02 02:17:38

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This is beautifully worded and I appreciate you sharing it. You’re one of the reasons I believe in men!

2024-04-02 02:03:29

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The issue is hate on posts, creepiness in the DMs. If details are needed, they can message me. Also I’m sure you can see the issue in my posts by some people’s responses.

2024-04-02 01:33:32

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I found it dismissive 🤷🏻‍♀️

2024-04-02 01:32:00

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I know you didn’t mean it this way, but I don’t think people need to prove their experiences. You’re welcome to message me if you’d like! 🤗

2024-04-02 01:30:40

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Living your life must be hard. Whew.

2024-04-02 01:30:23

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You’re the toxic masculinity, don’t project that shit on me 😂😂😂

2024-04-02 01:05:51

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It does!

2024-04-02 00:59:05

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Cuz little is never goes away ☺️ we just forget to play when we’re older, or we think it has to be a certain way.

2024-04-01 23:23:43

If you’re a man (or woman) that perceives my notes as hating men, I dont know how to save you. I WANT to be here with you. You’re completely missing the point. The people who get it, get it.
Just unfollow me.

2024-04-01 23:08:23

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I refuse to do the work for men. Seems pretty damn fair to me 🤷🏻‍♀️

2024-04-01 22:55:08

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I didn’t volunteer. I said “please educate yourself.”

2024-04-01 22:51:30

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“Again, from my perspective.”

2024-04-01 22:47:26

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You clearly don’t understand what feminism is about. If you did, you’d know that it’s ALSO about men and you’d support it. Please educate yourself.

2024-04-01 22:35:48

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So because I find things hurtful, I don’t have a life? I’m confused.

2024-04-01 22:15:37

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I can be myself but then have to deal with the consequences of that. Like my example of posting a selfie and then getting told I deserve to be treated poorly for it. Or having a person asking when they can fly to see me. Or that I should kill myself. Or the guys that act totally genuine just to completely take advantage of me. I feel like I can be myself but I dont know that the consequences are worth it 😕

2024-04-01 21:51:03

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😊🫂

2024-04-01 21:39:20

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I’ve heard so many people say this! But I have iOS 😭

2024-04-01 21:37:31

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🫂🫂🫂

2024-04-01 21:34:28

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I hope 😂

2024-04-01 21:29:59

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This is what @npub1klr…7gxc was talking about. It would definitely be helpful!

2024-04-01 21:25:40

Everyone proving my point today is 🤌🏻🤌🏻🤌🏻
#note1mq4…e0sv

2024-04-01 21:16:36

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RIGHT 😂😂😂 It’s like they don’t even think lol

2024-04-01 20:56:32

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Ahhh okay. If I don’t like people’s stuff I just unfollow them. If they’re hateful or extreme, then I mute them.

2024-04-01 20:54:13

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Yeah I can totally see that!

2024-04-01 20:52:48

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I feel like this would not fly 😂 I would of course be totally fine with it, but then you have to think about people abusing the blocking function. Then the numbers wouldn’t truly represent the user and their content (I’m sure I’d have a lot of blocks but if you know me I’ve only been kind on here). I think it’s just a matter of considering options and seeing it as an issue, like the poster mentioned versus completing ignoring. I’m glad a lot of different people are talking about it today 🥹

2024-04-01 20:46:39

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I know ☹️

2024-04-01 20:37:44

THANK. YOU. 🫂❤️
#note14vv…2klc

2024-04-01 20:07:59

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😔🫂🫂🫂🫂

2024-04-01 20:07:28

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😉🫂

2024-04-01 19:48:04

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I completely agree with everything you said. It’s fundamental to nostr, like you said, which is incredibly unique! There isn’t really a way through besides what you mentioned.

2024-04-01 19:22:28

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Yes exactly!

2024-04-01 19:21:40

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Oh and I’ve reported users but I dont know what that does.

2024-04-01 19:20:03

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I use primal and mute them. But that doesn’t block them. They can still follow you and interact with your content.

2024-04-01 19:15:34

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That’s just based on my experience here. When I’ve searched hashtags to find other women to connect with they are rarely active. Of course there’s exceptions, but I’ve had a difficult time finding women, therefore it seems as though nostr is primarily men. But I agree that it doesn’t have to be! I don’t want it to be. I don’t know what would need to change to draw more people in. The emotional safety issue is a huge one, whether you’re a woman, trans, person of color or another group. When I go on TikTok I know that I won’t be harassed and have no power to do something about it. Here, I can only unfollow and mute, yet the haters can still follow me.

2024-04-01 19:09:56

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Other platforms allow users to be blocked and reported and potentially banned from using the platform for hate/harassment/etc. This isn’t the case on nostr of course because that completely goes against the whole foundation of nostr.
There’s too many issues to list, but you can research it if it’s helpful. To me, it feels like a microcosm of being a woman in the world. For example, I posted a picture of myself but then received hate for it because I’ve brought up mistreatment by other nostr men (aka if I post a picture like that then I deserve mistreatment). We’re held to the same BS societal guidelines here as we are in the real world. And when women bring up the issues here (in a kind way), we’re still unheard, harassed, and not considered. We just want our experiences to be considered, not dismissed. I hope that helps.

2024-04-01 19:03:22

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True! I totally get where you’re coming from. But if the majority of the nostr population is men, theres only so much decorating our feed that we can do (and significantly more likelihood of dealing with assholes). I didn’t post this as a complaint, it was simply to bring awareness and maybe a productive dialogue about it.

2024-04-01 18:41:24

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They wouldn’t have it in mind because men don’t need to consider other people’s experiences. The world is built for them. They’re conditioned to be that way, so I don’t think it’s malicious.

2024-04-01 18:40:08

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Thank you for demonstrating what projection means! Bravo 👏🏻

2024-04-01 18:38:47

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I think you missed the part that said “if you’re defensive you may want to self-reflect on why.”

2024-04-01 18:36:56

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Notice I didn’t say any of those words you mentioned besides “marginalized.” I don’t view myself as helpless, I view myself as unsupported by my environment.
And also, it’s quite the assumption to make that all the women on nostr never experienced any struggle or harassment on here. Tell me why would a woman post on nostr (predominantly men) about being harassed? They would get the same “eye roll” response you just gave me. Point proven.

2024-04-01 18:33:00

I think it’s easy to say just mute the person. But if you don’t have the lived experience of being a woman, or being part of a marginalized group, you will never understand our experience, especially what it’s like to be on nostr.
I love nostr AND it’s challenging to be here because it feels like (again, from my perspective) another man’s world; built by men, for men, that only men will truly benefit from (if you feel defensive after reading that, you may want to self-reflect on why).
I understand the purpose and updates being made consistently. But without some type of protection from the /harassment/hate, I just can’t see nostr expanding the ways it’s envisioned.
I appreciate the men on here that have been kind to me and have my back. You’re the only reason I’ve stayed 🫂
And please don’t come for me, I’m tired today 😂
#note18yj…yql0

2024-04-01 13:43:57

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I delete it ALL 😂 I know people that keep everything too.

2024-04-01 04:51:17

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Right 😂 I don’t take it as a compliment lol

2024-04-01 04:49:05

“That’s part of the human condition, always wanting desire. But that is often not organic.”

2024-04-01 04:26:42

Is it a guy thing to save numbers of the people you’ve dated? I’ve had guys from MONTHS and YEARS ago message me, even ones I’ve never met!
If I’m done with you, you’re dead to me 😂 Number deleted, photos deleted, blocked on social media, and if you touched something of mine I clean it or get rid of it if I can. I DO NOT want your energy around me 🤣🤣🤣

2024-04-01 04:19:45

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😂 My rabbit holes turn into hours and hours and forgetting I need food/water and have responsibilities🤣🤣

2024-04-01 04:10:47

10:10

2024-04-01 04:09:49

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😂 ChatGPT saves me every week hahaha

2024-04-01 04:07:12

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I read this the other day!

2024-04-01 03:21:08

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I may have to!

2024-04-01 03:19:30

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Maybe I’m not that far down the rabbit hole 😂😂

2024-04-01 02:57:55

This 4B movement in Korea is about to spread worldwide 🤭😂

2024-03-31 22:46:25

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I love that! There’s moments of love everywhere. But love may not feel completely safe for people who haven’t had healthy love before. That’s what the post is talking about.

2024-03-31 21:02:21

This.
https://m.primal.net/HqFM.jpg

2024-03-31 20:06:10

Every time I get shaved ice for my son at the park, the guy who owns the truck tells me about all the improvements he’s made in his business since I last saw him.
Men are cute when they’re proud of themselves ☺️

2024-03-31 05:09:26

GN friends 🌙✨
Enjoy this oldie but goodie.
https://m.primal.net/Hpvk.jpg

2024-03-31 04:46:07

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🫂🫂🫂

2024-03-31 04:13:51

We won! https://video.nostr.build/67793efae29963b145ae31eaa7df8573e4525f28e8a753de7e28f8d13864d8c5.mp4

2024-03-31 01:14:44

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NOT THE BRUINS 😂 they are my archenemy hahahahaha

2024-03-31 00:54:05

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Why does everyone hate the Lightning 😂😂 who’s your team?

2024-03-31 00:03:48

HOCKEY! HOCKEY! HOCKEY!!! 🏒 ⚡️
https://m.primal.net/Hpti.jpg

2024-03-30 21:32:29

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MY HEART 🥹❤️ what a precious baby 🥰🥰

2024-03-30 20:07:28

Spooky #catstr 👻
https://m.primal.net/Hpqi.jpg
https://m.primal.net/Hpqj.jpg

2024-03-30 18:46:51

Real 🥲
#note1930…35yx

2024-03-30 18:29:29

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This makes me think of the part” you cannot get me, you cannot get me, la la la la la” 😂

2024-03-30 18:19:35

I forgot one! I say this to my son a lot 🤣
#note12m4…n3sd
https://m.primal.net/HppU.jpg

2024-03-30 18:15:22

Movie scenes that frequent my mind 😂
https://m.primal.net/HppM.jpg
https://m.primal.net/HppN.jpg
https://m.primal.net/HppP.jpg
https://m.primal.net/HppQ.png
https://m.primal.net/HppR.jpg

2024-03-30 17:45:09

My babies are now 5 years old 🥹 They saved me back then and continue to bring so much joy to my life ❤️ #catstr
https://m.primal.net/Hpoh.jpg
https://m.primal.net/Hpoi.jpg
https://m.primal.net/Hpoj.jpg

2024-03-29 04:55:15

Why do AI pictures come out so good, but then the fingers are always so fucked up 😂
https://m.primal.net/HpQf.jpg
https://m.primal.net/HpQg.jpg
https://m.primal.net/HpQh.jpg

2024-03-29 03:23:12

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I love the tea affirmations 🥹

2024-03-29 00:27:21

When I click on a note to view the comments, why do I have to click on each individual comment to see the follow up comments, then have to keep clicking to see alllllll the comments? Sometimes I get lost in a comment whirlpool 😂

2024-03-29 00:19:08

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Welcome here!! #introductions

2024-03-28 20:28:20

I applied to 2 jobs! I forgot how long it takes to update a resume 🙃

2024-03-28 16:02:30

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It’s a struggle. The last few months work has been so shitty. I’m motivated to apply to other jobs and keep moving forward with my own business though!

2024-03-28 16:01:32

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I have Fridays off luckily! I’m applying to other jobs today 😅

2024-03-28 16:00:15

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An unfortunate early weekend 🤣

2024-03-28 15:59:54

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The ? is accurate 😂 if I don’t work, I don’t get paid 🥲

2024-03-28 15:58:38

Classic #Florida things:
-Blocking the road for birds/turtles/alligators to cross the street.
-Driving on the shoulder during rush hour.
-Only taking hurricanes seriously if Waffle House closes.
-Big trucks with trump flags.
-People crossing the street in oncoming traffic.
-Driving 15-25+ mph over the speed limit everywhere.
-Really nice homes/buildings on one street, then super run down/abandoned buildings the next street.
-People talking about gun rights & other politics in checkout lines.
-People identifying themselves as their FL college.
-Parks everywhere.
-The strangest street names.
-Lots of transplants moving here.
-Lots of plastic surgery.
-Liberals in hiding.
-Hidden nature gems all over FL.
-“Going out on the boat.”
-Predicting hurricanes will hit Tampa & they turn at the last minute.
Anything else you’d add? 😅
#plebchain #grownostr

2024-03-28 15:24:21

Gm nostr 🫂 Power went out at work, had to reschedule my clients, and now I have a day off. Yay 🫠

2024-03-28 01:22:01

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Sometimes! I swear I follow people then go to their page and I’m not.

2024-03-27 19:37:39

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That’s what I said 😂

2024-03-27 19:23:23

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This felt pretty spicy 😆
https://m.primal.net/HoqX.jpg

2024-03-27 19:14:50

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I’ve seen a handful of them! You have to start searching for people under different hashtags. Then you’ll come in contact with more similar people 😊

2024-03-27 15:28:07

“If you want clean fun go fly a kite” 🎶 This band is so strange but I love them.
https://m.primal.net/HoqR.jpg

2024-03-27 14:59:36

Just witnessed a client find their freedom and truth. It is hands down one of the most powerful and beautiful things to see and what an honor to be a part of it 🥹

2024-03-27 13:30:48

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This made me want to cry 🥹 I will definitely add it to my list! Thank you for sharing this 🫂

2024-03-27 11:33:10

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I have not! Should I add it to my book list?

2024-03-27 03:37:46

I remember on the crisis response team I met with a client that had schizophrenia. He was telling me how my cycle was synchronized with the moon phases and I was so genuinely interested in it 😆 He was awesome.

2024-03-27 00:03:06

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I don’t even know how to respond 😂 cuz yes lol

2024-03-26 23:33:12

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They’re pretty great, ngl 😌

2024-03-26 23:28:05

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😂😂

2024-03-26 22:05:00

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We’re a special breed 🥰