jared
Jared Stilwell

Full-stack dev — living in Austin, working remotely.

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2024-04-03 18:59:18

If I had a sat for every time I wanted to zap someone’s note only find out I can’t because they are actually on mastadon … 🙄

2024-04-03 17:48:31

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Judging from context clues, it seems to mean anything that requires toxic dude-bros to deviate, even temporarily, from a worldview in which a perfect meritocracy exists and none of their problems are the result of their choices. 🤔

2024-04-03 17:38:31

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No harm done ☺️ 🫂

2024-04-02 23:47:51

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Foggy Mountain Breakdown is the essence of bluegrass, to your point.

2024-04-02 21:57:47

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Only Slytherin is concerned with the concept of a “best house”

2024-04-02 03:44:44

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Nah. I think I’m all set, thanks.

2024-04-01 22:07:02

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If books are more your thing, consider this as a jumping off point:
https://www.amazon.com/Will-Change-Men-Masculinity-Love/dp/0743456084

2024-04-01 21:46:32

Here’s a little something for the guys…
Most of us (myself included) have a pretty strong shame response to having our privilege named. It can make us feel confused and powerless to find we have contributed, probably unknowingly, to the harm of others in our community.
The defensiveness that typically follows may come in a few forms:
1. Outright hostility and aggression
2. Minimizing counter-evidence
3. Demands for education
Each of these are an attempt to regain the kind of control and safety we usually feel as “normal”. We normally navigate the world feeling safe, understood, and likely to find some level of solidarity with others. This feeling of safety is part of what is meant by “privilege”.
We are far less likely to be subject to unprovoked harassment, threats, and de-humanization. When these things do occur they are less likely to conjure up a consistent, lifelong history of physical threats and/or attacks suffered by less-privileged people (usually at the hands of people who look/sound/identify like us).
I’m not saying that we haven’t or can’t suffer harm or experience trauma — far from it. But the defensiveness and coping strategies in response to trauma aren’t something a decentralized protocol is going to fix.
I’ve found talk therapy helpful. It’s not for everyone, but I want to encourage you find something that helps you feel fully human again. (hint: spewing hate speech online just because you can probably isn’t it)
For the men out here trying to do their inner work and lift others up, I’m grateful.
Love y’all

2024-04-01 19:58:02

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Girl, same ☹️

2024-04-01 19:22:46

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What sort of education might best help folks reduce the frequency and intensity of harassment they engage here on #nostr?
I’m less optimistic about the solutions that law enforcement and partitioning ourselves via muting may offer, but I’d love to hear about that as well.

2024-04-01 16:55:01

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@npub104z…85rf what is the answer?

2024-03-28 22:11:40

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Nate and Beth, wherever you are, hope you’re well…

2024-03-28 22:05:56

Listening to The Gossip’s new album — reminds me of how things used to be.
https://gossip.lnk.to/realpower

2024-03-28 15:33:35

Good morning #nostr ☀️☕️
I’m so tired. 🥺

2024-03-28 15:25:22

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Congrats? 🤔

2024-03-28 03:54:24

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You don’t have to sell me on it 🙄

2024-03-27 14:14:49

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I also consider these to be some of its greatest strengths as well. ☺️

2024-03-27 04:18:47

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Good night. 😴

2024-03-26 21:57:07

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ya - water sign gang ☺️

2024-03-26 21:14:24

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Same. But Im a pro at getting into relationships without dating tho 😂

2024-03-26 19:43:54

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Now that is just mean-spirited 🥺

2024-03-26 19:42:25

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this you?
https://m.primal.net/Hofl.jpg

2024-03-26 19:39:27

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2024-03-26 19:27:26

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🤔 I feel like “dumb” is redundant in this sentence. Points off for spelling and usage. ❌ #tryagain #youcandoit

2024-03-26 19:24:42

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🤣 “If you can” like that was ever the issue or that we aren’t somehow on an unstoppable communication platform. Lol what?

2024-03-26 18:19:42

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😳🥺

2024-03-26 18:16:25

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Nostr is the new everything.

2024-03-26 15:55:39

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Too right you are ☺️

2024-03-26 12:53:59

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… imagine you go to a farmers market and the largest cheese booth abruptly explodes in a conflagration of fireworks that give way to a giant logo of that cheese producer in the sky.
You might be confused and wonder if you are in the right place. Your friend said this was the best place to buy the highest quality cheese. You just wanted cheese. Instead you got an ad for cheese. And the cheese is now a pile of rubble.
And in this case, the cheese vendor’s logo is now burned into that particular piece of sky for all eternity.
Seems weird, right?

2024-03-26 02:09:41

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Mostly this … plus money occasionally.

2024-03-26 02:07:41

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I just thought this WAS the list of things. what are OTHER people thinking about?

2024-03-25 23:21:33

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😮 whoa

2024-03-25 17:42:05

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Fascinating. Say more.

2024-03-25 17:41:12

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Yep. Lost all mine in a boating accident.

2024-03-25 17:40:42

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Sound logic. Never change.

2024-03-25 16:32:23

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https://youtu.be/uiX746I15po

2024-03-25 15:37:38

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Okay 👍🏼

2024-03-25 15:34:12

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I’m not sure what this means. Can you enlighten me?

2024-03-25 14:52:47

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Yes. Physically assaulting people you disagree with is the best way to prove the superiority of your perspective 💯🫡 You’re doing great 👍🏼

2024-03-25 14:21:53

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I’d have it generate a summary of points it thinks are important — then argue with it for a bit to see how it defends those points. Then I’d write the paper myself.

2024-03-25 13:52:42

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Good morning ☕️

2024-03-25 12:27:25

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If you didn’t like the show, you didn’t like the show.
However, the move to make more equitable casting decisions in recent years is a positive one for communities that have been marginalized and exploited to build most of our institutions.
Representation is an important tool we can use to affirm the humanity of those we’ve historically dehumanized. Maybe that makes me “woke”. That term was stolen from the struggle of the black community and is now used to belittle any effort to grant them full access to full personhood. Maybe you are a member of that community. I don’t know. I’m not.
The disgust you expressed about skin color specifically lead me to feel like maybe this was punching down though.

2024-03-25 06:04:27

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https://m.primal.net/HoHB.jpg

2024-03-25 05:54:36

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😂

2024-03-25 00:38:27

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NICE WORK Y’ALL 💯🫡

2024-03-24 17:48:41

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Just love when the bluebonnets are out ❤️

2024-03-24 01:21:21

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Bros out here making their whole personality about free speech, while refusing to say anything — or taking any accountability for the impact of what they do say. Sigh. Children.

2024-03-24 01:00:49

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Welp. You got me 🤣

2024-03-24 01:00:11

PSA: The term “retarded” is considered a slur — it has been used to marginalize and dehumanize people with intellectual disabilities.
As we seek to support the flourishing of all people, omitting this bit of vocabulary is a simple way to be kind to others.
Now you know. ✌️
#psa #grownostr

2024-03-24 00:15:47

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Your use of demeaning, violent, and demeaning speech will only serve to perpetuate the stereotypes you claim to belittle.
If you are not interested in responding respectfully and in good faith, please kindly move along, sir.
Your speech is free — no one can or should take that away from you. However, that doesn’t mean it is without consequences. All men are victims of the violence your “masculinity” demands of boys, first to themselves and then to others. It is our job to heal now, sir. This is not the way.
It is a fragile strength that needs to threaten or demean others in order to feel secure. We can do better, and we must. Else we are no better than the fascist contraptions we seek to dismantle.

2024-03-23 16:40:16

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In my experience, the attitudes toward christians shifts heavily by which region of the country you are in and which denomination/sect you are considering.
The southeastern states are often referred to as the “bible belt” as shorthand for how entrenched the christian church is in every facet of public life. Outside of major cities, it can be difficult to navigate employment, social participation, political engagement, or even banking for people who are overtly non-conservative or non-christian.
Yes, it is not this bad in many cases, however it leads me to suspect that the sum of the small instances of prejudice add up to a structural disadvantage for atheist or agnostic individuals in many parts of the country.

2024-03-23 00:29:01

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😂🤣

2024-03-22 19:06:27

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bullish 📈
https://m.primal.net/HnTj.jpg

2024-03-22 04:00:45

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GFY 🫡

2024-03-21 02:11:53

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i.e. I DON’T see much feature development around it.

2024-03-21 02:10:17

Given some the notes circulating about decentralization and spam mitigation, I wonder where we ever landed with NIP-13.
Seemingly it was designed to provide, at least, a partial solution to the least expensive spam threats. But I see much feature development happening around it.
Is the general sentiment that it fails to address its own problem statement? Or is has it just not been worth the effort to implement just yet?
#nips #asknostr

2024-03-21 01:03:18

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🤣

2024-03-20 19:32:29

If you are not a technical user, how much or little do you want to know about how #nostr works?
As #nostr becomes more widely adopted, I become more curious about this. I believe that people don’t need to write code to be an informed participant, just better explanations.
#asknostr

2024-03-19 16:44:44

Good morning, yall ☕️
Regardless of your feelings about the TikTok product, it is becoming increasingly clear precisely how members of congress lied to force the sale of a company that many American citizens have financial stake in.
Unsurprising to many of us here, but feels like a significant progression in how overt the market manipulation is becoming. 🤔
#tiktok #chokepoint

2024-03-19 04:09:40

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I was also going to mention this, but it looks like they’re not taking new registrations without an invite code ☹️

2024-03-19 04:08:34

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Depending on your use case, CashApp can be nice as well. While not strictly custodial, I’ve also enjoyed Phoenix (although watch out for the fees on channel open)

2024-03-19 03:58:11

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1. Payout structure (PPS+, FPPS, etc.)
2. How much of the hashrate the pool controls
3. Withdrawal limits & options
4. Policies and Legal constraints (e.g. KYC)
5. Protocol support & operational support (e.g. stratum V2 support, dashboards)
There are several points of differentiation pool operators can use to make a compelling offering for miners. It comes down to what sort of trade offs you want to make as a miner.

2024-03-19 00:59:09

Hey everybody 👋🏼 Glad to be here 🫡
#introductions #reportingforduty

2024-03-19 00:57:07

Playing around with mining vanity npubs — nobody asked for it, but I still think its cool 😂
#nostr #mineovermatter