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2026-05-31 00:08:14 GMT

An Afternoon with Vera
By now it seems that every fashion / lifestyle magazine has done some variation on the ‘Day with a Dominatrix’ article. Today it’s the turn of Australia’s Fashion Journal with this article featuring Vera Beaufort. I’m featuring it here because I think it’s one of the better examples of its kind. Less sensational and voyeuristic … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/05/31/an-afternoon-with-vera/
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2026-05-29 00:12:10 GMT

Insignificant
Here’s a scene idea for those who prefer their humiliation to come with a philosophical slant. It’s by the cartoonist and graphical novelist Erica Sjule (also on Instagram).
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/05/29/insignificant/

2026-05-26 23:32:03 GMT

Virgin Island
Virgin Island is a reality TV show from the UK featuring 12 virgins on a 3 week intimacy retreat. Their virginity is unwanted and so the viewer gets to watch them work with sex therapists/surrogates and overcome their issues around intimacy. It sounds like the kind of show I’d absolutely hate and watching it would … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/05/26/virgin-island/
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2026-05-24 23:58:42 GMT

Career Women
This is an old comic from a 1956 edition of Army & Navy Fun Parade. Obviously, given the patriarchal nature of America in the 50’s, this was a bit of absurd humor. A laugh at the crazy idea of a career woman with a house husband in a pinny. However, I wonder, did a few … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/05/24/career-women/
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2026-05-22 14:06:42 GMT

Luggage
As I’m currently traveling, this seemed an appropriate image to share. One wonders what the storage arrangement inside the train is. Getting him into an overhead luggage bin would seem tricky. I’m picturing a special luggage van with rows of lock points for the wheels and the handle. Perfect for safely transporting all the slaves … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/05/22/luggage/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/05/22/luggage/

2026-05-19 22:21:05 GMT

A Stupid Step
Given I’m currently visiting the UK, it seems appropriate to rant about their increasingly stupid pornography laws. Last year they were targeting a ban on depictions of choking. Earlier this year they went after depictions of sex acts between step family members. That last one is particularly stupid because they’re banning the fictional depiction of … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/05/19/a-stupid-step/
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2026-05-18 00:28:33 GMT

Bark
My vacation is going well, which hasn’t left a lot of time for blogging. Hopefully, I can carve out some more time in next few days. In the meantime here’s some very cute and sexy artwork from the artist adeline.
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/05/18/bark/

2026-05-14 17:47:07 GMT

On the Road
My last post on the stress of submitting web forms on pro-domme websites was based on a true story. I’m off on vacation and had spent the last few weeks making contact with a couple of dommes I was interested in playing with. I will hasten to add that they were prompt in response, easy … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/05/14/on-the-road-2/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/05/14/on-the-road-2/

2026-05-12 09:14:09 GMT

First Time Jitters
What’s the most anxiety inducing part about meeting up with a new pro-domme? Is it finding her playspace the first time, using whatever set of hoops you have to jump through for that? Is it the moment you first go to knock on her door? Or maybe the moment just after getting naked and just … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/05/12/first-time-jitters/
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2026-05-11 09:17:34 GMT

Black, Chrome and Flesh
Starting the week with some visual loveliness here, courtesy of Audrey Fatale. The tones here are beautiful, all black leather, shiny chrome and naked flesh. Looks like a wonderful place to be. This was posted to Twitter by Audrey here.
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/05/11/black-chrome-and-flesh/

2026-05-08 09:41:19 GMT

Extreme Restraint
I’m continuing the theme of extreme scenes that started with my last post. This time it’s a scene based purely around restraint and imprisonment – 19 days in a padded cell. The scene is almost exactly as the title suggests. Meaning there’s no sexual activity, no break to play and no significant human contact. Just … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/05/08/extreme-restraint/
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2026-05-06 07:07:39 GMT

Hardcore
An important lesson to learn early in any kinky journey is that no matter how hardcore you think your activity is, somewhere out there, somebody is doing a far more extreme version. I think learning that can temper the initial inclination to always keep pushing limits. It becomes more about finding the right limits for … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/05/06/hardcore/
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2026-05-04 09:49:43 GMT

Pulpy Goodness
I always enjoy this kind of pulpy cover art from the 50’s and 60’s. It was an era where mainstream media was incredibly straight and conservative, at least compared to the media of today. And yet, the pulp magazine publishers apparently discovered the cheat code for using kinky sex to sell magazines in mainstream stores. … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/05/04/pulpy-goodness/
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2026-05-02 00:29:12 GMT

More Mummification
I hadn’t intended two posts on this topic, but here we are. Part of the reason is that Cosmopolitan also posted an article on it, and it contains just as much handwringing as they other articles I referenced in the last post. Apparently wrapping someone’s body in plastic wrap is a super advanced kink that … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/05/02/more-mummification/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/05/02/more-mummification/

2026-04-29 09:29:29 GMT

Euphoria
The HBO show Euphoria is generating a bunch of coverage for its depictions of kink. It’s not a show I care to watch, so I’ve no idea how fair (or not) its coverage is. If the goal is controversy and debate, it’s certainly managed that. The latest kink it has drawn on is mummification. That … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/04/29/euphoria/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/04/29/euphoria/

2026-04-27 09:52:09 GMT

Ada
As regular readers may know, I occasionally like to feature women who weren’t sexually dominant (as far as we know) but were amazing and impactful historical figures. For example, a couple of past examples include Julie d’Aubigny and Beryl Swain. Today, inspired by this article on the Blue Stocking site, I’m featuring another – Ada … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/04/27/ada/
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2026-04-25 07:25:24 GMT

Dreaming
From a modern artist in my last post to a vintage one in this. The artist here is Bernard Montorgueil, whose work dates back to the 1930’s. I think this is lovely idea for a drawing. You have the sleeping man and his dream, a beautifully attired but translucent domme riding his naked body. This … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/04/25/dreaming/
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2026-04-23 07:14:08 GMT

Kami Tora Appreciation
I was left a comment by marc on this post pointing out that Kami Tora’s website had gone offline. I’ve also not seen any new content in his very distinctive style for a good while. That’s a huge shame, as I’ve always enjoyed his blend of the playful and the erotic. Lots of tease, denial, … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/04/23/kami-tora-appreciation/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/04/23/kami-tora-appreciation/

2026-04-21 08:53:04 GMT

Medication
I was amused to spot this vintage ad targeting doctors prescribing Valium (via reddit). Apparently relating well to women with domineering traits was a thing men needed medication for back in the 1960s. It’s a good job we live in (slightly) more enlightened times, or I’d be dosed up to my eyeballs. Although in my … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/04/21/medication/
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2026-04-18 09:24:45 GMT

A Moment
Here’s a moment captured. Something lovely to start the weekend. I originally stumbled across it via tumblr, but a bit of reverse image searching tells me this is Madame Lule, a Paris based Dominatrix and BDSM coach. She has any number of similarly striking photographs on her site, which is well worth exploring. If you’re … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/04/18/a-moment/
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2026-04-16 09:07:14 GMT

Sleepytime
I’m always intrigued to discover new kinks I’ve not heard of before. After 20+ years on odd corners of the kinky internet this doesn’t happen too often, but occasionally I’m still surprised. For example, today I discovered Anesthesia is a kink. I obviously knew of medical fetishism and breathplay, but hadn’t realized that the drugs … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/04/16/sleepytime/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/04/16/sleepytime/

2026-04-14 08:24:03 GMT

Down with the Lurgy
Apologies for the lack of recent posts. I came down with some stupid bug a few days ago and have been feeling pretty terrible ever since. It’s just a heavy cold, but I’m a bad patient and tend to retire to the couch and do nothing when I’m sick. Hopefully it’ll pass in the next … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/04/14/down-with-the-lurgy/
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2026-04-10 08:30:23 GMT

Storage
I thought this was a pretty hot variation on a cage design. The outside is a standard cage, which is turned into a box with side panels, which in turn have slots for the shelves with limb/neck cut-outs. Combine it with the right bondage gear and it’d be a highly objectifying set-up. Just imagine the … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/04/10/storage/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/04/10/storage/

2026-04-09 06:49:53 GMT

Shiny Maid
I’m continuing the maid theme from the last post with this image. As I’ve mentioned before, the French maid outfit isn’t really one of my kinks. However, if I was going to do it, this’d definitely be the way to go. I love how tight, shiny and restrictive this is. It’s both objectifying and aesthetically … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/04/09/shiny-maid/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/04/09/shiny-maid/

2026-04-07 06:38:39 GMT

Nothing Good
There’s been a lot of jokes about Kristi and Byron Noem in the last week. For anyone that missed it, Byron was outed for being into some mix of crossdressing / bimbo/ sissy fetish. Allegedly Kristi was also fucking her advisor Cory Lewandowski, so there’s also some potential for a cuckold kink in the mix … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/04/07/nothing-good/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/04/07/nothing-good/

2026-04-05 09:44:05 GMT

In His Happy Place
Some beautiful artwork for the weekend. This seemed fitting to continue the theme from the last post. It’s by the artist Luen as shared here. The colors in it are wonderfully vibrant. You can find more from the artist on Bluesky and on Subscribe Star. They also have some fun kinky stuff available on Etsy. … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/04/05/in-his-happy-place/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/04/05/in-his-happy-place/

2026-04-03 07:47:12 GMT

Medical Miracle
I found this Guardian article on the mapping of the clitoral nerves amazing. Unfortunately, I don’t mean that in a good way. The bits that amazed me were… The clitoris did not even make it into standard anatomy textbooks until the 20th century. In the 38th edition of Gray’s Anatomy in 1995 it was introduced … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/04/03/medical-miracle/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/04/03/medical-miracle/

2026-03-31 09:03:12 GMT

A Last Sniff
Finishing up my series of scent themed posts with a bottom shot. Although I feel that part of the body is in a bit of a different category to the others featured. Armpits, genitals and (to a lesser extent) feet have an ongoing natural odor. Unless you’ve just got our the shower or have gone … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/03/31/a-last-sniff/
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2026-03-29 08:09:53 GMT

Sniffing the Pits
I’m continuing the scent theme from the last couple of posts. After previously featuring panties and shoes, we’ve moving up the body to that other great scent center – armpits. I think they’re more of a niche interested compared to the previous sources, but they definitely have their fans. I couldn’t decide which image to … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/03/29/sniffing-the-pits/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/03/29/sniffing-the-pits/

2026-03-28 09:41:17 GMT

More Sniffs
That last post has inspired me to do a series on a scent theme. I don’t think I’ve done one of those before. Scent is one of those things that held little interest for me when I started exploring kink. Now – for reasons I can’t explain – it has turned into a major kink. … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/03/28/more-sniffs/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/03/28/more-sniffs/

2026-03-26 09:40:31 GMT

Sniff
A post by Bacchus over at ErosBlog made me laugh: His Yum For Her Panty-Scent Yucked her. It started with a woman dumping her boyfriend because he sniffed her panties. Gigi on TikTok responded with a video that expressed some incredulity at that reaction. Quoting a bit from the transcription Bacchus provided…. “Girl, you just … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/03/26/sniff/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/03/26/sniff/

2026-03-24 09:29:04 GMT

Ineffective but Fun
A little humor here from the War and Peas comic. The jellyfish thing is sadly a myth. So if you want to get peed on – and I’m definitely a fan of that – you’ll need another excuse. Maybe we can start a rumor it’s the perfect cure for a headache? Or stubbed toes? I’m … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/03/24/ineffective-but-fun/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/03/24/ineffective-but-fun/

2026-03-22 09:17:36 GMT

Maid Service
I don’t feature a lot of the classic (or cliched, depending on your point of view) French Maid femdom genre. There are exceptions, but it’s generally not my thing. It often leans into a humiliation dynamic that doesn’t typically resonate for me. Plus, I hate dusting and polishing. All that said, I have been really … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/03/22/maid-service/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/03/22/maid-service/

2026-03-19 08:52:42 GMT

A Right Rogering
It’s that time of year again. Tax season. My friendly tax preparer (actually recommended to me by a domme!) sent me the details today. Ouch. Normally when I get screwed it’s a lot more fun. There’s something particularly annoying about it this year. It’s one thing if I can imagine it going towards healthcare or … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/03/19/a-right-rogering/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/03/19/a-right-rogering/

2026-03-16 09:00:17 GMT

The Littlest Pervert
I’m not exactly sure what this is. Weird femdom macrophilia porn? Strange fashion shot? An artistic statement about the perverse and exploitative nature of men? Whatever it is, it made me laugh. The originally source is Lui Magazine all the way back in 1988. I sourced it via labstrakts tumblr which, after being dormant for … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/03/16/the-littlest-pervert/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/03/16/the-littlest-pervert/

2026-03-13 09:00:53 GMT

Nice Units
Kicking off the weekend with a touch of humor. This is from Luck of the Draw Comics. The imperial system of measurement being designed by someone focused on satisfying their kinks would explain a lot about it. Although having said that, the meter was defined as “one ten-millionth of the shortest distance from the North … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/03/13/nice-units/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/03/13/nice-units/

2026-03-11 07:49:01 GMT

It won’t hurt a bit
Continuing the theme of AI imagery and kinky niches: Another group that has benefited is kinksters into medical fetish. Photographing those kind of scenes requires pretty specialized locations and equipment. AI might produce a fair number of wonky scalpels, but it makes creating fantasy backgrounds and furniture a lot easier. I’ve mentioned Velvet Lash before, … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/03/11/it-wont-hurt-a-bit/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/03/11/it-wont-hurt-a-bit/

2026-03-09 09:39:04 GMT

Size Matters
While AI continues to spread its slop across the internet, there are a few kinky groups who seem to be benefitting. One is those is the Macrophiles. That was definitely a niche kink for content in the past. AI has made it easy to create a lot of new material. For example, the shot below … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/03/09/size-matters-2/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/03/09/size-matters-2/

2026-03-06 08:41:52 GMT

Chyrpe
Chaining yourself to railings is a time honored protest technique. Femdom dating app Chyrpe gave it a new twist this week, using it as a marketing stunt on Camden Town High Street. They had a bunch of guys wear femdom themed t-shirts chain themselves to lampposts and railings. According to the app’s marketing officer… “Suddenly … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/03/06/chyrpe/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/03/06/chyrpe/

2026-03-04 07:55:31 GMT

Home is where the Dungeon is
For anyone thinking about building their own home playspace, the NY Times has an article with some inspiration in it. It’s more of a lifestyle piece than a how to guide, but it’s always nice to see a positive mainstream BDSM article, even if it does include the obligatory 50 shades reference. For NYC based … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/03/04/home-is-where-the-dungeon-is/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/03/04/home-is-where-the-dungeon-is/

2026-03-02 10:52:28 GMT

Pretty Whines
Something cute and sexy to start the week. This is by the artist Smutty Rogue, as featured here on Bluesky. I’ve been in a tease/denial kind of headspace recently, so this definitely appeals. You can find more from the artist via Bluesky and on their Patreon.
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/03/02/pretty-whines/

2026-02-28 09:37:02 GMT

Lydia and Owk
Here’s a final (for the moment) trip back down memory lane. In this case it’s a double header. The site in question (despite the image logo) is OWK aka The Other World Kingdom. Possibly the only Femdom site with its own Wikipedia page. They launched in the late 90’s and have published a huge amount … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/02/28/lydia-and-owk/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/02/28/lydia-and-owk/

2026-02-25 09:16:37 GMT

Julia Jameson and Leda
I couldn’t do a series of posts from femdom in the 90’s and not feature anything from Leda. This catalogue cover page feature Julia Jameson, one of their most featured dommes and a notoriously hard spanker! Funny to think that this dates to before the first widely used internet browsers (Mosaic in ’93). Publishing a … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/02/25/julia-jameson-and-leda/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/02/25/julia-jameson-and-leda/

2026-02-23 10:34:07 GMT

Continuing to Look Back
I thought I’d continue the 90’s theme from the last post. This is the unmistakable Isabella Sinclaire. I’m not exactly sure on the date or source of this image, but I’d guess it’s from the late 90’s. Her Ivy Manor series with Jewell Marceau from the early 2000’s was a treasured VHS possession of mine. … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/02/23/continuing-to-look-back/
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2026-02-21 10:33:23 GMT

Old School Ashtray
Stumbling across the image on a tumblr was a trip down memory lane. This is the inimitable Miss Chambers (as featured in past posts) shooting for Cruella/Goddess magazines back in the mid-90’s. I don’t know exactly when or where this shot was taken, but I’m fairly certain that’s where it dates to. I’ve written before … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/02/21/old-school-ashtray/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/02/21/old-school-ashtray/

2026-02-17 10:39:57 GMT

Evil Sophia
Here’s a new (to this blog) artist to check out – SerTheCatKnight. He’s a French BDSM artist. His work covers a mix of kinks and couplings, but there’s a lot of nice Femdom or Femdom adjacent material in there. I was actually tempted to post this image for Valentine’s day. After all, what could be … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/02/17/evil-sophia/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/02/17/evil-sophia/

2026-02-15 10:31:39 GMT

That Holiday Again
Valentine’s Day has rolled around again. I can’t say I’m a fan. For single people it means being reminded that your single. For couples it’s pressure to deliver something special or overspend on a commercial romantic gestures. I know some people manage to make it work, but that seems the exception rather than the rule. … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/02/15/that-holiday-again/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/02/15/that-holiday-again/

2026-02-12 10:38:08 GMT

Masochistic Hook-ups.
I thought this was an interesting Guardian article: I spent years meeting strangers for masochistic hook-ups. Was I a sex addict? It’s written by Leesa Morris, describing her experiences with the aforementioned hook-ups. She left a vanilla marriage and leaned in hard to her kinks and desires. In fact she leaned in so hard that … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/02/12/masochistic-hook-ups/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/02/12/masochistic-hook-ups/

2026-02-10 10:00:37 GMT

Second Skin
Fans of fetish, in particular its history and meaning, might want to check out a new book called ‘Second Skin’ by Anastasiia Fedorova. I discovered it via this LA Times review. It also got positive coverage in places like Cosmo and Dazed. I’ve not yet got hold of a copy yet myself, but it seems … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/02/10/second-skin/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/02/10/second-skin/

2026-02-06 09:17:30 GMT

Banging Heads
Here’s Wonder Woman fulfilling a common fantasy – cracking some political heads together. I’m sure we’ve all dreamed of doing this. Particularly with the current bunch of criminals in power. The artist is H. G. Peter. He’s credited as the co-creator of Wonder Woman, alongside William Marston. Having just looked up his details, I was … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/02/06/banging-heads/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/02/06/banging-heads/

2026-02-04 09:16:41 GMT

Getting Picked, a How To Guide
Miss Pearl (via Bluesky) pointed me towards this excellent Reddit post. It’s a guide for what a submissive needs to do in order to get picked by a domme for kinky shenanigans. The advice is practical and to the point. I particularly like this bit… A long lasting relationship is built on two people knowing … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/02/04/getting-picked-a-how-to-guide/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/02/04/getting-picked-a-how-to-guide/

2026-02-01 10:24:09 GMT

Hopscotch
This drawing reminded me of carpet guy – an infamous NYC submissive who used to like being trampled while wrapped in a carpet. I featured a post on him back in 2013. He was well known among the NYC dommes for many years even before that. I hope he’s still around and turning up at … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/02/01/hopscotch/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/02/01/hopscotch/

2026-01-30 09:49:41 GMT

Accessorizing
What caught my eye in this image wasn’t the latex, bondage and milking device, yummy though all those things are. It wasn’t even Lady Delphine’s shiny and beautiful bottom or cascading red hair. What caught me eye was the crutches and eye chart on the wall. I can’t imagine they’d ever be useful for a … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/01/30/accessorizing/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/01/30/accessorizing/

2026-01-28 09:06:57 GMT

I Want Your Sex
A film featuring Olivia Wilde as a domme who pegs, spanks and bullies her junior assistant sounds like a winner. That’s the premise of the erotic comedy ‘I Want Your Sex’ which recently premiered at the Sundance festival. Unfortunately, the reviews so far (Daily Beast here and Guardian here) are mid to poor, which is … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/01/28/i-want-your-sex/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/01/28/i-want-your-sex/

2026-01-26 10:04:55 GMT

Fido
My last post was all about the cute, frilly and fun. This one is – less so. The two images make a good example of the breadth of femdom fun. Both in respect to kinks and artistic approach. The artist is Coomer Comics. They have a Patreon but it doesn’t seem to have been updated … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/01/26/fido/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/01/26/fido/

2026-01-22 09:18:51 GMT

Frilly
Here’s something from a new (to me) artist – sorrowmi. It’s very cute and a nice example of how to make frilly underwear look great on a guy. That slit in the back of panties could spell trouble for him. The only source I’ve found for sorrowmi’s work is their Twitter feed.
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/01/22/frilly/

2026-01-20 10:22:26 GMT

Pillar Bondage
This beautifully composed image comes courtesy of Contessa Klaudia Keys. It’s not the most complicated bondage, but it’s visually very satisfying. There’s something quite objectifying about being bound to a building pillar like this. iIt makes him part of the room. Contessa Klaudia Keys is a Montreal based pro-domme. You can find her professional site … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/01/20/pillar-bondage/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/01/20/pillar-bondage/

2026-01-18 10:46:10 GMT

Hostage Situation
In theory this might make a good candidate for my occasional ‘Fetish or Fashion?‘ series. Unfortunately, I’ve no idea which of those it is. I found it on tumblr and reverse image search has (as usual these days) failed me. Google’s stupid AI system claimed the man was Kevin Costner at the Golden Globes, so … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/01/18/hostage-situation/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/01/18/hostage-situation/

2026-01-13 10:18:50 GMT

Taint Zapper
A device for administering electrical shocks to a man’s taint is par for the course on this site. Just another Tuesday. However, the one featured in this Verge article is a little different. Allegedly it’s not designed as a BDSM toy at all. Instead it’s intended to help men avoid premature ejaculation. I guess it’s … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/01/13/taint-zapper/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/01/13/taint-zapper/

2026-01-11 10:19:25 GMT

Marks of Affection
Here’s a cute drawing for the weekend. He’s clearly been on the end of a good healthy whipping. Left with something for him to admire and her to poke at. I think this is by the artist strawderryst.
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/01/11/marks-of-affection/

2026-01-09 09:56:02 GMT

Alternative Playspace
The image below isn’t a trendy new loft in Soho but the new gorgeous new playspace of Mistress Adreena Angela. It’s cool, sleek and unlike any professional playspace I’ve seen before. There is a sturdy eyelet set into the beam, but other than that there’s nothing to raise the eyebrows of an unsuspected guest. Or … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/01/09/alternative-playspace/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/01/09/alternative-playspace/

2026-01-07 10:00:07 GMT

Cosmo Moment
Cosmopolitan Magazine has an article out celebrating femdom and male submission as the ‘hot new thing.’ It always makes me happy to see positive femdom coverage in mainstream media. Destigmatizing it for women who might want to give it a try is great. At the same time, these kind of articles tend to have their … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/01/07/cosmo-moment/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/01/07/cosmo-moment/

2026-01-05 10:28:27 GMT

Moving from the bad place
Circe has provided some useful suggestions for encouraging people to move from the bad place (aka Twitter) to Bluesky. There’s a list for sex workers and one for clients. Worth sharing if you’re on social media. I have to admit I find it frustrating when people complain a bunch about Trump, Musk and the current … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/01/05/moving-from-the-bad-place/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/01/05/moving-from-the-bad-place/

2026-01-03 10:19:45 GMT

The right amount of comfy
There’s something particularly hot about a small beaten up bed in a big cage like this. If a cell looks too comfy then it gives off the wrong vibe. But if it looks too minimal then it runs into my inner realist. I know my 50 year old back and knees couldn’t survive on a … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/01/03/the-right-amount-of-comfy/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2026/01/03/the-right-amount-of-comfy/

2025-12-31 22:34:51 GMT

Happy 2026
Crazy to think we’ve reached 2026. That seems like the kind of date I’d see in a Sci-Fi novel not on a calendar. Shame it has turned out to be the dystopian kind of Sci-Fi. Anyway, let’s not end this crazy year on a down note. Hope everyone has a great 2026, with as much … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/12/31/happy-2026/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/12/31/happy-2026/

2025-12-30 10:34:26 GMT

Fake Cock
I don’t feature a lot of ruined orgasm material here. That’s not because I don’t think it’s hot. It’s actually a kink I love and have played with in sessions. The problem is that it works better as a video or animated gif, and I don’t want to put those bandwidth hogs on my frontpage. … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/12/30/fake-cock/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/12/30/fake-cock/

2025-12-28 10:48:55 GMT

A good night’s sleep
I always appreciate a seriously kinky scene rendered in an unusual or unexpected style. This reminds me of the kind of illustration you’d find in an old children’s book. Something involving magical rings or secret doorways. It’s an Edwardian tale of a plucky girl, her emotionally distant Uncle, the stern but caring housekeeper and, of … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/12/28/a-good-nights-sleep/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/12/28/a-good-nights-sleep/

2025-12-24 10:08:20 GMT

Naughty Boy
Continuing the festive themed femdom comics – here’s something from creator MyGumsAreBleeding. It’s not quite as cuddly as yesterday’s post, but it did make me smile. Santa is clearly a switch given this and the previous comic. You can find more from the creator on Reddit, their Patreon and Instagram. I’ve particularly enjoyed his series … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/12/24/naughty-boy/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/12/24/naughty-boy/

2025-12-23 09:57:31 GMT

Mistress Clause
Tis the season for kinky artists to give us Christmas themed smut. In this case it’s Jo (featured previously here) with a big old candy cane for Santa. I like the fact Santa has kept his festive socks on and Mistress Clause has some cookies close at hand. Presumably in order to keep her energy … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/12/23/mistress-clause/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/12/23/mistress-clause/

2025-12-19 08:05:02 GMT

Edging
This comic – by Luck of the Draw – made be smile. However, at the risk of being pedantic about a comic, there is a significant flaw in the premise. As I covered in my last post, arranging to meet a pro-domme for the first time is not a trivial thing. Anyone shooting Dawn a … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/12/19/edging/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/12/19/edging/

2025-12-17 09:20:31 GMT

Introductions
Playing with Domina Sophie Agenoux required me to do something I rarely do these days: Introduce myself. When I visit a city I typically play with people I already know. For example, Tess and Troy in NYC and Domina Yuki in SF. Setting up a session there just requires an email exchange to figure out … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/12/17/introductions/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/12/17/introductions/

2025-12-14 22:53:43 GMT

Sessions with Domina Sophie Agenoux
I’ve returned to the cold of Seattle after two weeks of California sun. While I’m already missing the warmth, I do have some happy kinky memories to look back on. The original impetus for my trip was a friend’s birthday, but I extended it to open up some session opportunities. Specifically, the chance to session … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/12/14/sessions-with-domina-sophie-agenoux/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/12/14/sessions-with-domina-sophie-agenoux/

2025-12-12 01:47:11 GMT

Fashion and Money
If there’s ever an attempt to assign kinks to places, findomme would be a shoe in (ahem) for Beverly Hills. There’s money, high fashion and an endless number of elegant, well dressed women shoppers whose natural resting expression is disdainful. At least, that was my observations from a day’s shopping there. Even the assistants at … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/12/12/fashion-and-money/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/12/12/fashion-and-money/

2025-12-10 08:19:56 GMT

Vacation in Progress
I spent last week hanging out with friends in Palm Springs. This week I’m in LA, getting my kink on in the sun, with a few sessions spaced over several days. Hopefully, assuming it’s agreeable to the domme I’m seeing, I’ll be able to share some details in upcoming posts. In the meantime here’s a … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/12/10/vacation-in-progress/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/12/10/vacation-in-progress/

2025-12-08 08:23:19 GMT

The Inside Story
I’ve written here before about the Pornocalypse and the tendency of platforms to shift from supporting sex workers to being overtly hostile. The performer and model Ariel Anderssen has written this excellent substack article on this phenomena from her expert and insider perspective. Her subtitle of ‘On the godforsaken cowardice of porn sites’ captures the … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/12/08/the-inside-story/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/12/08/the-inside-story/

2025-12-04 08:09:08 GMT

Cupcake
Whilst I love food and I love kink, I don’t typically love combining them. I just don’t have the food related kinks like sploshing and feeding. However, I do love this video from Contessa Klaudia Keys. There’s beautiful bondage, sadism, sensuality and a cupcake. So much good stuff packed into just a few minutes. Contessa … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/12/04/cupcake/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/12/04/cupcake/

2025-12-02 07:41:07 GMT

Travelling
I’m taking a few days vacation. Posting may therefore be a little erratic. I shall endeavour not to get horribly behind my post queue. I felt like I deserved some time in the sun away from both work and the Seattle gloom. It’s pretty grey this time of year. First week is relaxing with friends, … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/12/02/travelling-4/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/12/02/travelling-4/

2025-11-29 08:30:39 GMT

15th (ish) Year Anniversary
I just realized that this blog has reached it’s 15 year anniversary. In fact it reached it back in September and I totally missed it. Happy belated anniversary to me and it. Looking back to a post I made for the 10 year milestone, I’m amused to note that I was hoping to be retired … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/11/29/15th-ish-year-anniversary/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/11/29/15th-ish-year-anniversary/

2025-11-27 10:55:48 GMT

Happy Thanksgiving
It’s the end of November, which means only one thing in the US – Thanksgiving. That means blogs like this one are obliged to make stuffing related posts. I think that’s actually one of the amendments to the constitution. So here we go, with a young farmhand putting one of those hands to good use. … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/11/27/happy-thanksgiving-2/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/11/27/happy-thanksgiving-2/

2025-11-24 11:00:55 GMT

Glass Slipper
Not exactly my usual material, but it made me laugh and it does seem appropriate subject matter. I’m not sure if glass slippers would be great for a foot fetishist (all that collected sweat) or terrible (too impersonal and impervious). This is by Tommy Siegel shared as a collection of cartoons via reddit. He’s done … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/11/24/glass-slipper/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/11/24/glass-slipper/

2025-11-22 10:56:47 GMT

Floristry and Bondage
This image by Mistress Estelle Leon is a lovely combination of textures and colors. There’s the soft white bandages, the hard shiny gag and the colorful organic spray of branches. They’re apparently Eucalyptus, so there’s even scent in the mix for our lucky subject. This isn’t the kind of scene you’ll ever see as a … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/11/22/floristry-and-bondage/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/11/22/floristry-and-bondage/

2025-11-19 09:39:30 GMT

Deep Throat
I’m continuing the theme of pegging in unusual positions with this image. As I mentioned in the last post, I’m a fan of face to face strap-on play. Not sure I’ve ever tried crotch to face, but I’m definitely up for giving it a shot. I couldn’t track down an original source for this. I … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/11/19/deep-throat/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/11/19/deep-throat/

2025-11-17 10:03:08 GMT

Spuffy
This originally caught my eye just because I thought it was a cute – and hot – pegging scene. I’m always a fan of being face to face rather than the more common doggy style. However, on researching it, I realized it’s also fan art of Spike and Buffy of vampire slaying fame. Which makes … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/11/17/spuffy/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/11/17/spuffy/

2025-11-15 10:35:03 GMT

Reducing Anxiety
The NY Post has an article suggesting spanking can reduce anxiety and interrupt fretful thought loops. It’s probably just an excuse to feature a sexy pic or two, but I’ll take a mainstream article with a positive spin on kink. Particularly one that’s gender neutral and doesn’t take male dominance as the default. I always … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/11/15/reducing-anxiety/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/11/15/reducing-anxiety/

2025-11-13 10:34:05 GMT

Grief Encounter
This site gave me bit of a scare this week. First I couldn’t update or create new posts. Then I couldn’t log in at all. Fortunately, the hosting company has efficient technical support and got it all sorted out. Normal service has been resumed. I was actually a little surprised at how concerned I was. … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/11/13/grief-encounter/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/11/13/grief-encounter/

2025-11-10 09:45:26 GMT

Roped into Place
A beautiful erotic artwork to kick the week off. This is by the French artist entreluietmoi. Not all their work is kinky or femdom, but there’s a lot of really lovely drawings on their Bluesky feed. Sourced via this Bluesky post.
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/11/10/roped-into-place/

2025-11-07 09:00:08 GMT

Mia Goth
I’m surprised I missed this image when it first came out. This is Mia Goth and Alexander Skarsgård promoting the movie Infinity Pool back in 2023. Apparently the movie features a leashed scene and so they decided to reenact it for the public promotion. I wonder if that was Mia’s or Alexander’s suggestion?
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/11/07/mia-goth/

2025-11-05 09:45:23 GMT

To Nut or Not To Nut
We’re out of Loctober and into No Nut November. It’s just an endless festival of none orgasms at this time of year. I tend to subscribe to the views expressed in this Stockroom article about No Nut November. Loctober puts the focus on kink and is therefore sex positive. Even if the end result for … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/11/05/to-nut-or-not-to-nut/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/11/05/to-nut-or-not-to-nut/

2025-11-03 10:41:03 GMT

Down Boy
I’m a little behind on my internet culture. When I first spotted this on a tumblr I thought it was just a cute femdom drawing. However, apparently it’s a meme format based on a purported Archie comic from 1975. Redraws of it have been showing up over the last year or so with different characters. … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/11/03/down-boy/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/11/03/down-boy/

2025-11-01 08:53:07 GMT

Levels of Spooky
One final Halloween themed artwork. This is by the artist KouYou. I’ve featured their work before, including this Christmas piece. I love their cutaway style drawings, particularly all the little details, and this one is no exception. The party at the top looks like fun, but things get serious the further you descend. I’d love … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/11/01/levels-of-spooky/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/11/01/levels-of-spooky/

2025-10-30 08:16:25 GMT

Pumpkin
I’m continuing the Halloween theme with this artwork from Formant. I’ve enjoyed a number of inventive and unusual bondage scenes over the years, some where I was pretty squashed, but I can’t say I’ve ever been incorporated into a literal squash. This’d certainly make for an interesting porch decoration, but would it be a trick … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/10/30/pumpkin/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/10/30/pumpkin/

2025-10-28 08:14:26 GMT

Witch and Familiar
As we head into Halloween, here’s some seasonally suitable artwork. It’s by Sean (AKA seansketches) and described as ‘Witch Ada and her Leon familiar.’ If you enjoy this piece you’ll be happy to know it’s one of a series of three. I feel more witches should have Himbo familiars. Terry Pratchett has of course already … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/10/28/witch-and-familiar/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/10/28/witch-and-familiar/

2025-10-25 08:47:10 GMT

The Chancellor
Here’s some cute artwork to head into the weekend with. It’s from a series of four drawings by Yumine Guo, based on a story by Lutarrel. The Chancellor took the studious third-born, training him to be useful to her in many ways – in public he was her focused administrative secretary; in private he was … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/10/25/the-chancellor/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/10/25/the-chancellor/

2025-10-23 07:48:39 GMT

Getting Medieval
I wouldn’t have expected to find femdom content in an exhibition of medieval art, but I’d have been wrong. The NY Met is running an exhibition called Spectrum of Desire: Love, Sex, and Gender in the Middle Ages which has a few pieces that seem blog worthy. One is a bronze water pitcher depicting the … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/10/23/getting-medieval/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/10/23/getting-medieval/

2025-10-21 08:19:02 GMT

Container
Mistress Jadis Ives posted something to Bluesky that gave me pause for thought… One of the benefits of sessioning with a ProDomme is that it can provide a clean container for your D/s desires that does not impact the rest of your life. I found that interesting because – while I get the logic – … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/10/21/container/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/10/21/container/

2025-10-18 21:19:44 GMT

The Bad Wife
My last post was a one-off ‘fetish or fashion?’ special. Thanks to those who commented and I hope it was a fun one to guess at. The answer is: Fetish! Although I think it would be perfectly at home in a fashion magazine. The source is Natalie Noir who posted it here. Using photographs from … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/10/18/the-bad-wife/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/10/18/the-bad-wife/

2025-10-17 08:12:22 GMT

Fetish or Fashion (one off)
Longtime readers may remember my occasional series entitled ‘fetish or fashion?’ It’s where I post a series of images and ask people to guess if they’re from a fetish or fashion context. You can see the last series starting here and ending here. I don’t have time to run a full series right now. However, … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/10/17/fetish-or-fashion-one-off/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/10/17/fetish-or-fashion-one-off/

2025-10-15 06:58:38 GMT

ForteFemme
If you’re a woman in the San Francisco Bay Area and interested in learning more about dominance then you might want to consider ForteFemme. It’s a weekend long (Nov 14-16) intense class for 9 women interested in exploring dominance and femme empowerment. I realize that this probably isn’t relevant to 99.9% of my readers, but … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/10/15/fortefemme/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/10/15/fortefemme/

2025-10-13 08:58:27 GMT

Mad Science
Here’s another image to continue the theme of intense, equipment heavy sessions. This time it’s one that popped up on my Bluesky feed from Odette Engle. I’ve seen and enjoyed vacuum powered penis milking devices like that before, but the vacuum bra set-up is unusual and new to me. The boots with individual toes and … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/10/13/mad-science/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/10/13/mad-science/

2025-10-10 08:31:00 GMT

Kinky Shitposting
A random image shitpost about Jordan Peterson put a smile on my face tonight. Not so much for the post itself but for the content featured. The image in question is this one, which popped up for me on reddit. It’s riffing on a recent story from his daughter about him being sick and calling … https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/10/10/kinky-shitposting/
https://www.femdom-resource.com/2025/10/10/kinky-shitposting/