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Last Notes npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose If you are someone who has ever asked yourself “if they were assaulted why did they act like everything was fine?”, or “why didn’t they report it sooner/at all?” or “If they were being abused why didn’t they just leave?” If you ponder these things, if you genuinely want the answers, I have them for you! The answers can be found in two books… Trauma and Recovery by Dr Judith Herman Virginia Roberts Giuffre’s memoir Nobody’s Girls And I’d highly recommend reading them in that order. I need to warn you, these are tough reads. They contain stories of the worst of humanity, they are graphic. If you want to understand how the human mind manages trauma, those books are where the knowledge lies. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose https://blossom.primal.net/4192681e21950737cbf3aa9d9c043150b48f30d3229d07c43020e5c9d206e0c3.jpg npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose I saw a post asking how the Cornell 7 story might have played out differently if the 7 had been black men. And well that's an uncomfortable thought experiment. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose Here is what is monumentally stupid about gender wars: We are interdependent, anything that is bad for half of humanity is bad for all of humanity. Let’s say that we find some flaw in humanity that only applies to men or women. Well, if it’s a problem for half of humanity, it’s a problem for all of humanity. The only reasonable response is to help improve the situation for the betterment of all of us. Should we find a flaw in one half of humanity and we try to use that to belittle, degrade, or diminish half of humanity, we are harming humanity as a whole. Do ya see that? npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose I really highly recommend studying human sexuality for the very, very selfish reason that it will dramatically improve your enjoyment of your love life. And cuz I’m such a thoughtful person, I’ll tell you my best ever tip for having a better love life… Context. I know, that sounds super unsexy, but please trust me, it’s the sexiest thing ever! For pretty much everyone, but generally even more so for women, context sets the bounds of your ability to enjoy an encounter. Also generally for women, safety is a primary concern. Even if they are currently in a safe and healthy relationship, quite likely the hypervigilance necessary in previous times in their life is still with them. Parasympathetic nervous system activation is necessary for arousal. Translation, if you can’t relax, if you don’t feel safe, you’ll never have an orgasm. This is of course a complex topic, exceptions apply, but that’s a good TLDR to remember. For me personally, to have an enjoyable experience, I have to feel safe, heard, understood, respected. If those elements are not in place, then my guards(hypervigulance) will stay with me. My guards will only take the night off if I’m convinced that I’m actually connecting with my partner. If I’m convinced that I’m actually being seen. So for me that pretty much always means a lot of conversation. A good date night for me nearly always starts with a long conversation while sharing a bottle of wine. Creating a relaxing conversation. Chiseled abs, fancy moves, a great playlist, none of that moves the needle for me. It’s all about the conversation. But you need to know what your context is. I’m really very boringly a pretty standard issue woman. And my trauma and complexities are also pretty standard issue. So if you are woman, my context is likely to work well for you too. Or maybe not. You gotta experiment and figure out what it is for you. But the best thing I ever did for my love life was to stop having sex outside a context that works well for me. Just don’t do it. Ever. It will just build resentment. But then do really focus on creating a context that works for you and your partner! npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose “Everyone wants to live at the expense of the state. They forget that the state lives at the expense of everyone.” – Frederic Bastiat There is some truth to this, but it is built on a misunderstanding of humanity. Humans are communal creatures. We want, and need, to live with the support of our community. So where is the line between “at the expense of” and “with the support of”? npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose You can spot the ideologically possessed by how they handle nuance. ...they can't. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose https://blossom.primal.net/2c1a52cea44f7aa95e7c98e93078b8e0c1838a523f47307bad2b709655799977.jpg npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose not sure what ya mean npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose https://blossom.primal.net/dfaacb077f16ab3b8d06efa0734a75c2a485e81adf11c69eb8d8f900f5d29e27.png npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose https://blossom.primal.net/35335108dfc8e0088110e409f03e9619a9091a545fb6f3c2ffde889a9b718cfa.jpg npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose Mostly Facebook, but yes sometimes on nostr. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose So many cowardly misogynists in my comments lately. If I post anything supporting women not being abused in the world they will show up to try to find some flaw in what I said. If I post anything critical of patriarchy they will find some reason to lay into me and accusing me of being hateful. And when I finally just ask them if they support patriarchy… poof, they disappear. Until the next post of course. Utter fucking cowards. Just come out and say you want the world to be a straight male dominated hierarchy! And yes I am certainly going to tell you to fuck off and block you. But geez dude, it’s just social media. Have the courage of your convictions. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose https://blossom.primal.net/03899e90770b31247b2134f7dd1bd509656ec3af04d000ba451939b0251abee9.jpg npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose Don't edit your own videos if you want to hold on to your self esteem lol https://blossom.primal.net/ba61e991c7e27c590854667a2aea7f1b2f98c16b23c72c30531f70123c2d7ea8.png npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose O geez no, I don't have the energy for that! ...at least not right now. Ask me again in a few years! npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose https://blossom.primal.net/48f0ea820480799ba6f0719da5ecf5c1a8798371cdc4a8f301bea3f8c66a92f9.png npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose I hear a lot that Islam is just a more inherently hateful religion than Christianity. But when I do some research on the Quran vs the Bible, I don't find clear evidence of that. The bible actually has a higher total number of patriarchal versus. And I remember all the wildly violent stories from the old testament... wow. So, if you are someone who holds this view, who thinks that Islam is inherently more hateful... not just that Islam is currently being practiced in more brutal ways around the world which is clearly the case, but if you think this is the result of something inherent to Islam, please provide me the evidence of that. I don't want your angry rant, I don't want your outrage. I want your evidence. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose I don't think disciplined is the right word. More like understanding, or open. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose “To blame feminism for the decline of the traditional family is to admit that the old ways relied on women’s oppression to sustain it.” npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose I have a general policy of calling people out when I hear them say ugly things. And nearly always those people will get angry at me for that and say all sorts of things such as “You’re too sensitive” or “I have free speech” and my favorite, “It’s just a word!” And yes, they are entirely correct. It’s just a word, and words don’t really matter, it’s just a sound. But, intentions do matter. I don’t care about the word itself, I care about the intention. “Bitch” is a good example. I will at times call a friend a “crazy bitch”, but in a playful context where it is clear that my intention is joking or even complementary. That same friend may have just yesterday encountered some asshole at a bar that got mad at her when she wasn’t interested in him and called her a “fucking bitch!” In that context it’s clear that his intention was to insult her and to insult her specifically because she is a woman. And this friend is going to respond to these two situations very differently. Same word, very different intentions. It’s always all about the intention. The same word is a very different thing when used light heartedly vs when used as an insult. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose A threat to justice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose That which can be asserted without evidence can be dismissed without evidence. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose https://blossom.primal.net/85699b03ec75e94f7206c211372565794ffa3210420a835f40986cde95bb0a7a.jpg npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose https://blossom.primal.net/c71f54e0ae2d2c9112e0c96177f59aa482bf59a7a93ac0d97360b6c033ee3ae6.jpg npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose I have the best friends. They send me shit like this. Pure internet gold. https://blossom.primal.net/f7c4d3d65fc6c8eec72b42688b29dda9bd21d1fe49bef81f5ac09f8b9e6b2f7e.jpg npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose ...are you one of the 5?!?!? lol npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose Like this, this is rage bait. I'm sure someone out there actually thinks this, but probably 5 someone's. And ya gotta admit, this shit is hilarious! Love it! 👏 https://blossom.primal.net/5cdebd96e128b787bdd2dc0a3bd57ef1da59201b167ae1a8f58afe85cef6c7f0.jpg npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose https://blossom.primal.net/6dd2a0d319ee0996baca0dc7673e2377aa247729005a915f209fb5294460be39.jpg npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose https://blossom.primal.net/41a9135ce106049b4905effa7a656778a6e5fc1b1a688247e70b7d22742242b7.jpg npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose So this phermonemaxing thing, this is a silly but good example of the online rage machine. I don't think anyone IRL is actually doing this. It's manufactured outrage. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose https://blossom.primal.net/b1e792875fbdc4ce81f40985d626eccf0b96293280798069b083453f7dab00e4.jpg npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose Well thank you for the excellent example. You are what I am talking about here. I hope you find freedom one day. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose everyone back in their box!!! npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose you think repression is a good thing? npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose I got in trouble with Erik the other day. We were doing silly “would you rather..” types of questions and he asked me “If you were going to have a thruple who would it be with?” And I instantly answered the obviously correct answer... “Javier Bardem and Penelope Cruz!” But apparently I misunderstood the question and he meant who would I invite to OUR thruple, ya know, with him… oopsie 🤣🤣 Note: We were just joking. Please don’t DM me about thruples. ...can you imagine the logistics on that? It’s hard enough to be always compromising with one person nevermind two! No thanks. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose In some ways men are far more socially repressed than women are. ...they can't even paint their nails without massive social shame. Yikes. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose Communism is far more “natural” and “traditional” to humanity than patriarchy or the stay at home Mom. Patriarchy has existed for about 3% of humanity and the single family home stay at home Mom has been common for about 0.07% of human history. While most hunter-gatherer tribes practiced a form of egalitarian communism for most of our history. Remember, facts don’t care about your feelings. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose I’ll go first with a silly one. I am convinced that I NEED to shave my legs. There is zero scientific/medical data to support this idea. And women shaving their legs wasn’t even a thing until the 1940s in the U.S. Human bodies have hair on them, it’s perfectly normal and healthy… and I barely even have leg hair! I am well aware of all of this, and yet I can’t escape the feeling that something is wrong with me if there is any noticeable hair on my legs🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️ npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose Humans are a social species. We are pretty much always caught in one form of groupthink/mass psychosis or another. ...Always. You can’t escape it, it’s how we are wired. The best option is to be very aware of it. So tell me, which groupthinks are you currently caught in? npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose Americans tend to have a sort of anti accountability fantasy. They want to be so ‘above’ everyone else that they are accountable to no one. But this is an adolescent fantasy, once you live a bit you realize how out of line with reality it is. An employee is accountable to their manager. The manager is accountable to the CEO. The CEO is accountable to the VC’s. The VC’s are accountable to their investors. Around and around it goes. You will never find a job, a title, that makes you accountable to no one. And even if you could, what a horrifically lonely life that would be. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose https://blossom.primal.net/fe8a9b3c7399c5dfdb75f71b65145241e4581ba4b82c9e50487228ef65b39a49.jpg npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose FYI, having an IUD inserted is at least a 5x more difficult experience than getting the side of your head tattooed. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose Marry someone with a good sense of humor. The vast majority of the time you spend with your spouse won’t be on luxurious Italian vacations, or sipping wine at a fancy restaurant. Most of your time together will be spent changing diapers, and debating who’s turn it is to switch the laundry, and adding milk to the shopping list, and filling out health insurance forms. And you definitely want to be doing all that with someone who can have a laugh about it. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose You weren’t wrong, you just missed the 5! So one time, after a therapy appointment, I was pondering all the things that I have been "wrong" about in life, and I learned something very interesting. I don't think I've ever been wrong, but I have often been short sighted. I will see 2 & 2 and say that the answer to this dilemma is 4. Which is absolutely correct, 2 + 2 = 4!!! I am right. But after years of others insisting that the answer is 9, I finally one day stumbled onto a 5 in the equation. So of course 2 + 2 = 4, but I hadn't realized that there was also a 5 hiding in the corner. And when you add that in, then, yup, the answer is 9. Do you see what I mean? npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose I like that! Unfortunately that is not how the word is generally used, at least in American Christianity. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose A lot of people absorbed the idea that “I was wrong” = “I’m a horrible person”. Unfortunately a lot of religion leans into this. In religion “I was wrong” = “I sinned” = “I’m going to be punished by god” ...which is of course terrifying! npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose This is mostly true. The details here are that the new death penalty law does not explicitly apply only to Palestinians, but effectively does. The new law applies to military courts where only Palestinians are tried. Israeli citizens and residents including Jewish settlers are not subject to military courts. Also there is some due process, appeals are allowed, though they must be heard by a special court, and it seems that the standard procedural safeguards have been weakened. But the law does prohibit mitigation, commutation, or pardon, and it sets a 90-day deadline for execution after a final judgment. And of course the Holocaust comparison is a matter of opinion. https://blossom.primal.net/3fdc944c684b8d921cafc13a78d1a7fde7b3492573395929c2da50788fa3cd1b.jpg npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose https://blossom.primal.net/e0b9d8a594e0a64dc1561fa19e41a3b559290e374aff36a989af02161221ab6c.jpg npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose https://blossom.primal.net/eb0b691e1bb1d9cdbcf02dd21574ef357295cf2ea35b38d6c418834c5e32d145.jpg npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose Fashion things that make no sense and I'm done with... High heels - Like why would you intentionally cripple yourself??? Purses that you have to actually hold with one hand - We invented the cross body strap thousands of years ago! npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose One time I accidentally read my daughters diary… but in her diary she was confessing to having read my diary!!! So that left me in a bind. I had found some pages that looked like they were ripped out of a notebook in a trash can. I was curious about what it was so I picked it up to read it. It was an existential analysis of an anime… and then a confession to having read my diary! But she didn’t read much of my diary cuz it was very boring, apparently all I wrote were complaints about Twitter! 🤣 Accurate. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose I keep waking up with this song stuck in my head 🤔 https://youtu.be/eAR_Ff5A8Rk npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose ya, I'm just not getting how your comment is relevant to the meme. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose I don't think that's possible as the texts themselves are contradctory. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose What ya mean? A gun is just a tool for a human. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose https://blossom.primal.net/3978f9e0aa1f0ceedb8ec14b74d90933556b11ccb7298d61058092dfb6dacad9.jpg npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose The three main Abrahamic religions are Judaism, Christianity, and Islam. All of their ‘holy books’ contain patriarchal and homophobic passages. All of these religions can be and are practiced in both a very moderate, non-hateful, ways and in very extremist ways. Let’s look at those holy books! Now we need a disclaimer, these books are not of the same length, there are different versions, and different scholars interpret passages differently. Book length: Bible: 31,102 verses total Quran: 6,236 verses Torah: 23,198 in the full Hebrew Bible Patriarchal passages: Bible: 20–25+ texts Quran: 6–8 key legal texts Torah: 15–20+ texts Homophobic passages: Bible: 6–7 verses Quran: No explicit prohibition Torah: 2 verses npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose okay, send links. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose https://blossom.primal.net/6c7e824cd2197c6fe67a2ab5499dcefcce56e497c6a740993842fceb43724bca.jpg npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose We just insist on seeing a “good guy” and a “bad guy” in every situation. We love the simplicity. But really, 90% of the time, it’s “bad guy” vs “currently worse bad guy” and this is just such a great example. Here I would call Candice the bad guy and this Andrew dude the currently worse bad guy. https://blossom.primal.net/3c116407f3dbc7a3cf571527b90228ecc4e625824a026dbeb256ac3fd5ae850d.png npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose I think whoever made this doesn't understand rape or consent. And I will now mute you for wasting my time. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose this post was for people like you. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose cool, and that would be hitting on someone and not harassing them! npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose ...like out of the blue? uninvited? That certainly deserves some reports! npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose You do realize that women can flirt with men... or men can flirt with men, etc. ya? npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose O I posted on facebook about how this guy was flirting with me at a cafe this morning and then the comments started rolling in... 'metoo killed flirting' 'you would have called that harassment if you thought he was ugly', etc. etc. Just wild amounts of ignorance and butt hurt. Disturbing. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose socking ignorance and alarming rates of butt hurtness. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose Okay, some of y’all need to repeat after me… The difference between flirtation and harassment is respect. The difference between flirtation and harassment is respect. The difference between flirtation and harassment is respect. The difference between flirtation and harassment is respect. The difference between flirtation and harassment is respect. The difference between flirtation and harassment is respect. The difference between flirtation and harassment is respect. The difference between flirtation and harassment is respect. The difference between flirtation and harassment is respect. The difference between flirtation and harassment is respect. The difference between flirtation and harassment is respect. The difference between flirtation and harassment is respect. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose Fucking terrifying how many people still don't understand that there is a difference between flirtation and harassment. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose https://blossom.primal.net/65443c5cde862e5a209f692520b946797823de64cbc7879e756eb61119c5d52f.png npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose This morning I’m remembering that one time I was reading about ancient civilizations and noticed that one of my favorites, the Indus Valley Civilization, didn’t appear on the list that the LLM gave me. When I dug into why I discovered that a lot of times, if a clear hierarchy can’t be found(as in the Indus Valley) then it is decided that group of people were not a civilization… that’s right, researchers are out here equating hierarchy with civilization. Funny, cuz I’d argue for the opposite. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose Randomly remembering the one time I put my dog on a carnivore diet and she got really pissed at me about it. Not even dogs like the carnivore diet. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose https://blossom.primal.net/ed6360989ccf30257c66de744f3d9fdf1c13c2b1f7e2c4b44d388ba706a72485.jpg npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose https://blossom.primal.net/e5c5dec2d6da9119144c9f58b4f9eb0d0d7d0c3c379f307e90b8201f8a03008a.jpg npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose wait how did I get tagged in this? And why would using Lightning suppress the value of Bitcoin? npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose people who chose to get abortions are nearly always considering these things. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose stealing this! npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose "Tricking people into isolating themselves and cutting off their families so that the therapist has control over their lives" I have not seen any evidence that this happens in any significant way. I'm sure there is some awful person out there doing this, but it seems to me to be wildly out of alignment with reality to think that is common. But if ya got the evidence then please send it my way. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose a. Agency and autonomy. codependency reduces agency and autonomy while a healthy relationship gives you more. There are shitty therapists just like there are shitting people in any industry. But generally speaking, someone is motivated to become a therapist because they want to help people. b. Through my study in psychology I learned that the number one predictor of health and happiness is the quality of your relationships! With that data I was then able to dedicate more time and effort to improving my relationships and my interpersonal conflict resolution skills and I"m a healthier happier person for it. So yes, of course support groups (assuming they are healthy groups) will have the best outcomes. Humans are a social species. And it is studies in psychology that proves this to us. ...reproducible studies. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose okay, please explain to me what my opinions are here. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose I think that you must encounter theses sorts of things often and so you expect to find them. And then I said something that sounded familiar and you made an assumption. I think you actually have no idea what my thoughts on this topic are. And you haven't asked. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose I did? npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose That's so male. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose ...I don't get it. Why am I tagged here? What did I do? npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose And there it is. Ya see? Abortion is a very revealing topic! npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose that is shit. But what is shitty in this story is the coercion. I hope the therapists were decent. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose No I stand by my assessment here. Please learn to care about the lives and well being of women. Women to not exist to carry children, they exist for their own ends. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose I’m so annoyed at there being so many people who hate psychology and therapy. I think y’all just don’t know what you are talking about. “Therapy just teaches you to blame others”: Not at all. Therapists are all like “let’s focus on what you can control.” “Therapists encourage people to go no-contact with their parents”: Not in my experience. I’ve never had a therapist do anything besides encourage me to accept my parents the way in which they are. “Everything in psychology is fake, it’s a reproducibility crisis”: It’s not a crisis, it’s how science works. You have a hypothesis, you test it, if your tests confirms your hypothesis then other scientists try to reproduce it. If they can’t reproduce it then it’s back to the drawing board, if they can reproduce it then its a confirmed theory. It would be a crisis if no one was doing the science and trying to reproduce findings. And many things in psychology are proven accurate/effective via reproducible studies. “Freud was a creep”: Yes! Also pretty much everyone knows that and a lot of his theories have been discredited. Pretty much no one is doing Freud style therapy anymore. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose right women must sacrifice themselves... cuz we don't value their lives and well being. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose https://blossom.primal.net/89e17516de608d5973c38dc3ffb6588f535e4fcc968ada9fe643518217d24692.jpg npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose your lack of care for the lives and well being of women and an inability to hold complexities in life. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose and you are suggesting installing locks that don't work. why would you do that? npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose Feelings will impact what we see as reason. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose Bitcoin isn't your house. It's not my house. You and I don't have to the right to decide what does and does not have access to block space. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose That filters don't work and that clearly this fork wasn't going to work either. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose Not getting caught in groupthink isn’t a matter of intelligence, it’s a matter of maturity and self awareness. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose BIP110 fascinates me. Not from a technical perspective but from a psychological one. Technically it's always been clear, and yet I’ve watched very technical, highly intelligent people get trapped in it. We over value raw intelligence and seriously undervalue emotional maturity. Not getting caught in groupthink isn’t a matter of intelligence, it’s a matter of maturity and self awareness. Humans have a big fucking issue with mania and groupthink. We expect that in places like politics but we are often blind to it in fields like science and technology. But groupthink exists anywhere that humans exist. Many years ago I became a technological determinist and decided that the best way to improve the world was to build tech. But these days sometimes I think it might be a better idea to go get a degree in psychology. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose that's a very revealing opinion. npub1tv5j2h2742ht2a6490cdzypsxah5wlge5qyutadgphw884ynt8mqg4jlst hmichellerose https://blossom.primal.net/7fef215f0920c575bdb7d5df50344e88a7c109fc72982c39a84139a72bb5cc38.jpg